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Letting Go of Resistance
Letting Go of Wanting to Change What Is
Letting Go of Wanting to Figure It Out
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INTRODUCTION
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Everyone Holds on
a Lot More than They Let Go
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LETTING GO BASICS
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Deciding to let go
Welcoming
Diving in
Holistic Releasing
The 5th Way
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Triple Welcoming
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WHAT TO DO WHEN
YOU GET STUCK
Resistance
Wanting to change what is
Wanting to figure it out
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Resistance How It Is
Unconstructive
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FUNDAMENTAL
CONCEPTS
The I Diagram
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I want to be separateI want to be one
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I want to be separateI want to be one
I want to surviveI want to die
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I want to be separateI want to be one
I want to surviveI want to die
I want approvalI want disapproval
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I Want to Control/
I Want to Be Controlled
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I
I want to be separateI want to be one
I want to surviveI want to die
I want approvalI want disapproval
I want to controlI want to be controlled
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I
I want to be separateI want to be one
I want to surviveI want to die
I want approvalI want disapproval
I want to controlI want to be controlled
Letting Go of Emotions
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I want to be separateI want to be one
I want to surviveI want to die
I want approvalI want disapproval
I want to controlI want to be controlled
Apathy, Grief, Fear, Lust, Anger, Pride, Courageousness, Acceptance, Peace
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Thinking
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Letting Go of Wanting
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LETTING GO BASICS
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Its As Simple As
Dropping Your Pen
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Allowing Releasing to Be
Going on All the Time
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You can look through the illusion of separation at any moment and
discover whether its real or not.
Ask yourself:
In this moment, if I dont go into memory, if I dont focus on the body,
can I actually find a me?
Try this right now for yourself.
In my experience, you cant find a me. You can have a thought of
me.
Then ask yourself:
Am I that thought of me? Or am I simply that which is aware of the
thought?
And what you can discover, and sometimes it takes rediscovering
over and over again, is that you are NOT a me. And when you
discover that nothing changes except suffering falls away. You still
recognize that if someone says Shane and youre called Shane, you
still answer to your name. You still have the same relationships.
The only thing that changes is you no longer believe that youre this
body/mind limited to just this sense of a separate me. And
everything actually is a lot easier. And this may happen all at once, or
it may happen gradually, and either way its OK.
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Deciding to Let It Go
So, allow yourself to think of some situation in your life that youve
been wanting to change or improve, that you have some feeling
about. Just pick one.
And, in this moment, could you just simply welcome however you feel
about it. Could you just let it be here?
And you might notice that it starts to lighten even from just doing
that.
And then as best you can, just for now, could you let that feeling go?
Just could you?
Would you?
When?
Now if you were open to it, you probably just noticed a little shift
inside, but if not, dont worry about it. We have a lifetime of practice
of holding on. So if you dont let go right away, so what? Just keep
doing this and it will get easier.
So, again, allow yourself to welcome however you feel about that
situation. It may already be different. And then as best you can, just
for now, could you let the feeling go, just could you?
Would you?
When?
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Triple Welcoming
Allow yourself to think of some situation in your life that youve been
wanting to change or improve, some problem, some issue, anything.
And then, could you just simply welcome how you feel about it? Could
you let it be here?
Welcome the thoughts, welcome the feelings, welcome the beliefs,
welcome the memories. And could you just let it all be here? Its here
anyway, you might as well.
And then could you welcome, too, your desire for it to be different
than the way it is? Your wanting to fix it, your wanting to change it,
your wanting to push it or pull it, manipulate it, to get something
from it? Any wanting at all associated with that imaginary issue?
Could you just let that be here, too?
And then could you welcome any sense that its personal, that its
about you, that its who you are? Any sense of me or mine
associated with the problem?
And then notice whats happening inside. As you just simply welcome
all those three things, youll notice something relaxes and opens
inside. And if you want to encourage it a little bit, you just simply let
go. Let it just unravel.
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Diving In
The third way of letting go is diving into the core of the issue or the
emotion. This technique is especially helpful if the emotion is strong.
