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Because the speaker already said that he didnt understand any Japanese so it is very clear
that he didnt understand Japanese. It kind of gives the listener some respect because the
speaker knows that the listener is smart enough to already know that.
The idea is that it should be clear or obvious to the listener.
One person could say, I found a wallet with 1000 dollars in it so I obviously kept it.
Another person could say I found a wallet with 1000 dollars in it so I obviously tried to
find the owner to give it back
These are obviously different kinds of people.
"Well rounded"
Well rounded is a term to describe someone who is good at many things. Most employers
want to see that you have more than one skill and lead a balanced life. You dont just do
only one thing. So if you are good in school, play sports, and do other hobbies you are
well rounded. If you just study you arent very well rounded.
"Nauseous"
The feeling you get when you are almost going to throw up. Sick stomach.
What can I say?
Its a question to use when you really have nothing to say. Its a rhetorical question
meaning that the other person doesnt need to answer you. Its almost like saying. There
is nothing for me to say.
LESSON 3: PROCRASTINATION
We listen to Andrews story about not doing anything.
Andrew
LESSON 4: DARE
Andrew
Whats the worst that could happen? This is a question to ask yourself or someone
else if they are considering not doing something. The idea is that if the worst thing that
can happen isnt really that bad, then you should do it.
Win-win situation A situation where no matter what the result is, there is something
still good about it. Here, if the girls like Tony, he wins. If they dont like him, he will get
free drinks for the rest of the night, so he wins again.
LESSON 5: DARE 2
We hear the sequel to the dare
Andrew
After doing something rude, like taking the wing, he didnt apologize and just did
something rude again. No shame.
That man stole $1000 from the girl and had the audacity to ask if she would be his
girlfriend.
Pull up a chair
Sit down with us, or join us at the table.
Work wonders
Do a lot of good for something.
That investment will work wonders for your bank account.
If you find a beautiful girl who likes you it will work wonders for your confidence.
Self-esteem
Confidence or belief in yourself.
If you have a high self-esteem then you think you are a capable person and like yourself.
If you have a low self-esteem you get discouraged easily and dont have a lot of selfconfidence.
LESSON 6: FRUSTRATION
Andrew
LESSON 7: MISUNDERSTANDING
Addison
I have just moved in with a new roommate a little while ago named
Tony.
He is pretty hilarious and a really cool guy but the problem is that he is
an absolute pig.
He is the biggest slob I have ever met.
The other day I had cooked dinner for us and he went out as soon as we
were finished eating.
I thought that he could at least share with the dishwashing afterwards.
I was getting really tired of this and knew I had to do something.
The problem was that I didnt really know how to bring this up to him.
I didnt want to seem like one of those guys who is a neat freak or
anything but this was getting out of control.
.I decided that I would just come clean with him and tell him what I
was thinking the next time I saw him.
I said, I dont want to be annoying or anything but would you mind
helping me with the cleaning around here?
He said oh, Im so sorry, I didnt realize you were doing the cleaning,
I thought this place came with a maid service.
getting really tired of this the feeling of being annoyed or bothered by something. In
this story the roommate was getting annoyed because Tony is a slob.
to bring this up - to talk to someone about something. Here, the roommate wanted to
bring up the idea that he didnt like the place to be messy to Tony.
neat freak - someone who really needs things to be neat and organized at all times
getting out of control - was a problem here that was getting larger and larger. Here, the
problem was of Tonys habit of not cleaning anything.
come clean telling someone the truth and what you are thinking. In this story, the
roommate comes clean with Tony about his feelings towards Tonys cleaning habits.
be annoying or anything - this phrase here meant that the roommate didnt want to
annoy Tony or make him feel uncomfortable or bother him.
Story
Andrew
I went to a movie with my friends the other day. We got there early so
we could get good seats and make sure we all sat together. Just as the
movie was about to start, some tall woman with huge hair sat right in
front of me. I could barely see a thing. She was absolutely hideous
and reeked of cheap perfume. I would have changed seats but by that
time the theatre was full. I needed to come up with a plan. There was
no way I was going to sit for two hours staring at that hair. Luckily a
friend of mine had a pair of scissors in her purse. I knew it was risky
but the perfume and the whole situation was making me lose control. I
felt I did what anyone in my situation would do. I started cutting.
Naturally, she noticed immediately, and screamed, What the hell are
you doing? I was caught red-handed. I wasnt in much of a position
to deny anything considering the fact that I had the scissors in my
hand. I said, I know this is going to sound hard to believe but it
wasnt me. She was so angry and confused she just got up and left. I
was able to watch the rest of the movie in peace. It was great! Its too
bad she missed it.
I know this is going to sound hard to believe but You are showing the listener that
you admit it is not an easy thing to believe. You hope that by admitting this, it will give
the listener more chance to believe you.
Brutal
Brutal means really bad or horrible. It also can mean violent in some situations like
fights. The fight was really brutal.
Disgusting
Awful, terrible. It almost makes you sick. Its very rude to tell someone to their face
that their food is disgusting. It is a very strong word to use but its used for emphasis. So
if you dont like someones cooking, generally we lie and say we do. Never say its
disgusting.
Story
Addison
I was sleeping in after a very late Friday night and the phone rang. I
felt absolutely rancid! I rushed to get the phone wondering who on
earth would be calling at such an hour. Great, it was my mom. I asked
her what was so important. She said, oh nothing important, just
wanted to say good morning. I made an excuse to her that I really
needed to go the bathroom, so I let her go quickly. What a relief to get
back in to bed! 5 minutes after I was totally asleep, the phone rang
again. It was my mom again. She forgot to mention to me that she was
calling from her cell phone and was now in the driveway waiting for
me so she could take me to breakfast. I guess thats what I get for
making an excuse!
who on earth a phrase that is used when you have no idea who the person could be.
let her go finish the conversation with her and end the phone call.
thats what I get for is a phrase used when you do something that you shouldnt have
done and somehow you have some consequences for your actions or behavior.
Story
Addison
Look on the bright side Think about the good points in a situation. For example, if
you get fired from a job. You could think about how now you have some time to relax
and find an even better job.
Blessing in disguise Something good that happened to you but it seems bad. In this
story, failing the math class seemed to be bad, but then he realized that it would be good
because now he would have more time to think about what he really wanted to do for his
career.
Story
Addison
spur of the moment a decision made quickly without having thought about it before
rut a feeling of doing the same thing too often and not having changes in your life.
You often start to feel bored in your life when you are in a rut
spontaneity the idea of someone being able to do things without having to plan for a
long time
rolling the dice is a kind of gambling game and is an expression used to show that you
are taking a risk or a chance.
Story
Addison
eves drop listen to someone elses conversation without them knowing or their
approval
jump in get involved and start talking with the other people that were already having a
conversation
wasnt so hot not good at something. here the person wasnt good at speaking
Chinese.
Story
Addison
security deposit money that you give to the hotel in case you damage the room in any
way. You get this money back if you dont damage anything during your stay
front desk the desk in the lobby (main entrance area) of the hotel where you can
check-in or out
ran into seeing some people and start talking to them. It does not mean that you hit
them while running in this situation
hitched a ride someone let you go in their can and they drove you somewhere.
blew all the money spent all of your money without thinking of the value of what you
are buying
pulled up to arrived at
paid off - The result of a risk or chance that was good. Ex. His decision to go on the trip
really paid off.
Story
Addison
Conversation
Otis: Hello,
Andy: Hey whats up?
Otis: Not much. Im in the office right now but Ive got a few
minutes to kill before my boss gets back.
Andy: How about a round of golf Saturday afternoon and then well
hit the town later.
Addison
Otis: Sounds perfect. Oh no, thats right, I think I have some kind of
boring work function I have to go to.
Andy: That sucks, is there any way you can get out of it?
Otis: Ill see what I can do. Ill keep you posted.
Otis: Later
Hey whats up? Its a very casual question that you would say to your close friends. It
means, What are you doing?, but you dont always need to answer it. We often just
say not much to answer this question. You can also return the question by saying, not
much, you? or not much, whats up with you?. If you want you can answer this
question with what you are doing. So if someone asks whats up? you can say, oh not
much, just watching tv or something like that. Never ask whats up? in a formal
situation.
minutes to kill We often talk about killing time. It is usually used in a situation
where you have nothing that you need to do for a while and are in no position to do
something fun. For example, if you change airplanes, then you might need to wait a few
hours in the airport. Maybe you would walk around to kill time. You could say to
your friend, what do you want to do? Weve got a few hours to kill until our next
flight?
What are you up to? - This means what are you doing? it is a very casual expression
and you can use it in past, present, and future. What were you up to last night?, What
are you up to now?, and What are you up to next weekend?.
hit the town - Another casual expression meaning that you will go out in the city.
Usually talking about a fun night of going to different restaurants and bars or whatever.
I have some kind of boring work function - The idea of saying some kind of here
shows that the work function, like a work dinner, is something you dont want to do. Its
like you dont even care what it is, you just know that you dont want to do it.
Is there any way you can get out of it? - This question is asking if there is any way that
you can cancel your plans. Maybe thinking of an excuse, or a lie, to not attend the work
function. Maybe telling your boss that you have to go to your best friends wedding.
Ill keep you posted - A very useful expression that means, I will keep you informed
or I will let you know
Get back to me - That means tell me when you get the answer
Later - friends can say later to each other when they get off the phone. Its the same
thing as saying bye. Its informal so dont say it if you are in a more serious phone
conversation. And never say bye bye. Just say bye one time. We never say bye bye
in any situation. Its something that a baby would say.
Conversation
Add: Can you believe Steve?
And: What are you referring to?
Add: How whipped he is.
And: Oh I know. Its absurd. I dont know why he does it. He lets
Clare control everything in his life. She treats him like dirt and he
lets her get away with it. Hes let all his girlfriends treat him like that.
Addison
Add: A lot of guys do that its just pathetic when its one of your best
friends.
And: Do you think we should step in and say something?
Add: Well, we are best friends but Im not really sure its our place to
say something. Confronting someone about his girlfriend is pretty
touchy
And: Ya I know, but as you said, we are best friends, if its not our
place than whose is it?
Add: Good point. I guess weve gotta do what weve gotta do.
step in Step in and do something, or step in and say something. An expression that is
often used to describe a situation where you are trying to help in a situation where its not
really about you. For example, you could step in to stop a fight between two strangers.
our place Your place to do something means something that is your business or its
ok for you to do something. For example, if someone elses kid was acting rude in front
of their parents, its Not your place to yell at the kid. It would be your place if it was your
own kid. Another example is if someone whom you didnt know very well was spending
a lot of money on clothes, its Not your place to tell them you think they are wasting their
money.
Touchy A very sensitive topic. If you know that someone might easily feel emotional
about some topic, then you can say its touchy or its a touchy issue.
I guess weve gotta do what weve gotta do. A common expression describing a
situation where you dont want to do something or its not easy to do something, but you
know you have to. Its the same meaning as even though its difficult, we still have to
do it.
Conversation
A: Steve, Ive got to talk to you.
B: Just go ahead.
A: Well, dont take this the wrong way, but your girl is ruining your
life. Youve got to get rid of her.
Addison
B: What do you mean?
A: She doesnt work, she calls you 24/7 whining about nothing, and
wont let you hang out with your friends.
A: No you dont. You are just attached. Youve got to cut it. Think
about how horrible your life has been lately. Why do you let people
treat you like that?
it. I guess it is pretty bad. Ill have to at least demand some changes.
A: Alright, but youve got to put your foot down. Youre a cool guy.
You dont have to put up with this garbage.
I really dont know how to say this A way to tell someone you are about to tell him
something sensitive or some bad news.
Dont take this the wrong way This tells someone that you are not trying to make
them angry at all. You are trying to help. If you tell someone, I think you should start
going to the gym. The other person might think you mean they are fat. But maybe your
real meaning is that you want them to keep healthy. So if they got angry, they took it the
wrong way.
24/7 a way to express all the time. 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.
Attached a feeling that you have if youre with someone for a long time. Maybe you
dont really love them but you feel you need them.
put your foot down Make a clear demand and dont change or negotiate your position
at all. For example, a father might say to his daughter, its too late, Im not going to let
you go out, Im putting my foot down. That means he really wont let her go out. This
expression is kind of old fashioned and isnt really used when talking directly to
someone. You can tell someone to put their foot down with someone else. If you say,
Im putting my foot down and you are talking to your friend, you will sound like an
idiot.
put up with to tolerate something. Its something you dont like but you are accepting
it anyway. If you neighbor is playing really loud music, after a while you might not be
able to put up with it anymore, so you go tell them to turn it down.
wimp out a wimp is a weak person in many areas. If you wimp out it means you got
scared in a situation and didnt do something that you were planning to do. So if Steve
saw his girlfriend and didnt tell her what he thought, then he wimped out.
Conversation
And: What are you smiling about?
Add: Ive got a date Saturday night.
And: Whos the lucky lady?
Add: That chick I was talking to when we went bowling last week.
And: Thats awesome! She was really cute.
Add: I know. Hey, can I borrow your cell phone to call her?
And: Why dont you just use yours?
Add: Because Ive been calling her all day and she wont pick up the
phone. She doesnt know your phone number so she might pick up if I
use your phone
And: Thats ridiculous. Dont be such a psycho. Shes going to think
you are a stalker.
Add: Ya, youre right. Do you think I blew it already with the 3 calls?
