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Structure of Reality
Kim Kostere
Linda Malatesta
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Maps, models, and the structure of reality:
NLP technology in psychotherapy / Linda K. Malatesta, Kim M. Kostere
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Acknowledgements
Preface xi
Introduction xiii
CHAPTER 1 - MODELING . 1
Logical Typing . . . . . . . 4
Universal Modeling Processes . 5
Levels of Modeling . . . . . 6
Minimum Requirements for a Model 13
The Primacy of Experience 14
The Structure of Reality 15
Internal vs. External . 17
Science as a Metaphor . 18
CHAPTER 2 - CHANGE 19
Modeling and Change 20
Presuppositions .... 20
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Exaggeration 74
Reframing . 77
Content Reframing 78
Six-Step Reframing 80
Contextual Reframing 85
Paradoxical Intervention
With Reframing . 88
Metaphor . . . . . 91
Metaphoric Reframing 97
Reflections III
Bibliography 113
About The Authors 117
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PREFACE
Leslie Cameron-Bandler
San Rafael, California
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INTRODUCTION
Linda Malatesta
Kim M. Kostere
Bloomfield Hills, Michigan
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1
MODEUNG
Logical Typing
Levels of Modeling
Language
Experience of Experience
Sensory Experience
WORLD AT LARGE
1) Sensory Experience:
The first level of modeling is sensory experience. Sen-
sory experience is synonymous with perception and is the
means by which we make contact with the world at large.
The act of perceiving takes the abundance of information
available in the world at large and organizes it into visual,
auditory, kinesthetic (the physical sensations of touch,
emotion, and visceral sensations), olfactory, and gustatory
sensations. Perception is the filtering system by which our
sensory apparatus (eyes, ears, nose, mouth, and skin) takes
information available in the world at large and converts it
into a form which is compatible with the central nervous
system. During the transformation process, the ongoing
bombardment of information that exists in the world at
large becomes categorized into images, sounds, feelings,
smells, and tastes and is, therefore, altered from its original
form. These sensory distinctions are not the product of our
environment as such, but are instead the result of the
coding that occurs in the central nervous system.
For instance, the linear nature of time may be totally
the result of the central nervous system. All sensations are
transmitted sequentially as a series of electrical impulses.
This process could account for our experience of past,
present, and future since each impulse is transmitted
before or after the other. In other words, time as we ex-
perience it may not exist in the world at large but instead
be the result of the modeling process. Past, present, and
future may all exist simultaneously in the world at large.
Thus, the framework posed by linear time might be solely
the product of our central nervous system.
2) Experience of Experience:
The second level of modeling is experience of ex-
perience.
(V) Visual
(A) Auditory
(K) Kinesthetic
(0) Olfactory
(G) Gustatory
3) Language:
Language, the third level of modeling, is a digital sys-
tem. By digital system we mean a series of symbols which
stand for sensory representations. Language is not ex-
perience. It is a representation of experience, and there-
fore is ai a higher logical level than sensory experience and
experience of experience. Words draw their meaning from
the sensory representations to which they are associated.
For example: the word "dog" is a symbol for a particular
type of small animal. In order to understand this word, we
search our experience of experience for a visual, auditory,
kinesthetic, olfactory, and/or gustatory sensation that is
associated with the symbol (dog). The process of associat-
ing language to sensory representations is known as
transderivational search. The more abstract the word (e.g.,
love, power, sin), the more complex becomes the process
of transderivational search. Transderivational search is a
highly individualized process since words become attached
Modeling 11
Science as Metaphor
CHANGE
Presuppositions
1) Resources:
It is our belief that each person entering therapy al-
ready has within him/her all the resources needed in order
to make the desired change(s). The role of the therapist is
that of assisting the client in gaining access to and ap-
propriately contextualizing these resources.
