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SAMPLER TABLE OF CONTENTS Full Chapter

The Top Ten Mistakes Foreign Guys Make with Japanese girls

Chapter Excerpts

Behind the Words Girl Talk Communicating in Japanese Nampa The Pattern Interrupts Mail Date Templates How to Kiss a Japanese Girl How to Take a Japanese Girl Home Sex

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THE TOP 10 MISTAKES FOREIGN GUYS MAKE WITH JAPANESE GIRLS

(full chapter) As we listened to hundreds of stories of failed interactions - from foreign guys and Japanese girls alike - we sought to identify the patterns indicating where failure would most commonly occur. We tallied our findings with our own experiences, and pinpointed the top ten areas where foreign guys go wrong when it comes to romancing Japanese girls. We tackle each of these problems in depth - and provide the antidote for each throughout Japanese Girls - The Guide. Heres the list:

1. Believing the myth that all Japanese girls are loose and easy Japans export culture (manga, anime, J-cinema, and, well, pornography) has a lot to answer for in its portrayal of Japanese girls. The deck is stacked with the submissive, eager-to-please, sexually-charged nymph archetypes. But as in any country in the world, the girls of Japan run the gamut from the sexually conservative, to the lusty, sexually adventurous types, with a full spectrum in between. We call out all the myths that circulate about Japanese girls, and find out the truth (and/ or lies!) behind each one, in the chapter Demystifying Japanese Girls. 2. Expecting things to just happen Between two people raised in Western cultures, a mix of alcohol, shared intentions, and the passage of time is often all thats needed to make sparks fly. With Japanese girls however, that same concoction will more often than not leave you dead in the water. Japanese girls respond to leadership. If youre not sure where you want things to go with a girl, or you arent prepared to lead the two of you in that direction, then youll likely find yourself waiting a long time or youll have to deal with seeing another guy step in to take the lead, and take her away. In the chapter Lead we go through exactly what it means to be a leader, right down to the finer details of personal conduct.

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3. Not transmitting clear signals Its natural to forget that while we strive to decode the cultural complexities of the Japanese girl, she is similarly trying to understand our own cultural quirks. Smoothly scoop her hand up in yours during a date, and you may hear Is holding hands normal in your culture? Shes not playing dumb - shes trying to gauge the degree of meaning in your actions. Playing it down will only cause confusion, so man up and tell her confidently: When youre on a date with someone you like, its nice to hold hands. Isnt that the same in Japan? Youre sending a clear signal that your actions are with romantic intent. In Breaking the Pattern, we look into how to break out of the repetitive protocol-driven interactions that have become a staple of socializing in Japan, and communicate your real feelings and intent.

4. Trying to act more Japanese to score points Japanese girls are prone to shower non-Japanese guys with praise when they do something quintessentially Japanese from wearing a yukata (summer kimono) at a masturi (festival), to singing a Japanese song in karaoke, or even just spitting out a few Japanese phrases. Its essential not to mistake this polite praise for admiration and attraction. Ask yourself this: Does a Japanese girl become more attractive to you the more she assimilates into your culture? In Japanese Girls - The Guides Japan and You chapter, we bust open the misguided thinking that causes many a foreigner in Japan to stray towards becoming something hes not.

5. Trying to get intimate in public places Spend any time in Japan and you should notice that you never, ever see couples kissing in public. While a hot make-out in a side alley, or a goodbye kiss in front of the ticket gates at a train station may be an appealing thought to you, a Japanese girl is more likely to be turning red from embarrassment rather than romance. Hold off for a more private moment. How to Kiss a Japanese Girl deals with the trials and tribulations involved in locking lips with a Japanese girl. The whens, the wheres, and the hows.

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6. Assuming its in the bag Theres a saying in Texas you dance with the one that brung you but Texas is a long way from Japan. Just when you start to relax and let your guard down, believing that everything is locked in and heading smoothly toward a sexy conclusion, your date with a Japanese girl can turn on a dime. The first part of your evening was amazing, but dont think you cant just as easily lose her in the second half. Kissing that girl in the club doesnt mean shes coming home with you or even that she isnt going dance/ kiss/go home with another guy. Shell abide no rules of decorum to spare your feelings, and often you wont see the warning signs until its too late. Keep your eyes on the road. The chapter How to Take a Japanese Girl Home will provide you with the map, and give you what you need to smoothly move things along to where you want them before social inertia catches up with you and chips away at your opportunities.

7. Moving too fast With girls from many cultures - particularly in the west - kissing, making out, and sex are milestones the two of you gravitate towards. If both of you have already made the decision that you want that to happen, the action itself is the only thing needed to cement it. Not so with the Japanese girl. Shared intentions or none, bulldozing ahead with physical intimacy can be the equivalent of shifting from first to fourth. A kiss is not a big step you take, its a point on a smoothly ascending curve. Japanese Girls - The Guide deals with this issue and others in a chapter as straightforward as its title: Sex.

8. Moving too slow Guys unaccustomed to the ways of the Japanese girl often find themselves stuck in limbo. Theyre not getting the flirtatious response they want from the girl, and so they choose to bide their time. In this often fatal stalemate, the girl is doing exactly the same thing, and with no leadership from the guy to follow, she too begins to withdraw. Waiting for a signal that means something to you is moving too slow. Make a decision as to what you want, and take the lead in that direction. Shes not going to lead for you! In Date Templates we draw out the anatomy of a good date, matching mood changes with location changes, and laying the pathway to move your courtship smoothly along.