And: Probably not. But definitely dont call again until she calls you.
And no messages either. You dont want to seem so needy. Chicks
dont like that.
Add: I am being a psycho. Wow.
And: Forget about it. Its easy to do. Just relax and try to play it cool
Psycho A really crazy person. Its short for the word psychopath. This kind of person
should be in a mental hospital. Often in daily English we use this word to describe a
person to acts really ridiculously.
Stalker A person who keeps following and watching another person. When we talk
about dating, if one person really loves another person and keeps thinking about them,
calling them on the phone, and always wants to be with the person, we make fun of them
and call them a stalker.
Blew it Ruined my chance.
Needy if a guy seems like he really wants to be with a girl too much, we call him
needy. Its like he cant live his live without her. He needs her. This word can be used to
describe a girl as well. You can also seem needy in a job interview. In other words you
seem too excited to get the job, like you really need it.
Play it cool Just relax. Try to let things happen naturally. Dont make a big deal out of
things.
Conversation
Add: Howd the interview go today?
And: Its selling life insurance. They said the top guys earn over a
quarter million dollars per year in commission.
Add: Ya, thats how they hook you. Did they happen to mention the
industry average? Also, how are you supposed to find business?
And: They have a list of people and you are supposed to phone them.
Add: Oh, cold calling? Thats horrible. I did that before. Its really
easy to get discouraged. I couldnt handle all the rejections. You are
always interrupting people while they are at work and stuff. They often
get angry and its just a really difficult way to do business.
And: I spoke with a few guys who did it and they said it was tough at
first, but later on you get a lot of business from referrals so you dont
have to rely on cold calling.
Add: thats not too bad I guess. Do they pay you a salary as well?
And: They do for the first 6 months and then after that its all
commission based. Im going to try it out. Ive got a feeling I can be
pretty persuasive.
Add: Its a lot harder than you think, but good luck, I dont want to
discourage you. Im sure it will be a good experience at the very least.
Hook Try to make you do something. In this dialogue, the boss talked about the most
successful salespeople to make the person think its a great job.
Industry average The average amount of money that all the people in one industry
earn. In this case, its the average earnings of the people at that company who sell life
insurance.
Cold calling Some sales people use this method of sales to reach their potential clients.
Its when you simply phone someone from a list of paper. These are often just random
people you are trying to sell to. Its a very difficult form of selling.
Rejections When people refuse to buy your product.
Referrals When someone you have done business in the past, tells someone else about
your business and you sell to that new person. For example, if you sold me a house and
then later I told my friend that you are really good and they should go to you. Then I
referred you and you got your new business from my referral.
Persuasive The ability to use your own reasoning and arguing abilities to make other
people do what you want them to. For example, if you want your friend to go to the bar,
but he doesnt want to go at first, maybe you can persuade him to go if you tell him its
cheap drink night or its ladies night. Its obviously an important quality to have in
sales.
Conversation
Add: Hey, check out this thing on my arm. Ive been tanning a lot
lately and I just noticed it.
Andy: Im sure its nothing to worry about.
Add: Im going to get it checked out by the dermatologist. I just want
to put my mind at ease.
Andy: You better not think its skin cancer. It doesnt look anything
like that. Skin cancer is an irregular shape and it grows. Besides, its
not like you have pale skin, blue eyes, and freckles.
Add: Ya but you never know.
Andy: I think you are going overboard with this. Youd be better off
booking an appointment with a psychiatrist.
Add: How would that help?
Andy: Because you are a hypochondriac. Im sure they have
medicine for that.
Add: Good one.
Going overboard Making too big of a deal of a small situation. For example, if your
friend is 2 minutes late to meet you for coffee, and because of that you decide not to be
friends anymore, than you would be going overboard
Psychiatrist A special kind of doctor who treats people who have mental or emotional
problems.
Hypochondriac A person who always thinks they are really sick. For example, if
someone has a little cough and they think they have a really serious disease, then he is a
hypochondriac. This word is actually a serious problem that some people have. We use
this word for fun sometimes to joke with people about being too scared about a disease
for very little reason.
Good one This is a useful phrase, which can be used to make fun of someones joke. If
someone makes a joke that isnt funny, you can say good one. We use this
sarcastically, meaning we dont really believe its a good joke.
Conversation
And: Is your computer working ok?
Add: Its fine why?
And: Every time I open Firefox, 5 windows pop-up automatically,
and then they all close. Its really annoying.
Add: You obviously have some kind of virus. Didnt you install antivirus software on your computer.
And: I did, but Ive been too lazy to update it.
Add: Good move. How did you get it by the way?
And: Someone sent me a file on MSN messenger about vacation pics
and I opened it.
Add: Ha ha. I cant believe you fell for that. Have fun reformatting your computer.
And: Can you do it for me?
Add: Nice try.
Anti-virus software When you are using the internet there are so many viruses out
there that can ruin your computer. You need to install anti-virus software to avoid getting
the viruses.
Good move This is another common phrase that is often used sarcastically. If someone
does something stupid, you can tease them by saying good move. They will know that
you dont mean it. Its just for fun. For example, if you close the door behind you and
realize that you brought the wrong key so now you cant get in. Someone could say to
you, good move.
Fell for that If someone tries to trick you and they succeed, it means you fell for their
trick. If you get tricked by something really silly where you should have not made the
mistake, you might think to yourself, how could I fall for that?
Have fun reformatting your computer If you cant get rid of a computer virus,
sometimes its best to reformat your computer. It means you need to erase everything on
your hard drive and start again. Its an annoying process for most people. Here we say,
have fun because we are making fun of the person again. Of course it wont be fun.
Nice try Another commonly used phrase. We use it sarcastically again. If someone
tries to trick you or get you to do something you dont want to do, and you dont fall for
their trick, then you can say, nice try. Its kind of like saying, there is no chance you
could trick me with that.
Conversation
A: Ive been feeling really sluggish for the past few weeks.
B: Have you been getting enough sleep? What about your diet?
A: My sleep has been quite good. I dont think theres much of a
problem with my diet either.
B: What about all of those late night burgers youve been pigging out
on at Mcy Ds?
A: Ya, youre one to talk. I dont think Id even recognize you if you
didnt have food in your mouth.
B: Hey, lets not change the subject. Youd probably have a lot more
energy if your worked out more.
A: Well, youre not exactly Arnold Schwarzenegger yourself.
B: I thought we were talking about you. You are being so defensive.
You sound like a six year old.
A: Whatever
example, if someone tells you that you should spend more time studying but you know
that they dont study either, you could reply to them with, youre one to talk
Lets not change the subject: This phrase is used to tell someone if you are trying to
have a conversation about something specific, and they keep trying to talk about
something else. Usually people who are trying to change the subject are not comfortable
talking about it.
Youre not exactly Arnold Schwartzenegger yourself: Arnold Schwarzenegger is a
famous actor and body builder. He obviously goes to the gym a lot. This phrase is one
way of telling someone that they dont exercise a lot. You can use this phrase with many
different famous peoples names. If you want to tell someone they are not really
handsome you could say, youre not exactly David Beckham. Be careful when you use
this phrase though because it is often quite impolite.
Being Defensive: If someone is being defensive, it means that when someone talks to
them about a sensitive topic for them, they will not accept it and usually say something
aggressive back. For example, the person in this dialogue was being really defensive
because he didnt want to talk about his eating problem or not exercising. He kept trying
to change the subject instead.
You sound like a six year old: We often say this to describe someone who is being very
immature.
Whatever: This is used to say that you totally disagree with someone but dont want to
continue talking about it anymore.
ESL Conversation
A: So are you almost ready to go?
B: Youre not going to believe this but Im not going to be able to
make it. I just remembered that I have to go to Jills birthday. Its her
30th so its a bit of a milestone for her. I promised her a month ago. I
cant back out now.
A: Well you seem to have no problem backing out of our plans.
B: I know. Sorry about that. It was really careless on my part. Id
obviously rather hang out with you but I know Ill never hear the end
of it from Jill if I miss her B-day.
A: Shes not even a close friend of yours. Whats the big deal?
B: You dont know Jill. Shes weird about these things. She told me
that shed be really upset if I didnt make it.
A: So youre going to let her put a guilt trip on you? I dont
remember her at your birthday. You are one sorry man you know
that?
B: So how do you suggest getting out of it?
A: Make some excuse.
B: Lie to her?
A: A white lie. Just do it to spare her feelings.
scoring his 1000th point was a milestone for him. Or when we have 10 000 listeners to
our podcast, that will be a milestone for us.
Back out: Backing out of a plan or promise means to try to not do it anymore or try to
break your promise. Maybe you promised your friend you would go to get a tattoo
together but you got scared at the last minute and decided not to get one. Then you
backed out.
Ill never hear the end of it: If you do something that someone else doesnt like, they
might keep talking about it and reminding you of it. Then that means you will never hear
the end of it. If you are in a relationship and your girlfriend sees that you kissed another
girl, then she might not let you hear the end of it.
B-Day: Sometimes we say B-day instead of birthday in spoken English. Its very casual
and used between friends.
You dont know Jill: Here, this sentence does NOT mean that you havent met Jill, it
does means that you dont know Jill really well, or you dont know how she would react
in certain situations.
Guilt trip: Someone who is trying to make you feel guilty so that you behave in the way
that they want you to is putting a guilt trip on you. If your friend says to you, come on,
you are my best friend. You have to come, its my birthday, if you dont come Ill be
really sad
Then they are putting a guilt trip on you. They want to make you feel guilty so you will
go.
A Sorry man: A man who you feel sorry for. Very pathetic. A man who is not capable
of very much.
Getting out of it: Not doing something that you are scheduled to do.
White lie: A lie about something not very important. If you say that you are 29 but
youre really 30, that is a white lie.
Spare her feelings: Do something to avoid hurting someones feelings. For example, if
someone sings you a song and you think they are really horrible at singing, you might tell
them that they are not bad to spare their feelings. If you told them the exact truth then
they might get hurt. This is another example of a white lie.
Conversation
A: So whos all going tonight ?
B: You, Steve, Scott, Kim, Christy, and myself
A: Why did you invite Scott?
B: Whats wrong with him? Hes a nice guy. Hes totally harmless.
A: I know hes harmless. I dont dislike him. Its just that its
Saturday night. Weve already got such a tight group and he doesnt
really bring much to the table.
B: I havent really found that.
A: Think back to the nights hes been there. He doesnt joke around or
laugh much. I think it kind of ruins the group dynamic.
B: I didnt really think of it before but now that you mention it, the
girls dont really seem to be themselves around him
.A: Exactly. So what are you going to do about it?
B: Not much I can do. I already invited him. I cant tell him that we
find him too dull.
A: I suppose not. But next time, Ill do the inviting.
I dont dislike him: This means that you probably dont enjoy the persons company
very much. Maybe because you are too different. You dont think too badly of the
person, but you wouldnt want to spend much time together.
Tight group: A group of friends who are quite close and have spent a lot of time
together. They have a good time together and often dont want to include others.
Bring much to the table: This saying is talking about whether or not a person adds
much. If someone is boring, dull, or doesnt really do or say much in a group, then you
can say they dont bring much to the table. It means they dont add any value. Its
obviously not a very nice thing to say about someone.
Group dynamic: The way a group of people behave together. Sometimes one group of
friends likes to act a certain way when they are together, if someone new comes in and
causes people to act differently, then they have changed the group dynamic.
Now that you mention it: This is said when you didnt think of something before, but
when someone else said it, you all of a sudden realized it yourself and agree.
Be themselves: Being yourself means you act the way that feels most natural to you and
the way you want to act. Sometimes in front of certain people it is hard to be yourself.
Maybe you arent yourself around your boss because you are afraid of what she will think
of you.
ESL Conversation
A: So what did you think about lunch yesterday?
B: The food was really good.
A: You know thats not what I was talking about.
B: I was trying to avoid the subject but I guess youre not going to
let me off that easily. I guess Megan overreacts sometimes.
A: Overreacts? She threw her drink right in my face and stormed out
of the restaurant. She made quite a scene over one innocent
comment.
B: Well you shouldnt have made fun of her ear rings.
A: Whose side are you on?
B: Im on your side, but I wouldnt have said what you said, thats all.
A: Fine, I admit the comment was a little rude, but she really crossed
the line. I hope you arent going to see her again.
B: I might.
A: In a word, Pathetic.
Let me off:
This phrase means to allow someone to not take responsibility for something. You could
say the policeman saw me driving too fast but he let me off instead of giving me a ticket.
Stormed out:
This is talking about a person who leaves somewhere quickly, usually because they are
really angry. My girlfriend yelled at me yesterday and stormed out of the house without
saying where she was going.
Innocent comment:
A comment where you dont intend to hurt anyone.
If somebody did something that is more than you can tolerate or said something too
offensive, then you could say they crossed the line. The line is like someones boundary
or the most they can handle, crossing the line means that you went too far. Its a bad
thing.
In a word:
This phrase is used to describe something simply, only using one word. So you could
say, the dinner last night was in a word, amazing.
ESL Conversation
A: I dont think Ill be calling Brian again.
B: Why not?
A: Sara had some people over for her birthday last night and Brian
showed up with no gift, no drinks, or anything; and to top it off he was
complaining about her not having a good enough selection of drinks.
B: Thats pretty rude but not calling him again is a bit harsh dont you
think? He must have done something else.
