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Shooting High Remembrance

By Shalom C. Augenbaum How wrong I was and how much of


Practical Advice to Save Oneself Just a thought, an idea, a notion if
Yizkor I am a part.
you will,
From Punishment From Above That entered my mind during
Yom Tov and which lingers still.
Because I too must remember to be
thankful and aware,
Of all those people I take
accomplishments came as a result of the for granted, whom I think will
By Rabbi Daniel Yaakov Travis
simcha he had in his Divine service. It occurred, you see, on be here year after year.
Based on a shiur given by Rav Moshe Drinking wine brings a person to greater Pesach’s last day,
Shternbuch, Rosh Av Beis Din of the Eidah levels of simcha. As Dovid Hamelech said, As I was sitting in shul and So, while spending Pesach
Hachareidis of Yerushalayim, leil Shabbos “Wine gladdens the heart of man” heard the rabbi say: at Bubby and Zaidy with
Parshas Shemini, in Beis Knesses HaGra (Tehillim 104). “Yizkor.” kinderlach was no easy feat,
in Har Nof. Nadav and Avihu wanted to reach the It was crowded, they were kvetchy,
highest spiritual levels and thought to A time to reflect and recall those and they never wanted to eat.
CLOSE AT A DISTANCE infuse their service in the Bais Hamikdosh people no longer here,
“…Now I see that they [Nadav and with more joy by drinking a small amount Parents, in-laws, siblings, and all Yizkor reminds me to appreciate that
Avihu] are greater than us” (Rashi, of wine beforehand. The Torah obligates those we hold dear. this is something which I can still do,
Vayikrah 10:3). one to be 100% levelheaded during the Some people would give anything
Despite their greatness, in the middle avodah and prohibits drinking wine. Exiting the shul, my mind blank as to have a Bubby and Zaidy to take their
of the simcha of the inauguration of the Nadav’s and Avihu’s drive for greatness can be, children to.
After all, Yizkor has nothing to do
with me. I now understand that Yizkor is not
only about remembering the past,
Suddenly, it struck me, as I realized It is about appreciating the present -
with a start, while it still lasts.

At the Shabbos Table


with Rabbi Juravel
Good Hair Date
(Continued from Page 57)
(Continued on Page 57) As Pesach c ame to an end this week,
will contract cholera. I made good on my I mentioned to someone that finding one’s
promise. Can you do the same?” shidduch is a geulah very similar to geulas
Upon hearing this, Rav Chalfin Mitzrayim. Just as with the Jewish nation
removed his shoes and sat down on the in Mitzrayim, the geulah did not come a
ground. The rule is that one must second earlier or later, but at the exact
debase himself when he gets a nezifah moment Hashem saw fit, so too with
from a gadol. Rav Chalfin didn’t fear shidduchim.
what Rav Yisroel would do. Rather, he I told a single young lady celebrating
Rav Moshe Shternbuch debased himself because he felt her birthday, thinking about the fact that
embarrassed by what he had said to Rav she was a year older, “Not a second
Mishkan, Nadav and Avihu were killed led to their downfall. Yisroel. before, but not a second later.” This is
immediately for their transgressions on While a person should try to elevate Likewise, when we get a punishment the way geulah comes - at the exact
that very same day. How can we himself spiritually, he must do so slowly from Hashem and we change our ways, moment Hashem knows is perfect for
understand this? and carefully. Whoever tries to come too we remove the punishment, but there still you. It is, of course, easy to say but
Aveiros distance us from Hashem. Yet, close too quickly will surely fall. Each step remains the embarrassment of Hashem immeasurably more difficult to live.
when describing the transgression of must be thought out carefully, so that one’s giving us a “potch.” Nevertheless, we work and strive to
Nadav and Avihu, the Torah writes that passion should not lead one to We find this idea in Parshas internalize the words and message of the
they were sanctified when they came close transgression. Beha’aloscha when Hashem said that kohen’s wife. Hashem indeed recognizes
to Hashem and died. Why does the Torah Miriam should be embarrassed of her and cares for each hair; He knows each
mention coming close to Hashem together WHEN WILL THEY DIE? tzoraas as if her father had spit in her face. one of our zip codes, and He can bring
with their transgression? The Medrash relates that Nadav and Rabbeinu Yonah says that part of teshuvah us our shidduch, even from China.
Both Nadav and Avihu were extremely Avihu said, “When will Moshe and is feeling embarrassed before Hashem for •••••
righteous. However, by offering ketores in Aharon die so that we can be the leaders having done an aveirah. If we feel this Rabbi Posnick and his wife are
the inner chambers of the Mishkan, they of Klal Yisroel?” At surface level, we busha and the need to get back into shadchanim who work to assist those in
attempted to perform an avodah reserved cannot fathom how they could make such Hashem’s goodwill, perhaps our teshuvah the parsha. They can be reached via email
for the Kohen Gadol on Yom Hakippurim. a crass statement. Even the lowest will be more pleasing to Hashem. at ymppep@gmail.com.
In doing so, they were shooting too high, individual would not say such a thing,
and attempting to achieve a level that was certainly not such tzaddikim. into aveilus. Aharon Hakohen took the Aharon and his children. Had Ahron not
beyond their grasp. Moshe and Aharon reached the height hardest blow, since it was the death of his sinned, his children would not have been
Although their intention was to come of spiritual greatness. However, as leaders children. punished since he would also suffer.
even closer to Hashem, in the midst of of Klal Yisroel, they had to help others While human justice is generally only Aharon’s involvement with Klal
their fervor they erred. Nadav and Avihu solve their everyday issues. This obligated able to consider those who are receiving Yisroel was a shield to protect him, and were
were not Kohanim Gedolim, and for them, them to come down to the level of the punishment, Hashem’s ways are it not for his part in the chet haEigel, Aharon
offering ketores in the innermost sanctuary people in order to deal with their problems. completely righteous, and He takes into would have not been punished. From here
was a transgression. As a result, they came Nadav and Avihu did not desire the account how everyone will be affected we can draw a fundamental principle: The
too close to Hashem and were punished death of Moshe and Aharon. They wanted before meting out judgment. Somebody more we help the klal, the more likely we
with immediate death. the Jewish people to elevate themselves to a may deserve to be punished, but if his are to be spared from any harm. Everyone
level where the leaders would not have to family or those surrounding him will should try and help Klal Yisroel to the best
PRAYING WITH JOY lower themselves to deal with their issues. suffer, the Almighty will not punish him of his ability, and in the merit of his actions
According to another understanding, Their statement was another expression of even though he is deserving of it. If Nadav he might be spared from pain or even death.
Nadav and Avihu performed the avodah the conflict between their desire for greatness and Avihu sinned, why did Aharon deserve •••••
while they were intoxicated. Again we and the limitations that life places upon us. such a harsh punishment? Rabbi Travis is a rosh kollel of Kollel
must ask, this is a clear violation of a Torah In truth, Aharon also transgressed Toras Chaim in Yerushalayim, and is the
prohibition. What motivated them to do JUST PUNISHMENT with his involvement in the creation of the author of Shaylos U’Teshuvos Toras
this? On the eighth day of the celebration Eigel Hazohov, but Hashem did not punish Chaim and “Praying With Joy - A Daily
Serving Hashem with joy helps of the Mishkan, the simcha reached its him for this right away. When his children Tefilla Companion,” a practical daily
elevate a person to the highest levels. The height. The death of Nadav and Avihu transgressed and had to be killed, Hashem guide to improving one’s prayers,
Arizal said about himself that all of his affected everyone and plunged the simcha carried this out, simultaneously punishing available from Feldheim Publishers.

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