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1. Evolutionary Reasons
It might sound a little silly, but there's a deeply rooted evolutionary reason that you have trouble approaching beautiful women. For most of human history, only the most elite men have been able to have women in their lives and they generally had more than one. Approaching a beautiful woman in the wild meant that you might run the risk of having your head beaten in by a caveman with a club. Ouch. Fortunately, we live in a more civilized time, so the number of caveman club beatings has significantly diminished. It's very rare that men go out, start talking to a woman and have her hulking boyfriend appear and beat his head in with his big stick. In fact, more common is that your game is so solid that she ends up taking off with you. Don't allow primordial fears to dictate whether or not you approach women in public. Live in the now. If you see a woman that you're interested in, go ahead and start talking to her right away, without fear or reservations.
2. Psychological Reasons
At one point or another we've all been rejected and we learned something from it: Namely that it totally sucks and there are few things that feel worse. This fear of rejection can make men gun shy about approaching women in the wild, especially if they have a track record of painful snubs. However, what good is all the game theory and social dynamics training in the world if it doesn't make you better at what
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3. Social Reasons
When you're in a social setting, it can often be very stressful. You're around a bunch of strangers and everyone is looking for someone else to give them permission to have fun. One of the things that this means is that you can put people on even more edge by talking to them. This has probably happened to you at least once: You approach a woman, start talking to her and... it's unbelievably awkward. It's happened to all of us. In fact, learning how to approach women the right way is one of the main reasons that guys come to us to study game. The difference between the reactions you're going to get from the "right" way and the "wrong" way are more different than even the proverbial night and day. When you approach her the right way, you're not adding tension to the equation. On the contrary, you're going to defuse the inherent tensions of socializing, allowing her to relax and start enjoying herself. What's more, she's going to -- on either a conscious or an unconscious level -- remember you as the man who made her night take off. A man who knows how to approach a woman the right way is the exact opposite of a social burden. Once you learn how to approach the right way, you're going to quickly learn that for yourself, first hand. These are the three broad fears that are likely holding you back when it comes to women. Smash these obstacles and start living the nightlife that you've always wanted, the one that you deserve.
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The 7 Pickup Artist Secrets 1. Tip: You are too hard on yourself!
Don't set your expectations so high for yourself. If you're just starting out in this game then you need to keep your expectations in check. Don't expect to be pulling your perfect girl on your first night out. That would be like playing a Eddie Van Halen solo on your first attempt at playing the guitar. You have to start small. You need to celebrate the small successes, by setting small reachable goals each night you go out. Here are a few goals for beginners: Open 3 sets per hour. Stick around two extra minutes after the moment where you feel like you have nothing else to say. Use a disqualifier in every set. Run a DHV routine. Tell an identity story.
2. Tip: Practice More! I've met way too many students who try out material only a few times and if they don't see results they say, "The material doesn't work," or "the material isn't for me." The truth is no material is for you if you're not going to practice. You will not be proficient with material after only a few attempts - it takes hundreds or even thousands of attempts to really get material down. You need to keep practicing. The suggested minimum for practice is once a week three hours a night, three sets an hour - sober.
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You're probably understanding the point. Whatever it is that you want in life, there's a pretty solid chance that the fear of rejection is the thing keeping you from getting it. This raises the obvious question...
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