A: He could see that everyone took their shoes off at the door but he
still kept his on tracking dirt all over the floor. He also lit up a
cigarette in the house without asking. I mean, who smokes inside
anymore?
B: Thats awful. Did anyone say anything?
A: Someone asked him to smoke outside and he took offense to it. It
was like hed never heard that people dont like second hand smoke in
their face. Oh ya, and he was hitting on Jays girlfriend the whole
night.
B: Did Jay say anything?
A: You know Jay. Hes not really confrontational. He didnt want
to make it too awkward. I can understand that.
To top it off:
You can use this phrase when telling a story. Its used in a situation where you list
several things that happened that would already be enough to prove your point, but you
still have one more big thing to say to add to what you were saying.
Harsh:
Strong, not very forgiving.
Tracking:
When someone walks around with dirty shoes inside the house we say they are tracking
dirt on the floor.
I mean:
Sometimes this is used to express that you believe that most reasonable people should
agree with what you are saying.
Second hand smoke:
Smoke in the air from other people smoking
Hitting on:
Flirting. Talking to someone in a playful way with whom you are normally attracted to,
often someone you might want to have a date with.
You know Jay:
This phrase means that you know Jay quite well and how he would behave in different
situations.
Confrontational:
If someone does something that you dont like or dont agree with and you go to that
person and tell them exactly how you feel and then you are being confrontational. Not
being confrontational is having someone do or say something you dont like and just keep
your feelings to yourself.
ESL Conversation
A: AB, whats going on?
B: Not much, just taking it easy today. Works been killing me lately.
A: What do you say we head downtown and grab a coffee at the
Starbucks near plaza 66.
B: Ive had way too much caffeine lately. I wouldnt mind grabbing
something to eat though. Would you be up for that?
A: Its a nice day today, so we could get something at Element Fresh
near the Portman. Theyve got a patio so we could sit outside.
B: Sure, do you want to workout after?
A: Ive already gone. Wasnt great though. 6 out of 10 at best.
B: Just come with and do some cardio. I think you could afford to
shed a few more pounds.
A: Well see. Lets meet at Element at 2.
B: K, later.
AB: Friends sometimes call people by their initials just for fun. My name is Andrew
Best so friends of mine might call me AB.
Whats going on? A slang phrase meaning, what are you doing now? Or what are your
plans for the next while?
Been killing me: A phrase meaning causing you a lot of stress. You can say, my new
job has been killing me. Or you could say, The summer has been so hot this year, its
killing me.
Grab a coffee: In casual conversation, we sometimes use the verb grab for food or
drinks. Lets grab a coffee, means, lets go somewhere and get a coffee.
Way too much: In casual conversation, we sometimes use way instead of far. Way
too much, means, far too much.
Caffeine: The drug found in coffee that gives people energy and keeps them awake.
Would you be up for that? A casual phrase meaning, Do you want to do that, or will
you do that.
Patio: A place to sit outside. Sometimes restaurants and pubs have patios where people
can sit outside and eat on a nice day.
6 out of 10: Sometimes people rate things out of 10. 10 out of 10 is perfect. 0 out of 10
is the worst.
At best: Ranking something is subjective, which means that its not always clear what the
score out of 10 will be. If you say, 6 out of 10 at best, it means, 6 out of 10 or even lower
than 6 out of 10.
Come with: A slang phrase that means, come with me or come with us.
You could afford to shed a few more pounds: Sometimes we say shed a few pounds,
which means, lose weight.
Element: In the dialogue, I said the restaurants name is Element Fresh. When both
people know clearly what is being talked about, people sometimes use short forms.
Later: When hanging up the phone we sometimes say later. Its slang and should be
used only with friends.
ESL Conversation
Fear is a defense mechanism that evolved over the years to protect us
from dangerous situations. If you werent afraid of dangerous things,
then youd be more likely to engage in dangerous acts. Imagine you
were on the top of a mountain and you werent even the least bit afraid
of falling. You would walk around just as you normally would on the
ground. If you made one false move, youd be toast. The fear you feel
is supposed to make you more careful and pay more attention to the
situation. Even though fear is designed to protect us, it can ironically
have the opposite effect. Fears can be misplaced and prevent people
from doing things that would be beneficial to them. For example,
people may be hesitant to approach the girl or man of their dreams
because they are afraid of rejection. This fear is not very reasonable
because if you dont approach the person, you have no chance in
getting what you want. As long as you can emotionally handle the
rejection, which you should be able to, then you really have nothing to
fear.
Toast
- In this context we mean dead. Its a very causal and non-serious way to talk about
death. If someone close to you died, you would never describe them as being toast.
That would be far too insensitive. Its usually used in a situation where no one actually
died.
Ironically
-Having the opposite effect of what was originally intented.
ex. The government raised taxes to put more money into education but ironically they
raised less money then under the original tax policy.
ex. Its quite ironic that his diet actually caused him to gain weight.
Hesitant
- Unable to act or decide quickly.
He was hesitant to jump into the pool because the water was a little cold.
Rejection
- Being unaccepted.
She didnt ask her boss for a raise because of her fear of rejection.
ESL Conversation
A: Hows the studying going?
B: I havent started yet. Im thinking of going on a caffeine bender
and pulling a couple of all-nighters
A: Cramming is the worst way to prepare for an exam. There is no
way your brain can process and absorb so much material in such a short
time.
B: I used to cram all the time in high school and did just fine.
A: It can work on easier tests but dont get over-confident. This exam
is going to test your understanding of the knowledge rather than just
ask you to recite facts. Have you at least been going to class and
keeping up?
B: No, Ive missed most of them. Ive been in party mode all
semester. Im usually good in physics, I was just hoping to skim over
the chapter summaries, do a few practice problems, and wing it for the
most part.
A: This is all new material. It takes time for these concepts to really
sink in.
B: The test is all multiple-choice. The answers are right in front of
you. Its all process of elimination.
A: Thats a huge misconception. Multiple-choice tests can be really
tough. Sometimes the answers are so similar and you really have to
know the material inside and out to do well.
B: Well see. How bad would you feel if I ended up beating you on
this?
A: I cant see it happening.
Caffeine bender A bender is a slang term for going on a spree. Its usually when you
do something unhealthy without taking a break from it. An example would be, I was on
a drinking bender all weekend.
All-nighters This just means that you stay awake all night doing something.
Cramming A method of studying where you try to learn a lot of information in a very
short time. Usually it doesnt work very well and students who cram are often a little
lazy and procrastinate studying until the last possible minute.
Keeping up Staying up to date. Not falling behind. The sentence, Ive been keeping
up with my school work. Means that you understand the material taught up until that
point. You can also talk about keeping up with a race. Someone could say, We should
go for a bike ride today. Do you think you will be able to keep up?
Party mode Being in some kind of a mode is just slang for saying that you have been
doing a lot of it lately, and your mood and feelings are appropriate for doing that. You
could say, Its been a great vacation. It will be hard getting back into working mode.
Wing it Do something with very little or no preparation. She has a natural talent for
giving speeches. I heard she didnt prepare for that one and was able to simply wing it.
Sink in You can talk about knowledge or concepts sinking in. If you totally
understand a concept you can say that it has sunk in. If you ask someone, How does it
feel to have won the million dollars? The person might reply, I dont know, it still
hasnt sunk in. That means they are still so surprised, they havent really been able to
fully accept what just happened.
Process of elimination This is a method of finding out an answer by ruling out all the
possibilities except for the right one.
Inside and out Knowing something inside and out means that you know something
extremely well.
ESL Conversation
A: Whats going on?
B: Ive had it with my old computer. Its a total piece of junk. Im
getting a new one.
A: Are you getting a Mac or staying with the PC?
B: I know a lot of people swear by the Mac, but Im so used to a PC
that I think Ill just stick with it.
A: I like the Mac because it crashes a lot less and has a lot less
viruses.
B: I dont blame you. I can definitely see how it would be better. I
just cant be bothered to learn how to use one. I also know theres
less software for the Mac.
A: I hear you. What specs are you getting?
B: I want a huge hard drive for all my downloads. I need to get a big
monitor to watch movies on.
A: What about RAM and processor?
B: My needs arent too great for those. I dont use too many
applications simultaneously. I pretty much just do word processing
and surf the net.
Mac: Short form for Macintosh computer. These are the computers made by Apple.
Swear by: If you swear by something, it means you truly believe it.
I dont believe that drinking certain kinds of tea can cure a cold, but some people swear
by it.
Stick with it: If you stick with something, it means you will continue with it.
I think Im going to stick with my original travel plans.
Crashes: A computer crash is when some program is not responding and the computer
seems to freeze. Often you need to restart the computer when it crashes. Its annoying
because it wastes time and can cause you to lose data.
Cant be bothered: If you cant be bothered to do something, it means you dont want
to put in the necessary effort to get something done.
Id love to eat a great home cooked dinner tonight, but I cant be bothered chopping all
the vegetables.
I wouldnt mind going out tonight, but I cant be bothered to get off the couch, have a
shower and get dressed.
I hear you: In this context, I hear you means, I understand what you are saying. It
doesnt necessarily mean you agree with the person, but you can understand their point of
view.
Specs: This is a short form of the word specifications. When we talk about a computer
we often talk about its specs. In this case, specs refers to things like, the size of the
hard drive, the amount of RAM, type of monitor, speed of the processor, etc.
RAM: Acronym for Random Access Memory. It means computer memory that can
be used by the computer to perform functions while the computer is running.
Processor: The part of the computer that controls running the programs
ESL Conversation
A: Wow! Thats the 4th date youve been on this week?
B: Ive been on this new online dating site. Its free for girls and
guys pay about 30 bucks a month for a premium membership. There
are tons of girls on there.
A: They must be pretty desperate though. And they wouldnt need to
be on there if they were a decent catch.
B: Thats what I thought but there are a lot of good-looking girls who
hate the bar scene because they get hit on constantly by slimy guys.
This way they can see your profile and see if you have anything in
common.
A: Isnt it hard to judge their appearance based on a thumbnail
picture?
B: This site makes everyone upload at least 5 pictures with a high
quality resolution. Its true though, that some peoples pics make
them look much better than they do in person. Its hit and miss.
A: What do you do when you show up on a date and know
immediately shes not cutting it in the looks department.
B: Its a delicate situation. Obviously you cant let her know what
you are thinking. I try to make afternoon coffee dates and I always
have a plan B in the back of my mind.
A: Sounds like too much hassle.
B: Its still easier, healthier, and cheaper than being in smoky bars all
the time.
A: Thats true. Maybe Ill try it out. Ive got nothing to lose.
On this new online dating site - We often talk about being on a website which
means been using. In spoken English, we also often say site instead of website.
Both are ok though.
Tons - Slang for very many. I ate a ton of pizza last night.
Desperate Someone who seems to really want a boyfriend or girlfriend but is having a
hard time finding one we call desperate. Girls wont want to date you if you seem
desperate.
Decent catch A decent catch is someone who would be a really good person to date.
They have a lot of good qualities. Generally speaking, a good catch is good looking,
has a good job, has a good personality etc. This term comes from fishing. I guess
finding someone is a little bit like catching a fish.
Bar scene We often refer to the kind of nightlife that includes going to bars to socialize
is the bar scene. Hows the bar scene in Tokyo?
Hit on Getting hit on means that someone is approaching you because they are
interested in maybe dating you. Its like flirting. Models get hit on a lot when they go
out.
Slimy This is a slang term used to describe guys who pretend to be really nice and
genuine but really have different ideas in mind. They might lie to make themselves look
how they think the girl would want them to look like. Maybe they only want to bring you
home for one night. Girls are always trying to stay away from slimy guys.
In common Having something in common with someone means that you have the
same interest or background as they do. When dating, its important to find someone you
have something in common with. What do you have in common with her? We are both
from the same hometown and we have the same taste in music.
Thumbnail picture A thumbnail picture is one of those small square pictures that are
often found on the internet. The picture you have on msn messenger is an example of a
thumbnail picture.
High quality resolution The resolution of a photo is something which refers to how
clear the picture is. The higher the resolution, the clearer the picture.
Hit and miss This phrase means sometimes its good, sometimes its bad. You dont
really know beforehand if the result will be good or not. You just have to try it and hope
for the best. The business of cold calling is hit and miss.
Shes not cutting it in the looks department This phrase is very slang. It means, this
girl is not attractive enough for me. If you are cutting it, it means you are at an
acceptable level. Sometimes we refer to a department, as some kind of aspect. A girl
might say, hes really nice but not great in the romance department.
Delicate situation A situation that you must handle carefully to avoid hurting
someones feelings. Telling someone you think they have an alcohol problem is a
delicate situation.
Plan B Plan B is a back-up plan. Plan A is what you plan on doing. If something
goes wrong, the next plan is called plan B. Lets go to the park tomorrow. Ok, but if it
rains we are going to need to think of a plan B.
Back of my mind If you have something in the back of your mind it means you
arent always thinking about it but it is still there. You think of it from time to time.
all the way to the stadium and listen to the screaming fans. I think Ill just stay home and
watch it on TV.
ESL Conversation
A: I just saw Chris whip by in a new Ferrari. Where did he get that
kind of cash?
B: I think he got it from the settlement.
A: What settlement?
B: Apparently he was taking a shower at the gym and he slipped, fell
and hurt himself pretty badly. He threatened to hire a really good
lawyer and sue them. The gym owners agreed to settle out of court
because they didnt want to take any chances. He made a killing.
A: Thats not their fault? Why would they agree to that?
