In the comments and survey, Ive tried to be as objective as possible.

So, please listen carefully and with an open-minded; but take everything with a gracious heart because I am only speaking as truthfully as I can. As they say, DONT KILL THE MESSENGER. 1. Mental images Bubbles, smiles, a girl who aspires to be president, a strong woman, laughter, life as an adventure, Serena, butterflies, lotion, bright colors, tears, confusion, anger, stomps through challenges 2. Positives 1. Loyal 2. Perseverant/Determined 3. Enthusiastic/Excited 4. Thinker 5. Creative (your Christmas presents are always original and personal) 6. Talkative 7. Friendly 8. Strong 9. Spirited 10. Spiritual (dedicated to building a relationship with God) 11. Spontaneous/Crazy 12. Passionate 13. Experienced/Hardened (from your emotional past) 14. Seeks the advice of others 15. Lively/Energetic 16. Leader 17. Godly (embodies the fruit of the Spirit) 18. Mission-minded (including poverty relief and female empowerment) 19. Dreamer 20. Fun 21. Forgiving 22. Real 23. Curious/Truth-seeking (wants to know the why, remember Creeping Compromise?) 24. Generates excitement in others 3. Negatives (on occasion = not all the time = just sometimes) 1. Oblivious 2. Not eloquent (in idea and in diction, talks too fast, problem expressing herself clearly) 3. Side-tracked/Absent-minded 4. Lacking focus/direction (especially when communicating)

5. Irrational/Unrealistic (when emotional) 6. Too open/Too loud 7. Doesnt listen (talks over others when they try to give advice or speak) 8. One-sided/Self-absorbed (wants people to listen to her issues but forgets theirs) 9. Inappropriate (not in a lewd way)/Doesnt understand social cues Bonnie, You are a very soulful person; you have limitless depth to your personality, like the variations of the sky. Your smile and personality is your beauty. The light and fire in your eyes and the strength and ease with which you carry yourself is the key to your modelesque attitude. I admire the critical thought and consideration with which you make your decisions, and I am inspired when in the end you rely on God. You, however, can be quite frustrating. REMEMBER, you need to pause................and breath. Often, when you ask for the advice or opinion of others, you forget to listen. You have a lot of energy, but sometimes it overwhelms you in the form of distraction, lost focus, even obsession. Sometimes this misdirected energy results in inappropriate conduct (ie calling at 2 in the morning, talking loudly during a sermon, prodtexting every minute, etc.). It is important to read social cues because that is how appropriateness is gauged. Still, your strength is in your friendliness, your excitement, and your presence. You command attention and draw people in. Whether this is good or bad is for you to decide, but in this adventure to rebrand yourself, I hope you will find balance. Love, Josh