And remember that when youre diving in, there may be a temporary
intensification of the feeling at first. And then as you go deeper,
youll start to see through it.
Think of another issue in your life that youve been wanting to change
or improve.
I know some of you might be running out of issues. No? Oh, OK. I
guess that was just wishful thinking on my part. I know most of us
think we have a whole collection.
So, in this moment, could you just focus on the issue and then
welcome how you feel about it. Let it be here.
And then could you just go a little deeper? Allow yourself to go
deeper than the thoughts, deeper than the feelings, deeper than the
sensations.
And could you go deeper still?
If its still intense, just go deeper than that. It may be
counterintuitive. Just allow yourself to drop in to the feeling. And
then go deeper.
And could you go deeper still?
Now, if you notice that youre starting to pop through to the other
side, allow yourself to go deeply into the emptiness or the peace or
the space.
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Holistic Releasing on
Wealth and Abundance
One of the feelings that most of us have all the time thats blocking
the sense of wealth or abundance is just a feeling of I dont have
enougha feeling of scarcity. And the opposite of that is I have
enough. Theres an abundance for all.
So lets just go back and forth between the two.
So, in this moment, could you allow yourself to welcome any sense of
scarcity, any sense of I dont have enough or Im not enough?
And could you just let it be here?
And could you also welcome abundance, that feeling of Im enough
and I have enough.
And, again, if thats a little harder, just do the best you can.
And then again, welcome any sense of scarcity, any sense of I dont
have enough or Im not enough.
And then could you welcome, too, that sense of Im enough and I
have enough, that sense of abundance.
And then could you allow yourself to welcome any remaining sense of
scarcity of Im not enough or I dont have enough?
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Holistic Releasing on
Relationships
One of the things about relationships is that the people that we love
the most are also the people we hate the most. Because when they
do or say something that doesnt allow us to love them, we cant
stand it, and it brings up the opposite in us.
The use of stronger words such as love and hate is intentional to
help bring up the emotion a little more. If you shy away from love
and hate, you can use like and dislike. Its the same.
So, in this moment, allow yourself to think of someone that you care
about. Someone maybe that you think you love. Or someone that you
think you hate or you just cant stand. This works on either.
And in this moment, could you allow yourself to hate or dislike them
as much as you do?
And then could you allow yourself to love or like them as best you
can?
Remember this is as best you can. It might be a stretch to do this,
especially if you pick someone that you think you hate.
And then again, could you allow yourself to hate or dislike them as
much as you do?
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And then could you allow yourself to love or like them as best you
can?
And then could you allow yourself to hate or dislike them as much as
you do?
And then could you love or like them as best you can?
And then again, could you allow yourself to hate or dislike them as
much as you do?
And then could you love or like them as best you can?
And then could you allow yourself to hate or dislike them as much as
you do?
And then could you allow yourself to love or like them as best you
can?
And then could you allow yourself to hate or dislike them as much as
you do?
And then could you allow yourself to love or like them as best you
can?
If youre doing this on your own, you would keep doing it as long as
you needed to in order to get the relief that you wanted.
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Holistic Releasing on
Health and Well-being
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How to Do Holistic
Releasing on Your Own
How you can do Holistic Releasing on your own is very simple. If you
notice in your life that you can see only one possibility, then stretch a
little and just ask yourself:
If this wasnt here or this had already been resolved or if I could see
it from another perspective, then what would be here?
And then whatever comes to mind, take both sides of it and just go
back and forth and welcome each a few times. Youll know when to
stop because it will be dissolved. The polarities will simply dissolve
each other.
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GETTING UNSTUCK
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Letting Go of Resistance
So, allow yourself to think of something about life that you resist. It
could be about your friends, your relatives, your body, your mind,
society, politics. Im sure theres something in there youre resisting.
And, if theres any resistance in this moment, could you just simply
welcome it? Could you let it be there?
And then as best you can, just for now, could you let go of that
feeling of resistance?
Would you?
When?
And focus on that same thing or anything else in your life youve been
resisting. And could you simply just welcome the resistance? Could
you let it be here?
And then as best you can, just for now, could you let that feeling of
resistance go? Just could you?