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9. Relying solely on the gaijin novelty factor We will look at the gaijin novelty factor its pros and cons later on in the book, but for now, understand that the most important rule. Foreign guys dont have to try is the myth carved on the gravestone of so many Japanese girl-foreign guy interactions. Guys who believe that being from a foreign country means that they dont have to worry about being an interesting person, or make the effort with their appearance, soon discover the lie at the core of the myth. Japanese girls may flock to you and want to talk to you because you are a foreigner, but that is not why they will want to date you. To a Japanese girl, your foreign-ness is some tasty icing, but make sure theres a decent cake underneath. The subject of The Gaijin Novelty Factor comprises a whole chapter in Japanese Girls - The Guide: its advantages, its disadvantages, and the traps it causes so many nonJapanese guys to fall into.

10. Trying to drive a wedge through the wa (). Wa () means harmony, and it is also the old symbol for Japan. Foreigners often completely fail to understand the importance that the wa plays in a Japanese social context where groups are involved. You may have totally found that spark with that cute Japanese girl both of you have difficulty taking your eyes off one another - but for her that doesnt mean the rest of the universe fades away. The wa has to be upheld, and the two of you wont be able to proceed smoothly to being together in the way you want until the group dynamic has shifted as to naturally allow this to happen. Dragging her off to a corner of a bar may seem a confident and romantic gesture to you, but separated from her group, a girl may feel anxious and insecure. Executed more smoothly, a completely natural premise to break off from the group (such as going to the bar to get a drink) maintains the natural flow of the wa, and shell be able to relax with you. Throughout the section Places to Meet Japanese Girls, we look at the different types of group situations youll encounter in the course of your social adventures, and how to smoothly deal with all kinds of collective dynamics.

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BEHIND THE WORDS

(chapter excerpt) Lets be good friends, Give me your number, well have to go out drinking sometime, Lets definitely meet up again soon, See you next time! You will have heard these frequently, from both men and women, if youve spent any time socializing in Japan. Youll also have come to understand that it pays not to put too much stock in the actual words. A friendly, good-natured invitation to hang out again soon may perfectly match the atmosphere and feeling at a social gathering, but its not a reason to start setting aside days in your social calendar. When it comes to socializing and dating, a verbal agreement doesnt count as a promise. In fact, it doesnt even really count as an agreement. So, with so much meaning communicated through inference and subtext, how can you tell whats even real anymore?

Some Basic Rules

Silence is Japanese for no. A mail unanswered; a question glossed over; a topic hastily changed all these responses represent indirect ways of refusing, or communicating disinterest towards the idea being put forward. The culturally-attuned foreigner knows not to push it any further, if theres no answer forthcoming. Frustrating though it may seem, the lack of a response is essentially a negative response. Japanese tend to express themselves more freely and directly in writing. Generally speaking, Japanese people provide a much more accurate impression of their feelings via written communication than they give away in face-to-face contact. Sensitive matters can be approached tactfully, with the benefit of time to compose a thoughtful response. Additionally, arrangements exchanged in writing are ten times as reliable a prospect as those simply talked about.

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BEHIND THE WORDS

(chapter excerpt continued...) Politeness can be a barrier as well as a pathway. We probably dont need to tell you how important protocols of politeness are in Japanese society. Properly applied, its the social lube that greases the transition from the coldness of strangers to the inviting warmth of friends. But politeness can just as effectively be wielded to establish distance between individuals. Being addressed in polite formal language can be considered respectful and comforting, but from someone youre attempting to form a closer, more informal relationship with, that same language can represent deliberate emotional distance - a barrier to progress towards greater intimacy. A phrase can take on totally different connotations depending on the level of politeness used... ... not to mention the context in which it appeared, and the relationship established between you and the other person. In short, the last thing you should be doing is taking everything said to you at face value!

In Behind the Words

Phrases that mean less than what they say Phrases that mean more than what they say Phrases that could go either way Read the whole chapter in Japanese Girls - The Guide

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COMMUNICATING IN JAPANESE
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f youre already at the point where youre quite happy conversing in Japanese, even just to a modest level, then youve already made life a lot easier for yourself. But, while you dont always have to be worrying about being whether or not you can communicate, conducting your interactions in Japanese throws up a whole new set of questions and complexities.

Levels of Politeness
One question that comes up most among learners, and even experienced speakers of Japanese, concerns appropriate levels of politeness. Japanese has clearly defined tiers of politeness, denoted in practice by choice of pronoun, word usage, and the endings of words and sentences. When opening an interaction with a Japanese girl, is it best to use polite Japanese, in the first instance? Or is it better to break the ice, and address her as you would a friend? Theres no single correct answer to this, and what is and isnt appropriate is largely defined by the context youre in. Youre not going to start off loose and casual with someone youve just been introduced to at a classy social function, just as you arent going to shout in super-respectful forms at a girl over the music at a club. If youve got to the point where youre at least semi-comfortable using Japanese in your interactions, then you will have already started to develop an instinct for this.

