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Nh xut bn :Lao ng - X hi Tc gi : Alpha Books Nm xut bn : 2012 Bn quyn : Alpha Books S trang : 208 trang Trng lng : 230 gram Kh sch : 13x20.5 cm Dng ba : Ba mm

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Cun sch Ngi gii khng bi hc nhiu do Alpha Books bin son s cung cp cho bn nhng phng php d p dng nht trong hc tp cng nh rn luyn phong cch sng, gip bn t c nhng iu trn, v cn hn th na. Trong cun sch ny, bn s bit cch: Khng c tt c nhng g c giao trn lp To ra Nghi thc Ch nht B i mt s gi hc mi k Bt u bi tp ln ngay khi c giao Tr thnh ch tch mt cu lc b trong trng ng tuyn mi hc bng mi nm Lm tt hn bt k ngi no bn bit V cn nhiu iu na Cun sch hu dng cho bt k sinh vin, v thm ch bt k bc ph huynh no... Trn trng gii thiu!

Cun sch Ngi gii khng bi hc nhiu do Alpha Books bin son s cung cp cho bn nhng phng php d p dng nht trong hc tp cng nh rn luyn phong cch sng, gip bn t c nhng iu trn, v cn hn th na. Ngy hm nay, chng ti mun gii thiu vi cc bn v mt cun sch mi c Alphabooks xut bn trong qu u nm 2012: Cun sch Ngi gii khng bi hc nhiu. Mt cun sch vi ci tn n tng, i ngc li nh kin thng thng ca x hi Vit Nam. Bn cn nh sut thi gian hc ph thng, b m v ngi ln p chng ta i vo khun kh vi li dy Con phi c m hc! C hc mi gii c! Mt cun sch vi trang ba bt mt. Bt mt khng phi bi thit k n tng, mu sc tng phn, hnh nh c scM bt mt v trang ba tht gin d, t nhin v gn gi vi chng ta. Nhng ch vit nn nt khng cu k nh vit bng phn trng, phn trn chic bn xanh c s dng lu nm. Cc ni dung trn bng trng (d nhin l ngoi tn sch v tn nh bin son, nh xut bn) nh l nhng ni dung mt ngi hc tr vit v v nhp vo bng, trong thi gian m gio vin khng ng lp! Tht ng yu m cng tht th v! n tng tip theo, y l khi bn m dn cc trang sch pha trong, v khm ph cc trit l: Khng c tt c nhng g c giao trn lp To ra Nghi thc Ch nht B i mt s gi hc mi k 2

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Bt u bi tp ln ngay khi c giao Tr thnh ch tch mt cu lc b trong trng ng tuyn mi hc bng mi nm Lm tt hn bt k ngi no bn bit V cn nhiu iu na. Cun sch hu dng cho bt k sinh vin, v thm ch bt k bc ph huynh no

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NGI GII KHNG BI HC NHIU

Nhng b quyt thnh cng ng ngc nhin ca cc thnh vin sng gi nht

Li gii thiu
Hc i hc tht th v bit bao. l bn nm ca s t do, si ni v trng thnh. Bn c th tr chuyn thu m vi bn b, khm ph ht ni ny n ni khc, cung cung ln mi khi n hn np n v tiu lun, hoc c th ngi ngay gh n qua loa ba tra. Bn c quyn lm nhng iu ny m khng phi gnh chu bt k li than th hay s qun l ngt ngho no t cha m. R rng, bn thy mnh t ch v i bn nh cha bao gi c t do n th. Tuy nhin, bn cn hiu hn bn nm i hc khng phi l thi gian bn xao lng hc hnh v tn hng cuc sng theo li chi th phanh sau nhng vt v tri qua i hc sinh. y l bn nm v cng quan trng sut cuc i sau ny ca bn. Khng nhng n nh hng n s nghip ca bn sau ny m cn l thi k bn rn luyn v khng nh ci ti v nhn cch ca mnh. Bi th, nu bn lng ph bn nm i hc, sau ny trn ng i, bn s gp rt nhiu kh khn, v hi tic ti sao trc kia mnh khng c gng rn luyn. Bn ngh ta sng trng i hc c d khng? Nhiu ngi trong chng ti khi mi bc chn vo ging ng i hc u cm thy l iu bt kh. Chng cch no khin chng ti ni bt ln gia hng nghn sinh vin cng xut sc v thm ch gii giang hn chng ti. Chng ti khng bit cch va l mt sinh vin nng ng, bit tn hng tui tr li va tr thnh ngi sao sng trong hc tp. Chng ti t thy c hai s la chn: hoc l khng qu chuyn tm vo hc hnh m tham gia nhiu hot ng x hi, gp g mi ngi v c nhiu tri nghim th v, hoc tr thnh mt mt sch, mit mi hc tp trn th vin ngay c vo ngy ngh cui tun. Chng ti khng th tin rng mnh lm c c hai vic. Nhng suy ngh ca chng ti thay i khi gp c nhng ngi bn sinh vin rt xut sc. H thnh cng trong hc tp vi tm bng loi u, vi cc hc bng sng gi xin c t cc trng i hc ni ting nht th gii, v h l nhng ngi thc 4

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s nng ng. Dng nh khng c gii hn no ngn cn h t c c hai thnh cng trn. Sau khi h tt nghip i hc, cc cng ty danh gi mi cho h. Chnh v vy, chng ti vit cun sch ny vi mong mun tt c cc bn cng tr thnh sinh vin thnh cng nh vy. Trong cun sch ny, nhiu phng php chung ti vit ra da trn chnh kinh nghim hc tp v tri nghim cuc sng sau ny ca chng ti. c th khng phi l kinh nghim thnh cng, m chnh t s tht bi, chng ti tm hiu l do v t rt ra bi hc cho mnh. Chng ti sn lng chia s chng vi bn. Chng ti hy vng qua cun sch ny, bn s tm c nhng phng php hc tp v phong cch sng tt nht, ph hp nht vi mnh. Hy vng bn kin tr bin cc vic hu ch thnh mt thi quen v tm c nim vui t s thnh cng trong cuc sng. Trn trng gii thiu ti bn c. H Ni, thng 1 nm 2012

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M C L C
MC LC.......................................................................................................................... 6 Phn 1: Phong cch hc ca mt sinh vin thng minh ................................................ 8 1. ng c tt c nhng g c giao ........................................................................ 8 2. Xy dng h thng hc tp .................................................................................... 10 3. Hc nhng mn kh trc ..................................................................................... 12 4. Mi bi ging t mt cu hi ............................................................................... 13 5. Hc hng ngy ....................................................................................................... 14 6. Bt u d n di hn ngay khi c giao ............................................................. 15 7. Hc theo nhng khong thi gian 45 pht ............................................................. 16 8. Hc trc khi thi hai tun ...................................................................................... 17 9. Vit tht nhiu khng ch l nhng bi tp trn lp............................................ 19 10. Dng hn ba ngy vit mt bi lun .............................................................. 20 11. Th gin trc gi kim tra ............................................................................... 22 12. ng u mi k mt mn hc .......................................................................... 24 13. ng quan tm n im s ca bn cng lp .................................................. 25 14. Hc cch lng nghe ............................................................................................ 26 15. S dng v ghi chp t t................................................................................... 28 16. Ghi chp Nht k cng vic ............................................................................... 29 17. ng lao u vo hc ch v im tng kt mn................................................ 30 18. Chm ch n lp ............................................................................................... 32 19. Hc bng phng php -vui-v-nh-li ........................................................ 33 20. Hc mt k nc ngoi ................................................................................... 35 21. ng tuyn mi hc bng mi nm .................................................................. 36 22. Hy kt bn vi ging vin................................................................................. 37 23. Lun theo ui mt D n ln........................................................................ 39 24. Tham gia nghin cu khoa hc cng sm cng tt ............................................ 41 25. ng hc trong phng k tc ............................................................................. 43 26. ng hc nhm .................................................................................................. 44 27. Tham gia Chng trnh nng cao ....................................................................... 45 28. Tham d nhng bui ni chuyn ca cc v khch ving thm ......................... 46 29. Hc thm mt chuyn ngnh hay ngnh ph. .................................................... 47 30. Lm giu hoi bo ca bn................................................................................. 48 31. Chn la mc tiu, khm ph hng i. ............................................................ 49 32. ng ngh ngi gia cc lp hc ....................................................................... 51 33. S dng t ng h s........................................................................................ 52 34. Tm mt a im hc b mt ............................................................................. 54 35. Bt u nhanh, kt thc chm ............................................................................ 55 Phn 2: Phong cch sng ca mt sinh vin thng minh ............................................ 56 36. To ra Nghi thc ngy Ch Nht .................................................................... 56 37. n mc nghim chnh n lp hc..................................................................... 57 38. Chm tp th thao............................................................................................... 58 39. Tr thnh ch tch cu lc b ............................................................................. 59 40. ng k tham gia mt hot ng no ngay tun hc u tin ...................... 60 41. Tnh nguyn khng khoa trng ........................................................................ 61 6

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42. Ln k hoch cho nhng lc ri ri .................................................................... 62 43. Trang tr phng ................................................................................................ 64 44. Thc hin ch n c li cho sc khe ........................................................... 65 45. n mt mnh hai ln trong ngy......................................................................... 66 46. Hy dn dp ging ng .................................................................................... 67 47. Khng bao gi ng ngy .................................................................................... 68 48. Khng bao gi thc trng m ........................................................................... 69 49. Ngh ngi trc khi i ng ................................................................................. 70 50. ng ng qu t, cng ng ng qu nhiu ....................................................... 71 51. ng ru ch.................................................................................................... 72 52. c bo mi ngy. ............................................................................................. 73 53. Hn ch s dng danh sch vic - cn - lm hng ngy. .................................... 74 54. Hc cch t b.................................................................................................... 75 55. Tm mt li thot ................................................................................................ 78 56. Gi lin h vi bn b ........................................................................................ 79 57. ng chn mt vic lm tm thng ................................................................. 80 58. Kt bn vi nhng ngi khao kht thnh cng ................................................ 81 59. Ci mi ngy .................................................................................................... 82 60. Tn dng ti a ngy ngh ca bn. ........................................................................ 83 61. Sng khng hi tic ................................................................................................ 86

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Phn 1: Phong cch hc ca mt sinh vin thng minh

1. ng c tt c nhng g c giao bc i hc, trc khi bt u mi mn hc, cc ging vin thng lit k v nhc bn c rt nhiu ti liu. Nhng c c ht s , bn s phi hy sinh rt nhiu thi gian trong k hc ca mnh. Vic ko di trong c thng, thm ch hng nm tri. Vi cc ngnh khoa hc x hi v nhn vn, bn c th phi i mt vi cc bi vit hc thut y nhng cu trc cu ri rm v l gic phc tp. Cn vi ngnh khoa hc c bn, bn s bn ti bi ri ght ti gi nhng biu y ry thut ng k thut. Thy c gio s thng xuyn a ton b ni dung sch vo chng trnh ging dy v bn ch c khong mt tun hon thnh bi tp c giao. Chuyn ny qu sc mt mi! Nhng thc t mi th khng n ni ng s nh v y.Tt c nhng g bn cn nh l quy tc n gin sau: ng bao gi c tt c nhng g c giao. Vi mt sinh vin chm ch,vic b qua ti liu c giao c v nh khng chp nhn c. Tuy nhin,vic c tng trang ti liu c lit k trong cng mn hc gn nh l khng cn thit,cho d mi nghe th iu ny c v bt thng. V sau y l nhng iu bn nn lm thay v ngi c ht ng ti liu : Nu l c nm khi qut v ch ca bi ging sp ti th thng

thng ch cn c lt qua chnh trc gi ging l , sau lp cc khong trng bng cch ghi chp cn thn khi nghe ging. Nhiu sinh vin vn ngi vic c lt, nhng khng nn nh vy. Bn cn lm ch k nng c lt tht nhanh
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hng trm trang ti liu. B quyt l hy c phn gii thiu v kt lun ca mi chng tht cn thn ri lt qua nhng ni dung khc. nh du V bn cnh nhng cu vn quan trng , ng lu (vic ny nhanh hn t m). ng dng li qu lu c hiu mt no .Thay vo , hy tp trung vo nhng on cng c cho ch . Chc chn bn s b mt vi im quan trng, nhng thy c gio ca bn th khng. V vy, nn ch mi khi thy c gio cho tho lun ch . Lm nh vy,bn s thu lm c cc kin thc, quan im m mnh b qua. n k thi,nhng ghi chp trong gi ging ca bn cng vi mt bn tng hp nhng cu nh du s gip bn x l ti liu mt cch nhanh chng. Nu c phn ni dung no khng c ging trn lp m bn ngh l

s hi trong k thi sp ti th hy c phn k hn mt cht. Nu bn vn cm thy cha chc chn v ch , hy n gp ging vin trao i v xin kin. Hy tho lun vi thy c gio ca bn v nhng kt lun rt ra sau khi c ti liu. Hy ghi chp cn thn. Kt hp c cn thn v ghi chp mt cch thng minh quan im ca ging vin v nhng vn quan trng l mt cch chun b ti liu thi rt hiu qu. Khi gio vin lit k rt nhiu u sch tham kho bn vit mt bi

tiu lun,vic u tin bn cn lm l xc nh chnh xc ch ca bi lun l g, ri chn la nhng u sch v ti liu cn thit pht trin cc lun im cho bi lun. B qua cc ti liu tham kho khng lin quan ti ti ca bn. hon thnh bi lun trong thi gian hn hp, bn cn thng minh ch khng phi l chi u vo c ht cc ti liu ri hoang mang khng bit vit g. Nu l mt mn khoa hc c bn , thng thng thy c gio s yu cu bn c v tng hp thng tin t mt n hai chng dy c nhng thut ng trc gi ln lp. V vy, thay v c tng phn mt bn hy c lt tht nhanh nhng chng ny bit bn s hc g, v tp trung ti a trong gi ln lp. Cc mn khoa hc khng kim tra vic c ca bn m l kim tra nhng khi nim
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c hc trn lp. L mt sinh vin khoa hc, bn nn t mc tiu hiu nhng khi nim c dy v p dng chng thun thc sau mi bi ging. Nu bn cm thy mnh khng theo kp bi ging ca thy c trn lp th hy tng thi gian c ti liu trc cho n khi bn c th theo di bi ging mt cch thoi mi. Ni chung, vi cc mn khoa hc th vic c s chim rt t thi gian ca bn. Hy ch vo nhng vic quan trng, l: cc bi ging trn lp v bi tp v nh. Bn hon ton c th t c k nng hc tp ny. Ban u bn s chn cch an ton, c gng c ht kh nng c th. Sau , khi bn hiu dn v cch ging bi ca gio vin v cu trc mn hc th bn c th gim thi gian c ti liu c giao v nh. Nu bn thc mc ti sao cc sinh vin ng u c th hon thnh nhiu vic th vi thi gian t i, nguyn tc ny tr li cho bn phn ln cu hi trn. ng bao gi c tt c nhng g c giao. Hy nm khi qut v ch sp c hc, theo di tht chm ch bi ging trn lp v chm ch lm bi tp v nh. 2. Xy dng h thng hc tp Bn ngh nhng tay sinh vin khn ngoan hc th no? Bng tr tng tng phong ph ca mnh,hay may mn hn, bn bit rng mt sinh vin ngoi ng sng to ra nhng tr chi vui hc t mi; hay mt sinh vin chuyn ngnh khoa hc - chnh ch to ra nhng chic bn kin thc cc ln trn bc tng, ni cc khi nim vi nhau bng si len nhiu mu sc. Nhng tay sinh vin khn ngoan thng xy dng cho mnh h thng hc tp ring r rng,c h thng v sng to. Hy lm theo nhng v d k trn. Bn khng bao gi nn bt tay vo hc nu thiu i mt k hoch h thng v nhng g bn s n tp, n tp bng cch no v n tp bao nhiu ln.

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Xy dng h thng hc tp cho ring mnh l chia mt cng vic to ln thnh nhng phn nh hon thnh, v h thng ny s gii phng nng lng ca bn, gip bn tp trung vo vic hc thay v lo lng qun quanh xem nn lm th no, bt u t u. Nu khng c mt h thng hc tp, rt cuc bn s c lang thang y may ri gia cc ti liu, nhn vo ng sch cao cht vt vi s bt lc trong tm tr v ni phin mun trong tim. Vi mt h thng hc tp r rng, nhng cng vic ca bn tr nn d thc hin hn rt nhiu. Trc khi bn lao vo c cun sch u tin, hy b ra mi pht tp trung vit c th k hoch hc tp. Sau lp bng lit k nhng cng vic cn lm v nhng tng ng nh du khi hon thnh. Mt khi bn yn tm rng h thng ny c th chun b cho bn y nhng vic cn lm, bn s khng cn bt k lo lng no v vic liu bn sn sng cho k thi sp ti hay cha. Trch nhim ca bn lc ny gim xung ch cn sp xp thi gian hon thnh tng vic trong k hoch. Thm na, phng php hc ca bn cng sng to cng tt. N s gip bn bt cm thy chn nn, em li cho bn nhng iu mi m, v to ra nhng lin kt tr c mnh m hn. l l do ti sao bn sinh vin chuyn ngnh ngoi ng li thit k ra tr chi vui, v bn hc chuyn ngnh khoa hc-chnh ch li dn nhng si len ln tng. H thng hc tp ca h tht hon thin v th v. H ang hc tp mt cch khn ngoan,v bi vy h s rt xut sc. Trong hc tp,vic ln k hoch hc tp nh th no cng quan trng khng km qu trnh hc tp.Nu khng c k hoch hc tp khoa hc v th v, bn c th s hon ton lng ph thi gian, sc lc ca mnh, cng nh nhn phi nhiu im km

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3. Hc nhng mn kh trc Gi y, cc trng i hc nc ta u o to theo m hnh tn ch. Bn c quyn la chn mn hc cho mnh. Chng ti c mt quy tc n gin gip bn chn mn hc vo nhng ngy u hc i hc: s mn hc c tn tng qut/nhp mn/i cng. khng nn qu bn. Hc cc mn nhp mn l cch tt tr nn quen thuc vi ch mi. iu ny c bit ng vi nhng lnh vc nh khoa hc x hi v nhn vn nhng mn c ni dung khi qut v lnh vc m bn cn bit trc khi hc nhng ch su hn. Tuy nhin vn xy ra i vi cc mn i cng ny l chng khng c nhng ni dung c th hay kh thc s ging nh nhng mn chuyn ngnh khc. Nu bn c nh chuyn su vo mt lnh vc c th no , bn cn phi bt u hc nhng mn chuyn ngnh cng sm cng tt. y l cch duy nht c nhng hiu bit cn thit gip bn a ra la chn ng n v vic hc ca mnh. ng thi,vic ny cng gim p lc cho bn khi c gng p ng nhng mn hc iu kin ca chuyn ngnh. V nhn chung ,hc mn kh trc s gip bn nhanh chng nng cao nhng k nng quan trng bc i hc mt li th cc ln cho bt k sinh vin tham vng no. ng lo lng rng nhng mn hc chuyn su nh vy l qu kh vi bn . B quyt l hy tm kim nhng lp hc hi kh nhng khng bt buc bn phi c qu nhiu kin thc ban u. Hy k nhng yu cu c th ca mn hc. Nu khng c yu cu no, hoc l nhng yu cu mang tnh cht khuyn ngh, th bn nn hc lun kha hc ny trong nm u. Nu vn cm thy hoang mang v kh ca kha hc, hy vit email cho ging vin. Gii thch ngn gn v qu trnh hc tp ca bn, ni rng bn rt quan tm n lnh vc ny, v bn mun bit kin ca h v mt khi lng cng vic ph hp cho mn hc. Nhng mn hc tng quan c th c ch nu hc chng mt cch iu , nhng nu tip thu qu nhiu, chng c th hn ch s pht trin ca bn, khin bn cm thy ngn ngm v km hng th vi nhiu lnh vc th v khc. Hy hc nhng mn kh hn! Ha mnh vo vic hc nghim tc cng sm, bn s m
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mang kinh nghim v kin thc cng nhiu. Ging nh mt sinh vin thnh cng c kt rng: Ti sao phi lng ph thi gian v tin bc cho nhng mn hc th yu trong khi bn hon ton c kh nng bc ln nhng mn chuyn ngnh. Hy bt u hc cc mn chuyn ngnh cng sm cng tt. l cch duy nht bn a ra c la chn ng n v vic hc ca mnh. 4. Mi bi ging t mt cu hi Khng d lc no cng tnh to trong sut bi ging. c bit khi lp hc din ra vo bui sng, hoc ngay sau ba tra thnh son, v bn phi c gng ht sc gi cho mt khi cp xung cp xung dn thm ch gn n mc nhm ttV c nh vy, bi ging c th tri qua m bn chng hc c iu g ngoi vic lm sao lau sch nc di trn quyn v. Nu bn mong mun thnh cng trng i hc, bn cn phi lm tt c nhng g c th chng li iu ny. May mn thay, mt trong nhng cch hu hiu nht lun tp trung v hng th vi bi ging l thc hin mt vic cc k n gin: Mi bi ging lun t t nht mt cu hi. Vo ti hm trc khi bn c ti liu chun b cho bi ging, hy vit ra mt lot cu hi. Sau , mt ln na trong lp.hy xem xt k lng nhng ti liu m ging vin cp, iu chnh v trau chut nhng cu hi cho ph hp. Cui cng chng no bn thy cu hi ca mnh c ngha v lm r mt im quan trng no trong bi ging,hy t cu hi. B quyt y l, bn lun tham gia t cu hi nhng khng h x s thiu t nh nh m sinh vin v trn hng gh u c na pht t cu hi mt ln. Cch lm ny khng ch gip bn cng c hiu bit, m cn khin bn tp trung v tnh to sut bui hc. y l phng php cc k hiu qu nhm chng li cn mt mi lun thi thc bn chch sang trng thi ngn ng. Mt hoc hai cu hi hay trong lp ging vin thy phn khi, nhng khng khin cc bn cng lp thy kh chu u.

