After a failure, every person have different ways on how to get back up from their

defeat and mostly these persons are the ones that are not expected them to be and are
more experienced in handling failure. With the proper planning, steps on how to take
action from failing, a person can all cope up from our mistakes and make a better
outcome.
One step according to Victor Parachin, is to watch your expectations, nothing is
perfect in life and making mistakes are normal, people are human after all and failure is
every persons dilemma and their ways on how to handle failure are varied.
Another step is to trust God, failure is tough and people all have their different
ways of experiencing it, be it failing from an exam or losing in a game. Having faith in
God can help people get through their dissapointments and failures. (Parachin, 2010)
Dont give up, the saying try and try until you succeed is actually true and many
have been successful just by relating to this, the point here is that having the courage to
get back up from failure and moving on is one way of being successful, lives does not
stop after failing and having faith in ourselves can really help them get through the
challenges that they face in their lives. ( Parachin, 2010)
Learn to cope, nurses are taught about the different coping mechanisms and
coping strategies and they are well knowledgable on how they can apply this in helping
their patients for recovery. Coping is an important function of humans which on this
article talks about researchers conduct studies on the experiences and coping
strategies of Vietnam prisoners of war and Nazi concentration camp survivors. They
shared the best example of how they coped and survived thru their hardships in the
midst of war.one,they did not surrender or gave up their spirit, they maintained a sense
of control-no matter how bad things got, they could still control their own thoughts, they
attributed some important meaning to their suffering and pain, they focused on good or
positive things throughout each day: I got some food today, or I wasnt beaten today.
They maintained a strong sense of purpose, and they resolved to make it through the
ordeal (Parachin, 2010)
Parachin also stated in his article to always look for the good, always find the
good in everything, this can result to a more successful outcome, or in a more positive
perspective, it can make the person feel better and this will also lead to a better
outcome from failure to success. Furthermore, a person must take failures in stride and
be kind to yourself. Failure is a part of life, and this is actually a good thing if you look it
in other ways, this failure can lead you to success as you learn to prevent it from
happening again. Do not be hard on yourself and always be capable of seeing ways
and opportunities from these challenges rather than letting yourself down.