B: Chris was claiming that they put too much wax on the floor, which
made it too slippery. Apparently theyre not allowed to do that and he
has a case.
A: Thats so absurd! I cant believe people can profit from something
like that. Theres really something wrong with the legal system.
B: I blame Chris as much as anyone. I cant believe he can sleep at
night after exploiting those owners. I cant believe anyone would
actually sue in a situation like that.
A: Are you kidding? Id do the exact same thing if I were in his
shoes. Those owners wont pay directly. Their insurance will cover it.
B: Even if its true wouldnt you have a guilty conscience knowing that
most of your wealth was from cashing in on an injury?
A: Maybe for a little while, but Im sure sipping margaritas in the
Caribbean would take care of that.
B: Youd be judged by everyone.
A: Who cares?
Cover it This means that there is enough money to pay for something. Imagine you are
at a restaurant with your friends and you need to leave early but dont know how much
money you should pay. You might guess that your meal is around $15. You dont want
to pay less so you put down $20 and say, I think this should cover my share.
Or Do you think $200 will cover the cost of the broken window.
Cashing in Cashing in on something means taking the opportunity to make money
from something. When we use this we are often talking about a lot of money. You
should think about how to cash in on your amazing singing ability.
Margaritas A type of alcoholic drink. We often associate this drink with relaxing on
the beach.
Predictable someone who doesnt do many new and exciting things. We often use this
in a bad way meaning the person is a little boring and not adventurous. Even though she
thought her boyfriend was good person, she decided to leave him because he was too
predictable.
Confrontational Someone who is very direct and will express their opinions even in
situations where someone might not like it. For example, if you see someone smoking
and you walk up to them and tell them that it will kill them, thats being confrontational.
Conceited Someone who has an overly favorable opinion of themselves and their own
abilities. Its used in a negative way.
Self-conscious Someone who worries too much about what other people think of them.
Its not good to be self-conscious when learning a new language. My friend is so selfconscious that she wont even sing in front of her close friends.
Rational Someone who is reasonable and uses good judgment to make decisions. They
are usually calm and not so emotional. Its much easier to negotiate with rational people
than emotional ones.
Down to earth Someone who is down to earth is practical, realistic, and in touch
with the lives of regular people. People who are down to earth are reasonable and dont
have a lot of crazy ideas. Often people think that movie stars and celebrities are not
down to earth because their lives are so different from everyone else.
Methodical Someone who does everything in a slow, planned, and systematic way.
Methodical people are careful and never skip steps when doing things. They dont mind
taking a long time to do things because they think that the extra effort is worth it.
ESL Reading
The Weatherman is a window into the personal life of a middle-aged
man named Dave, played by Nicolas Cage. Dave is a minor celebrity,
has a relatively easy job as a weatherman, and a good salary.
Unfortunately his personal life is in shambles. Hes unhappy,
unfriendly, and doesnt seem to have any friends. He wants to show
hes a good father to his kids and tries to no avail to convince his exwife their marriage deserves a second chance. He finds out that hes
being considered for a great job in New York with a massive pay raise
but once again money doesnt seem to help his life. This movie makes
you think about whats really important in life. Some critics dislike the
movie but I personally think its underrated and definitely worth
watching.
Worth watching This means that it wont be a waste of time to watch it. You can also
say worth doing or worth going. worth doing something means its a good idea to
do and you wont regret it. It wasnt my favorite place for a vacation but it was definitely
worth going. That means that going on that vacation was still better than not going and
you dont regret it.
ESL Reading
Many people from all over the world are obsessed with their body
weight. Many of those people wish to lose weight but are utterly
clueless when it comes to how to lose it. They often try fad diets,
weight loss pills, over-training, or a combination. These extreme
measures are unhealthy and virtually impossible to maintain. These
people often lose weight quickly at first, only to gain it all back and
even more once they return to their normal lifestyle. Some people even
develop illnesses such as anorexia.
Fad diets A fad is something that becomes very popular or fashionable quickly, but is
only popular for a brief period of time.
A diet is a plan for what someone can eat. Sometimes certain diets like, seafood diets
or No fat diets become very popular with people for a while. Different diets are
popular at different times. The USA often has a lot of fad diets.
Over-training When someone exercises too much. They make themselves too tired
and hurt from over-exercising. This is unhealthy and people often become sick from it.
Virtually impossible Here virtually means almost. Virtually is often used with the
word impossible. To say something is impossible it means that there is absolutely 0%
chance of something happening. It cant happen. If you say virtually impossible it
means that there is almost no chance of it happening, but maybe in some strange case it
might happen.
Anorexia an eating disorder where you dont want to eat at all. Some people get this
because they want to be really thin and they always think they are too fat. This is a very
serious disorder and some people die from it.
ESL Reading
As of July 31 2006, the number of blogs worldwide was reported to
have topped 50 million. According to reports, the blogosphere was
doubling every 6 months or so with more than 2 new blogs created
every second. Many people enjoy reading blogs more than a news
report because they enjoy the free writing style and the unbiased
opinions. Some of the most successful bloggers have been able to turn
their hobby into a full time career by monetizing their blogs with pay
per click advertising and donations. Although possible, these cases
are few and far between and its recommended that most bloggers
dont quit their day jobs.
Dont quit your day job If a person has some new idea for making money but this
method might not work or is risky, you can use this expression. So dont quit your day
job means, be careful because you might not be able to earn money from this idea. Or
Its risky to totally depend on that for a source of income.
ESL Reading
There are several different strategies and methods to lose weight, but
here are some of the most common ideas. Its important to control your
total caloric intake. Calories are the energy found in food and this
energy will be stored as fat if the body doesnt use them up. You
should try to keep the amount of saturated fats to a minimum and also
not eat so many simple carbohydrates. You should exercise regularly
and do both strength training exercises as well as cardio-vascular
exercise. A Big Mac at Macdonalds has 492 calories and would take
you almost an hour of moderate bike riding to burn that. If you have
a daily caloric deficit of 500 calories, it would take you about 13 days
to lose a kilogram of body fat.
fairly fast riding but not nearly the fastest you can ride. Strenuous or heavy are
words to describe very difficult and intense exercise. Light is usually used to describe
easy exercise. So light jogging would be a very slow and easy run.
Caloric deficit A caloric deficit means that you burn more calories than you eat. We
also often say consume calories or take in calories instead of eat calories. So if
you had a 500 calorie deficit on a given day, that would mean that the total number of
calories that you burned that day was 500 more than the number of calories that you
consumed.
ESL Reading
Global warming is one of the top priorities on the agenda of
governments all over the world. The general consensus among
scientists is that the current warming of the earth is caused by
greenhouse gas emissions from human activity. Its a difficult
problem to address because the activities that cause global warming
are very interconnected with our lifestyles and economic systems.
There is also disagreement about what the best way to tackle the
problem is. Some people want extremely strict emission regulations on
businesses, while others believe that would only cripple the economy.
Some economists like the idea of carbon trading, while others dont
like the idea of being able to pay money to pollute.
Tackle: This is another word that we sometimes use to say solve or deal with a
problem. Do you have any ideas as to how we should tackle this problem?
Cripple: cause harm to, slow down, make weaker. Cripple the economy means to make
the economy much worse.
Carbon Trading: A system where companies or countries set emissions targets for
greenhouse gas emissions. If you go over your limit of greenhouse gas emissions, then
you can buy the right to emit more gases. Its a way to give companies a good reason
to try to emit less gas. If they emit too much they have to pay money. If they emit less
gas, then they can earn money by letting other companies buy their right to emit more
gas.
ESL Reading
A: What did you think of last nights dinner party?
B: It was fun up until Katie showed up. She really took Luke out of
the picture. It was pretty tacky for them to be making out in front of
everyone like that.
A: At least she was pleasant. Sarah was just picking at her food with
a sour look on her face. Then after dinner she wouldnt talk to anyone
and just sat there playing with her cell phone. I think she made
everyone feel a little awkward.
B: At least Bill made it all worthwhile. He broke the tension with
some outrageous remarks and had everyone cracking up.
A: Ya, it was really great to see him in top form like that. That was
the first time Ive seen him so relaxed since he dumped the old ball
and chain.
B: I really liked how the girls were friendly to each other. Remember
the last one where a couple of the girls got really catty to each other?
A: Ya, that was unbelievable!
B: All in all Id say last night was a success. I just hope someone else
hosts the next one. The place looks like a pigsty today.
Tacky: Unfashionable. Bad taste. That color of your pants is too bright. They look
really tacky. The furniture in your house looks really tacky. Also, as you noticed in this
lesson tacky can refer to behavior. Some people think that kissing in public is tacky
behavior. Going to someones house for dinner and not bringing anything is a little
tacky.
Making out: Passionately kissing and hugging. Sometimes in American movies you
will see couples making out.
Pleasant: A personality trait that means enjoyable to be around. This kind of person
is often smiling and doesnt cause much trouble. They are easy to meet and friendly.
Picking at her food: Picking at food means to be eating really slowly and mostly just
moving the food around the plate. It seems like the person is busier playing with the food
then eating it. Often people do this when they are eating something they dont like and
dont really want to eat.
Sour look: This is a facial expression that looks like you just ate a lemon. The person
with a sour look appears that they really are not enjoying themselves. They seem like
they are unhappy and disappointed. They seem to wish they were somewhere else.
Broke the tension: When there are two or more people together who dont seem to be
comfortable with each other, we say there is tension. For example, someone is at a
party and their ex-girlfriend shows up unexpectedly and it makes everyone feel a little
uncomfortable but no one is really saying anything. They can all just feel it. At that
point we say there is tension in the air. If someone does something like tell a joke to
get everyone laughing, we say they broke the tension.
Cracking up: This simply means laughing. Hes funny; he really cracks me up.
Top form: Being in top form means you are at your best. People arent always in
their best mood or being their funniest or their best. If you are in top form, you are
confident, happy, fun, and enjoyable to be around.
Dumped: To dump someone means to break up with them. Have you ever been
dumped? Last week his girlfriend dumped him.
Ball and Chain: If you are dating someone who is really making your life worse, ie.
Causing you stress, making you unhappy, not giving you freedom, we say they are a ball
and chain. Long ago, prisoners had a very heavy ball tied to their leg with a chain so
they couldnt move. The idea is that the person you are dating is having such a bad
influence on your life, they are slowing you down as much as a ball and chain. People
usually just use this phrase as a joke and you could say to your friend, "where is the ball
and chain?"
Catty: In casual conversation we refer to girls being jealous of each other and acting
mean or rude to each other because of this jealousy as being catty. If two girls fight,
we call it a cat fight.
All in all: This is a phrase that means, in conclusion. You could say, today was
raining and the weather was cold, but it was still really fun to spend time with my
friends. All in all it was a good day.
Pigsty: This is the name of the place where pigs live. It is obviously really dirty and
disgusting. If someone has a really dirty apartment, you can say, your place is such a
pigsty.
ESL Reading
A: I wasnt going to mention it but I think you still owe me a few
bucks for the tickets.
B: Whatever. Didnt I foot the bill for the rent the last two months? I
also paid for the satellite TV.
A: You have a pretty selective memory. First of all I paid for the rent
the two months prior to that. I also told you that I didnt want the
satellite TV. I dont even watch it. Also, when you were broke last
year I paid for most of the Thailand trip.
B: Alright fine. Ill pay you for my ticket. I didnt think you were
keeping track of every penny.
A: I wasnt. The tickets were $500 bucks each. Im not exactly
made of money you know. Just try not to be such a freeloader.
B: Oh come on. That was a cheap shot. Its not that bad.
A: Ill tell you what. Just pay me for the ticket. Then well have a few
tall boys and forget the whole thing.
B: Sounds good.
Broke: This just means have no money or almost no money. Sorry guys, I cant join
you guys for dinner tonight, Im broke.
Keeping track of every penny: This phrase just means that you are paying really close
attention to your money and spending.
Im not exactly made of money: This phrase just means that you dont have a lot of
extra money that you can spend freely. A father might say to his son, I wish I could
help you pay for your vacation but unfortunately Im not made of money
Freeloader: This expression refers to someone who is really cheap and trying to get
other people to pay for their lives. For example, if you take advantage of peoples
kindness and live with them, eat their food, and dont pay for anything yourself, you are
free loading off them.
Cheap shot: This can refer to two things. The original meaning refers to hitting someone
in an unexpected and unfair way during a fight. For example, if you want to fight
someone and you hit them from behind when they arent looking or arent ready, it is
called a cheap shot. The other meaning, like in the dialogue, refers to saying something
to someone else that is hurtful and too mean to say. For example if you are angry with
someone and you tell them about some physical problem that they have like being born
with really big ears, that is a cheap shot, because the big ear comment is something that
they cant control.
Tall boys: This is a slang expression that refers to the tall 500 ml cans of beer.
ESL Reading
Called the whole thing off calling something off means to cancel an event like a
date or a wedding. How was your date last night? We didnt go, Clare got sick and
called it off.
Out of the blue This expression refers to something that comes as a surprise and with
no warning. It also means you dont know why something happened. Steve seemed like
he was happy with his job but he just quit right out of the blue. Where did you get the
idea to write a book? I have no idea. It seemed to come right out of the blue.
Cold feet This is a special phrase that is used to describe someone who is nervous
about getting married. Many people get cold feet the night before their wedding day.