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Hy tranh th t t nht mt cu hi trong mi bi ging. Lm vy tht n gin, v s nh hnh tri nghim ca bn lp hc tt hn 5. Hc hng ngy Sinh vin cng nh mt tay chi golf chuyn nghip. Bt k ai theo ui mn th thao ny cng s ni vi bn, chi golf ph thuc rt nhiu vo vn may. D ngi chi c gii n u, anh ta vn c th gp vn ma y cng nh vn ri. Nu may mn mi c nh u a bng n ni anh ta mun. Nu xui xo, mi c nh dng nh i ngc li hon ton vi mun ca ngi chi. Tht ngc nhin, hc i hc cng ging nh vy. Bn s tri qua nhng ngy m s tp trung ca bn khng th b ph v. Bn hon thnh cng vic nhanh chng v hiu qu. Bn kt thc mi vic trc thi hn, sm hn rt nhiu so vi thi gian bn t ra, v cm thy hi lng v bn thn mnh. Nhng c lc bn gp phi vn ri. Ngy qua ngy, bn c chng xong ly mt cun sch. Bn thy mt mi, mt cm hng v chn chng. Mt trong nhng b quyt quan trng nht thnh cng bc i hc l ngn chn s mt hng . V may mn thay, khng ging nh chi golf, mc tiu ny d thc hin hn rt nhiu. iu cn nh y l hy kin tr. Sinh vin thng mt hng khi tri qua mt k ngh di khng ng g n sch v, v ri cm thy kh c th quay tr li nhp lm vic bnh thng. ngn chn iu , bn cn phi hc mt khi lng bi v no mi ngy. iu ny khng c ngha l bn phi t b mi k hoch giao lu vi bn b vo dp cui tun v tr thnh k mt sch. Thay v vy, hy hc mt cht mi ngy. Vo th su bn c th hc khong mt ting ngay sau khi tan hc, bn s thy kh d chu.Vo ti th by, bn hy dnh thi gian ngh ngi hoc i chi cng bn b, nhng chiu hm hy dnh ra cht thi gian lm mt hay hai bi tp trong khi tt c mi ngi cn ang l m ng. Ch nht l ngy lm vic, bn ch cn hot ng nh bnh thng. V khng nn ngh mt ngy no trong tun c.

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Khi lm bi tp, bn s thy c ng lc hn. Khi hc mi ngy, bn s thy c ng lc tng ngy. Bng cch khng php bn thn chm vo nhng t ngh di khng ng n sch v, bn s ngn chn c kh nng ri vo nhng chui ngy mt hng m nu bc vo s rt kh thot ra. Mt cam kt bn vng hng ngy i vi vic hc s to ra mt chu trnh cng c kin thc v tng nng sut tuyt vi. Chu trnh s gip bn tr thnhtay golfxut sc trong vic hc. Vic bn hc mi ngy bao nhiu khng quan trng min l nu hc mt cht mi ngy, bn s t c trng thi cn bng d dng hn hn. 6. Bt u d n di hn ngay khi c giao Sinh vin i hc thng rt s cc d n di hi nh lm tiu lun cui k, tham gia nghin cu khoa hc, hay vit kha lun hoc lm n. Ti sao? Bi v h thc hin chng v cng km. y l s tht. Ngay by gi, rt nhiu sinh vin trong cc trng i hc trn c nc ang t thuyt phc bn thn rng, h c th hon thnh nhng d n di hi ch trong mt vi m lm vic in cung, nn h khng cn k hoch. Bn ng ging h. S chn ch c sc cm d rt mnh, song bn c th ch ng n bng cch s dng mt bin php v cng n gin: Khi c giao mt n di hn, hy lm ngay mt vi cng vic. Bn ch cn ba mi pht lm nhng vic n gin: vch ra thi gian nghin cu trong lch lm vic ca mnh; lp dn bi ; kim tra v c lt qua mt vi ti liu lin quan; vit ra mt vi ni dung c th. l tt c nhng g bn phi lm. Khi hon thnh vi vic d rt nh, bn s nhn ra rng vic sm bt tay vo d n khng ti cht no. Thc ra, iu ny to cho bn cm gic rt tt. So vi bn b, bn nhanh hn mt bc v vic ny cng rt d thc hin. Cm gic rt quan trng. D bn tin hay khng, vic ny tht s khin bn hon thnh nhiu vic trong lch trnh ca mnh trc khi bn nhn ra l hon thnh

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chng, v khng phi i n cui ngy, bn c th xong vic t bui sng so vi k hoch ra. Tt nhin, cch lm ny khng phi liu thuc tin gip bn hon thnh mi d n ng thi hn. Nhng bi tp ln bc i hc tht s rt kh v bn vn cn phi lm vic chm ch hon thnh. Tuy nhin, v l do tm l, lm mt s vic ngay trong ngy nhn c ti s c tc dng k diu gip bn gim hn c s tr ni.V vy, hy p dng quy tc ny th xem. Chng c l g bn cung cung ln n tn pht cht trc mt d n di hn. Hy bt u bng nhng vic n gin v bt tay vo lm ngay lp tc. 7. Hc theo nhng khong thi gian 45 pht Theo t duy truyn thng trong cc trng i hc, cch hc hiu qu nht hon thnh mt khi lng ln bi v l: (1) cht ng sch v, ghi chp, v cng n tp t ngay trc mt; (2) hc n khi mt l th thi; (3) tnh dy vi gi sau v t hi mnh ang u; (4) lau ht nc di trn ng sch bng mt chic khn m; (5) ung mt lng ln c ph; (6) lp li qu trnh va ri. ng lm nh vy. Khi bn lm bi tp v nh, d l c sch, ghi bi, lm vic trong phng th nghim, hc t mi, hy c gng lm mi vic trong khong 45 pht. Hy ngh gii lao khong mi pht gia mi khong 45 pht lm vic. y l b quyt cho bt k sinh vin thnh cng no. Ti sao li l 45 pht? Trc ht, iu ny c c s khoa hc rt thuyt phc. Nhng ai nghin cu v khoa hc nhn thc u bit cch v s tr nh theo thi gian, v ch ra rng cc chu k xp x 45 pht, xen vo nhng pht gii lao, c th ti a ha lng kin thc bn hc v ghi nh trong khong thi gian nh th no. Nhng cng quan trng khng km, vic chia tt c cng vic ca bn thnh khong thi gian lm vic r rng, c th s cung cp cch hc h thng cho bn. Nu c nm gi c ti liu, bn s nhn vo ng sch trc mt mnh mt cch v vng. Lm sao c th tp trung vo chng u tin nu
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bit rng sau cn rt nhiu phn? Nhng nu bn ch cn tp trung khong 45 pht mt ln, th iu khng th bng dng bin thnh c th. Nm ln c nh vy dng nh khng qu t. Bn c th c ba ln nh vy trc ba ti, v sau ba ti c hai ln, hay theo bt c cch no m bn thy ph hp nht, v ngay lp tc bi tp ca bn tr nn d dng hn. Cn cha k y l cch hc hiu qu nht i vi no b con ngi. Mt khi xy dng c h thng hc tp, bn s khng bao gi mun tip cn bt k khi lng bi v no nu khng c cch hc h thng. S dng nhng khong thi gian 45 pht l s b sung tuyt vi cho bt k h thng no. 8. Hc trc khi thi hai tun lm r ny, gi nh bn c khong 15 ting chun b cho mt bi thi quan trng. iu ny nghe khng t cht no. Ng dy vo lc 7 gi sng hm trc ngy thi, c v nh bn c rt nhiu thi gian hc. chc chn hn, hy lm mt vi php tnh n gin. Trong mt ngy bnh thng, chng ta s dng 2 ting n, 3 ting n lp, mt ting ri ngh ngi, 2 ting tp th dc, mt ting ri gp g bn b thy c, hai ting ri lm bi tp. V theo cch tnh , nu bt u hc t 7 gi sng hm trc ngy thi, chng ta s hc xong 15 ting vo khong gia tra hm sau! Hm, xem ra cch ny khng c tt lm! Nu chun b trc hn hai ngy, ch c cch hm no cng thc thu m ti nm ri sng th chng ta mi c th hon thnh vic hc trong vng 15 ting. R rng y cng khng phi mt cch lm tt. Nu chun b trc ba ngy, chng ta s phi chp nhn vic hm no cng i ng vo khong hai ri sng. Tht khng th chu ni. Nh vy, bn thy rng, mc d lc u 15 ting nghe c v khng qu t, nhng khi chng ta t n vo lch lm vic vn kn mt, chng ta s nhn thc c mnh thc s cn bao nhiu ngy chun b cho mt bi thi m khng phi hysinh gic ng v s minh mn ca mnh. By gi, hy ngh xem iu g s xy ra nu c ti hai bi thi cn chun b? R rng l mt vin cnh khng my ti p.

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Chng ti s dng php tnh trn nhm nhn mnh thc t ca vic chun b cho bi thi: Bn cn phi bt u hc kh lu trc . Lch lm vic ca bn bn rn hn bn tng, v nu tn ti nhng ngy cui trc khi thi mi hc, bn s buc phi hy sinh nhiu vic khc. trnh tnh trng ny, c mt quy tc l hc trc khi thi hn hai tun. By gi, trc khi bn cho rng u c chng ti c vn , hy chng ti gii thch r hn. chng ti khng phi l bn nn bt u hc hng hc c ngy sut hai tun trc khi thi (y l cun sch hng dn cch thnh cng i hc, khng phi cch tr thnh k ngc). Thay v v y, chng ti khuyn bn hy chia tng phn hc trong mt hoc hai ting, v bn s vt qua bi thi m khng mt mi cht no. D nhin, cch duy nht lm c iu ny l phn phi nhng phn hc ra mt khong thi gian tng i di. V theo , kt qu hai tun l ph hp. Tun u tin, ch nn hc khong mt ting mi ngy. Hy xy dng h thng hc tp bao gm nhiu phn nh, dnh mt cht thi gian lm quen vi cc ti liu tham kho v tm hiu s qua cc thng tin v mn thi. Vo dp cui tun, hy hc thm khong hai ting, nh vy bn n tp khong mi ting trong sut b y ngy m mi ngy khng hc qu mt hay hai ting. Tun tip theo, hy tip tc hc khong mt ting mi ngy, tp trung n tp v hc theo h thng hc tp ca bn, chm nhng chc. Sau , hai ngy cui cng trc khi thi, hy hc khong ba ting mi ngy cng c nhng kin thc quen thuc trong u bn. Nh vy, cho ti khi t bt lm bi thi, bn hon ton thoi mi! Bi thi khng cn l vn . V trn ht, bn chun b y m khng cn thc khuya hay n tp c ngy, v khng chm trong o gic do c ph to ra nhng iu m vi cun sch c u c bn. Ban u, li khuyn nn hc trc khi thi hai tun nghe c v ng ngn. Nhng mt khi nhn ra rng bn ch phn phi nhng cng vic cn thit ra mt khong thi gian rng ri hn, ch khng phi tng thm cng vic, bn s hiu rng y l cch chun b cho k thi ht sc hiu qu v khng h mt mi. Nu lo
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rng mnh khng c sc mnh ch bt u hc tht sm, chng ti cho rng bn c th phng php ny mt ln. Hy lm nh vy chun b cho bi kim tra u k, khi bn cha qu bn rn vi nhng cng vic khc. Sau khi nhn c nim vui t vic hon thnh xut sc bi thi m khng cn lm vic vt v, ti tin chc rng bn s thay i cch ngh ca mnh. Bt u hc 1 2 gi mt ngy trong khong hai tun trc khi thi, sau tng ln khi k thi gn n s gip lng kin thc bn thu c tng ln nhanh chng, v bn cng cm thy thoi mi hn trc khi bt tay vo lm bi thi. 9. Vit tht nhiu khng ch l nhng bi tp trn lp. K nng quan trng s mt ca mt sinh vin i hc l vit lun. K nng quan trng s hai ca mt sinh vin i hc cng l vit lun. K nng quan trng s ba ca mt sinh vin i hc, hn bn on ra, li l vit lun. iu ny c bit ng i vi sinh vin ngnh khoa hc x hi v ngnh ngoi ng. Bn hn hiu chng ti l g: Vit lun cc k quan trng i vi mt sinh vin i hc. Bn ch c th thnh cng trong mi trng hc thut nu c kh nng din t nhng suy ngh ca mnh r rng v thuyt phc. iu ny c ngha l nu bn mun thnh cng trng i hc, bn cn phi gii vit lch. Thc s gii. Ging nh c nm trng r l cc k quan trng trong mn bng r, vit lch l k nng quan trng nht ca mt sinh vin. Nu mun tr thnh vn ng vin bng r c khi, bn cn luyn tp mit mi nm c bng trng r. Nu mun tr thnh sinh vin xut sc, bn cn phi luyn tp vit lch sau khi hon thnh nhng bi tp c giao v nh. Bn c th lm c iu ny bng cch tham gia vo nhm vit bo trng. c th l t tin tc hng ngy, tp ch vn hc, ni san khoa hc, bnh lun chnh tr, hay mt t bo hi. Bn chn nhm vit bo no khng quan trng, min l t bo yu cu bn vit tht tt v tht u. Bn cng c th vit nhng bi tham lun, nhn vit xut k hoch cho nhng cu lc b bn tham gia, hoc gi bi vit ti cc t bo, tp ch. Nu sng
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to, bn c th vit truyn ngn, kch bn hoc phim, hoc vit bnh lun cho mc ngh thut ca cc t bo sinh vin trn c nc. Bn vit kiu g khng quan trng, min l vit tht u. Cng chuyn ti c nhiu suy ngh thnh bi vit, bn cng tr nn gii trong lnh vc sng cn ny. Hy hc tp Larry Bird mt vn ng vin bng r tuyt vi. D vui v hay bun b, khe mnh hay mt mi, anh vn lun tp nm bng mt trm ln mi ngy. Bn nn lm nh vy. Hy bt buc bn thn vit nhiu nht c th. C mt cch m nhiu nh vn thng lm, l ngy no bn cng vit, khng cn nhiu, nhng vit thng xuyn v duy tr lch vit u n. Lm nh vy, bn s t ng hnh thnh phn x vit lch tt. y l mt k nng khng th thay th v cc k cn thit thnh cng bc i hc. Hy tht thnh tho k nng ny. Hy luyn vit tht chm ch, u n hng ngy. Bn c th ci thin c k nng vit v thm ch kim thm thu nhp t chnh s chm ch . 10. Dng hn ba ngy vit mt bi lun trng i hc, bn thng phi vit hai dng bi lun. Bi lun ngn v Bi lun di. Bi lun di thng l cc bi nghin cu khoa hc, nin lun hoc lun vn. Chng tiu tn nhiu thi gian hn bi bn phi tm kim ti liu, vit bi, v hiu r cc khi nim mi m v phc tp. Nhng bi lun nh vy qu thc rt kh. May mn thay, phn ln cc bi lun m chng ta c giao u l dng bi tiu lun. Chng c th kh ngn (2 4 trang), va phi (5 10 trang), hoc hi di (11 20 trang). D chng c di ra sao, v c bn bn ch c t mt n hai tun hon thnh mt bi tiu lun cng nh ch phi s dng cc ti liu ghi chp trn lp v cc bi c (khng cn n cc bi nghin cu g). Lm tiu lun l cng vic thng xuyn khi hc cc mn x hi. Bi v y, bn cn thnh tho vic vit lun. Mt quy tc hu ch l hy dnh trn c ngy hon thnh bi tiu lun. iu ny khng c ngha l bn dnh ra c ba ngy nghin cu, m l ba
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ngy cho vic vit bi. Trc khi cm bt vit, bn cn hon thnh ton b vic chun b cn thit. Hy xem li cc bi c, phn ghi chp v hnh dung ra nhng g bn s vit. Lp dn , vit r rng phn lp lun v ghi li cc ngun trch dn. Cng on ny thng kh d dng. Chun b thng tin cho bi tiu ln thc s d chu hn vit chng. V vi bi tiu lun, trc khi bt tay vo vit, bn hy chun b y ti liu trong mt hay hai bui. Khi c tng v cc ti liu c sp xp, bn hy b ra ba ngy vit bi. ng vy, ba ngy. Ngy u tin l vt v nht. Nu c th, hy sp xp ngy u tin vo dp cui tun hay mt ngy no m bn khng c nhiu vic phi lm. Vo ngy u tin, hy c gng ht sc a ra mt bn nhp cho ton b bi lun. Vit tt c cc tng ra giy. Bn s mt kh nhiu thi gian cn nhc v sp xp tng trong bn nhp u tin. Bn nhp thng s kh di. Thm ch c th vt qua di quy nh. ng lo lng, di ca bn nhp s c rt gn. Bn cng khng cn phi lm cho n han ho, mi vn s c sa cha rt nhanh sau . Lc ny bn ch cn mt bn nhp vi cc tng c sp xp cht ch. Ngy th hai s vt v hn. Hy c li bn nhp ln xn hm qua, la chn li t ng sao cho cht ch hn, ct bt nhng lun im tha v b sung nhng ch cn thiu. Mc tiu ca ngy th hai l rt gn bn nhp ca bn, sao cho n ch cha cc lun im cht ch v c ngha. Khng nn lng ph bt k cu no. ng ch n nhng chi tit tn mn nh sa li chnh t hay sa cu trc cu. Trong ngy th hai, bn nn dnh ton b thi gian bin lun im ca mnh tr nn hp dn v thuyt phc. Ngy th ba l ngy d dng nht. Hy c li bi lun ca bn, v ln ny, bn sa li nhng lun im m bn cm thy cha cht ch. Hy bo m phn din gii cho lun im c r rng v hng v ch . Kim tra k cc cu bn vit, m bo sao cho cc tng u logic, v tm cc li chnh t cn li trong bi. Xem li v vit li on m u v kt lun sao cho ph hp vi phn thn bi nht. In ra v sa cha bng bt ch t nht hai ln. C th, bn cha r
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sot ht nhng li sai khi nhn vn bn trn mn hnh my tnh. Cui cng, c li ton b bi vit v m bo cc trch dn ca bn ng chun, thm trang ba nu cn thit, kim tra li cc thng tin m ging vin yu cu. Thng thng, sinh vin thng c dn ba ngy vo lm mt. l tng chng hay ho cht no. Tht kinh khng khi bn c dn mi cng thng tp trung vo mt ngy, v cho ra i mt sn phm nht nho. Bng vic sa li bi lun hai ln sau khi hon thnh bn cng chi tit ban u, bn s nu bt c cc lun im v to ra mt bi vit hay, d dng c im xut sc. Hy nh rng cch lm ny khng h tn thi gian hn vic vit lin tc (vit lin tc mi hai ting trong mt ngy tng ng vi vit su ting ngy th nht, bn ting ngy th hai, hai ting ngy th ba) nhng hiu qu hn hn. Tuy nhin, c mt ngoi l vi quy tc ba ngy. l khi phi lm cc bi lun hi di nh c nhc ti trn (t 15 trang tr ln), ba ngy c l khng , nhng tng chia cng vic thnh ba phn vn hu dng. Hy m rng khi lng cng vic mi phn. V d, vi mt bi lun di, bn nn ko di thi gian vit bn nhp ra khong ba ngy, dnh hai ngy cho vic chau chut cc lun im. iu quan trng l tun th tng v vic phn chia qu trnh vit bi lun thnh ba giai on. Nhng sinh vin thnh cng khng tiu tn nhiu thi gian hn nhng ngi khc vo vic hc, m h s dng thi gian thng minh hn. Dnh ba ngy vit cc bi tiu lun tr c bn, c th bn v gio vin ca bn u s hi lng. 11. Th gin trc gi kim tra ng hay sai: Gi cht trc khi kim tra l khong thi gian tt vi vng xem li bi v trong lc bn ang hp tp chy trn sn trng, bng qua hng t bn b, c gng nhi vo u mt khi nim kh, cng lc lt qua