2) Flexibility:
It is our belief that a choice is better than no choice. An
Change 21
4) Adaptivity:
It is our belief that a person makes the best choice
possible at each moment in time, given the resources which
he/she has available. Aligned with this concept is the belief
that a person, if given a better choice, will take it. Central
to this presupposition is the idea that underlying each
choice/behavior there exists a positive intent. This concept
22 Maps, Models, and the Structure of Reality
6) Relativity:
It is our belief that our model of growth and change,
like all models, is nothing more than a model; that is, our
model is affected by the process of modeling and, there-
fore, has within it inherent limitations and resources. We
believe that it is important, when using this model of
change, not to mistake the model for the person. All models
are generalizations and each person is an individual.
3
RElATIONSHIP
POSTUlATES
LANGUAGE
POSTUIA.TES
The Meta-Model
Deletion
1) Simple Deletion:
This form of deletion involves sentences in which the
verb has the potential of occurring with two noun phrases
or argument nouns; however, only one argument noun is
displayed in the surface structure of the sentence. In this
case, the second argument nOUn has been deleted from the
surface structure and can be recovered by using the meta-
moo I'!1.
2) Comparative Deletion:
Comparative deletion refers to a situation in which a
client's sentence draws a comparison; however, the surface
structure of the client's language does not indicate what is
being compared.
3) Modal Operators:
In many cases, the client's language will indicate that,
in certain situations, there is no choice. Since language is
not experience, the lack of choice may not exist in the world
at large but only in the client's model/language. By chal-
lenging modal operators, the therapist expands the client's
model to include more choices. There are two challenges
for modal operators: "What would happen if you did
(didn't)?" and "What stops you?"
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Distortion
1) Nominalization:
The process whereby a verb is changed into a noun,
thus changing an ongoing process into a static event/ob-
ject, is called nominalization. In many cases, once the
process of nominalization has occurred, the client per-
ceives the nominalized material as an unchangeable
even t/ object instead of a changeable ongoing process. The
process of nominalization is an example of distortion.
Who is deciding?
Deciding about what?
Deciding when?
Deciding where?
How specifically deciding?
An ongoing chair)
An ongoing table) Nouns
An ongoing car)
An ongoing love)
An ongoing decision) Nominalizations
An ongoing fear)
3) Implied Causatives:
Many times when the word "but" is present in the
surface structure of a sentence, a cause-effect relationship
is implied even though it is not formally stated. Implied
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4) Mind Reading:
Mind reading is a type of distortion in which the client
claims to have information about another person's in ternal
state (thoughts, feelings, attitudes, likes, and dislikes)
without indicating the means by which the information was
obtained. The meta-model response to challenge a mind
reading statement is: How specifically?
Generalization
2) Unspecified Verbs:
Unspecified verbs are verbs in a sentence that do not
indicate a full description of the action taking place. The
meta-model response to an unspecified verb is: How specifi-
cally?
3) Universal Quantifiers:
Universal quantifiers are those words that, as
generalizations, stand for an entire category of which one
example is a representative. Examples of universal quan-
tifiers are: all, always, every, everybody, nobody, and never.
There are two ways to challenge universal quantifiers. The
first way is to use exaggeration in order to bring forth a
response that puts the generalization into a more ap-
propriate perspective.
4) Complex Equivalence:
Complex equivalence is a special case of generalization
in which the client equates a definition/meaning to a
certain behavior or set of behaviors that is not necessarily
true. Complex equivalence is similar to mind reading in
that the client claims to have knuwledge of another
person's internal state(s). In complex equivalence, how-
ever, the client claims to have acquired this knowledge via
sensory-based distinctions and the behavior mayor may not
be an indicator of that internal state. There are two steps
to challenging a complex equivalence.
Transcript
Transcript
5) Lost Performative:
Many times a client will make a statement that is indica-
tive of a personal belief system and will present it as though
it is a universal truth. Lost performative refers to a situation
in which a client takes a generalization about his/her
model of the world and presents it as a generalization about
the world itself. In the English language, information about
who is making a statement is often deleted from the surface
structure. At the beginning of each utterance, one could
44 Maps, Models, and the Structure of Reality
Questions
7) How will you know when you have made the change?