Would you?
When?
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And focus on that again. Focus on that same thing or anything else
that youre resisting.
And could you welcome that feeling of resistance? Could you just let
it be here?
And then as best you can, just for now, could you let go of that
feeling of resistance? Could you just set it free?
Would you?
When?
Just doing a little releasing on resistance, notice how differently you
feel. It takes just a little bit; it goes a long way. And if you just start
releasing a little bit of your resistance to life and in life, youll find
your whole world changes because, to quote the Borg for those of
you who are StarTrek fans, Resistance is futile.
Because life is just going to be as it is. But without the resistance
what you discover is life is just a flow. Its like a river. Its really like a
river and it carries you. And its always carrying you.
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Letting Go of Wanting to
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And focus on that again. In this moment, could you just think of
something in your life that youve been wanting to change. And then
could you welcome that feeling of wanting to change it? Could you
just let it be here?
And then as best you can, just for now, could you let go of wanting to
change it? Could you just set that free?
Would you?
When?
Keep letting go of wanting to change it until youve felt that feeling of
acceptance that arises naturally when you let go of wanting to
change it.
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Letting Go of Wanting to
Figure It Out
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Letting Go of Wanting
So, allow yourself to review your life and check to see if theres
anything about your life that youd like to feel freer about in this
moment, anything youre wanting to change or improve.
And could you just simply welcome whatever came to mind.
And then dig a little deeper and see if its coming from any kind of
wanting: a wanting survival, wanting to be separate, a wanting to
control, a wanting love, any kind of wanting.
And by the way if youre not sure, just pick one. It doesnt matter
because usually its a combination.
And whichever want youre most aware of in this moment, could you
just let it be here? Could you welcome it?
And then as best you can, just for now, could you let go of wanting
that? Could you just set it free?
And focus on that same thingor anything else about your life that
youve been wanting to change or improve, that you have some
feeling about and could you just simply welcome how you feel in this
moment?
And then could you allow yourself to feel into it or dig a little deeper
and see which want its coming from. A wanting to be separate, a
wanting survival, a wanting approval or a wanting control?
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Keeping Your
Momentum Going
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Check your body again and see if any part of it is pulling at your
attention. (Pause) If it is: Could you let go of wanting to control that?
Now, review the last 24 hours and see if there is anything about
those 24 hours that you would like to change or control. (Pause) If
so: Could you let go of wanting to change or control that?
Is there a person or situation in your life right now that is stirring up a
sense of wanting approval? (Pause) If so: Could you let go of wanting
approval?
Is there anything that you said or did recently that stirred up a sense
of wanting approval? (Pause) If so: Could you let go of that wanting
approval?
Find something in the last 24 hours that still concerns you. Is the
person or situation you just thought of stirring up a sense of wanting
approval, wanting to control, or wanting security or survival? (Pause)
If so: Could you allow that want to release? (Repeat if needed.)
Is there anything about being here this evening that is stirring up any
want within you? (Pause) If so, check to see if its a sense of wanting
approval, wanting to control, or wanting security or survival. (Pause)
Whichever want it is:
Could you allow it to release? Check to see if there is anything about
me, as the support group leader, that stirs up a want within you. Is it
a sense of wanting approval, wanting to control, or wanting security or
survival?
Whichever want it is: Could you allow it to release? (Repeat if needed.)
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If you came with a specific issue to work on tonight, see what your
NOW want is about that topic. (Pause) Is it a sense of wanting
approval, wanting to control, or wanting security or survival? (Pause)
Whichever want it is: Could you let it go? (Repeat if needed.)
Now, focus on whatever you want in the moment: approval, control,
or security or survival. (Pause) Whatever you want: Could you let it
go?
Focus again on your NOW want. (Pause) Could you allow it to release?
Take one more look inside and allow yourself to become aware of
your NOW want. Whichever want it is: Could you allow yourself to let
it go?
Gradually bring your awareness to a more external focus, and,
whenever you are ready, if you havent already, allow your eyelids to
open.
Ice Breaker
Have group participants share their names and a gain that they have
each experienced so far from using The Sedona Method.