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hng lot kt lun khc nhau ca mt ng sch trc khi gi kim tra bt u. p n y rt r rng, l sai. Khong thi gian ny quan trng hn bn ngh. Bi thi thng thng trng i hc kim tra hai iu: mt l kh nng din t s hiu bit ca bn v nhng ti liu phc tp, v hai l kh nng nh li v tng hp thng tin di p lc ca bi thi. khng ch l nhng g bn bit m cn l cch bn gii thch nhng iu mt cch ngn gn v sc tch trong khong thi gian c hn. iu ny c ngha l sau khi dnh thi gian hc, bn phi ngh ngi chun b cho tr c ca mnh hot ng di p lc. Vi sinh vin tin rng duy tr trng thi xung lng tr tu l c li thng qua vic hc ngay trc khi gi kim tra bt u. iu ny khng ng. Cch hc nh vy s khin bn cng thng v mt tp trung. Trng thi tt nht cho tr c bn l bnh tnh, t tin. Hy dnh mt gi trc khi thi th gin. Hy hc cch mt vn ng vin in kinh luyn tp chy c li di. Trong nhiu tun trc khi cuc thi din ra, vn ng vin in kinh phi luyn tp rt vt v. Nhng trong ngy thi, anh ta ngh ngi, duy tr sc lc c th thi u thnh cng ngay khi ting sng vang ln. Hc tp cng l s luyn tp, v thi gian mt gi trc khi thi l thi gian ngh ngi trc khi cuc ua bt u. Trong thi gian ngh ngi ny, hy c mt cun sch gii tr. Nghe bn nhc lm bn vui v. Lm vi vic lt vt. Ni chuyn vi bn b. Lm nhng vic khng lin quan n bi tp trng. iu quan trng l gi cho u c bn th gin v minh mn, khng mt mi. Cho n trc khi bi kim tra bt u khong 30 pht, trn ng i, hy xem li nhng ti liu m bn cm thy chc chn. Th hnh dung bn ang lm mt bi lun v ch ny, hnh dung gio vin ang cm bi kim tra ca bn v khen ngi bn trc lp. K thut ny khng ch l t huyn, n to cho bn s t tin v quan trng hn, n gip khi ng tr c ca bn theo cch tt v c kim sot. Khi bn n a im thi, trnh b thu ht qu vo vic lit k tt c cc khi nim cn cha nm vng. Hy gi u c thoi mi, hoc tip tc suy ngh rng bn s lm bi tt nh th no, iu ny
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khin bn tr nn t tin hn. Khi bn nhn c thi, hy ht tht su v xem n. Bn nn trng thi nhanh nhn, sung sc v thoi mi khi bt u t bt vit bi. Hu ht sinh vin u b qua kha cnh tm l khi lm bi thi. Ch hc ti liu m khng chun b tinh thn khi lm bi, ng ngha vi vic bn mi ch chun b mt phn cho thnh cng ca bn. Dnh thi gian ngh ngi v ti to nng lng ngay trc lc kim tra l mt cch tt t im xut sc. Hc tp cng l s luyn tp, v thi gian mt gi trc khi thi l khong thi gian ngh ngi trc khi cuc ua bt u. ng c p tm tr bn phi tip thu thm iu g na. Thay v vy, hy tht thoi mi, sung sc v ngh rng mnh s lm bi tht tt. 12. ng u mi k mt mn hc Hy tng tng vin cnh sau: Ging vin ang tr mt bi tp nghin cu quan trng. Nhng ting than th bt u dy ln trong lp chng t gio vin yu cu cao trong bi tp ny. V r rng, bi vit ny chim bn mi phn trm im mn hc ca bn. Khi n tn bn, gio vin dng li mt cht. Bn lo lng nhn quanh. Bt ng, thy gio n n ci ti v ni to: Chc mng em! Bi lm ca em tt nht lp! Nghe tht tuyt phi khng? No, hy lm quen vi iu ny. Nu bn mun thnh cng trng i hc, hy t mnh vo hon cnh ny, trong mt lp hc, cho mt bi tp no vo mi k. Nhng u im ca vic ng u mt bi tp l hin nhin. N s gip bn nng cao im s, ging vin s ghi nh v gip bn vi nhng li gii thiu v li khuyn hu ch, v iu ny gip bn cm thy cc k hi lng v bn thn. Tuy v y, khng phi ai cng bit mt iu rng: ng u rt d. B quyt y l hy a ra nhng la chn chin lc. hon thnh xut sc mi bi tp trong mi mn hc gn nh l khng th. V bn s thy mt mi mi khi c khin mi ngi phi ch ti bn. Tuy nhin, khng qu kh tr nn xut sc trong mn hc bn tht s yu thch, vi mt
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d n khin bn ho hng, li c giao trong mt khong thi gian bn khng c qu nhiu vic cn lm. Vi cch ngh ny, mi k bn nn chn mt mn hc mnh yu thch. Vi mn hc ny, hy chn mt d n th v, v thc hin n tht xut sc. Bt u d n tht sm, lm vic chm ch, vt qua nhng yu cu thng thng, v thm tht nhng tng mi cho thy bn ham hc hi thc s. Nu bn ang vit mt bi lun v lch s ngh thut, ng ch dng li vic miu t tc phm ngh thut trong phm vi bi tp. Thay v vy, hy so snh n vi mt tc phm khc, dng n lm r cu trc l thuyt tru tng no bn c c trong mt cun sch khng do gio vin yu cu. Nu bn ang lm mt bi tp lp trnh tin hc, hy t ln lch cho mnh hon thnh bi tp sm hn mt tun v sau bn c th thm vo mt lot nhng m thanh vui nhn. Nu sp ti bn c mt bi thi kinh t hc, hy tng gp i khi lng thi gian hc v hng ti mc tiu t im tuyt i. Ch tp trung vo mt mn hc mi k khng ly i qu nhiu thi gian v sc lc ca bn, c bit l khi bn tnh ton v la chn mc tiu ph hp. Li ch ca n lc ny thc s rt ln. Hy bt u d n tht sm, lm vic chm ch, v thm cc tng mi cho thy bn thc s ham hc hi. 13. ng quan tm n im s ca bn cng lp t nht mt ln trong i, bn so snh im s ca mnh vi ngi khc. Chng hn khi gio vin kim tra bi bn, bn ngh mnh lm tt v bn t tin mnh c im cao, nhng thc t li khng phi vy. Ri bn thy bi kim tra ca c bn ngi k bn. C y c im cao hn bn! Tht kh chu khi thy ai c im cao hn mn t ca bn. Bn khng th chu c cm gic ngi bn cng lp thng minh hn bn, v l mt cm xc ti t. Nu chuyn din ra nhiu ln, bn s khng cn hng th vi mn na, bn chng my ch
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vo bi hc, bn t t cu hi trong lp v bn s kh s vi cc bi kim tra trong tng lai. Vn y l: tt c nhng cm xc tiu cc xy ra chng c l do no c. Ti sao? Bi chnh lch trong mt vi bi kim tra khng chng t ai km hoc thng minh hn ai. Thay v bun ru hay tc ti, chng ti khuyn bn nn suy ngh tch cc hn. Chng hn, hy suy ngh xem ti sao ngi bn li c im cao hn bn. C th c y tp trung hc mt ch hoc mt cun sch no v tnh lin quan n nhiu cu hi trong bi kim tra. C th trc khi thi, c y bit cch phn b thi gian n tp v chun b tt. C th c y b im km trong bi kim tra trc, v ln ny c y quyt tm lm bi tt bng mi gi. C th c y bit cch ngh ngi dng sc trc khi thi. Bn thy y, c rt nhiu yu t hp l c th gii thch kt qu thi tt hay khng tt trong mt ngy nht nh, v chng hu nh khng lin quan g n tr tu. Chnh lch im s trong mt bi kim tra khng chng t ai km ci hoc thng minh hn ai. Hy suy xt li ti sao mnh b im thp v tm cch sa i, hn l tc ti vi bn trong lp c im cao hn bn. 14. Hc cch lng nghe Mt trong nhng k nng quan trng nht cn c pht trin trng i hc l kh nng lng nghe. Khi l sinh vin i hc, c th nhng kin gii ca bn cn hi ht, thiu su sc, chn chn. Nhng tt c chng ta u thch by t kin cng nh nim tin ca mnh, v s t tin ca mt ngi tr c th khin bn nhy x vo mt cuc tranh lun vi ging vin hoc nhng sinh vin khc. Vic khng c ch g vi bn, n ch khin bn hung hng v bo th hn. Thay vo , hy dnh qung thi gian hc i hc pht trin kh nng lng nghe v tng hp kin. iu ny khng c ngha l bn thu mnh vo mt gc nghe ngng v khng bao gi by t quan im. Tri li, hy by t quan im trong lp hay khi
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tr chuyn vi bn b vo lc thch hp. Nhng cuc tho lun hay tranh lun mang tnh xy dng c th l nhng kinh nghim rt tt (iu ct yu y l mang tnh xy dng, chng ta khng xt n vic ci cn). Nhng bn s thu c nhiu th hn nu bit lng nghe hp l. Trc ht ng bao gi l ngi u tin by t kin. Nu bn ang ni chuyn vi mt nhm bn hoc vi ging vin, v mt ch tranh lun xut hin, bn s khng t c g nu ngay lp tc by t nhng g bn cho l ng. Bn c th ng, co th sai, nhng ai quan tm ch? y l c hi bn hc hi v t c s qu mn cng lng ngng m ca mi ngi. Thay v bt u tranh lun gay gt vi nhng g mnh tin tng, hy cn thn lng nghe kin ca mi ngi. Thay v bt u tranh lun ngay vi nhng g mnh tin tng, hy cn thn lng nghe kin ca nhng ngi khc. Hy a ra nhng cu hi mang tnh xy dng. Suy ngh k cng v tng quan im m ngi khc ang bo v. Sau , hy cn thn v t tin a ra suy ngh ca bn. Khng nn bt u cu ni ca bn kiu nh: Bn sai ri hoc Ti khng ng . Thay vo hy ch ra im khc nhau trong quan im ca bn v ca ngi khc, a ra nhng cu hi v cc yu t c lin quan nh gi xem quan im ca bn no tt hn. V d, ng bin cuc tranh lun v sc mnh ca ng tin thnh mt cuc tranh lun v mt o c hay s tha ha, bin cht ca con ngi. Thay vo , hy tho lun cc kiu khc nhau v mt gi tr ca ng tin trong mi mt i sng v a ra nhng cch ng x vi ng tin m bn c th ngh ra c. Cch u tin ch mang n s bc tc, cch th hai gip hai bn hiu r vn hn. Bn gn nh khng bao gi thuyt phc c i phng rng h sai, v vy ti sao li lng ph thi gian vo tranh ci? u im ca cch tip cn ny l n hu ch c khi tho lun trong lp ln khi tranh lun vi bn b. Nu bn hc cch lng nghe, bn khng ch c c s hiu bit r rng v iu mnh quan tm m cn nhn c s tn trng ca nhng ngi khc.

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Mt ngi bit lng nghe thc s l ca him trng i hc. Lun tun th quy tc ny, bn c th tr thnh mt trong s , nhng ngi c hiu bit v c tn trng. 15. S dng v ghi chp t t Quy tc ny hin nhin l cc k cn thit. Thiu nguyn tc ny, bn khng c c hi no tt nghip i hc. Thi c, c th khng phi nh vy. Mt quyn v ghi chp lung tung, ba bi khng th p ng nhu cu ca bn, nhng u t trang thit b hc tp cng l mt vic quan trng. Nu bn ghi chp vo mt quyn s lem nhem ti t - i khi vit chung vi mn v mi khi cn phi tm mi mt mi ra th iu ny s nh hng n kh nng tip thu bi hc ca bn. Khi mun n tp, quyn v ghi chp cu th s lm bn cm thy kh sp xp tng, lp lun v ch . Thay v vy, nu mi mn hc u c ghi chp theo th t c th, r rng, bn s d dng hnh dung v nh bi hc hn. Cc thng tin trong bi hc c th hin r rng, thong ng v d tm, bi v y tm tr bn hon ton thoi mi tng hp cc khi nim, thay v phi tm kim tng th mt. D nhin bn s cn nhiu v hn trc nu lm theo quy tc ny. Thm vo , bn cng nn mua cp ng ti liu cho mn hc. Hy gi tt c cc ti liu lin quan ca mn hc trong mt cp nht nh, v tt c nhng cp ti liu ny trong mt ngn bn hc, ni chng c t ngay ngn v d tm. Hy nhng quyn v ca bn trong mt ngn ko khc. S dng bt vit tt, bt ch kim v cc loi bt nh c cc mu khc nhau nh du ch quan trng. Khi hc, hy mua mt cp ng ti liu dng tt c nhng t cng, ghi chp tm tt, bi kim tra v cc ti liu lin quan. Hy lm nh v y. Tm li, vic s dng vn phng phm cht lng cao v qun l tt chng l mt iu quan trng gip bn gim cng thng v ba bn. Cch lm ny cng gip bn sp xp ti liu mn hc mt cch hiu qu, v to ra suy ngh v mt sinh vin nghim tc.

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S dng v ghi chp t t khng m bo dn n thnh cng, nhng iu s l vin gch trn con ng thnh cng ca bn. 16. Ghi chp Nht k cng vic C nhng sinh vin khng gp phi vn g khi lm vic bn b v nghim tc trong cc d n di hn. Mt tun trc khi np bi tiu lun quan trng, h lm vic chm ch hai ting mi ngy, khi n hn np bi, h sot li tng t trong bi bo co vo tt c cc bui chiu n khi cho ra sn phm cui cng cc k hon ho. D vui hay bun, trn tr nng lng hay u oi mt nhc, bn rn hay rnh ri, h vn d dng hon thnh nhng vic cn lm. Chng ta thng khng thch nhng ngi nh vy. Bi d nhin, i vi tt c chng ta, lm nhng d n di hn bao gi cng cng thng, mt nhoi v tht kinh khng. Bt tay vo nhng d n ny ngay khi c giao l mt cch ph b s tr hon m nh lc u. Tuy nhin y mi ch l mt na. iu g s xy ra nu bt cht bn thy mt mi vo ngy th t trong mi hai ngy bn ln k hoch lm vic cho d n? Hay trong u xut hin mt ting ni c khng khng bo bn hy ngng li cng vic hm nay, thuyt phc bn rng mt ngy li bing cng khng nh hng g my? S vic nh vy c d dng lp li. Bn bt u b qua ngy cng nhiu thi gian hc tp, ch hc khi bn cm thy thoi mi, v ngay trc hn bn mi nhn ra rng bn ang tt li rt xa so vi k hoch ban u. Tt c nhng c gng bt u d n tht sm gi tan thnh my khi. iu ny xy ra ngay c i vi nhng ngi gii nht. thnh cng vi cc d n di hn, bn phi hiu rng hu ht li th ca vic bt tay vo vic sm s tiu tan nu sau bn khng lm vic thng xuyn. iu ny c v tht kinh khng, nhng thc s n khng kinh khng vy u. Nu bn gp kh khn khi lm vic bn b trong cc d n di hn, gii php cho bn l s dng mt cun s ghi chp ghi li nht k cng vic. Mi ti, hy tp thi quen vit vo cc vic bn ln k hoch cho ngy hm sau v nhng vic bn thc s hon thnh trong hm nay. Vic ngn gn, sc tch, khng

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qu mt dng. Vic ghi chp nht k nh vy rt d dng, v vy hn bn khng gp kh khn g khi bin iu ny thnh thi quen khng th b. Cch lm ny thc s hiu qu trong vic nhc nh bn thn. L do khin bn d dng pht l nhng yu cu ca d n di hn l bi bn t nh rng bn cha phi chu trch nhim. Tuy nhin, ngh cn phi ghi li trong nht k rng bn cha hon thnh bt k cng vic no theo k hoch trong ngy s khin bn tr nn c trch nhim vi cuc sng ca mnh hn. Khng ai mun ghi li s li bing thng xuyn ca mnh, bi vy bn s th di thn tht, rt thm mt ly c ph, v c gng hon tt nhng vic cn lm. Ghi chp nht k cng vic l mt vic ht sc n gin v d dng thc hin, nhng hiu qu ca n i vi nng sut ca bn th to ln v cng. Bng cch lun gi cho bn thn c trch nhim, bn c th qun l thi gian v lm theo k hoch tt hn rt nhiu. 17. ng lao u vo hc ch v im tng kt mn trng i hc, bn s gp vi sinh vin lc no cng canh cnh ni lo v im s, lun mun bit im s tng bi kim tra nh hng n im trung bnh ca mnh nh th no. Thm ch c nhng sinh vin lp hn mt bng biu c th tnh ngay im 6 trong bi kim tra ha hu c s ko tt im tng kt ca mnh mt my phy. Mt s ngi cho rng nhng sinh vin ny thc dng. Chng ti li cho rng hc tht chng ra sao. C phi nhng sinh vin xut sc thng t im cao? ng, phn ln l nh vy. H hc tp thng minh v nm vng kin thc, v vy t im cao trong cc bi thi khng kh khn g. Nhng iu quan trng hn l h coi mi lp hc nh mt th thch tr tu cn chinh phc. i khi mi th khng th trnh khi vi bt k ai. Vit mt bi lun hay rt d, nhng cng tht d vit lc . Hoc bn c th d dng gii c mt bi ton kh nhng li s dng thut ton sai. Tt nhin bn s b im km. Nhng bn khng nn xem vn qu nghim trng. Min l bn lun c gng, th ai quan tm n mt ngy ti t?

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Chng ti tng gp mt sinh vin nhn hc bng thc s Ton hc danh gi ca c cc k th v. C vui v k vi chng ti rng c tng lm mt bi ton cui k ht sc ti t. Nhng thm ha khng h ph hng vic hc hnh ca c. C th c c nhng sai st ng ngn trong bi thi, nhng cui cng, iu c quan tm l rt cuc mnh c chinh phc c nhng kin thc y hay khng. iu u tin c y lm Au khi hon thnh bi thi kinh kh ng l n gp ging vin. C xem xt li tht k lng bi thi cng gio vin, nh bit r rng nhng li sai ng ngn, ri tho lun vi thy gio v cc cu tr li ng cho n khi c cm thy hon ton nm vng vn . C gi y th hin s nhit tm ca mnh i vi mn hc, n mc thy gio mi c lm tr ging vo hc k sau ngay c khi im ca c c trong lp khng t mc xut sc. iu quan trng nht y l c y khng quan tm n vic b im km. C ch quan tm xem mnh hiu r kin thc hay cha. C th c khng phi l sinh vin xut sc nht v mt im s, nhng qua trnh hc tp ca c rt th v v a dng l cn cha k n mt vi gii thng cp trng v quc gia m c nhn c. Khi bn bt u b m nh bi im phy, phn ln iu th v i hc s bin mt. Thay v mi bi kim tra l mt c hi bn th sc mnh v a ra nhng quan im ring th v, t ph, n li tr thnh mt yu t ph hoi tim tng cho bng im cui k. Thay v mi bi kim tra l mt bi rn luyn ngn t, chng li tr thnh ni s hi thng trc v chuyn im km. V vo cui mi hc k, bn s lun trong trng thi lo s khi ch cng b im tng kt cui k. Ni ngn gn, b m nh bi im phy khin cuc sng ca bn lun cng thng v c th khin bn mt phng hng cho nhng mc tiu cao hn Nu bn mun tr thnh mt sinh vin thnh cng, hay qun i im phy trung bnh ca mnh. Hy pht l n. ng ni v n. ng c gng tnh xem mnh c my phy. Bn cn bit iu g quan trng vi mnh v vic hc ca mnh. S dng nhng quy tc trong cun sch ny hc tt nht. Thng thng, mt khi bn hiu bi v c nhng suy ngh sng to, c o, bi lm ca bn s c nh gi cao. Mt bi lm thng minh d sao i na cng s
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khin thy c ghi nh hn l bi lm ng nhng thiu sng to. Hy t tin vo mnh, bn nh. i khi bn gp phi nhng s xut, ng nhn li ri dn vt mnh. Cuc sng qu ngn ngi bin mnh tr thnh hon ho. Bn c th thoi mi ngh v im s khi chun b cho mt d n, bi thi hay bi lun c th, nhng ng qu t nng im phy trung bnh. 18. Chm ch n lp C hng trm l do bn c th vin ra ngh hc: ti mt qu, ti thy khi lp hc hi ngt ngt, bi ging c trn mng ri, ch vic ti v l xong, ti cn nhiu vic phi lm lm, ti khng mu n b l tp tip theo ca b phim a thch bui sng u. Tt c nhng iu ny khng phi l l do chnh ng. Bn chm ch n lp hc! Cc bi ging l ngun kin thc quan trng nht trong bt k mn hc no. Ging vin s ni cho bn nhng g hc thy cn thit v mt ti, iu g khng cn thit, phng php ph hp tip cn, phn tch hay tho lun v ti . Cch tt nht nm vng nhng kin thc quan trng ny l ngi trong lp hc, xung quanh l bn b, ging vin ng trn bc ging, v bn b s t cu hi khi khng hiu r vn . Ni ngn gn, bn cn phi n lp hc. Hc lp khng ging nh c li cc slide bi ging ti v t mng, hay c nhng ghi chp cu th ca bn b. Nhp iu c trng khi ging vin thuyt trnh, cch ging vin h thng v lm r ni dung bi ging, v tr li cc cu hi c a ra, tt c u l nhng nhn t quan trng gip bn nm vng kin thc quan trng. Thm vo , n lp hc cng tng cho bn s t tin vo vic hc. B mt bi ging ging nh b mt bui luyn tp th thao: bn s cm thy ti li, km ci v li nhc. S thiu t tin ny, cng vi s thiu vng ngi khi gi nhng kin thc quan trng ca mn hc, s dn n kt qu hc tp ti t, v iu ny ko s t tin ca bn xung thp dn. Hy trnh iu ny bng cch lm cho quy tc ny tr thnh khng th khoan nhng.
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Nu bn b hc m khng c l do chnh ng, d ch mt ln, nhng ln sau s t mc c vi mnh. ng lng ph thi gian ca bn vo vic tranh u v b ! Hy chm n lp hc. 19. Hc bng phng php -vui-v-nh-li C rt nhiu cch hp thu kin thc v bin n thnh ca mnh. Tuy nhin, nu bn ang tm kim mt gii php c kim nghim qua thi gian, c hiu qu vi rt nhiu sinh vin, th bn chng cn g hn ngoi phng php -vuiv-nh-li. Phng php ny rt n gin. i vi bt k kin thc no, d l l thuyt khoa hc x hi phc tp, cch chia ng t ca cc mn ngoi ng, hay cng thc vt l, bn nn dng phng php vui v nh li. Chng ti khng a bn cht no. Thnh thong t ra nhiu cu hi n tp ch l cch hc t pht. Bn nn xy dng hn mt phng php hc nhm gip mnh c th nghin cu tht k khi nim, khin bn c th hi tng li nhng thng tin c th. chnh l cch hc tuyt vi nht. Hy xem mt v d, vi mt bi thi mn x hi, bn s c giao nhng cu hi t lun v cc ch khc nhau. Khi bn hc theo h thng hc tp c th ca mnh, hy t ra cc cu cho mi ch . Cu c th bao gm nhng cu hi c bn v ngi sng lp ra l thuyt, l thuyt c cng b khi no, v nhng ni dung c th ca n ra sao. Nu bn ang hc bn lun c ln chng li mt l thuyt c th, hy t ra cu hi nh sau: Hy lit k bn lun c ln chng li l thuyt X, ai l ngi a ra tng lun c, v h ch ra nhng sai lm no. Mc ch cui cng ca vic hc l gii p ht nhng cu ny m khng nhn vo v. Mt khi bn c th lm c nh vy, ngha l bn sn sng cho bi thi cui k. Hy th ly mt v d khc v bi thi tin hc mn h iu hnh. Bn bit rng bi thi s bao gm c nhng cu hi ng dng, bn phi s dng nhng phng php hc trn lp gii quyt mt vn mi m, v c nhng cu hi l thuyt c th. Nh v y, phn cu ca bn c th bao gm nhng cu hi lin quan n cc ch l thuyt, cng nh mt bi tp v d cho mi phng php
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ng dng c th sp ti bn phi s dng. Mt ln na, nu bn c th hon thnh nhng cu ny, th bn sn sng. Phng php ny c bit hiu qu bi n buc bn phi khi phc y thng tin. Chnh iu s gip bn cng c kin thc vng chc hn nhiu so vi vic ch c qua ti liu vi ln. c i c li phn ghi chp v mt ch no cng khng c nhiu tc dng. Tr phi bn c tr nh siu phm, c mt vi ln l nh nh in, cn khng, bn s khng th nh ni iu g trn vn nu ch nhn v c ra r hng trm ln. Nhng nu bn bt mnh nhn vo t giy trng v nh li kin thc m khng s dng ngun ti liu no khc, bn s nh kin thc . Chng ti xin bo m iu ny. Mt b quyt na l hy thm cm xc vo vic n tp. ng ch ngi bn v th thm. Hy ng dy, i quanh phng, ni tht to cc cu tr li, c tht r rng nh th ang ging bi cho mt lp hc th v, v bt cht m nhc ho hng lm nn. Kch thch no b cng nhiu, bn cng c nhiu mi lin h vi kin thc c to dng, ri bn s nh v hiu kin thc tt hn. Trn thc t, phng php ny gip bn tit kim thi gian v mang li cho bn s thoi mi v u c. Mc tiu ca bn i vi vic hc khng cn l li ha hn m m n tp li tt c nhng kin thc hc; m n tr thnh mt mc tiu c th hn n tp li tt c nhng kin thc hc cho n khi ti gii c mi cu . Nu bn gii ht cu trong hai gi, ngha l bn hc xong trong hai gi. Nu bn ht ba ngy gii ht cc cu , ngha l bn hc xong trong ba ngy - nhng t nht, cui cng bn cng bit rng mnh sn sng cho bi thi. Phng php -vui-v-nh-li ging nh mt php mu c th mang li cho bn nhng kt qu tt nht. V khi nh li cc kin thc, nu bn sng to ht mc c th nhm duy tr nng lng mc cao, qu trnh n tp thm ch c th rt vui nhn. D bn s dng bt k phng php no khc hc tp, ng bao gi tip bn mt bi thi m khng nh li tt c cc thng tin.