Moving from Polite to Casual

Start polite. And by that we dont mean full-on boardroom formal there is wiggle room even within the desu/masu form (i.e. finishing sentences on instead of the form of the verb). As well as eliminating any possibility of starting off on the wrong foot, this allows you some room to maneuver as the interaction progresses. Once you reach that point where youve made a connection, and feel relaxed and comfortable around each other thats when you seamlessly make the switch to the more casual, familiar form (drop the endings, and employ more casual pronouns).

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COMMUNICATING IN JAPANESE
(chapter excerpt continued) For a Japanese person, this sends a clear signal that you have become closer that there has been a progression in your relationship. Going straight in with the casual, friendly form right off the bat may be received fine, but it denies any opportunity to demonstrate progression. Its a discreet display of acceptance that many foreigners arent aware of.

In Communication
The hidden nuances in Japaneses personal pronouns (I, you, etc.) Communicating without Japanese How to overcome any language barrier with JohnnyRocket Read the whole chapter in Japanese Girls - The Guide

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GIRL TALK
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Japanese Girls The Guides Japanese Girl Focus Group

We took four Japanese girls of different ages and backgrounds, put them in an izakaya, bought them dinner and all the drinks they could handle, and asked them to tell us their views on dating non-Japanese men. Megumi (19) - University student in Tokyo, studying economics. Sayuri (22) - spunky street-smart Shibuya gyaru. Chiharu (25) - artsy, creative young professional, embarking on a career in graphic design. Yukari (30) - OL (office lady) working for a Japanese company, and currently in a relationship with a non-Japanese (English) man. The focus group was conducted in Japanese, and has been translated into English.

The Appeal of Non-Japanese Guys

SMASH (Interviewer) Sayuri (gyaru) SMASH (Interviewer) Sayuri (gyaru) SMASH (Interviewer) Sayuri (gyaru) Megumi (University Student) What is it about non-Japanese guys that you find attractive, generally speaking? The Ladies first thing With Japanese guys, I feel like theres quite a lot of chauvinism. So, the little things - holding doors, holding the elevator, saying please, after you So, manners then being a gentleman? Yeah. Its little things, but in Japan, its the girls who are expected to do the same for men so [foreigners] doing those things naturally is really admirable, and its a good feeling. Speaking about appearances though Japanese people arent really used to blue eyes, so that can be kind of scary and daunting But then depending on the country, the kinds of features that are suited to the guys differ Dont you think that guy is scary whats his name? The Titanic guy DiCaprio! I dont like his face

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Yukari (Company worker) Sayuri (gyaru) SMASH (Interviewer) Sayuri (gyaru) Megumi (University Student) SMASH (Interviewer) Megumi (University Student) Sayuri (gyaru) Megumi (University Student) SMASH (Interviewer) Yukari (Company worker)

If were talking about face, eye-colour, and having a high nose is good. Also, height! Yeah - if its a tall guy, then Im happy! Okay how tall? Well compared to oneself. I am 168 cm, so if hes close to, say, 180 cm then thats a good thing. But most foreigners seem to be tall so height is never a worry! Everyone agree with that? Additionally, having broad shoulders, a bit muscular thats always good Latin guys have quite intricate, well-carved features it can come across as really strong. Too strong and its scary. Japanese guys have simple faces. I dont think Id even be able to talk to face I find even a little bit scary. Put next to each other, if were really so different, maybe we wont be a good match I read in another focus group similar to this one, that girls on the whole refuse to even consider guys who are shorter than them like its all weird having to lean down to kiss If you really like the person, height really wont matter

On Nampa
SMASH (Interviewer) Sayuri (gyaru) Megumi (University Student)

Have you ever gone somewhere with a guy who Nampa-ed you? Hmmm if it was a Japanese guy, I dont think Id ever go If youre a foreigner, doesnt that make nampa a whole lot easier? Just starting a conversation with someone, for example

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Yukari (Company worker) Everyone Sayuri (gyaru)

I met my current boyfriend when I nampa-ed him! *eeeeeeh?!* In the street, Ive been approached by foreigners asking for directions and even if theyre actually doing nampa, I never know whether thats the case, or if theyre really lost. What happens is, theyll start off by talking to me in English, asking where Parco is or something, and give the impression that they cant speak anything other than English. So I tell them that Ill walk them there, and on the way, they suddenly start speaking in fluent Japanese, asking me questions like whats your name? etc.! Which took me by surprise, and I thought it was kind of weird Eeeeh! So, what kind of approach do you think would yield a good result with you? With guys doing nampa, its like theyre fishing, isnt it I think timing is everything. It depends on the guy! The person, the time, the situation The looks. So, what were really getting at here, is that if hes a really cool, attractive guy, then it doesnt really matter what line he uses, or what he says? For me though, if theres a guy doing nampa, I dont think Id even look at his face. But lets look at our semantics for a moment. What exactly is nampa, in your view? Having someone you dont know start talking to you in the street I feel like thats nampa If youre at a party or something, and someone you dont know starts talking to you, thats not really nampa

Yukari (Company worker) SMASH (Interviewer) Yukari (Company worker) Sayuri (gyaru) Megumi (University Student) Sayuri (gyaru) Megumi (University Student) SMASH (Interviewer) Sayuri (gyaru) SMASH (Interviewer) Yukari (Company worker) Sayuri (gyaru)

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SMASH (Interviewer) Megumi (University Student) Sayuri (gyaru) Megumi (University Student)

Ah, okay I see. Its because theres some kind of connection in place, however loose Whereas in the case of someone approaching you in the street, its like they have an anyone will do attitude. You want to feel like youre the only one that theyre approached and started speaking to.

