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Reissland, Nadja.
The development of emotional intelligence : a case study / Nadja
Reissland.
p. cm. (Concepts in developmental psychology)
Includes bibliographical references and index.
ISBN 978-0-415-35951-1 (hbk.) ISBN 978-0-415-35952-8 (pbk.)
1. Emotional intelligence. 2. Emotions in children. 3. Child
psychology. I. Title.
BF576.R45 2012
155.42224dc23
2011043704
ISBN: 978-0-415-35951-1 (hbk)
ISBN: 978-0-415-35952-8 (pbk)
ISBN: 978-0-203-00749-5 (ebk)
Typeset in Times by Gareld Morgan, Swansea, West Glamorgan
Cover design by Lisa Dynan
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Contents
Foreword
Acknowledgements
PART I
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Introduction
Overview 3
Background to the study of emotional intelligence 4
EI in the context of emotional development 5
Novel approach to studying the development of EI 5
Emotional discourse and EI 6
Emotion socialization and EI 6
The case study 7
The importance of the father and EI 7
EI in infancy 8
Labelling emotions in the context of EI growth 9
Teasing and EI 10
EI and cognitive development 11
EI and death 11
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References
Index
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That's it. I was interested to hear you practising your German
this morning, Toto. Yes, you were saying nein, nein, nein. I heard
you in bed this morning. Toto you don't have much to say this
morning. Shall I turn the tape off until you're more loquacious?
OK, let's get dressed rst OK and then we can crawl around, huh.
Yea, well perhaps not crawl; we can manoeuvre ourselves, can't
we? That's what we do. You're a little manoeuvrer.
Six months is also the age at which the father started to use `we' as a
rst person plural referring to him and his daughter or him and her
mother, such as when talking about what is there for breakfast in the
house:
Yeah, yeah, got to get ready for breakfast now. Want some
breakfast? We have stodge, uh hum.
Another example at 6 months of age is:
OK, shall I turn it off Toto? Anything you've to add, to your
memoirs before we go back to the kitchen? Anything you wish to
add? I'll take some of the crumbs with us, m?
When talking about the need for dressing, the father says:
Yea, these are called clothes Toto and they keep us warm in
winter; and it indicates that we're civilized. Yea, unless we're in St
Tropez; perhaps we could holiday in St Tropez this summer.
Would you like that?
The father used `we' in three different senses. First, the use of `we'
meaning `I' depending on age in months could be observed in 65 per
cent of the tape recordings, starting from the rst recording at 4 weeks
of age with 108 times in which the father said `we' but meant `I'. The
second most frequent use of `we' meaning `we' as the rst person
plural started at around 6 months of age and could be observed at all
following ages in 38 per cent of the recordings. Third, the use of `we'
meaning `you' was least frequently observed starting from 6 months
of age in 30 per cent of the recordings. In sum, in the rst few months
the personal pronoun plural `we' took on the meaning of `I'. Only
later at around 6 months did the father change the meaning of `we'
into either meaning `you', or indicating the rst person plural in terms
of `you and I' or `Mummy and I'.
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Who took this sock off? Who took this sock off? I've got
something for you. You don't have to take yet another sock off,
just play with your clown!
This was also the age (8 months) that the father reported Toto's use of
`nein' meaning no when he said: `Yes, you were saying nein, nein,
nein, nein.' This game of taking the socks off lasted for several weeks
and the father showed his impatience at times. For example, at 10
months her father said:
Shall we put some socks on, yea? That's a sock. You don't have
to pull it off immediately. I know you can pull them off if you
want to but you don't have to Toto.
At 11 months the father remarked:
You've already taken your socks off. I put them on you take
them off, we'll be here for hours Toto.
When Toto is 1 year old the father was not amused any more by her
actions and asked:
Shall we start this silly `put the socks on' routine? And you can
take it off?
Just a few days later he was surprised and exclaimed:
Boy Toto, you're actually trying to put socks on now. That's
clever!
Hence, this account of dressing his daughter's feet with socks shows
that the father introduced a topic of interest, which, in the present
example, is her socks. In the rst few months the father was well in
control and happy to let his daughter inuence the choice of socks to
be worn by kicking her legs and apparently choosing their colour.
Once she `understood' that her father was interested in her socks, she
herself showed that interest. At that time, namely at around 8 months
of age, the `we' of a common goal became a denite `you' and `I' as
the father and daughter at that time had different goals, because she
asserted her new-found interest by pulling her socks off. She was
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of age, she surprised her father by trying to put the socks on rather
than pulling them off.
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