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20. Hc mt k nc ngoi Vit Nam, phong tro du hc sang nhng nc c nn kinh t v gio dc pht trin rt n r. Nhiu sinh vin xin c nhng hc bng c gi tr ngay t khi tt nghip trung hc ph thng hay nm u i hc. Tuy nhin, nu bn cha c iu kin nh vy, hy c gng xin hc bng mt k nc ngoi trong qu trnh hc i hc. C rt nhiu li ch t vic ra nc ngoi. u tin, c th s khng bao gi trong cuc i, bn li c hc tp nc ngoi thoi mi n nh vy. Ngi trng m bn xin c hc bng s chu cp tin hc cho bn, v bn hc vi tm th trao i, giao lu vn ha ht sc thoi mi. Sau ny, nu c iu kin, bn s theo hc tip cao hc hoc nghin cu sinh tin s nc ngoi, nhng vic hc s v cng vt v, v bn cn phi ngh n nhng chuyn tng lai ang cn k nh cng vic, cuc sng, nn s v t khng cn c nh lc hc i hc na. Khi nc ngoi, bn s c c tri nghim thay i cuc sng v thc s hiu mt nn vn ha khc. Tm nhn ton cu ny s thm nhun mi kha cnh trong cuc sng ca bn, t cch bn c mt t bo cho n cch bn nh hnh tng lai hay cch nhn ca bn i vi nn chnh tr. Bn cng s d dng hc ngn ng th hai, mt yu t p cho h s v cng l k nng tuyt vi bn th ng dng sau ny. V quan tr ng nht, ra nc ngoi l mt vic vui v, th v, c th bin bn thnh ngi th v v hiu bit hn. Ti sao khng nm l y c hi ny? Tuy nhin, chng ti xin nhc bn iu ny: bn cn phi chn cho mnh chng trnh ph hp. Hu ht cc trng c hai loi chng trnh du hc nc ngoi: chng trnh giao lu vn ha v chng trnh o to hp tc quc t. Vi chng trnh giao lu vn ha, bn s khng thu thp c nhiu kin thc hc tp. Ngc li, chng trnh o to hp tc quc t c t chc mt cch cn thn nhm khuyn khch sinh vin thc s kt bn vi ngi nc ngoi, c nhng khong thi gian ring, tng cng kh nng ngn ng, tip tc chng trnh hc tp trng yu, v to ra tri nghim thc s. V vy khi bn quyt nh
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np n cho chng trnh no, hy ni chuyn vi cc sinh vin tng tham gia nhng chng trnh . y l cch tt nht xc nh tnh cht thc s ca mt chng trnh c th. Bn cng nn bit rng vic np n cho cc chng trnh du hc thng ri vo nm th hai. Nhng chng trnh ny thng yu cu bn t im tng kt kh gii tr ln v t mc im IELTS hoc TOEFL nht nh. V vy, bn nn nghin cu c hi ny tht sm chun b tt nht. Hc nc ngoi l tri nghim ch c mt ln trong i. ng c hi tut mt. 21. ng tuyn mi hc bng mi nm Thng thng, mt trong nhng yu t n tng nht trong s yu l lch ca mt sinh vin xut sc l phn ni v thnh tch v gii thng. Khng th no khng n tng khi nhn vo mt danh sch loi hc bng lin tip, t ln n nh. y c th l iu m bn cha tng ngh ti: Bt k sinh vin no cng c th to ra mt danh sch gii thng y n tng. iu quan trng l ngng ngay ngh rng hc bng hay gii thng l nhng phn thng c trao tng t u xa xi, dnh ring cho nhng sinh vin xng ng nht. Trn thc t, nhiu hc bng v gii thng c trao tng bi mt v qun l bn rn v th , ngi b phn cng lm nhim v chng ly g lm th v l chn ra mt ngi chin thng trong mt nhm nh n thm hi nhng sinh vin thc s tm ng tuyn. Bi v y, vi rt nhiu gii thng nh, nu bn b cht thi gian np n v th hin s chm ch ca mnh trong b h s, c hi ginh chin thng ca bn l kh ln. Hy tn dng tnh trng ny! Sau y l nhng g bn nn lm: Lin h vi vn phng khoa v nhng phng ban lin quan n lnh vc hc tp ca bn. Hy hi nhng thng tin v hc bng v cc gii thng. Bn cnh , bn cng nn tm kim trn Internet cc loi hc bng nc ngoi m bn iu kin tham gia. Bn c th trao i vi
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nhng cng ty ni cha m, c d ch bc hay anh em bn lm vic, tm hiu xem h c trao hc bng cho sinh vin khng. V cui cng, tm kim hc bng t cc cng ty hay t chc thuc lnh vc bn yu thch. T danh sch ny, hy chn ta khong mi chng trnh hc bng ph hp nht vi kh nng, nhit huyt cng nh ti nng ca bn. nh du hn cht ca chng trn lch v np n cho mi hc bng khi n thi hn. Bn nn lm iu ny hng nm. Bn cng nn tham gia cc cuc thi vit lun m cc i s qun, cc qu phi chnh ph t chc. Cch tip cn to bo ny c th khin bn phi hy sinh mt vi gi, hoc nhiu nht l mt vi thng, th trc thi im tt nghip, bn kp tch ly mt lot gii thng ng k. Hy ngh ti iu ny. Trong khong mi hc bng v gii thng bn chn ra ng tuyn, bn c th s c c hi ginh c t nht mt gii thng, thm ch l hai hoc ba. Ginh c cng nhiu hc bng, c hi xin vic ca bn cng ln. iu ny c ngha l sau bn nm bn c th tip cn th trng vic lm (hay y ban xt duyt cao hc cc nc khc nhau trn th gii) vi kh nhiu gii thng trong tay. iu ny tht s khc bit, tht n tng v s l mt cch tuyt vi tip cn vi nhng c hi tt nht. 22. Hy kt bn vi ging vin Ngc li vi nim tin thng thng ca sinh vin, thy c gio bc i hc khng phi l nhng cha t c c, s xung t thp ng hn lm ch tra tn bn vi nhng bi vit, nhng cng mn hc ri rm v nhng thi t lun kh nhn. Trn thc t, h thng kh d chu. V quan trng hn, h chnh l ng minh quan trng nht ca bn trn con ng ti a ha tri nghim trng i hc. Nu bn mun tr thnh sinh vin xut sc, bn nn kt bn vi mt ging vin. H s tr thnh ngi c vn hc ca bn, ngi hiu r k hoch hc tp, nhng mc ch ca bn trong cuc sng, mi quan tm ca bn v nhng thnh qu m bn t c.
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Mi quan h gn gi vi thy c gio dy bn s khuyn khch bn t c nhng mc tiu tham vng trong hc tp v s m ra cho bn nhng c hi mi m v th v. Cc ging vin chnh l nhng ngi gc cng trc con ng dn n thnh cng ca sinh vin. H a ra nhng li khuyn cn thit y kinh nghim, vit th gii thiu gip bn ginh c nhng hc bng ln, c c hi tham gia cc chng trnh o to cnh tranh, nhng chng trnh thc tp ng m c, hay c bn vo cc gii thng. V nhn chung, h s to iu kin bn tn dng mi c hi m thng thng ch dnh cho nhng sinh vin xut sc nht m thi. Ni ngn gn, cc ging vin cung cp nhin liu cho c my thnh cng trong hc tp ca bn. Vit Nam, vic sinh vin thn thit vi ging vin ngi y gip , nh hng cho bn cha ph bin. Cc bn t nhiu vn gi khong cch nht nh, khng mun hi han thy c gio nhiu. Nhng ng cho rng vic thn thit vi thy c gio l iu kh khn. Trn thc t, cc ging vin thch c tip xc vi sinh vin ca h; y thng l phn hi duy nht h nhn c khi hon thnh cng vic. c c mi lin h thit thc, trong gi hnh chnh, c th trc hoc sau gi hc, bn nn gp g ging vin. Mt s sinh vin lo ngi h chng c vn c th no tho lun. B quyt y l hy tinh . C nhiu c hi ni chuyn vi mt ging vin hn bn tng. Khi ang lm mt bi lun, bn c th n gp ging vin tho lun v nhng ti bn cho l hp l, sau quay li nhn phn hi v nhng tng m bn la chn, v sau tip tc n nh gio vin ca mnh kim tra cu trc lp lun khi bn bt tay vo vit bi. Khi chun b cho mt bi thi, bn c th nh ging vin ging thm v mt ti liu c bit kh c cp lp hc. V nu bn bn hc ngnh k thut, cnh ca lun m rng nu bn mun tho lun v bi tp v nh hoc cc khi nim m bn thy kh hiu. Nu nhng c gng trn dn n kt qu l mt mi quan h thy tr vng chc, hy dn chuyn cc cuc ni chuyn ca bn t nhng vn c th lin quan n lp hc sang nhng li khuyn v hc tp chung chung. Hy gi nhng
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cuc chuyn tr th ny tip tc cho d k hc kt thc, v bo m rng bn gi lin lc vi ngi thy thng xuyn. Thnh thong gh qua vn phng ca thy gio cp nht tnh hnh hc tp ca bn. Nu nh thy gio bn c xut nhng kha hc c lin quan n mi quan tm ca bn, hy tham gia. Bng cch th hin nhng n lc ln lao nh vy i vi vic hc hi s thng tu ca thy gio, qua thi gian, thy c s thc s quan tm n thnh cng ca bn. Kt bn vi ging vin khng phi l s xum xoe, v vy hy mc k nhng ai m tiu hay khuyn bn khc i. n gin v bn mun c mt ngi dy dn kinh nghim dn dt bn qua mt qung thi gian th v v phc tp trong cuc i. Hy qun nhng mn qu ly lng i mt mi quan h nghim tc vi ging vin l du hiu ca s cam kt nghim tc i vi vic hc tp ca bn. 23. Lun theo ui mt D n ln Tt nhin, nhng sinh vin th v v thnh cng trng i hc l nhng c th cc k a dng. Tuy nhin gia h c mt im chung: H c thc tuyt vi v trin vng. Trong khi hu ht cc sinh bng lng vi vic hc tp, th nhng sinh vin thnh cng li ho hng vi cc mc tiu ln hn. H dm khao kht trc nhng c hi m rt t ngi tng tri nghim. Mt sinh vin trung bnh hc tp tt trong mt lp hc; mt sinh vin thnh cng tham gia vo nghin cu khoa hc. Mt sinh vin trung bnh gi bi n t bo ca nh trng; mt sinh vin thnh cng vit mt mc u n. Mt sinh vin trung bnh mun tham gia vo mt cu lc b; mt sinh vin thnh cng ng u mt cu lc b. Nu bn mun ni bt trng i hc, bn cn nui dng thi iu g cng c th. V mt trong nhng cch tt nht pht trin thi ny l lun lun theo ui mt D n ln. bt u, hy suy ngh v nhng kht vng chn chnh nht ca bn. Nu bn c th lm bt k iu g trong vng nm nm ti, bn s lm g? Sau hy
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phc tho v theo ui mt D n ln c th a bn ti cu tr li. V d, nu bn ho hng vi tng vit bi cho bo Tui tr, bn c th to ra mt D n ln nhm tng bc t in mc tiu ca mnh: trc ht cng b mt lot bi bo hay ho trn t bo ca trng, ri n bo a phng, ri n nhng t bo lu hnh ton quc. Nu bn c m c vit kch bn phim, bn c th tm kim mt lot nhng cuc thi vit kch bn phim dnh cho sinh vin, dn hn cht ca cc cuc thi ny ln tng, v c gng hon thnh kch bn ng hn gi n nhng cuc thi . Hoc, nu c truyn cm hng t nhng cu chuyn thnh cng ca cc nh doanh nghip tr, hy th vit ra mt vi tng kinh doanh mi, thit k mt website, v trin khai cng ty quy m k tc x ca ring bn. D n ln l tp hp nhng thnh tu khng lin quan n hc tp m khi kt hp vi nhau, chng a bn n gn hn kht vng ln lao ca bn. Hy ngh ln. Hy tham vng. Khi bn k vi ai v D n ln ca mnh, d n cn phi khin ngi ta khm phc bn. Theo ui mt d n nh vy s gip bn lun hng khi v nhit tm. N s gip bn nh gi ng nhng p lc ca vic hc tp, v to iu kin bn gt sang mt bn nhng s c ti t thng xuyn xy ra. Khi bn theo ui mt d n nhiu tham vng, bn s thy mnh mnh m v cng, ging nh bn ang i trc mt bc so vi tt c, tin bc trn nhng con ng ring bit dn n thng li. Cng chng sao nu khng phi lc no bn cng thnh cng. Bn thn s mi m v vui sng trong vic nm ly c hi l mt sc mnh tuyt vi. iu ny nghe c v l thuyt sung, nhng nu bn thc s theo ui mt D n ln, bn s hiu. Khi bn hon thnh kch bn phim, nhn thy bi bo ca mnh c ng, hay nhn c s tin u tin t vic kinh doanh, cm gic khng th din t ni. Bn va mi hon thnh mt iu g th v, v bn lm iu khng v l do no ngoi vic bn ch mun thy rng vic l c th. thc v trin vng ny s a bn tr thnh mt sinh vin xut sc.

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Nu bn mun ni bt trng i hc, bn cn nui dng thi iu g cng c th. V mt trong nhng cch tt nht pht trin thi ny l lun lun theo ui mt D n ln. 24. Tham gia nghin cu khoa hc cng sm cng tt Tham gia cc cng trnh nghin cu mi v vit nhng bi bo hn lm l cch bn m rng kin thc rt tt. Ni mt cch n gin: Nghin cu l ni tp trung tt c mi hot ng hc thut. Nu bn thc s mun tr nn ni tri trong trng i hc, bn cn phi tham gia nhng hot ng hc thut ny, tham gia vo gung quay nhng nghin cu mi xung quanh bn. Bn cn chm tay vo nhng c hi qu gi c trao, bn mt sinh vin i hc c th thc s tp ra s khc bit trong v s nhng sinh vin khc. Ti sao li nh vy? Trc ht, nghin cu khoa hc thc s ging nh bi dng sc mnh cho tr tu. Cng mt lc, n mang li thch thc, s hng khi v s b ch cho bn. Mt khi bn vit mt bi bnh lun ng gi cho tp ch khoa hc, bi lun mn Nh nc lp tr nn cc k d dng. Th hai, cng vic nghin cu thc s rt n tng. Cho d bn mun lm g sau khi tt nghip, vic bn tng tham gia nghin cu khoa hc cng to ra nhng n tng tt bn thng minh, bn hng say lm vic, bn gii hn rt nhiu ngi. V th ba, khng c cch no bn c th gn gi vi ging vin hn l sut dp cui tun cng nghin cu vi ging vin trong phng th nghim. Nu bn lm cho bn thn mnh tr thnh mt phn khng th thiu ca cng trnh nghin cu, cc ging vin s tr cng bn bng nhng li gii thiu v cc h tr khc. Thi gian rt quan trng trong vn ny. Nu bn tham gia nghin cu qu mun trong qu trnh hc i hc, c th bn s khng c thi gian to nh hng. Ngay t nm u tin, hy dnh thi gian tm hiu nhng lnh vc bn quan tm. Cui nm hc u tin, hy bt u tm kim cc c hi nghin cu. n gin nht l truy cp website ca nhng khoa c lin qua v xem cc d n nghin cu ang c thc hin. Gi email cho nhng ging vin c d n khin bn hng th. Ni vi h rng bn mong mun c c nhiu tri nghim hn
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trong mi trng hc thut. cp mt s c th trong nhng d n nghin cu c sc ca h gy n tng, ri hi liu h c ang cn mt tr l nghin cu l sinh vin hay khng. Ngay c khi h tr li khng, h cng c th s tin c bn cho mt ging vin khc cn tr gip. Bn cnh , lun lun khi c nhng khon ti tr sinh vin nghin cu khoa hc. Kim nhng khon ti tr nh th ny d dng hn rt nhiu so vi vic tm ra ai sn lng a bn tham gia vo d n ca h. n gin l nh vy. Mt quan nim sai lm ca sinh vin l: ch c th nghin cu cc lnh vc khoa hc t nhin. iu ny khng ng. Cc ging vin ngnh khoa hc x hi thng xuyn vit bi trn cc tp ch hn lm ging nh cc ging vin ngnh khoa hc t nhin. Lm vic vi ging vin khoa hc x hi c th bao gm cc vic tra cu, tm kim cc ngun tham kho v photo, in n ti liu, cn lm vic vi ging vin ngnh khoa hc t nhin c th l sp xp khu vc phng th nghim v o c kt qu. Nhng li ch thu c t c hai kiu cng vic trn l nh nhau. D bn hc ngnh no, bao gi cng c nhng cng trnh nghin cu khoa hc m bn c th tham gia h tr. Mt quan nim sai lm khc l nghin cu khoa hc ch c thc hin cc trng i hc ln. C th ni cc vin nghin cu v cc trng i hc ln tp trung vo nghin cu khoa hc nhiu hn l cc trng i hc nh, tuy nhin iu ny khng c ngha l nhng trng nh hn khng c cc d n nghin cu. Trn thc t, ngi trng nh, bn c li th l t sinh vin tham gia h tr nghin cu hn, ngha l hu nh bn s c nhiu c hi th v la chn hn l nhng trng i hc quy m ln. Tham gia nghin cu khoa hc sm ging nh ung mt liu thn dc ca s thnh t. l mt trong nhng b quyt thnh cng hiu qu nhng d b b qua nht trng i hc. ng lng ph c hi ny.