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NAMPA

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GENUFLECT BEFORE CONTEXT, SQUIRE

hoose five women off the street and ask them to define nampa, youll get five different answers, all depending on what kinds of experiences they have had with impromptu solicitations from guys on the street, in cafes, bars, trains, or anywhere else the male voice is audible. One woman may tell you that nampa is defined as the lewd and innappropriate coercing of a woman into a love hotel so he can get some new material to upload to YouPorn. Another may tell you its just a bunch of friendly college kids hanging out on the street and looking for some girls with whom to pass the time and sing karaoke, all very innocent, hands above the table, G-rated, suitable-for-family-viewing type stuff. Its time to get out the scalpel and slice nampa open so we can fully understand what it is, and what we are doing, in any situation. Cajoling a woman into getting horizontal; going to a cafe; or simply chatting with you for a few minutes in a bookstore are widely variant end results, but they all begin the same. Each end-goal starts with a compartmentalized morsel of interaction - and this morsel has a very scientific label to describe it (get your pen ready): a situation. Each situation has three characteristics, and each involve intention on your part: 1. Your intention to establish a relationship 2. Your intention to gain her trust 3. Your intention to spend more time with her Simple, right? However, if you think about it just like that, then were still standing at square one with questions like, What do I say to her? There is another very important dimension, a dimension that is absolutely critical to communicating with Japanese women for the first time, a dimension that will clock you in under the radar, that will separate you from those unimaginative spiky haired nampa boys.

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NAMPA
Context

(chapter excerpt continued)

I hear guys say, Yeah, I was on the train and I saw this hot girl, so I went up and asked her out and she waved me away. What a bitch! How come J-girls are so cold? He was way out of context and likely just embarrassed her. Context reigns supreme. Thinking about every situation in context will dictate what you say to her to accomplish the above three objectives. In the train example, how can you establish that brief relationship? HEY! WHATS GOIN ON?! probably wont work, even if she is the only other person in the car. However, if you innocuously ask how to read something in Japanese, then youll get a response because that is completely in context. You have just established a small relationship in that situation. Asking for help on a subject like Japanese is completely in-context for the train. Now you can have a small conversation about the Japanese language, let her know that you are a cool guy (gaining her trust), and then you can inquire about gaining more of her time, thereby changing the situation, which puts you right back at the beginning of the three-part situation process. Only this time, you have a foundation from which to work. You have now spoken to her about Japanese, she can sense you are a decent dude, and so now, based on this amount of trust you have just gained, how much of her time do you think you can get to establish more trust? What will the context allow you? A. Can I ask you another question about Japanese? B. Care for a cup of tea with me? C. Shall we go get some dinner? D. Lets go back to my place and get it on. E. What are you doing for the rest of your life? Id like three kids. You can probably leverage more time to chat with her a bit. If you do that, then the trust you have earned may get you an impromptu half hour at a cafe. Do that, and who knows what could be after that. Keep working. The problem so many guys run into is assuming they have enough trust to skip ahead.

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NAMPA

(chapter excerpt continued) She spoke to me, so she must be into me. I think Ill invite her to my place for dinner... She says no. The guy gets pissed and suddenly Im getting an earful. He has made two mistakes in this scenario. The first, obviously, is that he didnt properly read the situation. The second is equally foolish: he assumed that because she refused him, the game was over. Japanese girls expect guys to do the work, they expect us men to keep serving up options for their whimsy, and if we fail to do this, then they take that as a sign we are not interested. Western guys are not comfortable in this situation because we look for some kind of reciprocity, some kind of sign. You may get it, you may not. If you are talking to a girl in context, and she refuses dinner, maybe you have exceeded the trust afforded by the situation. Rather than sticking your tail between your legs and bailing, back up and ask if shell sit with you for a few minutes more minutes to continue the small talk. If she stays, then you have both just survived an awkward situation, and that builds connection. When you think of nampa in terms of moving from situation to situation in context via trust, it becomes a very human exercise, full of sincerity and honest intention, you can continue it right into a caf or the bedroom - its your life, youre the architect (now ask yourself what the spiky-haired nampa boys are doing wrong and how they could actually succeed). If you remind yourself of these three intentions prior to engaging a woman in conversation, you will radiate a completely different energy, and she will sense it. JR