This question requires that internal and/or external
indicators of change are established in the goal-setting
process. The therapist can, by using the above question,
elicit from the client (either by verbal description or direct
behavior) the internal or external responses which allow
the client to know that the goals are achieved. For example:
the indicator may be a certain body sensation, body pos-
ture, way of seeing the world, breathing rate or possibly the
content of the client's internal dialogue.
EVOLUTION
POSTULATES
Description
Transcript
(Pause)
Nick: No.
Therapist: I heard you say earlier that you want
to feel secure.
(Pause)
(Pause)
Nick: Security.
Transcript
(Pause)
(Pause)
(Pause)
(Pause)
Transcript
Time Projection
Transcript
(Pause)
Transcript
you?
Chris: I would feel better about myself,
more relaxed and more confident.
(Pause)
Chris: Okay.
Therapist: Describe your experience of being
attractive.
Chris: I feel relaxed and confident. My
voice tone sounds deep and smooth.
I'm aware that my breathing rate is
even (pause) and the voice in my
head is saying positive things.
Paradoxical Intervention
Case Study A
later she reported that she was handling her business much
more efficiently. In addition,jane stated that her social life
had improved immensely because she no longer was taking
work home or worrying about business matters during her
leisure time.
Case Study B
Exaggeration
the client; that is, the client will adopt a position directly
opposite to that of his/her original position (symptom). In
other cases, the use of exaggeration will bring forth a
response that qualifies the symptom, thus placing it into a
more reasonable perspective. Exaggeration opens up new
possibilities and expands the client's often restricted model
of the world either by eliciting a yet-unrevealed polarity or
by placing the symptom in a less severe frame of reference.
The following case study from the work of Frank Far-
relly illustrates the use of exaggeration with a severely
disturbed client.
Case Study C
Case Study D
Reframing
Content Reframing
2.
Client: My mother is really driving me nuts.
She is constantly bugging me. She
wants to know where I go, what I do,
who I see. She wants me to get good
grades in school and dress nice. Ijust
wish she would quit bugging me.
Therapist: Thank God that she loves you enough
to put that much energy into your
well-being.
Six-Step Reframing
Transcript
(Pause)
Ethel: (Eyes closed) I don't know.
Evolution Postulates 83
(Pause)
Ethel: I saw the image.
(Pause)
(Pause)
(Pause)
Contextual Reframing
Transcript
(Pause)
(Pause)
(Pause)
(Pause)
88 Maps, Models, and the Structure of Reality
Metaphor
Learning
Motivation
Congruency
Humility
Metaphoric Reframing
Cinnamon Face
ECOLOGY
POSTUlATES
Transcript
(Pause)
(Pause)
Ecology Postulates 107
(Pause)
(Pause)
(Pause)
(Pause)
Ecology Postulates 109
(Pause)
(Pause)
Once upon a time, far into the future, there was.a place
called the Land of Shadows. This exotic and beautiful place
was marked by a lush valley located between two towering
mountains. The Land of Shadows boasted of its midnight
sun whose rays delightfully bounced over the mountains.
This dance between the sun and the mountains created
mysterious and awesome shadows.
The Native Land People had forever lived in the valley.
They were childlike in their innocence and, with soft eyes,
welcomed the ever-changing shadow formations. The Na-
tive Land People embraced each moment with a sense of
newness and wonder.
Each year, many people journeyed to the Land of
Shadows. These visitors were graciously welcomed by the
Native Land People. Nevertheless, many of the visi tors were
initially confused by the illusive nature of this enchanting
land. They feared that the everchanging shadows were
foreboding signs of evil lurking in hidden places. Fruitless-
ly, they spent countless hours attempting to distinguish,
analyze, and interpret the shadows in order to discern their
"true" nature. .
Some of the visitors became fascinated by the provoca-
tive ways of the Native Land People and sought them out
as mentors. The mentors accepted the visitors' experiences
of confusion and their thirsts for new understandings. By
way of their mentorships, the visitors learned that con-
fusion was but the gateway to worlds-upon-worlds of new
experiences. The visitors were told enchanting stories
which described the intimate relationship between the sun
and the mountains and the shadows that they bore. Soon,
the visitors began to value the uniqueness and solitary
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