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25. ng hc trong phng k tc Nu c bng xp hng chnh thc v nhng a im t nht dnh cho vic hc, phng k tc ca bn hn s tt xung u gia ng cao tc v mt bui biu din nhc rock cc k n o. Hc trong phng k tc ch c duy nht mt u im, l tin li. Tht khng may u im ny cng khng ng gi lm, bi bn thn vic hc khng nn tin li ri, vic hc cn phi hiu qu. V ni hc tp tt nht l mt mi trng c th to cm hng suy ngh thng sut cho bn, mt mi trng khng c s phn tn khng cn thit hoc c bt k cm d no dn n s mt tp trung. Hay ni thng ra nh, HY HC TH VIN Nu c Mi iu rn t im cao, th bn khng nn hc trong phng ng l ni dung iu rn th nht cho n iu rn th nm, vic thc s quan trng. Hy dng li mt cht ngm ngh v phng ng ca mnh: n ng c, mi ngi vo ra lin tc; mi s phn tn t chung in thoi cho n n, tr chi in t, chng trnh chat trn my tnh c th tm n cc k d dng; khu k tc th n o; v xung quanh ton l ngi. Nu mun hc hnh hiu qu, bn cn thot khi mi trng ny. Hy dnh mt khong thi gian hc mi ngy hc trong th vin. Hy bin n thnh ni bn hon thnh hu ht nhng bi tp c giao. Bi vic bc vo th vin v kim ch ngi khng phi l tic cho lm, nn nu phi di qu sm, bn cng s tng i ngi ngn. Cng bi khng gian th vin rt yn tnh v khng c g khin bn phn tn, bn s d tp trung hn, v th hon thnh c rt nhiu vic. V bi trong th vin, bao quanh l nhng chng sch hn lm trang trng ni tip nhau v nhng hc vin hc tp chm ch, bn cng s d dng dn thn vo vng t tr tu v y quyn lc ny. Th vin c to ra l ti a ha nng sut hc tp ca bn. Ngc li, c v nh phng k tc to ra ti thiu ha nng sut . Nhng sv thnh cng s nhn ra rng Nu ch hon thnh bi tp thi cha , m cn phi t to cho mnh c hi hc tp v lm vic hiu qu hn. Bn cnh , hong thnh tt bi
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tp cng hiu qu, bn cng c th dnh nhiu thi gian gii tr trong ci ng ba bn phng k tc ca mnh. Hy lun hc u em li hiu qu. Th vin trng em n cho bn s yn tnh, tp trung cao , gip bn d dng hon thnh bi tp m khng b xao lng nhiu. 26. ng hc nhm Chng no chng ta cn mun loi b nhng tr vui ra khi hc hnh, chng ta vn cn phi chu mt ni au na: Hn ch hc nhm. Thot nhn, nhng bui hc nhm bao gm nhiu ngi v c v c rt nhiu u im: tch cht giao lu, buc bn c trch nhim vi vic hc, ct gim lng kin thc l ra bn phi t hc, v gip bn lm sng t iu kh hiu. Rt khng may, hc nhm thng d c hi hn c li. Vic khng hiu qu cht no. Cch tt nht hoc nhng ni dung kh l t hc vi s tp trung cao , hc i hc li cho n khi nhng khi nim tr nn quen thuc hn. Khng cch no thay th c cch hc nh vy. D nghe c v chn nn th no chng na, bn thc s cn ngi vo chic bn yn tnh trong th vin v tp trung vo cc ni dung c th trong bi. iu khng ging vi vic anh bn cng nhm hc tp gii thch qua loa cho bn. Trn thc t, hc hi mt khi nim t bn cng nhm cng ging nh c gng c mt cun sch vi tc rt nhanh. Bn c th hiu l m v chng, nhng bn s khng nh hoc hiu r c. T hc cho n khi no hon ton hiu r hiu qu hn c ai din t li kin thc cho bn. V nu ni n tnh hiu qu, r rng hc nhm c th ngn ca bn hng ng thi gian vo vic tn gu v b. iu ny khng c ngha bn phi hon ton n c trong hc hnh. Tri li, khi bn mun kim tra hiu bit ca mnh v mt vn , hay rc ri vi mt vn c th no , trao i vi ngi khc rt c li. Tuy nhin, b quyt y l Hy tm kim ai c tr gip mt vn c th, sau quay tr li hc
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tp c lp. Thay v hc nhm, hy r mt vi ngi bn cng hc th vin vi bn, v h c th gip bn khi c mt vn c th no ny sinh. Vic hc nhm ch dnh cho hc sinh tiu hc v sinh vin ngnh lut m thi. S tht l sv i hc tip thu tt nht khi hc mt mnh. y l cch nhng sv xut sc nht lm ch kin thc phc tp. Khi c vn no qu kh, bn c th nh n s tr gip ca bn b v sau , quay tr li hc mt mnh. 27. Tham gia Chng trnh nng cao Chng trnh nng cao (CTNC) c th hiu l cc lp hc c bit c quan tm nhiu hn, cht lng ging dy tt hn. CTNC c thc hin ha qua m hnh cc lp cht lng cao , lp c nhn hay k s ti nng. Hin nay, khng phi trng i hc no ca VN cng m lp ny. Nu trng bn c, hy ng k khi c bt k c hi tham gia no! Nhn chung, nhng CTNC ny phn nh mt phin bn hon thin hn v trng i hc ca bn. Quy m lp hc nh hn, ging vin quan tm hn, v sv hng th hn. CTNC cng cung cp cho bn tri nghim gio dc tt hn nhng chng trnh bnh thng Bn s c th thch nhiu hn, hc tp nhiu hn, v s khai thc ht kh nng ca bn thn. Thm vo , khi tm kim c hi vic lm, trong bng tt nghip ca bn c ghi r hc h cht lng cao hay ti nng cng l mt yu t li cho bn rt nhiu. Nhng khng phi ai cng bit tn dng c hi ny. V sao vy? l bi chng thng to cm gic ng s vi sv. ti ngh mnh khng gii l l do in hnh ca sv khi t chi tham gia nhng chng trnh nh vy. Tht v ngha! CHc chn l nhng lp hc ny s buc bn hc hnh vt v hn, song chng cng cung cp mi trng hc tp tt hn, s quan tm ca cc ging vin v nhng bn hc xut sc hn. V vy mt cht cng vic thm vo khng phi l khng th hon thnh ni. V ngy c nu bn phi hc thm nhiu mt cht so vi kh nng ca mnh, c sao u?
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Bi v gia nh bn b rt nhiu tin cho bn theo hc i hc, bn cng nn ti a ha li nhun ca vic u t ny. Nu bn c th tham gia vo mt chng trnh nng cao, hy lm nh vy. ng l do l tru! Tham d nhng bui ni chuyn ca cc v khch ving thm

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Cc trng i hc lun t chc cc bui ni chuyn th v dnh cho sv. Nhng hc gi, chnh tr gia, nh hoch nh chnh sch, cc doanh nhn v tc gi ni ting nhiu khi s n thm cc trng i hc. V hu nh bt c ni u h t chn n, hc u dng li ging bi. Mi thng, c gng tham d mt hay hai bi ging ca cc v khch ving thm. C th bn cho rng, nhng bui ni chuyn ny rt t nht, v ng l c nhng bui t nht nh vy tht, nhng rt nhiu bi ging khong ch khng t nht m cn to rt nhiu cm hng cho sv. Nu bn l sv chuyn ngnh lch s ngh thut v b cht thi gian xem mt nh s hc thng thi, sc so pht biu, bn s thy hng khi bi nhng kin thc uyn thm trong lnh vc ny. Nu bn quan tm ti kinh doanh v thy mt doanh nhn ni ting trong lnh vc ca h ti ni chuyn, bn s tm c cm hng v c th nhn c nhng li khuyn b ch cho k hoch kinh doanh ca mnh. Nu bn mun tr thnh nh vn y ha hn, hy nghe mt nh vn thnh cng k li con ng s nghip ca mnh. Bn cng c th xin li khuyn t cc v khch, mong mun h nhn bn lm hc tr hay xin email ca hc gi th hi kin, t nguyn vng. Nu bn hng hi v chng t c nng lc cng am m ca mnh, bn s c ch , v bit u, con ng s nghip trong tng lai ca bn s rng m hn. Tham d nhng bi ni chuyn ca cc v khch rt th v v c ch cho bn. Bn s ho hng hn vi lnh vc mnh theo ui hay ang p , thm ch bn s ho hng n mt ng. Duy tr iu mt hay hai ln mt thng s gip bn rt nhiu trn con ng vn n thnh cng. Hy thp ln ngn la tr tu trong bn.

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29.

Hc thm mt chuyn ngnh hay ngnh ph.

Hc thm mt chuyn ngnh hay ngnh ph? Bn ang a ng khng? Ti khng c thi gian! Ngc ! y l nhng phn ng thng thy i vi mt ngh t thy ny. Hc thm mt chuyn ngnh hay ngnh ph l mt vic tt bi nhng l do ht sc hin nhin. Bn s tt nghip vi kin thc chuyn su khng ch ca mt ngnh hc. N cng gip bn lun tp trung trong nhng thng nm hc ti trng. V quan trng nht, hc thm mt ngnh na s gip bn gy c n tng khi xin vic, np n vo cao hc hay ng c cho cc gii thng v hc bng. V mc d nhiu ngi cho rng hc thm mt ngnh no s tn thi gian kinh khng, tn tt lnh l: iu khng ng u. Hc thm mt lnh vc khng c ngha bn cn hc nhiu mn hn bnh thng. Gi s bn hc mt chuyn ngnh, v trong mt hc k thng thng, bn hc 5 mn: 2 chuyn ngnh v 3 mn bt k no . V nu bn hc thm mt ngnh ph, hy ngh xem, trong mt hc k, bn cng ch hc 5 mn. Ch khc mt ch, bn i 1 mn bt k thnh 1 mn chuyn ngnh ph. iu ny tht n gin! Thc s mn hc ty chn v mn hc bt buc ca chuyn ngnh th hai hay ngnh ph, v bn cht khng khc nhau cht no. CHng u l cc mn hc c s tn ch nh nhau, u khin bn hng th, v chng buc bn hon thnh khi lng cng vic tng ng. im ct yu y l : Hc thm mt chuyn ngnh khng qu gian kh. Tri li, ch l mt cch tp trung quyt nh ca bn v cc lp hc bn mun ng k tham gia. V tp trung l rt tt. N nhc nh bn v nhng ngi khc rng: bn l 1 sv nghim tc vi nhng mi quan tm thc s. B quyt y l: ln k hoch sm v t m. Ngay khi bn quyt nh chuyn ngnh 2 ca mnh, hy b ra 1 bui ti tm hiu nhng yu cu v cc mn hc c th. Vit ra k hoch r rng v nhng mn hc bn s ng k v

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thi im tham gia nhng lp hc ny. Mi khi la chn lp hc vo u k, bn cn lm mt k hoch. l tt c nhng g bn phi lm. Mt khc, nu bn ang nm cui trong trng i hc, cha hn l ht hy vng u. Rt nhiu sv gn nh hon thnh cc mn hc ca chuyn ngnh 2 m khng mt mi. Hy xem bng im ca mnh. C lnh vc no m bn hc nhiu mn bn cnh cc mn chuyn ngnh khng? i vi hu ht sv, cu tr li l c. C sv chuyn ngnh Ting Anh nhng li s hu kh nhiu tn ch ting Php do tham d mt k hc nc ngoi, mt sv ngnh Lch s trong sut 2 nm nay li tham d nhiu hi tho v tm l hc. i vi cc nhm mn ph trong bng im, hy xem xem bn cn bn cn bao nhiu tn ch na hon thnh mt ngnh ph. Kt qu ca vic ny thng kh bt ng. i vi 1sv nm 3 hoc u nm th 4, vic nhn ra rng mnh ch cn hc thm 2 hay 3 mn hon thnh 1 chuyn ngnh na m mnh vn khng nh theo ui l hon ton bnh thng. Nu bn d nh theo hc mt lng va va sut 4 nm, th d bn quyt nh theo ui ngnh no i na, bn cng thiu tp trung trong tri nghim hc tp ca mnh. Thay v hc mn hc t chn d t, nhng sv thnh cng thng tn dng ti a cc tri nghim trng. V vy, hy hc thm mt chuyn ngnh hoc ngnh ph ti a ha nhng thnh cng ca bn. Lm giu hoi bo ca bn

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Nu bn thch ch i hn l hnh ng vi ngh iu tt p s n vi nhng ai bit ch i c th ri bn s t c iu mnh mun. Nhng thnh cng ch n vi nhng ngi sn sng bt tay vo hnh ng. Vi h, ch i chng khc no cc hnh. H mun bt tay vo tm kim v thc hin ngay. V vy hy dng li mt cht im li nhng mc tiu bn theo ui. Bao nhiu trong s s khin bn tr thnh ngi xut sc nht nu hon thnh? Bao nhiu trong s khin ging vin cp ti bn trong mt bui hp ca khoa? Bao nhiu s

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gip bn c xng tn trong cc c gii thng? Nu cu tr li ca bn l khng g c, th n lc cn lm giu hoi bo ca bn. D nhin, khng cn thit phi nhc li rng: i hc l ni bn th nghim nhng iu mi m v c nhiu tri nghim khc nhau. Tuy nhin, s khc bit gia mt sinh vin thnh cng v mt sinh vin bnh thng l mt sinh vin thnh cng lun tm kim nhng hon cnh m h c th thc s y ti nng ca mnh ln mc cao nht. y l ct li ca vic lm giu hoi bo ca bn. Hy chn nhng d n hoc nhng cam kt quan trng nht m bn ang tham gia, v nng cao tiu ch thnh cng ca bn. V d, nu bn hc chuyn ngnh s phm, v bn mi ch t mc tiu hc tt ht mc c th trong lp, bn c th lm giu hoi bo ca mnh bng cch tr thnh ngi chm im cho lp hc i cng, chm ch thu thp phn hi ca sinh vin, v n cui k, hy ni chuyn vi gio s v nhng bin php gip ci thin cc d n trong lp. Chc chn, nhng iu ny s khin bn hng th, l cha k n n tng tt m ging vin dnh cho bn. Hoc c th bn l sinh vin ngnh sinh hc, hin l cng vic tr l nghin cu. Bn c th lm giu hoi bo ca mnh bng cch t to mt c s d liu s dng gip cho nhng nghin cu vin tp hp cc ti liu trch dn. Hoc bn c th hy sinh 2 ngy cui tun thit lp 1 h thng t ng thu thp bng biu l ra tn n hng tun nu t tay thu nhp tng phn. iu ny hn s rt n tng. Bn khng cn phi lm kh bn thn bng hng ng cam kt v hnh ng; thay v vy, ch cn xem xt li danh sch nhng mc tiu c ca mnh v a cc mc tiu ny ln mt tm cao mi. Thc s khng kh m mang hoi bo, nhng rt t ngi ngh ti vic ny. y l mt k nng then cht vi bt k ai mun tr thnh mt nhn vt xut sc ni tri. Chn la mc tiu, khm ph hng i.

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Chng ti a ra cho bn nhiu quy tc ni rng bn cn theo ui nhng mc tiu tham vng trong cuc i. y l mt li khuyn rt quan trng. Mt khi say m theo ui nhng d n y tham vng, bn s tr nn c bit so vi nhng sinh vin hc go bnh thng. Nhng sinh vin xut sc bao gi cng y hng khi, h lun sng to ra nhng phng php tt hn nhm t c mc tiu, h sn ui cc c hi hp dn bi h khng th tng tng c cuc sng ca h s ra sao nu thiu chng. Ngc li, nhng k hc go li t b tt c v im s. Mi hoi bo vt khi vic hc hnh chm ch lm hc thy tn thi gian. H th lm vic nhiu hn thay v dnh thi gian suy ngh tr nn thng minh hn, v h, c khi, chng th v g hn ci chn ca. Bn hn khng mun tr thnh k hc go. Bn chc chn s mun theo ui nhng hoi bo cao xa. Tuy nhin, vic theo ui cc mc tiu li khng h n gin. Khi bn quyt tm thc hin mt d n y tham vng, lm th no bin gic m thnh hin thc? Mt trong nhng sai lm thng gp nht l s thiu linh hot. V d, mt sinh vin ngnh lch s quyt tm tham gia vo cng vic nghin cu khoa hc. C c th chn cch tip cn l gp g tng v ging vin a thch ca mnh v hi xem liu h c c mt tr l nghin cu hay khng. y l mt k hoch hay, nhng iu g s xy ra nu h ni rng cha cn mt ngi nh vy? Liu c y c nn tip tc lm theo cch , hc k no cng lin h vi ging vin xem tnh hnh c kh quan hn khng? y l mt phng php, nhng cng c th l mt cch lm chng mang li kt qu g. Thay v th, sinh vin nn vch ra k hoch v th nhiu hng i tng t. C y c th tm kim tht nhiu nhng qu hc bng hay khon h tr nghin cu cho sinh vin. C y c th hng hi tham gia vit nh gi nghin cu v gi nhng bi vit ca mnh cho nhng t bo dnh cho sinh vin lin quan lnh vc khoa hc x hi. Ngoi ra c c th tm kim nhng v tr lm vic t xa cc trng i hc hay cc vin nghin cu khc cho php c th tham gia vo nghin cu. Vi nhiu cch tip cn, c hi ca sinh vin ny s tr nn thc t hn rt nhiu.
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Nu bn mun t c thnh cng trc mt mc tiu y tham vng, xin hy nh iu ny: Khi quyt nh mt im n, hy khm ph tht nhiu hng i. V khi bn bt u khm ph hng i, hy vit ra nhng hng i c th thnh cng, loi b nhng cch lm tht bi v lun nh gi c h mi c th hin ra. C gng on nh ton b con ng dn ti mc tiu l khng th. Hy bit chn la mc tiu nh l cch lm thng minh nhm ti a ha nhng c hi thnh cng ca bn. ng ngh ngi gia cc lp hc

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Chng c g ng ngc nhin khi bit rng, mt khi bc chn vo trng i hc, bn khng ch hc lin tc 5 gi mt ngy nh thi hc sinh na. Ty thuc vo lch hc nh trng, thng thng, trong hu ht cc ngy bn c th s phi thng xuyn i mt vi khong thi gian ngh gia cc mn hc. Khong thi gian c th l 10 pht, c th l vi gi, nhng bn ang sng trong mt thi i cn bit qu trng tng giy tng pht mt, cch bn s dng qung thi gian nh th no rt quan trng. Di y l mt s cm d thng thy: Bn va thot khi lp hc mt mi bui sng. Mt ting na mi n lp hc tip theo bt u vo bui chiu. y c v nh khong thi gian ph hp ngh ngi mt cht bng cch lt web, hoc ng mt gic ngn, thm ch my gic lin, bi bn qu vi v v mt mi lm bt c iu g hiu qu trong thi gian ngn ngi nh vy, ng khng? D nghe c v cc k c l, nhng iu hon ton sai. y mi l iu bn nn lm: ng ngh ngi gia cc lp hc. C mt l do chnh ng cho quy tc ny, v l do hon ton lin quan n vn ng lc. Khi bn b ra khi ging vo bui sng, bn phi tri qua mt cuc u tranh. Tuy nhin, mt ly c ph, mt bt cm rang v nhng bc i si ni vo lp s thc y bn. Khi tit hc u tin tri qua, bn s dn tnh to n. Bn trao i vi sinh vin khc, bn c gng hiu bi ging ca ging
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vin, bn hy vng thu ht c s ch ca c nng (hay anh chng) xinh p ngi bn th hai ng lc ca bn trong sut mt ngy bt u hnh thnh. Th nhng, nu sau lp hc u tin ny, bn quay v k tc x hoc v nh ngh ngi, ng lc ca bn s chng li. Sau bn li phi khi ng li cho lp hc tip theo. V nu bn tip tc ngh thm ln na cho lp hc sau , bn s phi khi ng li t u. Vn y l bn ch c tng y nng lng cho mt ngy, v bn khng th lng ph n bng cch lp i lp li vic to ng lc cho bn thn. Thay v th, bn cn thc hin mt chin lc nhm qun l nhng qung ngh gia cc lp hc. Hy s dng khong thi gian trng hon thnh nhng cng vic cn lm. ng tm tr bn c c hi ngh ngi. Tuy vy cng ng nhi nht qu nhiu vic. Vi pht ngh gii lao ngn gia cc mn hc khng phi l khong thi gian lm bi tp v nh. Thay v vy, hy s dng khong thi gian ny quan tm n nhng vic nh nht. Trc khi bc vo lp hc sng, hy lp danh sch nhng cng vic bn cn hon thnh mua kem nh rng, gp ging vin trong gi hnh chnh, gi th. Lm nh vy bn c th duy tr ng lc ca mnh bng cch i thng t lp hc ti nhng ni cn hon thnh nhng vic nh ny. Nu c th, hy trnh quay li phng k tc; bn rt d b phn tn. Bn c th s dng my tnh hay phng hc cng cng gn lp hc hon thnh bi tp hay gi mail nh d nh. Duy tr ng lc c ngy khng qu kh. Ch cn bn lun trong trng thi hot ng, khng ngh n vic gii tr hay ng nng sau bui hc, bn d dng lm c iu . Khi bn bt u n gi t hc bui ti, bn hn vn trn y nng lng v d dng hon thnh c k hoch trong ngy. S dng t ng h s

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Li khuyn ny cn xa l vi rt nhiu bn sinh vin nc ta, nhng nu bn mun mi th quanh bn gn gng hn, v khng bao gi phi cung cung
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tm th ny th khc nh phong cch ca nhiu ngi, bn nn mua mt chic t ng h s. n gin l bn ch cn u t mua mt chic t st hoc t nha m nhiu gia nh dng ng qun o v s dng chng ng h s. iu ny c tc ng rt ln n vic gim cng thng v mang li hiu qu cng vic cho bn. tng y rt n gin. Khi hc i hc, ln u tin sng t lp, bn phi i mt vi mt khi lng ln cc bi lun v cc ti liu quan trng khc. Nhng bin lai thu nh, mu n ng k chuyn khoa, lch hc v tham gia cc s kin. y l cha k ti liu ca tng mn nh t chng trnh hc, cng bi ging, cc bi tp. Bn c th s dng phng php truyn thng ca sinh vin l qung i ri tm kim, nhng giy t quan trng u quanh bn hc, ging nm, ri n khi cn tm mt ti liu no , bn lc tung mi th ln, tm kim n khi thy n hoc khng th bn coi nh n vnh vin mt ri. Vn l, khi bn mt ti liu quan trng vi hng ng thi gian sc so cc ngn ko v tp v, s cng thng ca bn s tng ln. V vy, chng ta cn bit mi th nm chnh xc ch no. Mt khc, khi hc i hc, bn s chu rt nhiu p lc, bi v y, bn khng cn phi i mt vi mt vn nh th ny na. Hy mua mt chic t ng ti liu hoc t nht l gi nha c ngn ng gi y t. Mi khi c ti liu no cn gi li, hy n vo mt cp ti liu c sn hoc nu cha c cp ti liu no dnh cho n, hy b ra 30s dn nhn mt cp ti liu mi. y l cch lu tr ti liu n gin nht, ch mt cht thi gian thc hin, v cc k hiu qu. Tht sung sng bit bao khi c c ti liu mnh cn ch trong vi giay. Bn s cm th y mnh ging nh mt chuyn gia t chc gii, v lm vy s gip bn trnh c nhng mt mi khng ng c. S dng mt h thng lu tr n gin hon ton thit thc vi bn. Hy quan tm n nhng vn hc tp ln lao khc; ng vn t chc chim qu nhiu s quan tm v nng lng ca bn.

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34.