Talk her out of this talking someone out of something means you persuade or
convince them not to do something. Michelle wanted to quit the basketball team but the
coach talked her out of it.
Forked This is a little bit slang and can be used as a verb to describe paying a lot of
money for something. The idea is that you are using so much money that you need a big
fork to help you pick up all the money.
Dough This is a slang term that means money. Hes making a lot of dough at his
new job.
Tux This is short for tuxedo. A tuxedo is a special mens suit that they often wear to
a wedding. They are very expensive so a lot of people rent tuxedos when they need
them.
Available This is a way to describe someone who is single, ie. They are not in a
relationship. It means available to date. Hey, remember that girl you introduced me
to at the party? Is she available?
Your heart is in the right place This phrase means that the person intends to do
something kind or helpful, but actually causes more harm than good with their actions.
For example, imagine a mother keeps giving her needy son money because she feels
sorry for him, but actually this money is causing the son to be lazy and not look for a job.
You could say her heart is in the right place because she actually wants to help. In our
dialogue we were being sarcastic when we used this phrase because the person was
actually being selfish.
ESL Reading
A: What took you so long? Weve been waiting for hours.
B: I was stuck in traffic. We were moving at a snails pace for miles.
A: Meeting at six doesnt mean leaving the house at 5 to six.
B: I left early. The traffic was horrendous.
A: Its rush hour. What did you expect?
B: It was the worst traffic Ive ever seen.
A: You cant keep playing that card. Its like the tenth time youve
used that excuse.
B: Well, what can I say? Im sorry. How can I make it up to you?
A: Whats with the attitude? I really dont appreciate your tone of
voice.
B: I suppose youre never late.
A: Well, Im not late nearly as often as you. You dont respect anyone
elses time.
B: I like to think I more than make up for it with my personality.
Rush hour: This is the time when everyone is either driving to work or driving home from
work. Its the time when there are the most cars on the road and the traffic is really bad.
What did you expect? This is a rhetorical question that is similar to saying Of course it
would be like this. Why did you think it would be any different? If a guy who didnt
study looked surprised when he failed his test, you could say to him, What did you
expect? You knew it was a hard test and you did no preparation.
You cant keep playing that card: This expression means you cant keep making the
same excuse. Maybe someone would accept the excuse once or twice, but finds it
unreasonable for the person to keep using it. If someone asked you, Can I borrow some
money? Ive been too sad since my girlfriend left me. You could say. You cant keep
playing that card. She left you over a year ago. Its time to stop feeling sorry for
yourself and get a job.
Like: It is slang here and means, approximately or about. How old is she? Im not
exactly sure. I think shes like 30.
Make it up to: If you make something up to someone it means you do something good
to compensate for your mistake. If someone is angry with you because you forgot to call
them on their birthday, you might be able to make it up to them by treating them to
dinner.
Whats with the attitude? This is a rhetorical question that means Why do you have a
bad attitude right now? or Why are you talking to me in such a rude way right now?
Its not a very nice thing to ask. If you ask this question it means you are fairly upset
with the other person.
Tone of voice: Theres a saying in English that goes: its not what you say but how you
say it It means that its even more important how you speak to someone than your
actual words. You can say Why did you stay out so late last night? in a friendly way,
or say the same thing in a way where you show you are upset. Its the same question but
the tone of voice changes the meaning.
More than make up for it: If you more than make up for something it means that the
good qualities or the good thing you did, makes your bad ones forgettable or much less
important. You could say, I know hes a little selfish with his time sometimes, but he
more than makes up for it with his great sense of humor and generosity with money.
You could also talk about an athlete by saying, Although hes quite short, he more than
makes up for it with his speed.
ESL Reading
ESL Reading
A: Keep Thursday night open. Layton is having a huge BBQ and
kegger in his backyard. Its 15 bucks a head for burgers and all you
can drink Keiths.
B: Why doesnt he have it on the weekend? Ive got classes all day
Friday.
A: What kind of an idiot schedules classes on Friday morning? Ive
got Fridays off and I never start class before noon.
B: I had no choice. Im taking a real major and not just a bunch of
bird courses. They only had classes offered at those times.
A: Well dont be such a goodie two shoes. Its a month before
midterms. Im sure you can afford to miss a class or two.
B: The problem is Ive been succumbing to your peer pressure way
too much lately. I could find an excuse to miss class every day if I
wanted.
A: Did I tell you the cheerleaders will be there?
B: Damn. Youve got me again.
Keiths: This is a short form for Alexander Keiths. This is one relatively famous beer
in Canada. Im not sure how common it is anywhere else in the world.
What kind of an idiot..? This is a rhetorical question. If you ask what kind of an
idiot would pay $200 for fake shoes? You are asking How could someone be so stupid
to pay $200 dollars for fake shoes? Or I dont think there would be anyone stupid
enough to pay $200 dollars for fake shoes? The exact meaning depends on the context
but it should be easy to figure out. Obviously in our dialogue, the person is saying, That
was really stupid of you to schedule your classes on Fridays.
Bird courses: This just means easy course. Some students take bird courses to get
higher marks and make their lives easier.
Goodie two shoes: This is an old slang term that is used to make fun of someone who is
scared to bend the rules and have a little fun. If your parents tell you that you need to be
home before 9 pm, and you tell your friend that, they might say to you, Dont be such a
goodie two shoes. Im sure if you get back by 9:15 it will be ok.
Succumbing: Allowing something to beat or control you. I promised myself I wouldnt
eat any ice cream today, but I wasnt strong enough and finally succumbed to my
craving.
Peer pressure: This is the pressure you get from your friends, or other people in a
similar situation to you. Usually this pressure is to do something bad. Many people start
smoking because of peer pressure. Their friends all smoke so they decide to start.
Cheerleaders: These are the people, (usually girls) who dance and cheer for the teams at
sporting events. Each team has their own cheerleaders to get the crowd excited. These
girls are often good looking and in good shape.
Youve got me again: This means, you win again.
ESL Conversation
A: Youll never guess who added me on Facebook.
B: Who?
A: Megan Smith.
B: As in the multi-millionaire super model?
A: Yup.
B: How do you know her?
A: She used to live 3 doors down from us when we were kids. She left
home to model when she was 14 and has been on the road ever since.
Im surprised she still remembers.
B: If thats the case its not that surprising she remembers. Im sure
shes just trying to connect with everyone from her past. A lot of
people do that.
A: Im the only one I know of who shes added. Anyway, shes
coming back for our 10-year high school reunion. I know shes single
too. Im thinking of making a move.
B: I cant believe my ears. Youre just going to end up making a
fool of yourself. She could get anyone she wants. Besides, you dont
want to get mixed up with a celebrity. Im sure all the fame has gone
to her head and she would be a nightmare to deal with.
A: Whatever man. I saw her on Letterman. She seemed really cool.
She even said that shes looking for a normal guy. Shes had bad
luck dating movie stars and just wants to settle down with someone out
of the limelight.
B: Youre unbelievable. You havent seen her in over 10 years and
youre imagining settling down with her.
A: Im just saying Im looking forward to the reunion thats all.
Letterman: This is a famous late night comedy talk show. Its popular in the USA and
Canada. David Letterman is the host of the show and he interviews many different
famous guests.
Normal: If you say, quote end quote.. it means that you are trying to say
EXACTLY what someone else said, or you cant find the perfect word for something so
you are using the best word you can think of. In the dialogue, it said Shes looking for a
normal guy. The reason we used quotations is because its not really clear what a
normal guy is exactly. Here she is obviously talking about someone who isnt a movie
star, but its unfair to say that movie stars are not normal.
Settle down: this phrase usually means get married and have kids. Its talking about a
stable life with a steady job and a family. Its common now for young people to have fun
and be free in their 20s and start to think about settling down when they are in their
30s.
Limelight: Being in the limelight means you are in the public eye. The media writes
about what you do and you are well known. Famous athletes and movie stars are in the
limelight. Some people love it whiles others would prefer more privacy.
ESL Conversation
A: Hello, May I speak with Mr. Steve Jones please?
B: Speaking.
A: Hi Steve. This is Glen Smith calling from Cogeco, your cable
provider. Weve got some great new super-saver packages Id like to
tell you about.
B: Im sorry, we watch enough TV as it is and the last thing we need is
more channels.
A: Steve, I know exactly where youre coming from. Interestingly
enough, there was a major study done last year, which showed that
people who receive more channels actually watch less TV.
B: Well unfortunately we cant afford it at the moment. Weve maxed
out our credit cards and have no cash.
A: Well, youre in luck. We have a special plan for people like you.
You dont have to pay a cent for the first 12 months.
B: Whats the catch?
A: Theres no catch. You just have to pay a small service charge for
the paper work.
B: My wife would kill me if I spent another cent.
A: Then you can try our free 14-day trial. Ill give you some extra
sports and movie channels and throw in a couple of channels Im sure
your wife will love.
B: So its totally free for 2 weeks?
A: Yep, just make sure you call and cancel before your trial period
ends. Enjoy the new channels Steve.
B: Thanks. Bye
A: Bye.
ESL Conversation
A: Whats going on? You dont seem to be your usual self.
B: Well, things arent great at the moment. I cant make any good
friends in this city and no one wants to hire me with my sociology
degree.
A: Its a huge city. Why cant you make any friends?
B: I dont know. It just seems everyone is really cliquey and
unapproachable here.
A: Whats the problem with the job hunt then?
B: Ive sent out a few resumes and heard nothing. I dont have much
experience and companies dont want anyone with a degree that isnt
practical.
A: Ok, fair enough, life isnt the easiest right now. But dont be so
down on yourself. Your negativity is killing you. I know. Ive been
there. The limiting beliefs will turn into a reality if you let them.
B: Thats easy for you to say, youve already got a great job and a lot
of good friends. You also studied business at a great school. No one
wants a guy with a degree in Sociology.
A: Im telling you, this will turn into a self-fulfilling prophecy. The
more you believe it the more likely it will come true. Remember, that
is just a general opinion. It isnt a fact. Im positive that some people
with degrees in sociology have jobs. Its true that if people just read
your degree on a resume it might slightly lower your chances of getting
a job. But companies are always looking for good people. Youve got
to do some networking and get the word out that you are looking for a
job. If you impress people with the type of person you are, Im sure
youll find something. Youve just got to keep your head up.
B: I guess your right. Its just tough to do it without any friends to
support me.
A: So make some friends. Get out of the house and do things. Just be
sociable and talk to people. Youve also got to somehow get yourself
in a better mood too. People wont want to make friends with you if
you are depressed and negative. People wont become your friend out
of pity.
B: Ill try it then. Thanks for the support.
will seem to become true. It will seem as though you were right from the beginning.
Another short guy might not have this belief and maybe he will meet a beautiful girl
because he wasnt afraid to talk to them.
Get the word out: This means to tell many people something and have many as many
people know about something as possible. Companies always try to think of the best
ways to get the word out about their new products.
Keep your head up: This means to stay positive or look on the bright side.
ESL Conversation
A: Have you been catching any of UFC fights theyve been showing
on satellite?
B: Ive never heard of it. What is it?
A: It stands for Ultimate Fighting Championship. Its a mixed
martial arts competition. Fighters from all over the world and from
all kinds of different fighting backgrounds compete. They fight in an
Octagon, which is a little bit similar to a boxing ring. There are very
few rules. You can do almost anything to your opponent except for
things like eye gouging or biting.
B: How do they judge the competition?
A: There are judges who score each fight and decide on a winner after
the fight. A lot of fights are actually stopped prematurely because one
of the fighters is forced into submission. The ref also often stops the
fight if he feels one of the fighters is unable to defend himself?
B: Wouldnt the bigger and stronger fighters win most of the time?
A: Its surprising how talented some of the smaller fighters are. Ive
seen fighters win against guys who outweigh them by over 100
pounds. With that said though, size is still a factor and they divide the
fighters into different weight classes.
B: It sounds pretty scary. Those guys must be crazy.
A: Actually, most of them see it as a sport and they have a lot of
respect for the other fighters. Many of them have very good
sportsmanship and are able to shake hands and hug after a grueling
fight.
B: It sounds interesting. Ill have to check it out. When is it on?
A: The live fights are mostly pay-per-view, but they show a lot of
reruns on many of the sports channels.
Live: If something is shown live on TV it means it is happening in real life at the same
time. Sometimes sports are shown live. Sometimes they are shown much later than the
actual match.
Pay-per-view: This is a type of TV channel that you must pay each time you watch
something. These are common in North America but Im not sure about the rest of the
world. Some movie channels are pay-per-view. If you want to see the movie, you must
pay something like 3 dollars to watch it.
Reruns: These are shows or events played on TV that have already been played before.
Many times the same TV show will be played over and over again. If its not the first
time its being shown on TV, it is called a rerun.
ESL Reading
The Simpsons is a revolutionary animated sitcom, which has won
several awards and become a major part of mainstream television in
North America. It is intended to portray the typical working class
American family. The show exaggerates and jokes about many of the
stereotypes in America, which often offends people. Marge, the
stereotypical housewife and mother, is married to her overweight
husband Homer who works as an inspector for a nuclear power plant.
He hates his job but only does so to support his wife and three kids.
Hes always looking for shortcuts to get ahead in life and is gullible
enough to get involved with get-rich-quick schemes. Homer and his
son Bart, a mischievous kid, have drawn criticism for being poor role
models. Several parents have decided to not allow their children to
watch the show. Despite that, millions of people love The Simpsons
and tune in every week.