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THE PATTERN
(chapter excerpt) In the first minutes of an interaction with a Japanese girl, we see so many foreign guys in Japan get stuck in what we call The Pattern small talk that seems friendly enough, but is ultimately going nowhere. Amped up by an initially warm reception, they squander their 15 minutes of fame on an interview style Q&A, and with it their valuable opportunities at making a genuine connection. The girls polite smiles steadily harden, masking boredom and detachment. The Pattern is a sequence of conversational questions and responses that you will hear A LOT when meeting Japanese people girls and guys alike for the first time. Ive been there, JohnnyRocket has been there, and if youve spent any time in Japan interacting with Japanese people, then chances are youve been there too. It goes a little something like this:
You: Her: You: Her: [name] ~ ~ ()[name] You: Her: You: Her: You: [country] ~[country] ~ [country] ~ ~ ~ [country] konban wa! [name] desu! konban wa! Yoko desu. Yoko-chan desu ne~ yoroshiku~ (laughs) yoroshiku! [name]-san wa doko no shusshin desu ka? [country] kara! eeh~ [country] na no? sugoi~ itta koto ga arimasu ka? [country] wa nai-n dakedo, ikita~i zehi itte mite ne~ toku ni (fuyu / haru / natsu / aki) ga ii jiki da yo~ [country] no doko? Hey, hows it going? Im [name] Hi. Im Yoko Ah, Yoko-chan, yes? Nice to meet you. (laughs) Nice to meet you to. Where is [name]-san from? Im from [country]! Eeh~ [country]? Wow... Have you ever been? No, but I would like to go! You should definitely go. (winter/spring/summer/ autumn) is an especially good time to go. Where in [country]?

Her:

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You: Her: You: Her:

[town] ~~ X X ~~ ~ [name] ~ [name] [name] [age]

[town] kara eeh~ sugoi~ etto, nihon ni kite nan-nen? X (nen / kagetsu / shuukan / nichikan) X (nen / kagetsu / shuukan / nichikan) de sonna ni nihon-go shabereru no? Ma, mada benkyou shiterun dakedo... eeh~ sugoi~ jouzu dayo ne iie iie [name]-san wa, o-shigoto? un, shigoto desu ne. (eikaiwa) de hatariteru, ima. eeh~ eikaiwa sensei na no? kakkoii! eigo o oshiete kudsai! Zenzen dekinai kara... (laughs) iie, sonna koto nai yo! [name]-san wa nande nihon ni kita-n desu ka? Ah, wakai uchi ni, sugoshi demo ryokou shitakatta shi, shikamo, nihon no bunka toka ni motomoto kyoumi atta. [name]-san wa ikutsu desu ka? [age]-sai. Yoko-chan wa?

[town]. Wow... How long have you been in Japan? X (years/months/weeks/ days). X years/months/weeks?! And yet you speak Japanese this well? Well, Im still learning... Wow, thats so impressive your Japanese is so good. No no, really... its nothing

You: Her: You: Her: You:

So, [name]... do you have a job? Yes, Im working at an Eikaiwa school (for example), at the moment. Wow. An English teacher? Thats so cool. Please teach me English. Im very bad at it... Haha Im sure thats not true! Why did you come to Japan? Oh, I wanted to travel a bit, while Im still young and Ive always been very interested in Japanese culture. [name]-san, how old are you? Im [age]. Yourself?

Her:

You: Her: You:

Her: You:

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Her: You:

[age older than you expected] ~

atashi wa [age older than you expected] desu. maji de? eh~ yori wakaku mieru kedo... (laughs) arigatou! sou itte kurete ureshii!

Me, I am [age older than you expected]. Really? Wow, you look considerably younger than that! Haha! Thank you! Im happy.

Her:

Seems like its going well, doesnt it? Hey, I guess it could be worse. But there are two key problems that we would be doing you a disservice by not warning you about.

The Problem
This exact same conversation is going on in hundreds - maybe thousands - of bars, clubs, restaurants, parties, every single night. Theres a reason why we call it The Pattern. When you get down to it, youll be frightened just how closely this scenario plays out again and again, almost word-forword (particularly in Japanese). The problems with The Pattern are fairly obvious: first, it sounds like an interview and, key here its small talk. While theres nothing wrong with wanting to get to know someone via the usual touchstones nationality, job, age there are better ways to communicate this information while making your interaction far more interesting and memorable.

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INTERRUPTS
(chapter excerpt) The Most Difficult Questions Youll Ever Get Asked An interrupt is a question or statement that seems innocuous enough on the surface, but the response you give has far more weight attached to it than even you realize. These are the sort of questions that come out of nowhere, and trigger a subtle interrupt in your flow of thought. Hence we refer to them as interrupts. You know the answer, but you cant help but hesitate that the thought that theres something deeper going on here.

[...] Interrupt 3:
Her:
[your name] ~ [your name] wa pureiboi da ne Youre a playboy, arent you.

We see this one come up a lot, particularly in situations when things are starting to get sexual. Once youre in a situation where the two of you are alone, and are steadily getting more intimate, Japanese girls will throw out a lot of interrupts. Getting to this point, the cute Hello Kitty gloves are off. Shes testing you hard, and its time not to fail. What Youre Thinking: Oh no, she needs reassurance that Im not some smooth-talking sleaze-bag. Id best set her mind at ease. What Shes Thinking: Lets see how he reacts to this one. Ive already made up my mind that hes probably a playboy, but lets see if we can smoke him out. This one is quite confrontational, so start with the denying, and youre already on the back-foot. Its better to act just a little indignant with this one it is after all, a fairly rude question. And if theres one thing that throws Japanese people off balance, its the implication that theyve been even the slightest bit rude.

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Responses
1. Light Interrupt the interrupt You:

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Yoko-chan wa pureiboi suki deshou?