Tm mt a im hc b mt

Trong quy tc ng hc trong phng k tc, chng ti gii thch rng trong khng gian trng i hc c rt nhiu yu t khin bn xao lng, bi th, hc mt ni yn tnh, khng c s phn tn rt quan trng. Bn bt buc phi ghi nh iu ny bi hc tp tt, chng ta cn b ra nhiu s n lc mi c th tp trung u c cho vic hp th kin thc hiu qu, v n th vin l bc u tin. Mt khc, bn cng khng bao gi nn hc trong phng k tc. Tri li, nn tm ni no tht yn tnh v gip bn cch bit vi th gii n o ngoi kia. Lm nh vy, nng sut lm vic ca bn s tng ln rt nhiu. Tuy nhin, cn mt vn khc. i vi nhng bi hc phc tp nht, kh hiu nht v quan trng nht, i khi s khng c hiu qu nu bn ch ngi vo ch no trong th vin. Bn cn phi tm ra a im b mt ca ring mnh mt v tr bn bit rng lun trng rng trong mt gc ging nh tu vin - ni yn tnh hon ton, mang li s tp trung ti a, v mi s phn tn khng th xm nhp. Ni cng khc thng hay c o cng tt. Bn hy b cht thi gian khm ph nhng ch n nu khc l v nhng a im b mt trong ta nh a thch ca bn trong khun vin trng. Chc chn bn s tm thy mt a im hc b mt qu gi cho ring mnh. B quyt s dng hiu qu nht a im b mt l ng n qu thng xuyn. Qua thi gian, hc mt a im c lp nh vy s tr nn mt mi. Nu lc no bn cng hon thnh tt c cng vic nh c ti liu, gii ton v vit cc bi lun ngn , bn s nhanh chng cm thy c n. Thm vo , nh bt k sinh vin i hc no, nu bn hon thnh qu nhiu cng vic bun t ch mt a im nht nh, bn s bt u cm thy khng thoi mi . Hn bn khng mun ph hoi c o b mt ca mnh, v vy, hy ch s dng n cho nhng bi tp ln, bi tp gia k hay cui k, v nhng bi lun tht s phc tp. Vi nhng cng vic n gin cn li, hy thng xuyn i a im v hc nhng ni nh sng, quen thuc, nh th vin. S dng kho lo a im hc

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b mt s gia tng hiu qu cho bn. Khi gp kh khn, bn s lun t tin khi bit rng, c mt ni s gip bn tp trung cao t kt qu nh mong i. Bit cch s dng a im hc b mt mt ch thng mnh, bn c th ti a ha kh nng hc tp ca mnh. Bt u nhanh, kt thc chm

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Thng thng, khi phi vit bi lun, n tp thi hc k, hon thnh h s xin hc bng hay bt k bi tp ln no, cc sinh vin thng dng di cho n hn cht mi cung cung lm. Im ni bt ca phng php ny l bt u chm, kt thc nhanh. C th bn nhn ra mt tri ca phng php cng thng . Lm nh vy ch khin bn vt chn ln c khi hon thnh mi bi tp. Rt nhiu sv khng thc c rng hoc vn lm theo cch ny v y l l do, v sao nhiu ngi trong s h kit sc khi hc i hc. May mn thay, c mt phng php khc, bn cn mt quy tc ring. tr thnh sv xut sc, bn phi t b suy ngh bt u chm, kt thc nhanh, thay vo hy tip cn mi bi tp bng mc tiu bt u nhanh, kt thc chm. l s thay th khn ngoan v mang li s khc bit rt ln. Chng hn, bn cn hon thnh h s xin ti tr cho cu lc b bn iu hnh. Nu c hai tun hon thnh, hy ln k hoch sao cho h s gn xong ngay vo cui tun u tin. Hoc, bn c chuyn i du lch trong 3 ngy ti. Hy sp xp c vo bui sng, khng phi ti khuya ca ngy hm trc. Nu bn c bi thuyt trnh quan trng cn nghin cu, hy hon thnh cng vic dn dn trong nhiu ngy. D l bi tp ln hay nh, hy c thi quen bt u nhanh, kt thc chm. Nu bn c gng hon thnh cng nhiu cng vic ti ht mc c th, cuc sng ca bn s bt vi v hn. Nu thc hin, bn s thnh cng hn rt nhiu. V iu ny cng gip ch cho bn trong cuc sng hng ngy.

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Phn 2: Phong cch sng ca mt sinh vin thng minh

36. To ra Nghi thc ngy Ch Nht Vi mt sinh vin i hc y hoi bo, ngy Ch Nht l ngy quan trng nht trong tun. Cho d mt bui sng Ch Nht tht hp dn khi bn c cun trn trn gh sofa v xem cc chng trnh hp dn trn TV, nhng bn nht thit
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phi cng li. Ti sao? l bi ngy Ch nht to nn tm trng chung cho c tun. iu ny hon ton chnh xc. Nu bn ch ng kim sot ngy Ch nht ca mnh, bn s trn y nng lng bt u mt tun mi. Cn nu bn ngy Ch nht tri i nhm chn, tun ti ca bn s nhanh chng ha thnh tr chi ui bt. Vy th lm sao bn vt qua c s cm d ca vic nm di v bin ngy Ch nht tr nn c ngha? B quyt l hy tin hnh mt nghi thc tp trung vo tt c cc ngy Ch nht thc hin nhng vic nh thc tm tr bn v khin bn tr nn nng ng hn. Hy va c bo va thng thc mt tch c ph m c, i do cng mt ngi bn, chy b ri tm nc nng, hoc dnh thi gian tm kim trong mt hiu sch gn nh. Sau , vi nng lng tr tu c khi dy v kh nng tp trung mnh m hn, hy ngi xung mt ni yn tn trong th vin v bt u lm vic. Trong khi nhng sinh vin khc ang say ng th bn s c mt ngy trn vn, khng b xo trn c th tnh trc nhng cng vic ca mnh. Nu bn hi h sut c k ngh n tn ti Ch nht, bn s thy cc k u oi vo sng th Hai. Mt ngy Ch nht hng phn s em n cho bn tm trng tt v ng lc cn thit cho nhng ngy tip theo. Kim sot c ngy Ch nht ngha l bn kim sot c c tun mi ca mnh. 37. n mc nghim chnh n lp hc Qun th thao, o phng bn, dp x ngn, v m li trai khng c tnh l trang phc nghim chnh. Cng tng t nh vy vi bt k loi qun o no m bn mc i ng t m hm trc, hay nhng b thng mc ti phng tp th thao. Bn nn dnh thi gian v sinh c nhn v mc mt b t t vo mi sng trc khi n trng. iu ny khng c ngha l bn phi lng ly nh th va h cnh t kinh thi trang Mialn, tuy v y, bn cng khng nn trng li thi nh th va mi bc ra t ging ng. Ti sao n mc nghim chnh n lp li quan trng n vy? C hai l do. Th nht, lm nh v y khin bn cm thy t tin hn v bn thn mnh. Nu bn
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trng gn gng p , c th anh bn d thng hoc c bn duyn dng hng gh u s ti bn. iu ny s khin bn vui. V khi bn hi lng, bn s c nhiu nng lng hn v tp trung tt hn trong lp hc. Th hai, n mc nghim tc s khin bn nhn nhn nghim tc v ngy lm vic. Nu bn trng ging nh va bc ra khi ging, rt d ngh n vic tip tc leo ln . Nu bn n mc nghim chnh, bn s t nhc nh bn thn rng bn sn sng bt u v kim sot ngy mi. Con cng p nh b lng. Con ngi cng p hn nh n mc chnh t, sch s. Mt cht thi gian la chn trang phc ph hp vi mnh, bn s thu c nhiu iu c li. 38. Chm tp th thao Sc khe ngy cng quan trng vi bn, nht l trong cuc sng vi v v nhiu p lc nh hin nay. Tp th thao cso mt sc mnh k diu i vi sinh vin ni ring v tt c mi ngi ni chung. N em n cho bn c huch cho nng lng c th cng ng lc tr tu, iu ny tt hn rt nhiu so vi bt k liu thuc kch thch no. Mi ngi u cm thy hi lng hn vi bn thn khi bc ra t phng tp, cm gic th thi v khe mnh hn. Tuy vy, duy tr vic luyn tp th thao u n l vic cc k kh khn. Nhng iu ny khng c ngha l bn khng lm c. Vy u l gii php cho vn ny? Hy dng ngay vic t huyn hoc bn thn. ng tranh lun vi bn thn v quyt nh i tp th thao. Thay v th, bin n thnh mt thi quen, ging nh n lp hay nh rng hng ngy. Bn c th ng k tp mt tun ba bui cc phng tp th dc v chm ch n phng tp vo mt mc thi gian c nh. Hoc bn c th chn cch tp hiu qu v tit kim chi ph khng km, l tp cng vin. Mi bui chiu, hay t nht l vo hai ngy cui tun, bn hy sn sng chy ra ngoi, ht th bu khng kh trong lnh v vn ng khe khon. Nu bn luyn tp nhm ti to nng lng v tng cng sc khe (ngc li vi kht khao pht trin c bp), hy thit lp mt l trnh nhanh. Ch dng mt gi lm tt c: n phng tp, luyn tp v tr
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v phng k tc. Nhng l trnh nhanh ny tn dng ti a thi gian, v v th d dng sp xp l trnh ca bn vo u bui chiu hoc sng sm khi t c kh nng mt tp trung v nhng vic khc trong ngy. Hy bin n thnh mt vic lm khng th thng lng. Nu bn n phng tp vo th Hai, th T v th Su, hy dnh mt cht thi gian vo th Ba v th Nm t luyn tp ti nh. Vo th By v Ch nht, nu c thi gian v khng qu mt mi, hy luyn tp nh nhng. Tuy nhin, nu bn khng luyn tp vo hai ngy ny cng khng sao, ch cn nh rng vic luyn tp trong nhng ngy khc l khng th b c. ng mt cng tranh lun nhng vic bn bit chc c li cho mnh nh tp th dc u n, hy dnh ch ca bn cho nhng cuc u tranh cam go hn, nh l tt chng trnh TV a thch i khi ang c sch bo. Hy gi cho bn thn mnh lun thnh cng v nng ng 39. Tr thnh ch tch cu lc b Ni thng ra, ch nhng sinh vin km ci mi ngh rng mnh khng c thi gian tham gia cc cu lc b. Nhng sinh vin trung bnh tham gia vo cc t chc ny, cn nhng sinh vin thnh cng iu hnh cc cu lc b. Hn y l ln u bn nghe thy iu ny. Bn hon ton c kh nng qun l mt t chc sinh vin trong trng i hc. iu ny chng c g ng s c. N khng n mc qu phc tp hay tn thi gian nh bn tng, v hon ton nm trong tm tay bn. Nhn chung, nu bn l ngi c kh nng t chc tt, iu hnh mt cu lc b c th khng n gin, song cng khng h qu sc cht no. Hy ghi nh iu ny, hu ht cc sinh vin u vi v ng k cc hot ng ngoi kha v hi lng vi vic ch tham gia. Tuy nhin, bn hn mun mnh l ngi ng u nhng hot ng nh th! Tm mt cu lc b m bn yu thch trong trng v tham gia vo cng sm cng tt. Hy lm vic chm ch, tham d mi cuc hp, bt c khi no c c

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hi hy m ng nhiu v tr khc nhau, v theo ui con ng dn ti v tr lnh o. Nu bn c mt tng to bo v mt t chc cha tn ti trng th cn tuyt hn. Hy b ra mt nm lm vic vi t chc tn ti tch ly hiu bit v hot ng ca mt t chc sinh vin trong trng. Sau kin ngh vi nh trng c h tr nhng ngun lc cn thit cho vic thnh lp t chc ca bn. Ti sao y li l mt hay? Bi rt t tri nghim trng i hc mang li nhiu li ch hn iu hnh mt cu lc b. Bn s c c s t tin cn thit khi dn dt cc sinh vin khc hng n mt mc tiu, v bn s duy tr c mt tm nhn tt thng qua vic c gng t c nhng thnh tch khng lin quan n vn hc tp. Bn s gp nhng ngi cng chia s s thch v gn kt vi nhau bng nhng mc tiu chung theo cch t thy lp hc. V d nhin, khi xin vic hay cng tuyn vo cc gii thng v cc chng trnh o to cnh tranh, vic l ch tch mt cu lc b s gip bn vt ln nhng ng c vin khc. Mt chng trnh hc ch ton cc vn hn i khi tht nhm chn. Nhng ng lng ph thi gian bng nhng cam kt lng lo; bn ch cn tp trung vo mt vi mc tiu ln. Nu bn tht s mong mun tr thnh mt sinh vin xut sc, th qun l mt t chc sinh vin trong trng l mt khi u tuyt vi. Rt nhiu sinh vin trong trng t mi trng cu lc b, rt nhiu chnh khch i ln t on thanh nin. Tham gia lnh o cu lc b, bn s trng thnh hn rt nhiu. 40. ng k tham gia mt hot ng no ngay tun hc u tin Vi rt nhiu sinh vin, tun hc u tin bc i hc l khong thi gian rt kh chu. Bn cha thc s quen bit ai. Bn phi hc cch thch nghi v quen dn trong mi trng vn hon ton xa l. C ngi t tin th hin mnh m ng. C ngi li chn kiu phn ng khc l tr thnh n s, rt lui vo trong
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phng k tc x v lng l chun b cho cc bui hc. Nu c lng l mt mnh, bn cng khng c cch bit hon ton nh mnh mun u. D c gng n m y bn vn s tnh c gp g, v chm mt vi nhng sinh vin khc. Hn na, cch lm ny c th khin bn b l nhiu c hi gip bn sm tr nn si ni, dn d. V d nhin, s si ni v ngun cm hng vi nhng g bn theo ui li l nhin liu ca mt sinh vin xut sc. Th nn, thay v ln trn v cho nhng ngy u i hc v tnh tri qua, hy ht sc trn trng n bng vic ng k tham gia mt hot ng no trong tun u. c th l tham gia vo i bng ca trng, vit bo, nhm hot ng x hi, i pht thanh, bui ng din vn ngh, hay mt cu lc b thng xuyn tho lun cc vn quc t. C mt lng ng kinh ngc cc hot ng bn c th la chn chn ra mt hot ng m bn hng th nht. Ngay lp tc bn s gp g nhng ngi mi, v ch ngay trong k hc u tin bn c cm hng v nhng mc tiu hot ng ngoi kha ca mnh. S kh chu, hay tnh rt r ca bn s bin mt khi bn nm trong mt nhm c chung s thch, cho hi, chuyn tr vi nhau khi tnh c gp th vin. Bn cnh , tham gia nhng d n bn ngoi lp hc l cch tuyt vi bt u tng tc cho hoi bo v ngun cm hng cn thit cho bn bc i hc. Nhng sinh vin hi lng nht trng i hc l nhng sinh vin tham gia nhiu hot ng nht. Khi vch ra nhng mc tiu theo ui bc i hc, bn s thy tham gia vo cc hot ng ca trng cng sm cng c li. 41. Tnh nguyn khng khoa trng Lm tnh nguyn l mt ng gp tuyt vi cho cng ng. Trng i hc no cng c rt nhiu chng trnh tnh nguyn, t i bn cng tin cho n cc d n dch v nhn o, gy qu t thin, t chc gio dc. Li ch t nhng hot ng cng ng rt r rng: bn ang gip nhng ngi cn gip . y l mt vic lm cao qu, v sinh vin nhn chung l mt b phn ca x hi vi l
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tng v nhit huyt thc s lm cho nhng n lc t thin tr thnh mt phn trong cuc sng ca mnh. V vy hy bin iu thnh mt phn trong cuc sng ca bn. C c tm nhn v th gii bn ngoi trng hc khng nhng rt quan trng, m cng hin thi gian ca bn nhm ci thin cuc sng ca nhng ngi khc cng l mt vic lm rt tt. Nhng ng ch tnh nguyn, m hy tnh nguyn mt cch khng n o. Nu bn mun thc s nhn c li ch c nhn y t hot ng cng ng ca mnh, ng ni nhiu v n. ng phn nn vi bn b rng bn tn nhiu thi gian, ng k l s ho phng ca bn trong nhng cuc i thoi, v ng khoe khoang cng vic tnh nguyn ca bn trong cc bui phng vn xin vic. Ni ngn gn, hy gi nhng tri nghim cho ring mnh. Khi tnh nguyn khng cht khoa trng, bn ang lm thanh khit nhng ng c ca bn. Gip ngi khc m khng cn nhn li nhng li khen v s cng nhn l mt cch tuyt vi gip tng cng thc v gi tr ca bn thn, t m bn sc ring, v lm vng chc thm nhng gi tr ct li ca bn. l nhng c tnh s gip bn tin xa trong cuc sng sau ny. Hy lm nhng vic tt khng v l do no khc ngoi mong mun tr thnh mt ngi tt. iu s gip bn xc nh r hn con ng n tng lai. 42. Ln k hoch cho nhng l c ri ri Nhng khong thi gian rnh ri va l im may v va l im g cho bt k sinh vin thnh cng no. Mt mt, hu ht nhng k nim p nht ca bn s n t nhng bui i chi vi bn b, tn gu, chi in t v xem nhng b phim hp dn bt ng. Mt khc, bn rt d nh mt nng sut khi tri theo s quyn r ca nhng tr gii tr. C l bn s bt ng khi bit rng vic t thuyt ph bn thn ngh ngi thm mt lc na l cc k d, ngay c khi sau bn cn rt nhiu vic cn lm. Bn cng c th thy mnh ang b nhn chm trong mt vn cn t hn, l cm thy ti li bt c khi no bn c gng ngh ngi,
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lun lo lng rng sau c th vn cn mt s vic cn hon thnh. Bn khng cn v khng nn i mt vi nhng vn nh vy. Rt may mn, c mt cch gip bn trnh c nhng vn trn v bo m rng bn c y thi gian ngh ngi v gii tr, l: ln k hoch cho nhng lc ri ri. Nhiu ngi cho rng thi gian rnh ri l bt k lc no h hon ton khng lm vic. Tt c nhng g bn cn lm l dp suy ngh y i, v nh rng thi gian lm vic l bt k lc no bn khng ngh ngi hay gii tr. Mi sng khi ln lch lm vic ca mnh, bn cn lm hai vic. u tin, chn mt thi im kt thc ngy lm vic ca mnh. V d, bn ly mi gi ti lm thi im kt thc ngy lm vic, vy th t thi im cho n lc i ng bn ch ngh ngi m thi. Th hai, quyt nh c th u l lc bn s ngh ngi trong ngy . V d, bn c th quyt nh dnh na gi xem tivi sau ba tra, hai gi vo bui chiu i tp th dc v i chi vi bn b, v mt hoc hai gi trc hay sau ba ti nm ngh. Tt c nhng khong thi gian cn li trong ngy bn s lm vic. Khi bn lm vic trong ngy, s khng bao gi bn phi t hi liu bn c nn ngh ngi khng, d l khi bn thc s lm vic hay trong thi gian ngh ngi nh ca mnh. iu ny khng ch gim i nhng gi ngh pht sinh bt ng m cn tng cng tnh k lut trong cng vic ca bn mi ngi u lm vic chm ch hn trc mt k ngh nh sn. Bng cch o ngc cch ngh ca bn v thi gian ri, bn khng ch lm vic nhiu hn, m khi ngh ngi, bn s ngh ngi thoi mi hn. S khng c ni s hi thng trc no ni rng bn v trch nhim hay lng qun vic g quan trng. Ln k hoch cho nhng lc ri ri nghe kh ng s lc u, song khng phi vy. Bn khng thc s gim hay tng lng thi gian ri bn c trong ngy, bn ch sp xp v thng nht chng, t bn c th ti a ha nhng li ch khi quay li vi cng vic. n k hoch cho khong thi gian rnh ri l mt cch lm n gin, li c i ng, v l phng php tt nng cao nng sut ca bn.

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43. Trang tr ph ng uy tc ny hn ng vi nhiu nam sinh hn l n sinh, bi d bt k l do g, cc anh chng trong tui i hc thng khng nhn thc hay thch th vi vic c tnh ha ch mnh. Tuy nhin, nhng th sau y khng c tnh l trang tr: bt k p-phch no qung co cho b phim n khch nh arry ott r, hng ng hay m tay th p, bt c bc chn dung no ct ra t cc tp ch Th thao, n ng, Nhp sng s; bt c th g c v tng c dn trn nhng bc tng ca cc qun bar hay qun nhu. Thit k cn ph ng ca bn cn to ra mt khng gian va thoi mi va phn nh c c tnh ring ca bn. iu ny khng c ngha l bn in cung trang hong n vi nhng ni tht lng ly, bc tng y cc khung nh cu k, ga tri ging tip mu vi b thm v rm, hoc khng khip hn, nhng chm n xanh . Nhng khng c ngha bn ch t dim nhng bc tng kh khan bng mt vi bc nh tm thng. Ti sao phi trang hong phng c? Bi v lm vy s c nh hng tt n tm trng v nng lng ca bn. Tnh dy, i ng, ngh ngi trong mt cn phng thoi mi v mang m mu sc ring ca mnh tht d chu. Vic n lp, chun b cho cc bi kim tra, vit lun tht mt mi v c mt khng gian thoi mi n dt l cch gii ta cng thng tuyt vi. Cha k n vic mi ngi thch lui ti nhng ni m cng. Mt cn phng thit k p s hp dn nhiu ngi ti thm, gp phn nng cao i sng x hi v tm trng ca bn. Nu cn phng ca bn ton mt mu, bn s khng bao gi cm thy hon ton thoi mi. V iu ny c ngha l nhng cng thng xut hin trong ngy s chng bao gi c gii ta. Theo thi gian, chng s hy hoi nng lng v gim thiu kh nng hc tp ca bn. Mi trng xung quanh r rng to ra s khc bit . Hy tm ra mt ci g thc s khin bn cm thy hng th v kt hp n vo cn phng ca mnh. Bn chi guitar? Hy treo cy guitar ln tng. Bn yu thch ngh thut Chu u? Hy mua ba chic khung nh mu en, t mt tm nh vo mi chic, ri treo chng so le trn tng sao cho tht p. Bn l
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mt phim? Hy tm nhng tm nh trong hai hay ba phim bn cho rng thc s c nh hng ln n bn. t chng vo nhng khung nh n gin c th d dng mua cc ca hng. Treo chng ln tng, v gn mt chic n nh trn mi bc nh. Khi trang hong li cn phng, hy tm nhng th thay th cho nh sng n-ng trong cn phng ca bn. Hai chic n cy v mt chic n bn c th chiu sng cho cn phng thm rc r. Tri mt tm thm hoa dy xung sn, bi nhng tm thm r tin hoc sn nh trng khng trng rt chn. Mua mt ni tht no khin bn thy thch. C th l mt chic sofa nh hay gh bnh, hoc bt c th g mm mi d chu m bn c th ngi vo khi xem TV hoc c sch. Khng cn thit xoay chuyn to ra s khc bit. 44. Thc hin ch n c li cho sc khe i vi nhiu ngi, mt trong nhng iu tuyt vi nht khi i hc i hc xa nh l c n ung t do thoi mi. H c th n bnh m bui sng, bui tra n m tm v ti n n cm bnh dn ngoi hng. Nghe c v vui, nhng bn khng nn n ung nh vy. Th nht, bn hoc s tng cn, hoc gim cn, v iu ny khng tt cht no cho sc khe ca bn. Th hai, nu bn ch n ton thc n nhanh, bn s thiu vitamin C v cht. Nghe tht kinh khng phi khng? Trn kha cnh c gng thnh cng i hc, l do quan trong nht bn cn thc hin ch n c li cho sc khe l nhm ti a ha nng lng ca bn. Thc n giu cht bo, ng tinh ch, v rt nhiu hi-rt cc-bon tinh ch s khin bn cc k chm chp. Nu bn tng c tp trung sau khi chn mt chic bnh m Donner Kebab hay mt gi snack khoai ty, bn s hiu c mi nguy hi ca nhng thc n khng c li cho sc khe. Ngc li, khi n cm vi rau, tht hoc c, cng nh ung tht nhiu nc, c th bn s c cung cp ngun nng lng ng k trong nhiu gi lin. n thc n c li cho sc khe ging
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nh cung cp thm nhin liu cao cp cho chic xe ca bn; n thc n c hi cho sc khe ging nh nhn phanh t ngt trong khi xe vn bon bon trn ng. D nhin, s rt v l nu bo rng lc no bn cng phi n nhng thc n c li cho sc khe. Chng ta u l con ngi. C nhng lc ta khng th cng li sc quyn r ca mn bnh pi a hay mn m xo nng hi hi. Chng sao nu thi thong bn n nhng mn nh vy. Nhng ng a chng vo khu phn n hng ngy ca bn. Hy c gng n cm vi tht, c v rau qu. Bn cng c th t thng cho mnh ngy cui tun n nhng mn bn thch nhng t dinh dng hoc khng c li cho sc khe ca bn. Ri, khi ngy th Hai ti, hy quay tr li cc ba n cung cp nhiu ngun nng lng . Thc hin ch n c li cho sc khe s gip bn trn y nng lng, khe mnh v hi lng vi cuc sng ca mnh. 45. n mt mnh hai ln trong ngy trng i hc, cc ba n thng ging nh l en v tr sp sn b y sinh vin theo cch khng mong mun, chng thng nut gn nhng khong thi gian ri trong ngy ca bn. Bn dnh thi gian t tp vi mt nhm bn, tm mt bn trng trong phng n, n v tn gu vi bn b, tm cch ra v trc, ri c gng tp trung tr li tip tc lm vic. Tt c nhng vic ly i kh nhiu thi gian ca bn. Chng ti khng c ni dnh thi gian n cm vi bn b l khng tt; chng ti l ng lm v y qu mt ln mt ngy. Nu bn sng trong k tc, hy n ba sng trong phng ca bn, hoc trn ng n lp hc. Nu bn c bui ti bn rn trc mt, hy sp xp n tra vi cc bn ca mnh. Sau , khng nh hng n cng vic, bn c th l y ba ti vo n trong phng k tc. Nu bn i mt vi bui chiu bn rn v bui ti thnh thi, hy sp xp thi gian n ti vi cc bn. Ba tra bn c th n mt mnh phng n va thng thc mt t bo, xen gia nhng cng vic khc trong ngy.