Stereotypes: a simplified and general belief about a wide group. These arent
necessarily true for all members of the group. For example, some stereotypes are
Americans like guns. Canadians like hockey. Girls like to play with dolls.
Shortcuts: A shortcut is method that is used to reduce the time and energy needed to do
something. A lot of times shortcuts have disadvantages but lazy people like to take
them. For example, taking weight loss pills is a short cut for losing weight. They are
certainly not the healthiest way to lose weight but are much easier than running for hours
at the gym.
Gullible: Someone who is gullible is tricked easily. It is easy to make them believe
things that arent true.
Get-rich-quick schemes: These are ways to get rich quickly without doing a lot of
work. These most often dont work and the people who believe in them are lazy and
gullible. In North America it is common to see someone trying to sell their get rich
overnight secret system, book, or video. Most people who buy these things dont end up
making any money. These schemes sound good are first but are usually too good to be
true.
Mischievous: causing trouble or harm. Young boys are often mischievous. Lying to
your parents about homework, sneaking out at night, or pulling your sisters hair are all
examples of mischievous behavior.
Drawn: This means attract or get. If you draw attention it means you get or attract
attention. If you draw criticism it means you get criticized. If you draw a large crowd, it
means that many people will come to watch you. David Beckham draws a large crowd
no matter where he plays.
Role models: A person who has positive characteristics that you would like to learn. Its
important for young people to have good role models. Michael Jordan is often looked
upon as a good role model for young kids.
Tune in: Tuning in means to watch or listen to. You can tune into your favorite TV
show, or you can tune into China232.
ESL Dialogue
A: Hey, whats going on?
B: Im thinking of asking one of the new girls out.
A: Does she work here in the office?
B: Ya. I heard through the grapevine that shes single.
A: You cant do that. Theyll can you if they find out.
B: I know its against office policy, but I thought in reality office
romance is just frowned upon. It seems like a grey area to me.
Besides, whos going to find out?
A: First of all its more than frowned upon and its very black and
white. Fred got the axe last year for dating Karen. The other thing is
you know how chicks like to gossip. If you guys start having any
relations, it wont be long before everyone knows.
B: Fred didnt get canned just because of dating Karen. That was just
the excuse they used. They wanted to let him go for a long time but
couldnt think of a reason. My work has been outstanding this year and
Im sure theyll look the other way if they think somethings going on.
A: Good luck. Who is she by the way?
B: Heather, the new secretary.
A: Wow. Shes really hot. Realistically, Id also chance it if I were
you.
Frowned upon: This phrase mean that people dont approve of some kind of behavior.
Its not illegal but people look down upon it. Wearing those kind of ugly clothes to such
a nice restaurant is frowned upon. It means you can do it but people wont like it.
Grey area: This is something that is debatable or unclear. Dating in the office is a grey
area means that its not certain whether dating someone in the office is ok or not.
Black and white: This phrase means that something is either one way or the other. You
could say, Dating in the office is not a grey area. Its black and white. If you date
someone in the office you will get fired. Guaranteed.
Got the axe: This phrase also means to get fired. He got the axe after only working in
the company for 2 weeks.
Gossip: To talk about rumors or other peoples personal matters.
Let him go: This is a polite way of saying you fired someone. Although I liked Mark, I
had to let him go because he kept coming late every day.
Look the other way: This phrase means to pretend that you dont see something bad. It
also means you wont punish or penalize someone for doing this act. For example, if
your boss saw you dating someone in the office but he looked the other way, it means he
didnt mention it to you and he wont punish you for it. He just pretended it didnt
happen.
Chance it: This is a slang phrase that means to take a chance or a risk. Im not sure if
tomorrow will rain but Im going to chance it and go to the golf course anyway.
ESL Reading
Im not sure as to the origin of the quote but it is common knowledge
that a dog is a mans best friend. Several studies have supported the
notion that dog owners reap several physical and psychological health
benefits. Theres been some evidence pointing to dog owners having
lower blood pressure and better immune systems than non-dog
owners. Its well known that dog owners consider their dog as a
genuine family member, and this form of love and contact may help to
explain some of these benefits. Dog owners also have pressure to get
exercise because they need to walk their dogs. An added benefit of
walking a dog is that it can help stimulate social interaction with
other humans, because having a dog can make a person more
approachable and provide a good ice-breaker. Dogs also have an
advantage over human companions because dogs are even more loyal
than humans. They are truly capable of unconditional love.
sick, for example a cold, then our immune system fights the disease and thats how we
get better.
Genuine: Real, not fake. This is a genuine NBA basketball. That means the
basketball is exactly the same kind of ball they use in the NBA.
Stimulate social interaction: Stimulating social interaction is a complicated way of
saying getting people talking to each other. Because many people are shy, it is said
that drinking some alcohol can help stimulate social interaction.
Approachable: Being approachable means you make other people feel that you are an
easy person to talk to. People who smile a lot are more approachable than those who
dont.
Ice-breakers: Ice-breakers are comments or other events that get people talking
easily. If you approach a girl at a bar, its important to think of a good ice-breaker to
make her feel comfortable talking to you.
Companions: A person, or animal who accompanies you and helps you to feel not
lonely. Old people who live alone are often lonely without any companions.
Unconditional love: unconditional love is exactly what it sounds like. It means
loving someone no matter what. It doesnt matter what kind of mistakes they make, you
will still love them anyway. Its important for children to feel that their parents love
them unconditionally.
Slave driver This is the kind of person who makes other people work very hard. It is
not a nice term.
1. Hes so stressed out at work because his boss is a real slave driver.
Puppet A puppet is a slang term for a person whos actions are controlled by someone
else.
1. That government leader is just a puppet. Hes not saying what he truly believes.
2. I hate working for this company. I cant voice my own opinions. They want me
to be a puppet.
Suck up A suck up is someone who acts like someone else is so great just because they
want something from them. A suck up compliments the other person and acts overly nice
in hopes of getting some reward.
1. He is such a suck up. He always tells his teacher that he is the best teacher in the
world. I know he is just trying to get better grades.
Shes been sucking up to her boss lately because shes hoping to get a salary raise.
Quit cold turkey: This is a set phrase. If you quit something cold turkey that means
that you quit all at once. You dont slowly quit. For example, quitting smoking cold
turkey means that after you say you are going to quit, you never have another cigarette.
Have the odd one: If you have the odd cigarette, it just means that you have a
cigarette once in a while but not often. You can also say, the odd time. This means
that you dont do something very often. If someone asks, Have you been playing much
golf lately? you could answer with, Ive been busy lately, but I still play the odd
time. They both mean, infrequently.
I dont buy it: This phrase means, I dont believe it. Imagine your friend said to you,
Kevin said that he won a medal in the Olympics. You could say, I dont buy it. Hes
always making up stories.
Slippery slope: This phrase means that once you start doing something a little bit, its
hard to control yourself. It is a kind of bad habit that is easy to pick up. If you love to eat
chocolate, its hard to only eat a little piece and then stop. You could say, Ive decided
not to eat any more chocolate. Once I start I cant stop. Its a really slippery slope for
me.
You sound like my mother: We often use this phrase to tell someone that they are
trying to control you. If your friend is nagging you about some problem, you could tell
them, you sound like my mother.
Youre on: This phrase is used to agree with or accept the terms of a bet. If your friend
says to you, Ill bet you 10 dollars that I can been you at tennis, you could reply with
youre on. That means, Sure, Ill make that bet with you.
Honor system: The honor system is the term we use to say that we will just use trust.
In this dialogue, the one person could of course cheat on the bet because the other person
wont know if he is really smoking outside of the bar. The honor system means that
you agree to trust that no one will cheat.
Backing out: Backing out of something, like a bet, means that you say you wont do it
anymore, even though you had previously agreed to do it.
Snap out of it: This phrase means to get over something bad quickly. Lately Ive been
thinking too much about my ex-girlfriend and I cant seem to snap out of it.
He says hes been in a bad mood for the past month and doesnt know how to snap out
of it.
Get out of a rut: If you are in a rut it means that some bad part of your life keeps
being the same. This is some consistent negative pattern that you would like to change.
For example, if you havent studied English for the past month, you could say that you
are in a rut. If you are in a rut you must change your behavior to get out of it.
Look whos talking: If someone tries to criticize you for some problem that the person
criticizing also has, then you can say to them, look whos talking. This basically
means, You have the same problem as me, so how can you criticize me?
If my memory serves me correctly: This is a kind of formal phrase that we use for
fun in conversational English sometimes. For example you could tell someone, If my
memory serves me correctly, you still owe me 50 dollars. This is a kind of fun and
polite way to remind someone that they owe you money. When you say this, you are
quite certain that you do remember correctly.
Im sure your gym shoes have an inch of dust on them: If something hasnt been used
for a long time, it will start to get dusty (dirty from the air). If you want to tell someone
that they havent used something in a long time, you can tell them that you bet that this
thing has an inch of dust on it.
Physical activity: Physical activity basically means any form of exercise. Walking,
working out, playing basketball, and working in the garden, are all forms of physical
activity.
Spare tire: This is a slang term for a fat stomach. The reason is it looks like you put a
tire (a wheel of a car or bicycle) around your waist.
Point taken: If someone criticizes you about something and you agree with them, you
could say, point taken. It basically means, I agree with what you just said.
Fatty: This is a word that you can use to make fun of someone who is fat. We often use
it as a joke to tease close friends who are a little bit fat. Even if you see your friend (who
isnt fat) eating a Macdonalds hamburger, you could say, how is the hamburger fatty?
This is just a joke. It is extremely rude to call a very large person fatty.
Piling on: Piling on just means giving a lot or using a lot. If someone is putting a
lot of mashed potatoes on their plate, you could say to them, youre really piling on the
mashed potatoes. That usually means, you are taking too much food. A student
might say, the teachers have been piling a lot of homework this year.
O.T.: This is a short form for over-time. If you work O.T., it means that you are
working more hours than you are scheduled to work. If you get paid O.T. it means that
you get paid extra money for the over-time work that you did.
Justify their salaries: Often in companies, people who get high salaries need to
occasionally explain or show why they are worth so much money. So justifying your
salary means to prove to the company why you deserve so much money.
Let some people go: This is a soft way to say, fire some people. Last year the
company let go a few of my best friends. This means, last year the company fired a few
of my best friends.
In jeopardy: If something is in jeopardy it means it is at risk. Shes in jeopardy of
losing her job means, she might get fired.
When all the dust settles: This is the outcome after something goes through a change or
is the result at the end of a period of uncertainty. After the change, when all the dust
settles is what the new situation is like. We often hear this in the news about a
developing technology or a company restructuring. For example, When all the dust
settles the companys future should look bright. This is a company that is going through
many changes and after the changes, it should be doing well.
Bags under your eyes: Sometimes when people get really tired, their eyes look like they
have little bags under them. Having bags under your eyes is something that no one
wants, so if they notice them, they will want to make sure they get more rest.
month, you could say to your friend, Hey, you should pony up and get your girlfriend
something nice for her birthday.
Im not much of a concert guy: The common expression here is,
Im not much of a..guy. This means that you dont really like doing that thing.
For example, if you dont like going to bars, you could say, Im not much of a bar guy.
If you are a girl saying it, you can change guy to girl.
I cant really see myself: You can use this expression when you really dont plan on
doing something. For example, if someone asked you to go swimming when you were
sick, you could say, I have a fever and I feel horrible. I really cant see myself putting
on a bathing suit now. This expression basically means, Not only will I not do it, I
cant even imagine doing it.
Lame excuse: A lame excuse is a very bad or weak excuse. If your friend cancelled
dinner plans with you and told you the reason was that he wanted to stay home and watch
TV instead, you could say, thats a pretty lame excuse.
To each his own: You can say this expression by itself. It means that everyone one is
different and they like different things. You often say it after you hear of something that
you wouldnt do, but you can accept that other people have their own opinions.
Bitter: If someone is bitter about something it means that they are still upset and
bothered by something that happened in the past. For example, imagine that your
girlfriend broke up with you to date someone else. Then later you see them eating
together in a restaurant. You would probable be upset and uncomfortable about seeing
them together. We sometimes call this feeling bitter.
Sniffle: If you have a sniffle it means that your nose is a little runny from having a
cold. We often use the word sniffle for little kids when they make that noise with their
nose when they are sick. A sniffle isnt serious, and it is funny to tell someone that
they shouldnt consider themselves to be sick if all they have is a sniffle. Since we use
this word for little kids, it is kind of like calling them a baby.
Holding a grudge: If someone upset you in the past and you havent forgiven them,
then you are holding a grudge. It means that you are still angry with them and wont
forget about what they did wrong.
Integral: A necessary part of something. If you said, he played an integral role on his
soccer team, it means that he was a crucial member of the team.
Commonplace: common and widespread. It is commonplace for a mother to worry about
her newborn baby. In todays society, it is commonplace for unmarried couples to live
together.
Streaming video: This is video that you can start to watch before it completely
downloads. The videos on you tube are examples of streaming video.
Database: A large collection of organized information. On my computer, I have a large
database of all my friends and their contact information.
GPS: (Global positioning system) This is a system of satellites that is able to locate an
objects exact location on the planet. If you are carrying a cell phone that works with
GPS, people will be able to find out exactly where you are located, anywhere on earth!
Steep: In this context, steep means expensive. If you are negotiating a price with
someone, you can say something like, $100 is a bit steep, how about I give you $65.
