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P O Adventures in
Breastfeeding
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Iris ate nothing but breast milk for seven and a half months. I was
in charge of parceling out the expressed breast milk. Every night
while watching Seinfeld reruns, I’d have my little lab bench set up on
a TV table, making the next day’s bottles like a mad scientist dairy
farmer. If this sounds weird, in retrospect maybe it was, but when
you have a new baby, everything is weird.
Laurie is a public school librarian and has the summer off. This
is awesome, because it supports my surfing habit. Okay, I’m lying
— I don’t actually spend the summer surfing, unless you count
Web surfing. At the end of August, it was time for Laurie to go back
to school. Iris would still breastfeed when Laurie was home, but
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At age one, babies can add cow’s milk to their diet, and I was eager
to offer some to Iris, since it’s a lot cheaper and tastier than formula.
I put some cold whole milk into her sippy cup. Rejected! I tried
warm milk. Forget it.
We found the solution at a small local coffee chain called Star-
bucks. As a card-carrying hipster, I was embarrassed about tak-
ing my child to Starbucks — its patrons and employees are insuf-
ficiently pierced — so I called it Coffeebucks. We ordered steamed
milk with almond syrup. Iris just called it “almond,” and we still do.
Not only did Coffeebucks sell steamed milk at a special kid’s price,
they would sell you a big bottle of their almond syrup for making
almond at home. A few drops of almond syrup in each cup of milk
turned Iris into a committed milk drinker and baby hipster.
One day Iris went out for a walk with my dad, who she calls Pops.
“What did you and Pops do?” I asked. “Did you get some almond?”
“Yes.”
“Where did you go? Coffeebucks?”
Iris shook her head. “No, STARbucks.” Dad is such an idiot.
Serving almond at home meant keeping whole milk in the
house. Parenting books tell you to start serving your kid low-fat
dairy products when they turn two. The question is this: after two
years of whole milk in the fridge, will you be ready to switch back to
low-fat dairy?
I’m certainly not. Whole milk on my cereal is pretty much the
most awesome part of having a kid. The other day I bought some
skim milk for a recipe and was shocked at the color and consistency
of the stuff. It was even worse than formula, yet adults buy it for
themselves.
We didn’t do all our almond-swilling at home and at Coffee-
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Iris continued nursing before bedtime until just shy of her second
birthday. A baby that can both nurse and talk is a comedian. First,
she somehow decided that the word for milk would be neh. She
would call for “NEH!” exactly like an old man saying, “Feh!”
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