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In our busy day of juggling papers, lesson planning and managing sometimes more than a
hundred students, we can easily forget the group that could lend significant support in our
charge as teachers -- parents and families. Consider these tips for improving connections with
this valuable group:
1. Smile When You See Parents
Greet them. Most parents only occasionally interact with teachers so make sure that at least
90 percent of your encounters with them are positive, warm, and friendly. The impressions
left from fleeting encounters in the hallway last a long time.
2. Learn Their Names
(If you have a self-contained class.) Learn how they like to be addressed (Mr. ____? Seora?
By their first name?) and how to pronounce them correctly.
3. Declare Your Intention
Tell them that you want to partner with them, that you appreciate their support, and look
forward to working together.
4. Communicate Often and in Various Forms
Provide information about what's going on in your class (weekly would be ideal): what
students are learning, what they've accomplished, what you're excited about, what they're
excited about, and the learning and growth you're seeing. Suggest things that they might ask
their child about: "Ask them to tell you about what they learned last week about meal
worms," or "Ask them to read you the haiku they wrote."
5. Make a Positive Phone Call Home
If you have a self-contained class, call all homes within the first couple of weeks and then at
regular intervals throughout the year. If you teach many students, identify those students who
perhaps need a positive call home.
6. Lead with the Good News
Give positive praise first when calling parents or meeting with them to discuss a concern.
Every kid has something good about him/her. Find it. Share it. Then share your concern.
Adhere strictly to this rule.
7. Find a Translator
If you can't speak their language, seek a translator for at least one parent conference and/or
phone call. (For obscure languages, you can sometimes find a refugee center or other public
agency that can help). Reach out to those parents as well; do whatever you can to connect.
8. Your Language is Powerful
It communicates an awareness that there are many different kinds of families. Be careful not
to assume a mother is, or isn't married, or even that if she is married, she's married to a man.
Learn to ask open-ended questions and understand that sometimes parents/guardians might
not want to share some information.