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Thng thng nhng ba n di l th chnh l k ph hoi lch lm vic ca mt sinh vin thnh cng. Quy tc ny tht n gin, nhng n c th gip bn va lm vic hiu qu, li va c th giao thip x hi vi bn b. Dnh thi gian n cm vi bn b l vic tt, gip cc bn hiu nhau v thn thit hn. Tuy nhin, hy n ring mt mnh hai ln trong mt ngy tit kim thi gian 46. Hy dn dp ging ng R rng m bn ng; bn cn dn dp ging ng vo mi sng, tt nht l sau khi thc dy. Hy bin iu ny thnh thi quen khng th b ging nh nh rng hng ngy. Nhng cha phi l tt c. Bn khng nn vt qun o ba bi quanh phng, m nn treo chng vo t hoc treo trn mc o sau khi thay . Hy xp sch ln gi. Hy dn thng rc hng ngy. Nhng vic trn l iu kin c bn c mt phng sch s v gn gng. iu ny rt cn thit. Nhng vic n gin nh dn dp ging ng c nh hng quan trng th no ti thnh cng trng? Mt cn phng sch s khin u c bn tp trung; mt cn phng bn s khin bn b sao nhng. D nhin bn mun c c s tp trung. Cng tp trung bao nhiu, bn cng hon thnh tt cng vic hc hnh by nhiu. Nu bn vp phi nhng hp bnh ko b i, lc tm i tt sch trong ng qun o bn, v thng xuyn phi tm kim quyn sch mnh cn di gm ging, gm t hay ng sau cc thit b in t, th tht kh c hng lm vic. Th hnh dung bn ang vit mt bi lun. Lc , iu g s c ch cho bn hn: sng trong mt cn phng ba bn, bn hc cht y qun o bn v v bnh ko, hay mt cn phng sch s, ngn np vi mt chic bn sch s v y nhng th bn ang cn? Tt nhin, cng c th bn phi sng chung vi mt ngi bn n ng s. Trong trng hp ny, bn hu nh khng th thay i thi quen ca ngi . Tuy nhin, iu ny cng khng th gy kh d cho bn. Hy gi ch ca bn sch s v nhn lm nhng cng vic chung nh rc, qut phng hay dn
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phng nh k. iu ny nghe c v khng cng bng, nhng gi l qu nh so vi vic thnh cng ti trng i hc. Nu bn khng th gi cho phng mnh ngn np, bn s khng bao gi thc s c cm gic cuc i mnh c sp xp r rng. Bng vic gi cho ch ca mnh ngn np, bn s t b sao nhng hn v c cm gic iu khin c mi trng xung quanh bn. iu l ti cn thit gip bn t c nhng mc tiu tham vng ca mnh. Chng ti bit lm nh vy s rt vt v. Nhng vic gi phng sch s l rt quan trng. V iu hn s lm m bn hi lng. 47. Khng bao gi ng ngy Ni ra iu ny tht ph phng, nhng chng ti khng th b qua bi n rt quan trng. Khi hc i hc, ng bao gi ng ngy. (Chng ti s dng li i cho n khi nhng ting ku than lng xung). Hay cho php chng ti gii thch. Ng vo bui chiu hoc u gi ti ly i rt nhiu thi gian vn t i ca bn, khin bn u oi v thiu tp trung, ri ph tan nhp ngh ngi thng thng ca bn. y l cha k vic ny c th nhanh chng bin thnh mt thi quen xu kh b, bn s thng xuyn mt nhiu gi ng vo mt bui chiu, gic ng ti chp chn, v tnh to sut bui hc tr thnh mt thch thc ln i vi bn. Mt ln ng ngy, s c ln th hai ng ngy. V c nh v y, bn s khng chu ni nu khng c c gic ng tra hay ng nng c bui chiu. Trong nhng trng hp bt kh khng, nu bn thy mnh u oi sut c ngy, c rt nhiu cch gip bn khi phc nng lng hiu qu hn l ng mt gic ngn nh vy. Vo bui chiu, nu bn thy hi u oi, hy i ra ngi v luyn tp mt cht. Chy b, chi bng r hay do mt bt c iu g khin tim p nhanh u gip cho bn tr nn hng hi hn. Nu tp luyn nh vy khng c tc dng, hy tc ng vo h thng sinh ha trong c th v xua tan mt nhc bng n thc ung. L y mt gi hoa qu ti v mt lt nc lnh. iu ny ging nh ngun nhin liu mnh trong c th bn, v s cho bn mt ngun nng lng rt ln.
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Nu bn thc hin tt c nhng iu trn m vn khng c tc dng, m mt bn tip tc tru xung, ng vi t b v tha hip vi mnh. Thay v vy, hy ngng cong vic hc tp kh khn li v hng s tp trung ca bn vo nhng vic lt vt cn lm m bn ang tr hon. Hy dn dp phng. Gi nhng l th. n ca hng rau qu. nh my cc ghi chp. Sp xp cc ti liu mn. Kim tra v tr li sch cho th vin. V, iu quan trng nht l, bui ti hy i ng sm v ng mt gic y . iu trng yu l bn hy hon thnh nhng mc tiu trong ngy m khng ph v nhp ngh ngi ca bn. Mt m thc khuya khng ng lm hng hai ngy y nng sut. Bng cch gi cho nng lng ca bn lun mc cao, v sau ngay lp tc quay tr li gi gic ng bnh thng, bn c th lm du i nhng nh hng ca s u oi. Ng dy mun th ph mt c ngy tui thanh nin m khng hc tp th ph mt cuc i. - Ngn ng Trung Quc

48. Khng bao gi thc trng m C nhng lc bn buc mnh phi thc trng m. Chng hn ngy mai bn c bi kim tra quan trng nhng bn cha hc c ch no, hoc bn phi vit mt bi lun nhng ch c mi hai ting trc hn cht. Bn khng cn cch no khc ngoi tr lm vic ct lc c m hon thnh bi lun cho ti khi mt tri mc. Khng phi tnh th buc bn phi lm vy. Chnh bn y mnh v tnh hung . Thc trng m rt c hi cho bn. u tin, sau khong hai gi m, kh nng tr c ca bn gim theo hnh xon c. Nu bn ngh rng lc na m, tr c mng lung v bun ng ca bn c th to ra cc lin kt hu ch vi ti liu m bn ang nghin cu th bn tht sai lm. Thc c m thng dn n tnh trng au u do tr c b vt kit v i khi l cm gic hoang mang, lo s v tp trung cao . Nu bn lm vic nm ting t na m n bnh minh th cng ch
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tng ng vi vic bn lm vic mt gi, v bn lng ph bn ting. Liu iu c ng bn chu nhng cn au u hay khng? Th hai l hu qu ca mt m thc trng. Ngy tip theo bn s c cm tng mnh nh ci xc khng hn. l mt cm gic cc k ti t. Kh nng hon thnh tt bi kim tra, ch vo bi ging trn lp, luyn tp th thao hoc lm nhng vic khc u gn nh bng khng. Nhiu nghin cu gn y u cho thy hot ng no b ca ngi thiu ng v ngi ng gic khc nhau xa. V vy, thiu ng khng phi l mt trng thi tt nu bn mun hc tp. Thc trng m khng ch khin bn lng ph c ngy tip theo, m hn th, chc chn nhng ngy sau bn phi ng sm hn thng l, v ng nhin nhp ng ca bn trong sut mt ngy lin b ph v. Vy ti sao tnh trng thc trng m vn ph bin? C l bi nhiu sinh vin quan nim rng l sinh vin th phi c lc thc trng m. H than rng bn thn khng cn s la chn no khc. H c gng thc thu m chng khc no cc chin binh hn lm ang i mt vi cuc chin khng th trnh khi. Tuy nhin bn hon ton c th trnh khi cuc chin . Chng ti s ni cho bn mt b mt bt ng trnh thc m: ng bt u lm vic khi ch cn mt ngy. iu ny rt n gin. Khi bn bit mt bi lun hoc mt bi kim tra sp n, hy ln lch trc nhng ngy bn cn lm vic. Vo nhng ngy , hy u tin trc ht cho bi lun hoc bi kim tra . Hy gt b la chn thc m ra khi u bn. hon ton khng phi l mt cch hay. Thc trng m ging nh liu thuc c vi mt sinh vin thnh cng. Ch cn cht t n lc ln lch v t u tin ph hp, bn c th trnh c vic thc trng m. 49. Ngh ngi trc khi i ng Khi ln k hoch trong ngy, bn lun cn xc nh mt im kt thc mi cng vic. Mt ngy nh nhng vi bn, c th l u k hc hay ngay sau k thi,
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hy kt thc ngy vo bui ti. Lc , bn t thng cho mnh nhng ph giy thoi mi, i ra ngoi, gp g bn b v vui chi. Nhng trong sut nhng ngy bn rn khng th trnh khi, bn s phi lm rt nhiu vic n mc kh c th hon thnh trong ngy. Bi vy, v li ch ca bn thn, bn hy t mt thi im kt thc s mt mi . Chng hn, trong sut thi gian n thi gia k v cui k, im kt thc ca bn nn ri vo khong 11 gi ti, nhng thi im c th ph thuc thc s vo mc cp bch ca bi v v vic bn thng i ng khi no. V y l iu quan trng nht: sau khi bn hon thnh cng vic trong ngy ti thi im kt thc, ng i ng ngay. Nu i ng vi nhng cng thng trong ngy vn in mn mt trong tm tr, bn s rt kh ng, v nh vy tr no bn kh c c hi ti to nng lng sau khi tri qua rt nhiu cng thng trong ngy. Thay v vy, bn nn ngh ngi t nht na gi trc khi i ng. Xem mt chng trnh hi hc, nh nhng, c sch, chi n, ni chuyn vi mt ngi bn. Bn lm g khng quan trng, min l vic khng dnh lu cht no n bi v v khin bn vui v. Hn na, bn hy thc s c gng khng ngh g n nhng vic sp ti trong khong thi gian ngh ngi ny. C nhng sinh vin xut sc c kh nng siu nhin l d dng loi b nhng mt mi mt khi quyt nh chm dt bi v trong ngy. Khi bn thng xuyn i ng trong tm trng thoi mi, bn s ng ngon hn, hi lng hn, v c nhiu nng lng hn cho ngy tip theo. Vi tinh thn thoi mi, bn s c c gic ng ngon. V hm sau, cng vic cn dang d s d dng hon thnh hn. Hy bit qu trng sc khe v tinh thn ca mnh bng cch th gin trc gi i ng. 50. ng ng qu t, cng ng ng qu nhiu Trong tm tr cc bc ph huynh bao gi cng c ngh bn tr ca h cn ng tm ting mt ngy khe mnh. V d nhin,khng bc cha m no ngn ngi ni vi chng ta iu quan trng ny; y l mt vic m h khng bao gi
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cm thy chn. Chng ti khng r thng tin v gic ng ny l ng hay sai, v thc s khng phi l vn . iu quan trng l bn t bit i vi bn, ng bao lu l gi nng lng cho c ngy. Vi vi ngi thi gian ng chnh xc l tm ting. Vi nhng ngi khc, nh ti, thi gian ng l hn by ting. Vi mt s t ngi may mn, h ch cn ng bn n nm ting mt ngy. Nu bn mun thnh cng trng i hc, bn cn c sc lc v s tp trung sut c ngy. Hy xc nh xem bn cn ng bao lu trong mt ngy v bn s khng cn phi u tranh vi cn bun ng vo mi bui chiu na. Kt hp vic ny vi tp th dc, nhng ba n c li cho sc khe v bn s c sc lc cng nh s tp trung cn thit lm vic mc cao. V y mi l phn quan trng nht: khi bn tm ra thi gian ng thch hp vi mnh, hy tun th nhp . iu ny c ngha l bn khng nn ng qu t v cng khng nn ng qu nhiu. Khng nn lng ph thi gian vo gic ng v ch bui sng. V nu bn ph b nhp ngh ngi m khng thm n xa g n chung bo thc, th thc s bn s cm thy mt mi hn l ng t. Chng ti bit iu ny kh nghe vi sinh vin, nhng quy tc cn tun theo l: bn c th ng nhiu hn khng ng ngha vi vic bn nn ng nhiu hn. Ti a ha thi gian ng khng phi l mc tiu cui cng. Gic ng ch l mt cng c gip bn hc tp tt. Hy dp vic ng gt sang mt bn. C gng ng ng lng thi gian cn thit c nng lng hot ng c ngy.

51. ng ru ch Rt nhiu sinh vin i hc ung ru. Chng ti khng hng th bn v nn hay khng nn ung ru i hc. D nn hay khng, vic bn ung nhiu hay t ph thuc vo nhn thc, sc khe, nim tin ca bn. Nhng bn cn bit rng cht cn nh hng th no n kh nng hc tp ca mt sinh vin. Mt bui ti cui tun no , hy th ra ngoi ung vi chn, bn s cm thy mnh tr nn chm chp i mt cht vo sng hm sau, nhng ri mt cc c
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ph hoc mt vi vin thuc gim au c th gip bn kh ln c. Tuy nhin, nu bn ra ngoi v ung say, tc l ung ru cho n khi ging bn tr nn l nh, i ng khng vng v ch mun nn ma th sng hm sau, khng th c ph no trn th gii c th gip bn ly li sc lc v ngy hm ca bn coi nh i tong. Hu qu ca cn say khin bn khng th hon thnh nhng vic cn lm, cha k n lm gim st sc khe ca bn, lm bn d ng bnh v y bn vo cm gic bun b. Bn vn c th ung ru v vn thnh cng trng i hc. Nhng bn khng th thnh cng nu thng xuyn say xn. Hy bit iu g l tt nht cho c th v tr c ca bn. Ru nng mu trng nhng lm mt mi v lm en danh d - A. Tskhp. 52. c bo mi ngy. Nu no bn l c bp, th c bo ging nh mn th thao dnh cho tr c vy. Mun thnh cng trong mi trng hc thut, tm tr bn phi lun trn tr nng lng, s t tin v tm th sn sng hot ng. Bi vy, bn nn c bo mi ngy. c mt t bo chnh thng vo mt thi im c nh trong ngy l cch tuyt vi cung cp nng lng cho tr no bn v chun b trc cho cc hot ng t duy phc tp. Hy bin iu ny thnh thi quen. Bn cng nn lt qua hu ht nhng t bo ln trn mng. Nhng t bo a phng c th kh th v, nhng chng khng thc s b ch u. Hy c cc bi bo trn trang nht, v ri c hai hoc ba bi bo trong mc a thch ca bn. ng vi lt ngay n trang th thao nu bn thch th thao. Hy c gng m rng chn tri tr tu mi ngy. c thng xuyn mt t bo chnh thng s gip bn cp nht thng tin thi s cc vn quc t v trong nc, chnh tr, kinh doanh v ngh thut. iu ny dn dn s kch thch nng lng tr tu v s t tin ca bn, m ra trc mt bn nhng tm nhn mi v tch ly rt nhiu thng tin gip ch cho vic hc tp ca bn.
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Mi ngy bit thm iu mnh cha bit, mi thng chng qun iu mnh bit, nh vy mi ng l ngi ham hc. - T H. 53. Hn ch s dng danh sch vic - cn - lm hng ngy. Chng r v l do no m cc sinh vin lun c mt t duy thm cn c : cch tt nht hoch nh cng vic l s dng danh sch vic cn lm hng ngy. Hn bn tng lm v y. Cch lm ny l vit ra danh sch tt c cng vic bn phi lm, ri gch i nhng vic hon thnh theo mt cch c th t v hn ht, theo cch nh liu. , phi ri! y l nguyn tc quan trng nht m bn tng nghe v vic qun l thi gian cho sinh vin: Danh sch vic cn lm hng ngy khng c hiu qu bc i hc. Lch ca bn qu phc tp v nhiu khi khng th on trc. Mt vi bi tp c th d dng ngn ht c bui ti, trong khi mt s khc ch ly ca bn vi pht thi. Bn b c th t ngt gh qua, nhng ba n c th ko di hng gi lin, v cc c hi gii tr hay ho thng xut hin ng vo pht cht. Mt danh sch vic cn lm hng ngy khng gip bn lm ch cuc sng bn rn ca mnh. Nu bn ch n thun lm vic c ngy theo danh sch , c gng hon thnh tt c cng vic bt c khi no c thi gian rnh, bn s lm c rt t vic. Di y l cch tt hn kim sot lch lm vic ca bn: Mi sng, trc gi hc, bn hy l y ra mt t gi y trng hoc mt quyn s ghi chp. Bn tri, pha di mi dng hy ghi ra nhng gi m bn khng dng ng, ly mi dng lm nh hng tng gi. Tip khoanh vng nhng gi m bn hc trn lp. Ri khoanh vng nhng gi n, nhng cuc hn, v nhng s kin c ln lch. Phn thi gian cha khoanh vng cn li chnh l nhng khong thi gian rnh ri m bn c th s dng lm vic trong ngy. y l mt cch tuyt vi gip bn d hnh dung ra lch ca mnh. Sau , bt u chia nhng khong thi gian rnh ri y thnh tng gi, v phn phi nhng khong thi gian y cho tng cng vic hay bi tp c th. Hy dnh t nht
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mt khong thi gian cho vic hon thnh nhng vic lt vt. Bn cnh bng phn chia ny, hy vit mt danh sch vic cn lm n gin bao gm nhng cng vic nh cn lm trong ngy. Lm nh vy s bo m rng ngay c khi c nhng bi tp ln cn lm, nhng cng vic nh cn thit cho cuc sng ca bn nh mua kem nh rng hoc tr sch cho th vin s khng b qun lng. Lun mang theo t giy ny v thnh thong xem li n trong ngy nh hng thi quen lm vic ca bn. Nu nh b lch gi so vi lch vch sn iu ny thng xuyn xy ra, ch cn ly t giy ra vo lc rnh ri v b ra khong na pht sp xp li nhng khong thi gian cn li trong ngy. Bn ch mt vi pht trong ngy thc hin n, nhng hiu qu hn danh sch vic cn lm hng ngy c trm ln. Tr phi bn l k ham thch s cng thng, hy cho bn thn mt c hi v th cch phn khc thi gian ny. y l cch rt thng minh qun l thi gian trong ngy ca bn. ng qun l thi gian ca bn, hy qun l cuc sng ca bn. - John C. Maxwell. 54. Hc cch t b Tr khi bn ang vo vai trong b phim hnh ng chin u phc tp, hy nh rng. T b l chin thut, khng phi s yu ui ca bn. Khi bn i mt vi mt d n hay mt li cam kt c nguy c nut trn c cuc i bn, hy b cuc. ng nh vy, hy b cuc. Tt nhin, iu ny nghe hi bt thng (hay d hi) i vi rt nhiu sinh vin ti gii, nhng ngi hon ton tin tng vo sc mnh ca ch v quyt tm. Nhng cho d s sing nng bn b c l c tnh ng ngng mt i na, n khng phi l c tnh duy nht bn cn c trng i hc. Trong mi trng i hc si ni, nu ch ct lc gii quyt mi vn cho n khi chng c tho g th tht khng thi gian. Bn cn phi khn ngoan trong vic chia s thi gian qu bu ca mnh. Khi i mt vi mt vn kh hoc mt cam kt phc tp, hy c gng xoay x mt cch hp l lun nh rng
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nhng cng vic h trng thng i hi bn b ra nhiu thi gian. Tuy nhin, nu mt vn c v khng gii quyt c d bn c gng n u, hay mt cam kt bt u ngn ca bn qu nhiu thi gian d bn tm mi cch sp xp cho hp l, hy t b. iu ny khng c ngha l bn nn b cuc sm m khng suy tnh k cng. Thay v th, hy hn gp ging vin hay mt ngi bn hc h c th gip bn gii quyt vn . Hoc, dn dn qua mt thi gian hp l, hy gim s lin quan ca bn i vi cam kt phc tp kia v gii phng lch lm vic ca bn mt cch ng n. Hy th xem mt s kch bn v d lm r khi no bn nn v khng nn t b. Gi s, bn ang lm mt bi ton mn Kinh t hc, v bn mt rt nhiu thi gian cng nh cng sc th rt nhiu cch lm, nhng rt cuc vn khng tm ra c cu tr li. Vic bn cn lm l thu xp thi gian gp ging vin nh h tr. Sau hy chuyn qua lm vic khc. Lm nh vy, bn s tit kim c v khi thi gian lm nhng vic khc. Hoc gi s bn mi c cam kt vi mt cu lc b i hi bn phi b ra vi gi mi ti th Ba t chc cuc hp mt ton trng. iu ny khin bn thy kh chu bi n tht s lm gim khi lng cng vic bn c th hon thnh vo cc ngy th Ba. y khng phi l mt l do ng n t b. Bn c th b p nhng khong thi gian b mt vo th Ba bng cch iu chnh lch lm vic ca Ch nht v th Hai sao cho ph hp. Cam kt mi m ny i khi khin bn kh vt v, nhng khng ph phm cht no. Cui cng, hy tng tng rng cu lc b gi nh trn m rng quy m ng k, v bn thy mnh ngy no cng chm trong ng vic tiu tn hng gi lin cn hon thnh. D c iu chnh lch lm vic ca mnh k lng th no i chng na, bn cng ang b b nhng vic khc trong cuc sng. Trong trng hp ny, bn khng th kim sot c thi gian. Sc nng ca nhng cng vic ny tr nn qu ti khin bn khng th cn bng hp l vi cc cam kt
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khc. Bn cn phi t b. y thc cho nhng ngi khc phn ln khi lng cng vic, hoc t b v tr quyn lc ca mnh. nhng v d trn, yu t quan trng nht quyt nh xem nn t b hay khng l nng sut. Hon ton chp nhn c khi b ra nhiu gi lm vic min l nhng gi to ra nng sut. Trong v d u tin, b rt nhiu thi gian gii nhng bi tp m bn khng bao gi hiu r nu khng c s tr gip l mt vic lm khng nng sut. V vy, t b l khn ngoan trong trng hp ny. Trong v d th hai, khong thi gian bn dnh ra vo ti th Ba hng tun c to ra nng sut. Bn c nhng cng vic quan trng cn hon thnh, v c chun b trc b p khong thi gian bn b ra. Nu trong trng hp ny, bn t b ngha l bn ang lng ph mt c hi m kt qu ca n r rng hiu qu hn so vi vic sp xp li lch lm vic ch vi gi mt tun. V d th ba th hi rc ri mt cht. C th tng vic nh bn lm l hu ch, nhng tng th khi lng cng vic khin cho vic lm ca bn khng nng sut. Nu mt cam kt khng c khung thi gian c nh, v c v nh n buc bn phi gt tt c nhng th khc qua mt bn v lm vic nhiu ngy lin m vn khng xong, th cam kt l khng nng sut. Kt qu ca n khng ng k so vi khong thi gian khng l mt i. Bn cn phi t b, nu khng s hon ton mt kim sot lch lm vic. Mt cng vic nng sut l bt k cng vic no c kh nng hon thnh mt cch hiu qu trong mt khong thi gian nht nh. Nu bn khng nhn thy im kt thc ca cng vic, hoc tn qu nhiu thi gian m ch hon thnh c mt khi lng cc k t i, bn nn b cuc. Hc cch b cuc l hc cch loi b nhng cam kt khng em li nng sut, t bn c th ti a ha cng vic ca mnh. y l mt tnh cch bn cn pht trin. T b vic gi khi c tnh ton k cng khng chng t rng bn yu ui. n gin l bn c cch qun l thi gian mt cch thng minh m thi.