Wimp: A wimp is a person who is weak physically or emotionally. It can also be used to
describe a person who doesnt like to take any risks.
Brian is such a wimp, hes been working non-stop in the company for 2 years and is still
too scared to ask his boss for some vacation time.
If its a go: If something is a go it means that the situation will go ahead as planned. In
this dialogue, the meaning of a go was that the tickets were real and they could go into
the stadium.
Factor in: This phrase means to consider or include into the calculation.
You could tell someone, I know the airplane tickets are free, but when you factor in the
cost of the hotel, restaurants, and entertainment, the trip will still be quite expensive.
Wind up: This means end up. A concerned father might warn his son, If you dont
study hard in school, you could wind up doing a low paying job for the rest of your life.
Stadium prices: At popular sporting events, the food and drinks are often extremely
expensive. Stadium prices refers to these expensive prices at stadiums. Some other
places like airports also charge relatively expensive prices. You could say to your friend,
Lets grab lunch in the city before we go. I dont want to pay airport prices.
The food isnt too bad either: Because of the context in the dialogue, this sentence
means, The food isnt too expensive. It isnt talking about whether or not the food is
good-tasting.
Nosebleed section: Some of the really huge stadiums, like the ones which hold 100 000
fans, have seating that is really high up and far away from the ground. The group of seats
that are really high up, ie the worst seats in the stadium, are referred to as the nosebleed
section. People sometimes get nosebleeds if they are at a really high altitude, so we use
the term nosebleed section to exaggerate how high and bad those seats are.
Im sold: In this dialogue it means that the person agrees to go to the game. Hes saying,
Youve convinced me.
Freezing our butts off: This slang phrase means that you were really cold while doing
something. The idea is that it was so cold, that your butt almost turned into ice and fell
off. The next time you are standing around outside in the cold and want to go inside, you
could say to your friends, Lets go inside. I dont want to stand around out here freezing
my butt off.
That deal fell through: If a deal falls through it means that originally you made a deal
with someone, but before the deal was completed, something changed and it was no
longer going to happen. If you made a deal to buy a new apartment, but the landlord
decided at the last minute not to sell the apartment, you could say to someone, the deal
fell threw. In a similar situation, you could also say, my plans fell through.
Box seats: These are special seats in a stadium usually reserved for companies or special
ticket holders, for example, the president or maybe Roger Federers family or friends.
They are great seats, and often offer great service with free food and drinks.
Skeptical: If you are skeptical of something it means that you believe that it is very
possibly untrue. You could say, although that new product looks really good on TV, Im
skeptical that it would work that well in real life.
Food poisoning: Food poisoning is a general term for getting sick because of food. It is
quite serious during the time that you have it. Food poisoning usually causes people to
throw up (vomit) a lot and have a fever. Not cooking chicken well enough is one
common way to get food poisoning. If you only feel a little bit sick from the food, you
shouldnt call it food poisoning.
Smoked: This is a slang term, which means to win very easily. Did you watch the
basketball game last night? It was horrible! My favorite team got smoked!
Quite the night: This little phrase just means, a very interesting or a very memorable
night. You can also use similar phrases like quite the day or quite the time. If you
had a really fun and exciting night the night before, you could say to your friend, We
had quite the night last night. Its too bad you werent there.
Doing over 140 in an 80: We use the verb doing in this context, which means driving.
This sentence means, You were driving more than 140 kilometers per hour when the
legal limit was only 80 kilometers per hour.
Fine: A fine is some amount of money that you have to pay when you do something
illegal. You have to pay a huge fine if you get caught smoking on an airplane.
Points: In some countries, all drivers start off with a certain number of points. Certain
illegal driving activities cause the driver to lose points. The more points you lose, the
more car insurance you have to pay. Also, if you lose too many points, you can lose your
drivers license.
Im going to have to ask you to step out of the car: Police officers often talk in a
formal way. Instead of just saying, get out of the car they would say, Im going to
have to ask you to step out of the car. They both mean the same thing.
Under arrest: If you are under arrest it means that the police have good reason to
believe you committed a crime and the police have the right to take you to the police
station and handle you in the manner that is appropriate according to the law.
Bribe: Bribing someone means to offer them some reward (often money) to bend the
rules in your favor. For example, offering $100 to your teacher to give you a higher grade
is a form of bribery.
You have the right to remain silent. Anything you say can and will be used against
you in a court of law:
This sentence is what police officers say to people when they are under arrest in the USA.
The basic idea is that the person arrested is allowed to not say anything at all if they
choose. If the arrested person does say something, the police have the right to mention it
in the court.
Cuffing: This is a slang term for putting hand cuffs on someone. Hand cuffs are made
of strong metal and they lock the arrested persons hands together. It is very difficult to
fight or cause harm if you are wearing hand cuffs.
Motion sickness: This is a kind of sick feeling that some people get when they are in a
moving car, bus, or airplane. If it is severe, it makes some people throw up or almost
throw up. It is a very unpleasant feeling.
Gravol: This is the brand name of a popular type of medicine, which is given to people
to relieve motion sickness. It also works if you have an upset stomach for some other
reason like being too nervous. Some people also like to take it during a long airplane ride
because it helps them to relax and makes it easier to sleep.
Chew gum so that your ears dont pop with the pressure changes: Some peoples
ears feel a kind of pressure or pain while on an airplane. This is because the air pressure
in the airplane is different when the airplane is on the ground and in the air. If you are
bothered with this ear popping feeling, it helps to chew gum when the airplane is both
taking off and landing.
I wouldnt be caught dead: If someone says that they wouldnt be caught dead
doing something, it means that they really would hate to do that thing and would be really
embarrassed if someone knew they did it. Someone might say, I wouldnt be caught
dead wearing a shirt like that. It means, they really dont like the shirt and would be
really embarrassed for someone to see them wearing it.
Cattle class: This is an uncommon phrase that I heard someone say once. I thought it
was funny so I included it in the dialog. Cattle are cows. Cattle class here refers to
economy class. Economy class tickets are the regular plane tickets that most people
buy. His joke was that he wouldnt want to ride in the same place with all the cows. He
was referring to the regular passengers as being cows. Its not nice but it sounded funny
as a joke.
What do you mean why?: This is a rhetorical question (which means a question you
dont expect to be answered). If someone asks you why, and you think they should
already know the answer, then you could ask back, what do you mean why? This is
basically like saying, I cant believe you need to ask me why when you should already
know the answer.
White as a ghost: During the winter when there isnt as much sunlight, we sometimes
joke with each other as looking white as a ghost. Many people believe that looking too
white or pale skinned is not very attractive or healthy looking. It makes people want to
get a suntan.
I dont want to hear any of your negativity: If you say this sentence to someone, it
means that you dont want to hear any bad or negative opinion that they have. For
example, if you got back together with your ex-girlfriend and you thought that some of
your friends might judge you or say something negative, you could say to them, I dont
want to hear any of your negativity. It is similar to saying, it is none of your business,
so if you disagree with me, dont say anything.
Hitting the tanning salon: The tanning salon is a small business with indoor tanning
beds. These tanning beds are made with special lights that simulate the suns rays. You
can go there to get an artificial suntan. Hitting the tanning salon means going to the
tanning salon.
Overexposure: If you are exposed to something it means that you are in the presence
of that thing. If you are overexposed to something it means that you are in the presence
of that thing too much and it is unhealthy. Overexposure to second hand smoke from
cigarettes can cause cancer.
Genetic mutations: Genetic mutations are changes in the genes or DNA. Genetic
mutations can sometimes lead to cancer.
Pre-mature aging: If something is pre-mature it means that it is happening before it is
supposed to. If someones skin has aged pre-maturely, it means that their skin looks
older than it really is. For example, a 25 year old person might have skin that looks like
the skin of a 40 year old.
The risks outweigh the benefits: This means that there are more dangers or risks than
there are potential benefits. For example, most people agree that smoking isnt a good
idea because the risks of cancer and other harmful health concerns are far more severe
than the benefits of enjoying smoking.
Chip in: Chipping in for something means paying part of the money. You could
say to your brothers and sisters, Lets all chip in and get mom something really nice for
her birthday.
Your share of the rent: Someones share of something is the part that they are
responsible for, or the part that is fair for them to have. If you share the rent of an
apartment with your roommate, the part of the money that you owe is your share of the
rent. In a different situation, you could say to someone, I noticed that you took more
than your fair share of the pizza.
I figured: This phrase is used a lot in spoken English. It basically means, based on the
situation, I reasoned that. Imagine your friend wonders why you didnt invite him out
with you. You could say, We were with some people I know you dont like, so I figured
that you wouldnt want to go.
Even: If you are even with someone it means that they dont owe you anything and
you also dont owe them anything.
Flat screen: This is just a short form of flat screen television.
Pitching in: This is the same meaning as chipping in. It just means to pay part of
something.
Curled up on the couch: We use this expression to refer to someone who is lying on the
couch with their knees close to their chest.
Chick flick: This is a slang term to refer to the type of movie that girls often like.
HBO: This is a very popular movie channel in America.
It went under the radar: If something goes under the radar it means it goes unnoticed
or undetected. Sometimes people with a low salary feel safe cheating on their taxes
because they believe it will go under the radar.
Offshore bank account: This is an account in a bank that is located outside of your
country. These banks dont have to follow the same laws as banks inside a country.
They often have lower taxes and are much more private. It is much more difficult for the
government to get access to the information of your offshore bank accounts. Many
criminals use offshore bank accounts to hide their illegal activities.
Caymans: The Cayman Islands is a small group of islands. They are known for having
many offshore banks.
Getting busted: Getting busted is a slang term which means to get caught doing
something that is illegal or against the rules.
Steve got busted by the teacher for cheating on his Chemistry test.
Random search: There are often random searches at the borders between countries
and at airports. This is when they stop a few people to see if they are carrying anything
illegal. No one knows who will be searched during a random search. They might just
stop 10% of the people and search their belongings.
Declaring: If you are traveling in another country and you buy a lot of money worth of
goods, you often have to declare the value of what you bought when you return to your
home country. If you spent too much money, you often have to pay, duty which is a
tax on the value of these goods.
Trunk: This is the box-like thing at the back of a car. People put things like suitcases or
grocery bags in the trunk of the car.
Not the sharpest pencil in the box: Sharp means smart. If someone is not the
sharpest pencil in the box it means that they are not very smart.
with his side of the family. It was quite easy to do because he and my mom went to the
same highschool, so their parents lived very close together.
8. Boxing day sales - Boxing day is on December 26. Most people are off work at that
time. It is a great day to go shopping because many stores have a lot of goods that didnt
sell for Christmas, so they offer a lot of great discounts. You can often get 50% off on
many things if you wait until boxing day to buy them.
inside your house during that time and stole something, you would be being paranoid
since the chance of that happening is very small.
Second opinion - In the west, when a patient doesnt totally agree with what the doctor
said, they can choose to get a second opinion. This means to go see another doctor and
hear what they have to say.
Rookie mistake: This is the type of mistake that a beginner or a person with no
experience would make.
On his first day of work, he told his boss that the company should make a lot of
changes. That was quite a rookie mistake.
Walk all over: If someone "walks all over" you it means that you allow someone to treat
you very poorly.
He always lets his girlfriends walk all over him. (This means that he allows the girls
to treat him very poorly)
Synthetic: A substance that is man-made and not found occurring in nature. Certain
materials for warm clothing are synthetic materials.
Porno Magazine: This is the type of "sex" magazine with mostly pictures of naked
women.
Make an exception: This means to allow something that is normally not allowed in a
similar situation.
Ex. She told me she usually doesnt kiss on the first date, but I guess she made an
exception because of my charming behavior.
Psycho: A "psycho" is a crazy person. In spoken English amongst friends, we often say
that people are pychos in some area of life.
Ex. He will go psycho if someone touches his new computer.
Stubborn: Very unwilling to change an idea or behavior. Even if she knows shes
wrong she will never admit it because she is so stubborn.
Sneak out: "Sneaking" means to do something in a way that other people dont notice.
If you are "sneaking out" of the house it means that you will leave the house quietly so
that no one knows you are gone.
Popping Pain Killers: Sometimes we use the verb popping to indicate that someone is
taking a lot of medicine. If someone likes to pop a lot of painkillers, it means they take
a lot of pain killing medicines.
Ex. You should take your time when writing the test. You dont want to rush it and make
careless mistakes.
Getting caught up in the moment: If someone "gets caught up in the moment" it means
that they allow the excitement of the situation to make them think or act in a way that
they normally wouldnt.
Ex. He never drinks alcohol, but I guess he got caught up in the moment at the new years
party and got really drunk.
Allowing your emotions to cloud your judgement: If you allow your "emotions to
cloud your judgement" it means you make a decision according to your emotions rather
than according to logic or reason.
You only live once: Sometimes we say this phrase when we want to argue that we
should take a chance or do something exciting instead of leading a boring life.
Im gonna roll the dice: This phrase means that you are going to take a chance.
Ex. It was a real shot to his confidence when the last 3 girls he asked out on a date
refused to go out with him.
Take your mind off this: Taking your mind off something means to stop thinking about
it.
Ex. Your job seems to be causing you a lot of stress. You need to go on a vacation to
take your mind off of it.
Chemotherapy: A medical treatment where toxic substances are put into the patients
body in order to destroy cancer cells.
