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As we know, its not the smartest people that are the most
successful or the most fulfilled in life. We all probably
know people who are academically brilliant and yet are
socially inept and unsuccessful at work or in their personal
relationships. Intellectual intelligence (IQ) isnt enough on
its own to be successful in life. Our IQ can help us get into
college, but its our EQ that will help us manage the stress
and emotions when facing our final exams.
Our relationships.
By understanding our emotions and how to control them,
we can better express how we feel and understand how
others are feeling. This allows us to communicate more
effectively and forge stronger relationships, both at work
and in our personal life.
Nonverbal communication
Being a good communicator requires more than just verbal
skills and the ability to manage stress. Messages dont
stop when someone stops speaking. Even when were
silent, were still communicating nonverbally.
Often, what we say is less important than how we say it,
or the other nonverbal signals we send outthe gestures
we make, the way we sit, how fast or how loud we talk,
how close we stand, or how much eye contact we make. In
order to hold the attention of others and build connection
and trust, we need to be aware of, and in control of, this
body language. We also need to be able to accurately read
and respond to the nonverbal cues that other people send
us.