Partner Work
Have each person in the group find a partner so they may support
each other in doing an exercise from The Sedona Method. Select an
appropriate exercise from the book, such as general releasing, the
Advantages/Disadvantages Process, the Likes/Dislikes Process, and
the Cleanup Procedure. Spend approximately 30 minutes on the
exercise. Either have the partners switch back and forth, taking turns
facilitating each other, or time it so that each participant has about 15
minutes to do an exploration with the support of the other partner.
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Ask each partner to open their copy of The Sedona Method to the
exercise being explored, so they can remember the appropriate
phrasing of the processes. Then, before breaking into partnerships,
read the following statement aloud:
Instructions for Partner Work
Be there with, and for, your partners as best you can. Grant your
partners their Beingness by allowing them to have their own
explorations. As you facilitate your partners in releasing, also do your
best to let go. You will find that this happens naturally if you are open
to it. Refrain from leading your partners, judging their responses, or
giving them advice. Also refrain from discussing the explorations
until you have both completed them, and you have spent a few
minutes in silence. Be sure to validate your partners points of view,
even if these do not agree with your own.
Please refrain from playing the role of counselor or therapist, even if
you are a trained counselor or therapist. If your partner brings up a
medical condition that would ordinarily require the care of a trained
medical professional, recommend that he or she get whatever
professional support is needed in this area. If you are not sure
whether or not your partner truly needs medical support, you can
recommend that he or she seek professional medical attention, just
to be sure.
Have Group Share
Have volunteers from the group share what they got from doing the
exercise. Make sure that the group validates their perspectives, and
support them in letting go and moving up into greater freedom.
Sharing Gains
Give the group another opportunity to share gains if they choose.
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Optional Release
If time allows, either read the same group releasing questions that
were read at the beginning of the meetingsubstituting the
timeframe of however long the meeting lasted for the preceding 24hour periodor play another process from The Sedona Method
Audio Program or Financial Liberation.
Silence
Have the group spend a few minutes allowing their Beingness to be
in silence.
Thank Everyone for Coming
Thank everyone for coming, and encourage the group to maintain
the silence within as they go home or go about their day. Remind
them of the date, time, and location of the next meeting and suggest
that they invite their friends.
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Letting Go DVD
What if you could leave all your negative emotions and anxieties
behind you forever and gain the keys to happiness, success, peace
and emotional well-being in 1 hour and 8 minutes?
This film is an invitation for you to lead a richer, happier, more
abundant and love-filled life. It is an invitation for you to share what
you have learned with those that you care about. It is also an
invitation for the healing of planet Earth.
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Beyond Letting Go
You are invited to continue this amazing journey to the core of your
inner self by experiencing the 7-week Beyond Letting Go online
course facilitated by Hale Dwoskin, New York Times best-selling
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Discover what its like to be free of everything that once held you
back
Awaken to the truth of who you truly are in this very moment
Unlock your unlimited potential and all the hidden treasures
within
There are two great ways you can experience this incredible course.
You can instantly download it to your digital device. Or, you can
explore each new realm of Letting Go over the course of 7-weeks
online. The choice is yours!
The Beyond Letting Go 7-week Digital course also includes:
Highlights recorded during the filming of the course and during
the very next course taught in Holland.
A complete course workbook that you can use to follow along as
you listen to each session, and as a way to take your explorations
deeper on your own.
A complete transcript of the entire course so you can read along,
any time you choose, without having to take notes or re-read. Its
your own private written copy based on this amazing work.
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Effortless Relationships
In this course you will discover that both your personal and business
relationships can be a lot more effortless, fun, loving, and mutually
rewarding. This course will teach you some applications of The
Sedona Method that are particularly suited to improving
relationships in addition to their other applications. You will also
explore and release some of the major blocks to having effortless
relationships.
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Have your ideal body and feel more love for the body you have
Free yourself from past traumas and recurring stories
Free yourself from the tyranny of guilt and shame
Lose weight, quit smoking and free yourself from all addictions
Experience deep relaxation
End pain and discomfort
Feel and look younger and slow or reverse the aging process
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