Heh. Yoko-chan likes playboys isnt that right?

Its not a direct response to the comment, but its enough to put her on the defensive instead. Youve neither confirmed or denied your playboy status, but youve turned her statement around to make an implication about her (hey, we told you the gloves were off!).
2. Medium Halt it in its tracks

You:

hidoi, ne~

Thats pretty harsh.

You can let a smidgen of hurt creep in to your voice at this point. Only a tiny bit, mind. Now youve turn the dynamic around, and made it seem like shes picking on you. The onus is on her to do some back-pedaling now, and chances are the topic wont resurface.

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3. Heavy

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How to hammer nails into the coffin of this kind of discussion

You: . boku ga sono you na hito da to hontou ni shinjitetara, shou ga nai ne. boku ga donna hito na no ka, boku wa hakkiri wakaru yo. jijitsu wo shiritai nara, kokoro wo akete mita hou ga ii... betsuni shiritakunattara, zannen. If you honestly believe that Im that kind of person - well, thats a shame. But, whatever you decide to think, ultimately I know what kind of a person I really am, and if you give yourself a chance to discover that, then you might be pleasantly surprised.

This is a sober and serious answer, that we recommend for very extreme cases, when you know someone is pushing your buttons to try and get a reaction. It needs to be delivered very coolly, and calmly, with firm eye-contact - as a father to his child. I have seen this kind of response work wonders for me, personally. Typically the girl is not expecting a sudden shift to seriousness, and the subtle admonishment to her for making rash assumptions about you usually results in an apology. What you are communicating is: I know who I am. And so you have a choice: You can find that out for yourself, or you can keep making silly, childish assumptions.

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MAIL

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Setting up a Date at Your House

You may be planning to invite her for a date at your own house. For Japanese girls, being invited into someones home implies a familiarity to the relationship - and being suddenly invited to a foreigners home can sometimes be a daunting prospect. That said, its by no means insurmountable - you just need to treat with a bit more care. Here is a good example of how to pull something like this off smoothly:
You: Her: You: XX ~ [your area] :) Do you like spaghetti? Spaghetti? Yeah, I do! My spaghetti bolognaise is super-delicious. If youre free Friday night, come over to [your area], and Ill make some for you.

The nuance here is important. You reference the area where you live, rather than directly referring to your residence. Why? Because phrases like my house or my apartment set off alarms. If you put a Japanese girl in the position of having to directly agree to come to your apartment, the implication is that she is agreeing to something more - whereas if you keep the focus on the cooking, mentally she doesnt feel like shes being pushed into committing to anything more than that. The fact that its happening in your apartment just becomes a background fact. You could just as easily suggest watching a DVD, or maybe even playing Nintendo Wii. Just make sure to pay heed to the golden rule: when planning/inviting, base the date around the action and not the location.

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Date Template 2: CPR

(Caf->Park->Restaurant)
No. of Locations: Duration: 3 Part 1 (Caf): Part 2 (Park): Part 3 (Restaurant): Total: 45 mins - 1 hours 1 - 2 hours 2+ hours Approx. 5 hours

Budget (per person):

From 2,500 (depending on the restaurant)

Notes: Starting off in a caf is a casual, informal way of starting things off. With less pressure of it being a full-blown date, it projects a comparatively non-threatening image of two people just hanging out which can be good for girls who seem nervous meeting you. Some girls with less dating experience on the whole may worry whats expected of them on a full-blown date, so scaling it down to an easygoing, familiar location can set them at ease. From there (and were assuming good weather here!) its on to a walk in the park. When walking around, you neednt focus too much on the conversation and interactions between the two of you - look outward to your surroundings and enjoy the day with her. Once youve enjoyed a walk around - have a sit down somewhere, and let yourselves become comfortable with physical closeness. Finally, with an appetite worked up from the activities of the day, its time to finish up with a nice slow burning restaurant visit. In contrast to dates where you start in an izakaya, you dont need to focus so much on keeping the energy high and fun. You should have already settled into a comfortable groove together, and so now you can shift lightly into a more intimate level of communication, engaging her on a deeper level.

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HOW TO KISS A JAPANESE GIRL

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SMASHs Strawberry Kiss

The subtle signal Japanese girls put out when theyre attracted to you and at the point whre theyre happy to kiss is something I got much better at picking up with time and experience. In the beginning, it just seemed impossible to know whether an attempt at a kiss was going to lead into fiery passionate embracing, or a reaction of shock and rejection. For those situations where I felt like I just needed a little more insight into whether a girl wanted to kiss me or not, I developed the Strawberry Kiss method. You will need: 1 x Japanese girl 1 x Fresh Strawberry Note - Its important that the girl does not see the strawberry at any point beforehand. I would tend to keep it in a little plastic container to make it easy to hide without fear of crushing it. 1 - Tell the girl to close her eyes:
You: Her: You: ja, ima, me o tojite kudasai... eh? nan-de? surprise onegai... da-yo! Okay, now - I want you to close your eyes. Huh? How come? Its a surprise! Please close them.