Tour de France: A world famous bicycle race, held over a period of 21 days: it covers
about 2500 mi. (4000 km) in France, Belgium, Italy, Germany, Spain, and Switzerland.
Ultimate goal: The "ultimate goal" is the real goal or the end goal you have. Someone
could say, "Im working as a waitress now to save some money, but my ultimate goal is
go back to school to get my MBA"
Delegating: If you delegate work to someone else it means that you are letting them do
the work for you. "Our boss doesnt seem to do much work. He just delegates
everything to all his employees and spends most of his time playing golf"
Law of diminishing returns: The law of diminishing returns is a classic law of
economics. The economics definition might be a little confusing so Ill do my best in
explaining the basic idea of it. Essentially it means that as you continue to add more of
the same thing, the added benefit becomes less and less.
Here are a few real life examples, which should help to clear up the meaning:
1. Imagine a student who is studying to take an easy test. Lets assume that he can learn
everything in about 10 hours of study. The first 10 hours of studying will have a much
greater impact on his test score than his second 10 hours of studying. After a certain
point, any extra studying will be a waste of time because he already knows the material.
2. Imagine now that you are going to clean your messy bedroom. The first hour of
cleaning will make the most difference, the second hour should make less difference than
the first hour, and eventually, if you continue cleaning your room, your extra time spent
cleaning wont make much difference at all because your room will already be clean.
3. How much money someone has works the same way. The first million dollars you earn
makes a much bigger difference on the quality of your life than the second million
dollars. After a certain point, extra money doesnt make any difference in your lifestyle at
all. In terms of lifestyle, there is not much difference between 30 billion and 60 billion
dollars.
Misleading statistic: A misleading statistic is a statistic that is true but is used in a way
to make people believe something else that isnt true. For example, an advertisement
might say, eating this weight-loss pill along with doing 30 minutes of cardiovascular
exercise,
and eating a healthy diet, made our participants lose an average of 10 Kilograms over a 6
week period. This statistic may be true but it is used to persuade people that the weightloss pill helped the results. It is still possible that if those same people just exercised 30
minutes per day and ate well, might have the same or better results.
In another example a company might say, Our revenue went up 50% last year! That
alone sounds like a good thing, but it is possible that the companys expenses also rose by
300% and now they are losing money.
guy, "He is a really nice guy and I like him as a friend, but there was no chemistry on our
date".
Sometimes "chemistry" can be used to mean, "work well together".
That basketball team has a lot of great individual players, but they keep losing because
they dont have any chemistry.
(It means they dont play well together as a team)
Awkward silence: Awkward silence describes this situation; Imagine two people are on
a date and they are both feeling uncomfortable because they cant think of anything to
say to each other. This time seems to last a long time. This uncomfortable time period is
called an "awkward silence".
Imagine if a couple that had lived together just broke up. One of them is packing their
things and getting ready to move out of the house. They both feel sad but say nothing to
each other. This time period is called an "awkward silence"
Body language: Body language refers to what information people give out with the
position of their bodies. For example, if a guy approaches a girl and the girl moves away
or turns away, it is obvious from her body language that she is not interested in him.
You are way off base: If someone is way off base it means that they are totally wrong
about something. They are not even close to being right.
Ex. A: I thought that eating only one meal a day would be a good way to lose weight.
B: Oh no. You are way off base. It is much more effective to have several smaller
meals throughout the day.
Comes across: If someone comes across as something it means that they appear to be a
certain way when you meet them. They portray a certain image.
That guy comes across as being really calm and friendly, but apparently he gets into a lot
of fights when hes angry.
As a friend: As a friend, you need to go talk to him about his drinking problem. That
means, since you are his friend, you should talk to him about his drinking problem.
Defensive: If someone is being defensive it means that they are really sensitive about a
certain topic. This person wont be able to have a reasonable conversation about this
topic. Often people are defensive about some personal weakness. They wont accept
their weakness and dont want to talk about it.
Hes under the impression: If someone is under the impression of something it means
that they think it is true. Usually we use this when someone thinks something is true but
in fact they are wrong.
Hes under the impression that his girlfriend never lies to him.
Take him for being: If you take someone for being something it means that you think
they are that kind of person.
I cant believe she is a famous model and actress. I took her for being a normal high
school student.
Ab device: Abs is a short form for "abdominal muscles These are the muscles that are
in your stomach. An "ab device" is a piece of exercise equipment designed to train your
abs.
Six-pack: This is a slang term to describe well-defined abs. Many professional athletes
have a six-pack.
Retarded: Literally this refers to people who are mentally handicapped, ie. They were
born with a mental problem. Sometimes we use this word as a slang term to describe
someone who is an idiot. Friends often joke with each other using this word. It is
important to understand that this term can be considered very offensive to some people
and you should think twice before using it.
Some common slang sentences are: "Dont be such a retard". "Dont listen to him. Hes
retarded".
Plays a huge role: This phrase means, "is a very important part of".
Many child psychologists believe that teachers play a huge role in the
healthy development of young children.
Gullible: Someone who believes things too easily or is tricked easily is considered to be
"gullible".
People who believe everything they read are gullible.
I cant believe you were gullible enough to buy that stupid thing. It should have
been obvious that it wouldnt work.
Call his bluff: If someone is bluffing it means that they are pretending to have a strong
position, but they actually have a weak one. In the card game poker, somone with poor
cards might bet a lot of money to trick people into believing he has good cards. This is
called bluffing. If a wife is angry with her husband she might say, if you stay out late
partying with your friends one more time Im going to leave you. She is using this tactic
to scare her husband. He might not believe she is that serious and call her bluff. That
means he will go out with his friends again and see if she will seriously leave him.
In business, an employee might say to the boss, If I dont make 50% more money this
year then Im going to leave the company. If the company doesnt believe it, they might
call his bluff by saying ok, we cant afford to pay you that much. If the company sees
that the person is actually going to leave, then they might agree to the 50% increase. If
they see that he was bluffing, then they might be able to pay him less.
Knowing you: This phrase is used when you think the other person will behave in a
certain way based on your experience with that person.
He said he will be here at 8:00. I know thats what he said, but knowing him, he wont
be here until at least 9:30.
Thats really thoughtful of you: This is a sarcastic sentence in the context of this
dialogue. He was joking when he said this because it wasnt really thoughtful of him at
all.
ESL Reading
A: Ive finally come to grips with the fact that Ive gotta make some
major changes in my lifestyle.
B: Whats going on?
A: These past few months Ive been staying up late and then sleeping
in. Then I feel guilty when I wake up so I usually eat a comfort food
like pizza to make myself feel better. Then I feel bad from eating the
pizza so I have a few beers to relax. Then because of the beers I cant
go to the gym. At 10 pm or so I finally start to feel good and watch
several hours of TV while thinking about how the next day will be
different.
B: Thats quite a vicious cycle. Weve all been there though.
ESL Reading
Steve got a much needed ego boost yesterday. A beautiful girl came up
to him and asked for his autograph. She was convinced he was a
handsome movie star and he totally went along with it. They went to a
restaurant for lunch and Steve noticed that his good friend Mark
happened to be there. Steve winked at Mark and luckily Mark was
astute enough to see what was going on. He also asked Steve for an
autograph and then went back to his table.
ESL Reading
A: Im thinking of looking for a more stable job with a fixed salary.
My commissions have been almost non-existent lately.
B: Dont do that. In your line of work the commissions are always low
at this time of year. Youve gotta look at the big picture and realize that
youre going to be rolling in it in a few months.
A: My problem is that money burns a hole in my pocket when I have
it. Then when a downturn hits Im eating instant noodles.
B: Then it sounds like changing your spending habits would be a better
solution than changing careers.
look at the big picture - Looking at the big picture means to look at the entire situation.
Dont just focus on one small part of the situation.
Dont worry so much about not getting that job. Look at the big picture. Youre a young
smart guy with a good education and some work experience. Im sure another
opportunity will come along soon.
money burns a hole in my pocket this means that as soon as you get money you want
to spend all of it.
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A: You broke up with Sue a year and a half ago. You must be ready to
get back in the game by now!
B: Its been so long, I wouldnt even know where to begin.
A: Lets go to the bar and try meeting a few ladies. Do me a favor
though and dont latch on to the first one you see. Try playing the
field for once in your life!
A: Probably a good idea! I guess I have been known to fall for the
first girl that gives me any sign of attention.
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A: Hello
B: Hey. Why havent you been picking up? Ive been trying to reach
you for the past 3 hours. I guess you forgot our tennis match.
A: What time is it?
B: Its already 9:30.
A: Really? I guess my 20-minute power nap turned into a good three
hours. I even slept through my alarm.
B: What were you so tired from?
A: I only got 2 hours sleep last night. I felt fine all day but I just
crashed as soon as I got in the door. Sorry about that. Lets
reschedule for tomorrow.
B: Ok
Power nap: A power nap is a very short nap (sleep). Sometimes people dont have a lot
of time to take a nap but they really need a quick nap. We call this a power nap.
Good three hours: A "good" three hours means "at least 3 hours".
How long is the flight from Toronto to L.A.? I think its a good
three and a half hours.
Slept through my alarm: If you dont hear or dont pay attention to your alarm clock
when it goes off, we call this sleeping "through" your alarm.
I only got 2 hours sleep last night: In spoken English, we often say, "I only got 4 hours
sleep", not "I only got 4 hours of sleep"
Crashed: In this context, "crashed" means fell asleep. Sometimes crashed can mean felt
really tired. I felt fine all morning in the office but crashed about an hour after lunch. I
almost fell asleep at my desk.
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A: Did you hear about Alex striking it rich in the market?
B: No. Who did you hear that from?
A: Alex.
B: Whatever. He always totally exaggerates! Im not going to believe
it until I hear it from a more reliable source.
A: Yeah, he does totally exaggerate doesnt he? The last time I
listened to him I lost 5 grand betting on a horse that came in dead last.
B: He is an entertaining guy though. Its pretty fun getting on board
with his ideas.
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A: Are you going to the Olympics in Beijing this summer?
B: No. Im going to watch it on TVV in the comfort of my own living
room.
A: You sound like an old man. Its going to be great! This is Chinas
chance to showcase itself to the world. Theyve been pumped about
this for the past 8 years.
B: Dont get me wrong. Im sure it will be great too. Id just rather
watch it on TV because Ill be able to see my favorite events more
clearly.
A: What is your favorite event?
B: I like the decathlon. I think it shows best overall athlete.
Publicity Attention from the media. Shes a really great author but she doesnt sell
many books because she doesnt get much publicity. Very few people know of her.
Chic magnet someone or something that is very attractive to girls. Ex. I dont really
care about cars that much but Im still going to buy a really cool one because I know its
going to be a huge chic magnet.
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A: Im thinking of opening my own restaurant. Ive always loved
going to restaurants so I think it would be fun to own one.
B: Every restaurant owner Ive ever talked to said its a tougher job
than most people think. Long hours and thin margins. Because it
seems so easy and glamorous, it has become one of the most
competitive industries. A large % of restaurants go out of business
within the first 2 years.
A: I think I can beat the odds. I believe I can make the best
hamburgers in the city.
B: Theres a lot more to being successful than making good food. A
lot of restaurants with average food do well because of advertising and
the image they create. Consumers even realize that the food is only
average, yet they still go. Its a weird phenomenon.
support from her family and friends helped her to beat the odds. She cured the disease
and is now leading a happy and healthy life.
Theres a lot more to - If you say, there is a lot more to something it means that this
something is a little more complicated than it first appears. There is a lot more to being
a model than standing in front of a camera trying to look pretty.
Phenomenon - a phenomenon is a fact that is fascinating and perhaps a little surprising.
That economist is trying to explain the phenomenon of coffee being more than double the
price in big cities.
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Our society preaches that wealth will make us happy. However, as the world becomes
richer in terms of material wealth, people are becoming more and more depressed.
Happiness, not material wealth should instead be considered to be the ultimate currency.
A Harvard professor discusses 4 personality types.
The rat racer - this person constantly makes sacrifices today in the quest for a better
future. He consistently delays gratification because he hopes to achieve some goal. Ex.
The person who spends his whole life trying to earn and save money, and then dies rich.
The hedonist - The hedonist lives for the moment. He seeks activities that will make
him happy now while disregarding the potential long-term consequences of his actions.
Ex. Eating junk food, Spending a lot of money, partying all the time, etc.
Nihilist - This is a person who does not enjoy the present and also expects an unhappy
future. This person does activities that are not enjoyable now and also are not beneficial
to his future. Ex. A person who watches TV all day, even when there is nothing
interesting on, while feeling depressed and hopeless.
Happy - The happy person enjoys doing the activities in his daily life. He chooses a
lifestyle that is both enjoyable in the present and beneficial in the long term.
Listening to China232.com podcasts everyday is a great way to make you happy. They
are both enjoyable to listen to and beneficial to your future.
Preaches - To preach means to try to convince someone of something in an almost
religious way. If someone is preaching their idea, they dont want to hear anyone elses
opinion. They just keep talking as if they are convinced they are 100% right.
Material wealth - Material wealth means money. You could say, "he earned a lot of
material wealth from his business success, but he isnt happy because he has very little
free time to spend with his family.
Ultimate currency - Currency is usually thought of as money. The US dollar and the
Euro are two different types of currency. Currency is also something that has measurable
value. If we say that happiness should be the ultimate currency, it means we should use
how happy we are to measure how wealthy we are, instead of using money to measure
wealth.