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I Love You But I Don't Trust You: The Complete Guide to Restoring Trust in Your Relationship
Written by Mira Kirshenbaum
Narrated by Emily Durante
Rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars
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About this audiobook
Is my relationship worth saving?
Will the trust ever come back?
How can things be good between us again?
Whether broken trust is due to daily dishonesties, a monumental betrayal, or even a history of hurts from the past, it can put a relationship at risk. This is the first book to show you exactly what to do to restore trust in your relationship, regardless of how it was damaged.
In this complete guide, couples therapist Mira Kirshenbaum will also help you understand the stages by which trust strengthens when the rebuilding process is allowed to take place. And you will learn how the two of you can avoid the mistakes that prevent healing and discover how to feel secure with each other again.
Will the trust ever come back?
How can things be good between us again?
Whether broken trust is due to daily dishonesties, a monumental betrayal, or even a history of hurts from the past, it can put a relationship at risk. This is the first book to show you exactly what to do to restore trust in your relationship, regardless of how it was damaged.
In this complete guide, couples therapist Mira Kirshenbaum will also help you understand the stages by which trust strengthens when the rebuilding process is allowed to take place. And you will learn how the two of you can avoid the mistakes that prevent healing and discover how to feel secure with each other again.
Author
Mira Kirshenbaum
Mira Kirshenbaum is clinical director of the Chestnut Hill Institute, a center for therapy and research in Boston, and has been treating patients in individual and couples therapy for more than thirty years. She is the author of ten other books, including Our Love is Too Good, To Feel So Bad, Everything Happens for a Reason, and When Good People Have Affairs.
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Reviews for I Love You But I Don't Trust You
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- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5This book offers so much hope as a result of providing really practical steps, in addition to so many real-life stories of couples that Mira has seen overcome major breaks in trust.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Really informative and helpful. I would definitely recommend it for anyone not just couples.
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5Very helpful and insightful! Getting my husband to listen as well!!
- Rating: 5 out of 5 stars5/5To chisel my own pride, and to raise myself to grow, I chose this book.
I was looking for something that can help me give template, practice, having better relationship.
I’d say, this is the best book — I read this year. This book is practical, pragmatic, doesn’t give theory of relationship. Why? It’s easy to follow, practical stories, with insightful discernment.
I’d say, this book gives archetype stories, we can use in relationship, regardless of culture.
Perhaps, socially, this would be different cross-culturally, but basic ingredients might remain the same.
Oh and don’t think, that none of the things in this book, won’t happen to you.
More Advantageous to be prepared than to be dropped with surprise bombs on your face like a land-mine in relationship. Let's say you come home from work, and you step on this land-mind, and there goes your week from happy, to gloom.
Imagine your friend, boss, co-worker, children, parents comes out to you - with a tirade of aching emotional atom bombs filled with, razor sharped hurts, hurled at you to lacerate your soul — Hah, how would you deal with it - Mr.Man?
Because, it showed me areas, I’d need to work on and grow - relationships.
A lot of the narrative in this book comes counter-intuitive.
This book is worth reading two or three times
Perhaps, in Tamil Nadu - most people think, they know about relationships or even know, how they can manage relationship, but how does reality look like for them?
Can you believe it? Perhaps your clique of Girlfriends say, dump the guy. But the author shares stories that is otherwise. She says, if people really care, or desire to care, there’s hope.
Outline of Book:
Part One:
“You can Restore Trust in your relationship.”
Part Two:
“Restoring Trust After a Major Betrayal.”
Contrary to popular opinion, trust can be restored.
Part Three:
“Restoring Trust in Other Situation.”
Deus Vult,
Gottfried