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55. Tm mt li thot Thi gian hc i hc c th l bn nm tuyt vi nht trong cuc i bn. Nhng n cng c th l mt trong nhng qung thi gian khc nghit nht. Hy th ngh xem. Bn b nm vo mt th gii chng cht khng c khng gian ring t, bn sng cng nhng con ngi xa l, tr c bn b th thch hn bt k lc no, bn cn phi xy dng bn sc ring trong mt mi trng hn tp, v ln u tin trong cuc i, khng ai cung cp cho bn bt k ch dn no v cch sng. V mi ch l tun u! Tip l s cng thng ca nhng k thi, cc cuc thi u, hc bng, v ai s ni rng p lc ca vic hc i hc cng kh ging vi p lc tham gia chin tranh. Nhng ng ht hong. B quyt sng st theo s thng trm ca cm xc l hng ti nhng iu tt p (c rt nhiu) v trnh nhng iu khng tt (v bi v bn ang c cun sch ny, chng ti hy vng l khng c). V c mt phng php tuyt vi gip bn cn bng v vui v trong sut nhng khong thi gian kh khn khi hc i hc, l tm mt li thot cho mnh. Tt nht, li thot ca bn nn l ni chn hoc hot ng no c th a bn ri xa khi cuc sng bnh thng ca mt sinh vin. Bn cn phi n mt ni m bn s ct t mi lin h vi cuc sng hng ngy, mt ni cho bn c hi ngh ngi v ly li thc v bn thn mnh. Hi Sinh vin khng c tnh l ni nh vy. Phng xem tivi k tc x cng khng. Phng k tc khc ca mt ngi bn cng vy. Mt cu hi quen thuc trong cc b phim: hy i ngay khi y. n hiu sch, kim vi cun sch, ri c chng v ung mt tch c ph loi ngon l mt kiu li thot. Tng t vi vic bt xe but ra ngoi thnh chi, hoc chy b trong cng vin nm ngoi khun vin trng i hc. hy sp xp mt li thot cho bn thn vo mi tun. Thc hin iu mt mnh v trn trng n nh mt loi thuc b.

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Trng i hc ch tr nn qu ti khi bn n nut trn c cuc sng ca mnh. Nu bn ch thot ra khi th gii ca nhng bn cng phng, cc bi thi, bi tp khuya v cc ba tic, s cng thng ca bn s c kim sot. 56. Gi lin h vi bn b Hc i hc tht vui. Hc i hc tht bn rn. Nhng trn ht, mi trng i hc c th nhn chm bn vo th gii bit lp ca n vi bn ngoi, ct t mi mi dy lin h ca bn vi cuc sng trc kia khi bc chn vo k tc. Tt c nhng iu ny ch l cch ni hoa m ca quy tc. Hy gi lin h vi bn b qu nh. Tht ng kinh ngc, chng ta hon ton c th d dng mt lin lc vi nhng ngi quan trng i vi mnh. Trng i hc tiu hao ca bn qu nhiu th lc, tr lc v xut hin qu nhiu mi quan h, bi vy nu khng thc s c gng, bn s mt lin lc vi nhng ngi bn qu nh. Ti sao vic tip tc gi tnh bn c li quan trng n vy? Bi v nhng ngi bn y hiu bn hn nhng ngi bn i hc rt nhiu. Khi bn gp kh khan, mt c in thoi t ngi bn c s ly li tinh thn cho bn. Bn s khng cm thy mnh c n. thc v bn thn ca bn s vn lun mnh m. V quan trng nht, nu mt lin lc vi nhng ngi bn ca mnh, bn s chng c g lm khi v thm nh trong nhng k ngh. Thc s gi lin h vi ai c ngha l bn cn phi ni chuyn vi ngi mt thng t nht mt ln. V, iu ny rt quan trng: chat trn mng khng c coi l gi lin h. ng gi cho bn mnh nhng on phim hot hnh ng nghnh m bn kim c trn Internet. Bn cn phi gi in v tr chuyn trc tip vi cc bn ca mnh. Ni chuyn vi bn hay nm ngi bn thn nht ch mt ln trong thng khng nh hng ln n thi gian ca bn. Nhng nhng ch li cng c cc mi quan h th tht tuyt vi. Bn s khng bao gi nhn ra nhng ngi bn

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qu nh quan trng nh th no cho n khi bn bt u mt h. Hy gi lin h vi bn b. Khng bn b, th gii ch cn hoang vu. _Khuyt danh 57. ng chn mt vic lm tm thng C mt vic lm khi hc i hc chng c g sai. Nhiu sinh vin cn tin cho chng trnh va hc va lm hoc thm vo khan tr cp ti chnh t i, v trn thc t, nhiu sinh vin ni rng trch nhim ca nhng cng vic bn thi gian gip cho cuc sng ca h c h thng hn. vic no bn nn chn. ng lm nhng cng vic nh bn hng trong thnh ph. ng phc v trong cc qun n. ng sn nh hay khun vc. ng dn dp nh n ca trng. ng thu tp ti liu vn phng t nht. Nhng cng vic ny khin bn phn tn, lm tiu tn thi gian, v cc k tiu hao nng lng. Thay v th, hy kim mt cng vic mang tnh chin lc trong trng. Mt la chn l ng k vo mt v tr c tr lng trong khoa m bn yu thch. Lm tr l nghin cu c th bao gm nhng cng vic photo ti liu hay ra cc chn, nhng lc ny bn nm trong gii hc thut. Bn s lm vic cng cc ging vin v dn quen thuc vi cc d n nghin cu. Bc tin t vai tr tr l cho n tham gia vo d n nghin cu tr nn d dng hn rt nhiu so vi lm vic vi vai tr l mt sinh vin bt k. V bn s to dng c nhiu mi quan h c gi tr vi cc ging vin trong khoa. Kiu cng vic chin lc ny mang li cho bn c tin bc ln mt khi u tt thnh cng i hc. Mt la chn khc l lm mt trong nhng vic lt vt c rt nhiu trong trng. Nhng v tr ny thng bao gm vic ngi mt ch v thc s ch lm nhng nhim v ti thiu. Thng thng, l qun l bn thng tin trong th vic hoc cc khu vc khc ca trng i hc, bn cnh mt s cng vic kiu ny c th bao gm iu hnh cc phng tp nhc (v d cho mn cha kha phng tp) hoc lm vic ti bn l tn trong mt t chc ca trng. Li ch tuyt vi
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ca nhng cng vic trn l chng ng vai tr nh th phng t hc. Nu bn phi ngi bn chic bn yn tnh, han ton khng b lm phin trong sut hai ba gi, v c bn bn s khng c la chn no khc ngai hc bi cht dn cht mn v bun t. Nhng cng vic kiu ny c th l cch tt thm mt cht tnh h thng v s bn b vo bi v ca bn. B quyt kim c cng vic ao c ti trng l tm hiu v t tuyn dng tht sm. Rt sm. Hy lin h vi nhng ngi qun l cng vic m bn mun lm t nht mt thng trc khi k hc bt u. Qun l mt bn thng tin khng phi l cng vic tn n-ron thn kinh cho lm, bi v y hu nh ch cn l ngi u tin hi xem h c tuyn v tr ny khng l bn c tuyn ri. V tr tr l nghin cu c tr lng th kh kim hn. Tuy nhin, bng cch lin h vi khoa sm v th hin lng nhit tnh thc s, c hi c nhn ca bn s tng ln kh nhiu. iu quan trng nht l bn kim c mt cng vic no gip ch nht cho vic hc ca mnh. Hy lm co vic lm thm tr thnh mt ti sn m bn c th kim sot thay v chng ngi vt trn con ng dn n nhng mc tiu ca mnh. 58. Kt bn vi nhng ngi khao kht thnh cng C nhng sinh vin d dng hi lng vi nhng g t c, v khng theo ui nhng tham vng ln lao. H hi lng vi mt cng vic thng thng bc trung sau khi tt nghip, hoc c khen thng vi ln khi cn hc trong trng. Nhng c nhng ngi li theo ui gic m ln. H mun tr thnh i biu quc hi, m cng ty ring hoc nhn c hc bng t cc trng hng u th gii nh Harvard, Oxford L mt sinh vin mong mun t c thnh cng ln, bn nn tham gia vo nhm th hai. Hy t mc tiu tham vng nht c th. Cng theo ui nhng mc tiu ln, kt qun bn thu c cng ng ngc nhin
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v cuc sng ca bn cng tr nn hp dn. Bn nng tm thnh cng ca mnh ln bng cc no? Rt n gin, hy kt bn vi nhng ngi t c thnh cng xut chng. Th no l mt ngi thnh cng xut chng? c th l mt sinh vin chuyn ngnhh khoa hc x hi v nhn vn t gii thng VIFOTEC ca B Gio dc & o to, ng thi l tc gi mt chng trong sch gio trnh. c th l mt sinh vin vn khoa ginh c hng t gii thng sng tc, v ang lm vic ct lc ra mt cun tiu thuyt u tin ca mnh. c th l mt sinh vin kinh t hoc ngoi ng xut sc nhn c hc bng ca nhng trng hng u th gii. Hy tm nhng ngi nh th. Gp h. Mi h i n v nghe h trt bu tm s. Tm hiu v nhng g h , ang v s lm. tng y l khm ph tim nng ca bn thn bn. Khi dnh thi gian ni chuyn vi nhng ngi thnh cng, c hai iu din ra. u tin, bn s hng th. ngh t c thnh cng nh nhng sinh vin thnh cng kia s khin bn nhit tnh hn. Th hai, tm hiu v hc hi n lc ca h mt cch chi tit, bn s bt u ch n cc t c thnh cng tng t t chnh nim am m ca bn. Sau khi gp g nh kinh doanh tr ti ba k trn, c th bn s quyt tm thc hin n cng d n ca bn. Cuc tr chuyn ci m, chn tnh ci nh vit kch bn tng lai c th gip bn c ng lc vit nt kch bn m bn ang suy ngh. V cuc ni chuyn vi anh bn say m nghin cu khoa hc c th khin bn hng th hc tp nghin cu hn. Hy to thi quen gp g nhng ngi thnh cng. Hy gp h thng xuyn. Bn s sm tr thnh ngi c mi i n v tr li nhng cu hi y ngng m.

59. Ci mi ngy

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Ngi ta thng ni mt n ci bng mi thang thuc b. iu ny ng vi tt c mi ngi. Vi cc bn sinh vin i hc lun phi i mt vi nhng cng thng trong hc tp v cc vn ring t khc trong cuc sng, ting ci ht sc quan trng. Khi bn b cng thng, chnh c th s phi gnh chu nhng thng tn. N dn n tnh trng kit sc, suy gim kh nng trao i cht, suy gim h min dch v to nn mt tm trng mt mi. Rt kh trnh c cc tnh hung gy nn stress, nhng khng kh tm ra bin php i ph vi cc nh hng tiu cc ca stress. Ci l mt trong s nhng bin php . Khi ci, c th bn gii phng cc endorphins, mt cht gip chng li cc hormone lin quan n stress, v em li cho bn cm gic d chu. Mt khc, ci cn a bn n trng thi tinh thn tch cc. Nhn chung, ci l mt loi vitamin siu hng m bn nn s dng thng xuyn. Hy tm kim nhng iu mang li ting ci hng ngy cho bn. c th l tn gu vi nhng ngi hi hc, thch a, c bo Tui Tr i hay xem chng trnh Hi Xoy p Xoay vo mi ti th By. iu quan trng l bn lun tm tm kim nhng iu khin bn ci mi ngy. Cuc sng rt ngn ngi, v bng nhng vic lm vui v, d dng thc hin ny, li ch i vi c th v tr no ca nhng hat ng n gin k trn tht ngai sc tng tng. Hy m nhng n ci, ng m nhng git nc mt. Charles Aller 60. Tn dng ti a ngy ngh ca bn. Ma h l qung thi gian tuyt vi khm ph mi s thch m khng phi lo lng g v vic hc tp. Nhng bn ch nhm ln gi vic khm ph nhng s thch ca mnh vi vic xem ti vi sut ngy, ming tp tp nhai m tm sng hay bng ng. Bn hy nh rng ngh h khng phi l mt k ngh bn nm n trn gh hay quanh qun quanh nh. Bn nn xem ma h l khong thi gian qu gi hng nm bn qun i nhng ni lo v hc hnh v hon ton tp trung vo nhng tri nghim v hoi bo khng lin quan n vic hc tp.
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Hy ln k hoch cho ma h ca bn ngay t thng Mt. Lm nh vy c th qu sm v khng cn thit, nhng nu n cui thng T hoc thng Nm, bn s b l nhiu cng vic lm thm. V li, vic chun b cng tiu tn ca bn kh nhiu thi gian. Ch n tn pht cui kim c mt cng vic hoc hot ng h l mt k hoch ti. Tm kim cng sm, bn cng c nhiu c hi rng m hn. Vy bn nn lm g trong sut ma h? Cu hi ln u tin bn phi tr li l: lm vic hay khng lm vic? Rt nhiu sinh vin phi lm vic trong sut k ngh tit kim tin nhm trang tri chi ph hc tp v n ung trong c nm tri, mua cc quyn sch yu thch hay cc kha hc ngoi ng t . Nu tm kim sm, bn c th d dng kim c mt cng vic lng cao v th v. Bn c th lm bi bn hoc bn hng, nhng nhng vic nh vy khng gip ch nhiu cho s pht trin ca bn trong tng lai. Thay v vy, hy xc nh mt v tr ph hp vi s thch v ngnh hc ca bn. C th l mt v tr thc tp c tr lng, cng vic bn thi gian mt c quan t chc no th v, hoc cng vic tr l nghin cu. Nu bn l nh vn mi vo ngh, hy th np n vo cng nhiu v tr thc tp ti cc ta son cng tt, v nu tht bi, hy th tm kim cc cng vic nh ti cc t bo a phng. (Bn s rt ngc nhin khi bit rng cc t bo tnh, thnh ph nh rt cn mt thc tp vin/ bin tp vin a di nng gnh gip h cng vic). Nu bn hc chuyn nghnh sinh hc, hy th hi cc phng th nghim mi trng i hc v vin nghin cu trong bn knh 30 km t nh xem h c v tr tr l nghin cu no khng. C vn hc tp ti trng i hc ca bn cng l mt u mi rt tt cung cp cho bn cc c hi th v , v vy hy lun cp nht thng tin vi h. Nu khng cn kim tin, bn c th lm c nhiu vic hay, thm ch c th gip ch cho tng lai ngh nghip ca bn. Bn cnh nhng cng vic c tr lng k trn, c rt nhiu v tr khng tr lng khc d xin c. Hy tm kim tt c nhng ngi ni ting nht trong lnh vc bn quan tm, hi h v v tr thc tp sinh, v nu h khng c v tr no dnh cho bn, hy vit mt bc th xut
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mt chng trnh ca ring mnh. Trong bc th, gii thch r rng bn c th lm g gip vin nghin cu hay cng ty . S ch ng ny c th tc dng ln trong vic tip th bn thn. Bn cng nn cn nhc la chn i kin tp. t c sinh vin no Vit Nam bit v lm iu ny. Kin tp tc l bn ch ng lin h vi ngi th v, ni ting v tr lin quan n lnh vc bn quan tm v xin php c gip vic cho ngi . Phng php ny rt c bit, th v v t bn c th kim c nhng cng vic tuyt vi. Tuy nhin, nu bn bc vo con ng kin tp, bn cn chm ch ht sc, bn cn hiu v ngi bn xin kin tp v cng ty ca ngi ny, ng thi th hin s nhit huyt v cng hin ca mnh. Nu khng, bn thc s ch lm tn thi gian ca ngi . Cui cng,bn ang p mt d n c th no , ma h c th l mt thi gian rt tt pht trin n. B quyt l bin nhng tham vng c nhn thnh mt cng vic chnh thc i hi trch nhim. Nu bn mun dnh c ma h vit lch, hy tp trung vit vi mc tiu gi tc phm cho cc nh xut bn. Nu mun trau di ti nng m nhc, hay gia nhp mt nhm nhc, k hp ng biu din, hay t chc mt chng trnh dy nhc cho tr em a phng. Rt t sinh vin tn dng mi n lc cn thit ln k hoch v c mt ma h tht tuyt vi. Nu bn u t thi gian nhm tn dng ti a k ngh, bn s khng ch c nhng kinh nghim tt hn, m cn tr thnh mt sinh vin tch cc ni tri gia m bn b u oi. Ng m mi hai ting, xem ti vi sut ngy, v thu phim v xem s kin k ngh tr ln mt mi, ch hn l tri qua nhanh chng. V vy, hy tn dng ma h tr thnh ngi th v hn, tch cc hn v tham vng hn. Ngh h khng phi l mt k ngh bn nm n trn gh hay quanh qun trong nh. Hy tn dng khong thi gian thc hin cc k hoch bn p .

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61. Sng khng hi tic C gng Sng khng hi tic l n nhn cuc sng vi cm gic hng th v tin tng. l cm gic hnh phc trc nhng c hi, khng phi trc nhng thnh cng. C c tri nghim tham d mt cuc thi ln, theo ui mt d n nghin cu th v, hay thnh lp mt t chc sinh vin chnh l nhng iu th hin nim say m ca bn. Nu tht bi, ti sao phi mt thi gian tic nui? Trn trng tri nghim v t hi mnh s lm g tip theo? Chng ti kt thc cun sch bng nhng li ny bi ti tin tng rng thnh cng i hc, theo ui hoi bo ca bn vi nhng l do chnh ng quan trng hn bt c chin lc c th no. Nu bn mun thnh cng bi bn thch c mi ngi ch n, th cun sch ny khng th gip bn. Nu bn mun thnh cng chng t bn thn vi ngi khc, th cun sch ny khng th gip bn. Nu bn mun thnh cng bi bn thch nhng li ca tng v nnh ht, th cun sch ny cng khng th gip bn. Bn s khng bao gi thc s thnh cng, bi v ni s hi tht bi s lun rnh rp bn trong mi bc ng bn i ti. Tuy nhin, nu bn mun thnh cng bi vic bn yu thch vic khai thc nhng tim nng ca bn thn, khm ph th gii v nhng tri nghim mi m, nu bn mun thnh cng bi cuc sng qu ngn ngi v cn phi lp u n bng nhiu hot ng cng tt, th bn s thnh cng. Nu bn n cho cuc sng vi thi khng nui tic v lun mm ci, bn c th tm thy phng php thnh cng trong mi n lc. ng hi tic, hy c tht nhiu nim vui trn con ng chn. Tu chung li, l iu cn thit nht thc s thnh cng. Xin chc bn thnh cng!

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