2 - Retrieve your strawberry, and, after a brief pause for effect, slowly - very slowly start moving it towards her lips. My thinking was this - if her lips started to pucker into a kissing shape as the strawberry brushed against them, then she was expecting a kiss, and was moving to reciprocate. This motion would linger in her face for less than a second, followed an equally short burst of confusion and (often) revulsion as her lips traced the domed shape of the strawberry. Then, a split-second of horror - That isnt his...? - causing her eyes to

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(chapter excerpt continued) snap open... Finally, a longer moment of relief and curiosity as she is presented with the scene of me gently brushing a ripe red strawberry on her lips - which she would of course eat hungrily. Satisfied with her willing reaction, I would instruct her to close her eyes again, and this time deliver a deep passionate kiss. On the other hand, if she refused to close her eyes, or recoiled in horror as something was pressed to her lips, I took this as a signal that she was unlikely to be down with the idea of kissing. In this worst case scenario, any awkwardness and/or dents to your pride are prevented - as all you were doing was offering her a strawberry! While being able to read and understand a Japanese girls signals, subtle or otherwise, is the ultimate goal that you should be shooting for, feel free to adopt this method as your training wheels if you feel it might be useful for you. Just remember to keep a fresh supply of strawberries at hand!

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HOW TO TAKE A JAPANESE GIRL HOME

(chapter excerpt) Her name was Miho, she was a kindergarten teacher, and she had come to my neighborhood to see me, late Friday evening, after work. We had some food and drink in an izakaya, and, now after midnight, found ourselves outside again, in the warm summer night-time air. Lets go for a walk, I told her, and soon began to guide our wanderings towards the direction of my neighborhood. We wandered away from the neon haze of the station and shopping area, and towards the residential neighborhood. I pointed out some of the interesting sights on the way. I live around here, and- I started. Im not going to your house, she said firmly, before Id even had a chance to invite her. At this point, the inexperienced SMASH would have panicked - would have started to use logic to defensively point out that she had arrived here in Ikebukuro at 10pm, all the way from Saitama prefecture - and her last train had long since left. So, if not my house, then where was she expecting to stay? But I knew better than to say any of this, Being a leader doesnt mean diving head-first into conflict. Logical arguments are not sexy. Instead, without missing a beat, I nodded, said casually: Sure. and then, grinning, Wouldnt dream of it. Did I detect a flash of hesitation at that reaction - as if she was expecting something else? Did she really want me to start begging and pleading to let me take her home? After about 20 minutes, we had walked in a big circle, and were roughly back where we started, in West Ikebukuros large public square. The clock in the square read 1:20am. We could go somewhere else to have a drink, I offered, But to be honest, its late and Im getting kind of tired. Like I said, I live nearby, so Im thinking of heading home. You are of course welcome to join me. She paused, mulling this invitation over in her mind. Fine..., but were not having sex. she asserted.

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(chapter excerpt continued) Of course not, I cheerily shot back, unruffled, Just sleeping. By dealing with her refusals and interrupts in a cool, and confident manner, as opposed to reacting and butting heads with her over each one, I had kept the date moving, and maintained an upbeat, positive atmosphere. Together, we returned to my apartment. At home, we sat on my bed and chatted some more. Finally, I put my arms around Miho, and gently laid her down on her back to kiss her. She dodged her head to the side defiantly. It was cute, and I smiled. We repeated this coy little dance a couple more times. Im not kissing you, she told me, Youre not my boyfriend. I backed off, unfazed, and asked her if she wanted anything to drink. I took her order, and strolled into the kitchen, maintaining my aura of calm confidence, as if nothing at all was amiss. When I came back into the room, she was still sitting upright on the edge of the bed, contemplating. I passed her her drink. We held our positions in silence for a few minutes - her planted on my bed, me standing casually in the doorway, sipping my own drink. Finally, she spoke: I want to go to the convenience store, And, having said that, she stood up, walked slowly towards me, and wrapped her arms around my body, pulling me tight.

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SEX

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Can we turn out the lights?

Japanese girls and sexual anxieties All games aside, for many Japanese girls, the road to sex is paved with anxiety. As the two of you start become more intimate, the first road-block of resistance you will encounter will often stem from one or more of the following reservations:

Is he going to be gentle with me? Is it going to hurt?

Body-image issues are far from uncommon among Japanese women. With the generally accepted standard for beauty in Japan being appallingly narrow (particularly when it comes to weight - its depressingly common to hear already plenty-slim Japanese girls complaining about how they need to go on a diet), the first time the girl disrobes with that other person can be a daunting prospect. Add to that the Japanese perception of foreign women as being exotically beautiful and well-endowed in the cleavage department, and its not difficult to understand how a Japanese girl could develop feelings of physical inadequacy in the intimate company of a non-Japanese man.

Things you might hear

denki keshite ii? futon ni hairou? atashi no oppai ga chiisakute gomen. Can we turn out the lights? Shall we get under the covers? Im sorry my breasts are small.

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SEX

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Good ways to respond

1. Communicate clearly that you desire her Simply trying to neutralize her insecurities with oh no, really, youre very attractive isnt going to cut it. You need to emotionally invest yourself, and communicate your desires with actions as well as words. Compliment her sincerely, and tell her what you find beautiful and attractive about her, emphasizing with touch. Dont just use generic adjectives like cute, or sexy - go one better by telling her exactly how she makes you feel. Examples
XX XX XX-chan no oshiri tte kanpeki na oshiri nan da! saizu (size) mo shepu (shape) mo... akiru koto naku sawareru. me no mae, XX-chan no sugoi hossori-shita karada ni gaman dekinai! You really do have a perfect ass. Both in size, and in shape... I dont think I would ever get tired of touching it. Seeing your slender body in front me here, I just cant resist!

2. Dont throw a pity party Its important that you dont allow her to dwell on any perceived physical shortcoming. A girl lamenting about the size of her breasts isnt looking for you to say: Well at least you have beautiful legs! No - girls dont think of their bodies in terms of an overall score. They are prone to obsess over small details, and you need to nip any and all self-criticism in the bud. Dont concede on any point:
XX XX-chan no oppai wa utsukushikute karada to pittari no saizu (size) da yo. ookisugite, karada ni awazu oppai ga dare-mo suki ja nai! Your breasts are beautiful, and perfectly sized for your body. Nobody likes these over-sized disproportionate breasts anyway.

Give no quarter in your crusade to make her appreciate her body for what it is!

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SEX

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Sex and the Sexes

It is true that for men, sex takes on a kind of unparalleled importance when it comes to assessing progress with any particular girl. Indeed there is nothing else that serves as such a bright and clear marker as to whether a date can be deemed a success, or not. Because of this, its hardly surprising that I often hear from guys who want to analyze and understand dates and courtships theyve had with girls which never quite got as far as sex: Do you think she wants sex with me? Was I friend-zoned into someone she wouldnt consider having sex with? Why do women play all these games about sex? Why arent they just upfront about what they want? In each individual case, I offer advice and insights where I can - but often the hardest thing about attempting to provide someone with good answers, is when you dont think theyre even asking the right questions. For men, sex as an act tends to stand alone. Take away the dating, the time spent in each others company, the conversations, the flirting, the making out, the foreplay - but leave in the sex part, and chances are a man might still tell you he had a great night. But leave all the other stuff in, and take out the sex, and youre likely to get a completely different assessment. Its a binary scale - sex or no sex - and it can be applied as an assessment of attraction (would you?), an evaluation of a date (did you?), or even a comment on a prospective partners willingness (does she?) Women, on the other hand, tend to relish the wholeness of the experience, rather than any one stand-out element. Sex is important - but it tends not to be the centre of that universe. Many men misunderstand this simple truth, and misguidedly assume that many women just dont like sex, or dont know what they want. Worse still is the idea that dating and sex works like a transaction - i.e. the guy gives the girl a good night out, and then gets what he wants at the end. Weve met guys who think like this, and weve seen them fail... and then go on to badmouth the women who wouldnt play along with their flawed worldview.

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(chapter excerpt continued) To more clearly see things from the female point of view, one analogy that works for me is going on a metaphorical holiday. Lets suppose youre really into surfing (or visiting war graves, or whatever you want - its your metaphor), and you book a holiday to go to a highly recommended location for a week of catching the surf. Youd be pretty pissed if the travel agent suddenly told you that your package didnt include any kind of accommodation in a hotel or anywhere - or that there were no restaurants or bars in this recommended location. Perhaps youd protest that its a poor excuse for a holiday, to which the shifty travel agent would respond: But Im offering you the best surfing this side of the Pacific! Whats the problem? Is it that you dont really like surfing? Just as the surfing is just one part of the whole holiday experience, so for women is sex just one part of the whole package in being together with someone. So, in trying to decipher your sexual prowess, or lack thereof, with any particular girl, it pays not to focus on the sex, but rather to think more holistically. Adjust your thinking in this way, and it wont be long before youre riding the crest of that wave.

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OTHER CHAPTERS INCLUDE

Japanese girls typified
College students, gyaru, company workers, high school girls, hostesses - we look at effective ways to typify Japanese girls based on their whereabouts, fashion, and attitude - and how to get their attention!

Honne and Tatemae

The true feeling and the social faade Japanese people are good at being polite. So good in fact, that often you just dont know whether youre seeing a Japanese girls true feelings, or whether youre just getting a front for the sake of good manners. Well teach how to sharpen your instincts so as to be able to tell the difference between the honne (true feelings), or the tatemae (social faade)...

Demystifying Japanese Girls

Popular myths about the female population of Japan and realities behind them.

Communicating in Japanese
A detailed look at the polite/casual forms of Japanese and when to use them in interactions with girls

Lead
In an age where the herbivorous male ( - soshoku-kei danshi) is becoming more prevalent in Japan, the modern Japanese girl prizes a man wholl take the lead. But what does take the lead really mean? We give you a manifesto and a roadmap to get behind the wheel of your relationships.

Places to Meet Japanese Girls

From Japanese izakaya, to bars, to hanami parties, to the workplace - we take a look at all the places and situations in which you may encounter Japanese girls, and how to approach each one in the most effective way possible.

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Taking it further
How to smoothly cross that line from being friendly to something more - we tell all about our experiences, the things that weve found to work well for us - as well as the pitfalls to watch out for.

True Stories
real-life experiences of meeting, dating, and becoming intimate with Japanese girls of a range of ages and backgrounds.

Recipe for Crpes

Because everyone loves crpes.

All this and much, much more in Japanese Girls - The Guide
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