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W i l l i a m N. Grosch, M.D.
This paper employs perspectives from Self psychology to illuminate our under-
standing of narcissism. Striving for complete independence and autonomy, a goal
of classical psychoanalysis, encourages the disavowal of narcissism. Instead, nar-
cissism is viewed as necessary for the survival of a sense of self and not on the same
continuum with object love. The concepts of selfobject and selfobject functions are
defined. Shame and rage are explained as byproducts of selfobject failure. It is
postulated that shame emerges out of self-depletion and that narcissistic rage
emerges out of self-fragmentation. Countertransference and treatment implica-
tions are discussed. Following Lichtenberg, addictions are viewed as deriving from
the quest for selfobject experience, regardless of the long-term detriment.
K o h u t a d v a n c e d a s h i f t f r o m F r e u d ' s e m p h a s i s on f a c i n g t h e
t r u t h a n d a c c e p t i n g r e a l i t y to e m p a t h y a n d b e i n g u n d e r s t o o d as
m o r e i m p o r t a n t v a l u e s . L e e a n d M a r t i n c h a r a c t e r i z e t h e s h i f t as
t h a t f r o m p r i d e of c l e a r v i s i o n a n d u n c o m p r o m i s i n g r a t i o n a l i t y
t o w a r d p r i d e i n t h e s c i e n t i f i c a l l y c o n t r o l l e d e x p a n s i o n of t h e self.
(1,p.l17) I n K o h u t ' s words: ~We d e f i n e t h e r a p e u t i c p r o g r e s s t o w a r d
m e n t a l h e a l t h n o t p r i m a r i l y b y r e f e r e n c e to e x p a n d e d k n o w l e d g e
behind the self to develop skill and eventually pride and enthusi-
asm. The loyal dedication to a set of values and ideals usually comes
from an omnipotent parent Cidealized parent imago"), outside and
above the self, therefore pulling the child up to the ideal. Ideally, if
a child received adequate mirroring, then healthy assertiveness,
initiative and ambition develop; if there are sufficient successful
idealizations, then values, goals, and ideals develop.
Actually, these new levels of ~'perfection" only arise as a result of
inevitable empathic failures. The primary narcissism gets dis-
turbed by the imperfections and limitations in the caregiver's min-
istrations. The baby attempts to maintain the original perfection
and omnipotence either by imbuing the rudimentary self or the ru-
dimentary ~'you," the adult, with absolute perfection and power.
To Kohut, the establishment of a narcissistic self or an idealized
parent imago is not pathological per se. These subjective states rep-
resent significant developmental achievements. Problems arise
only if traumatic experiences lead to fixations at these maturation
points and to an inability to internalize these idealized parents as
ideals. For example, ~premature interference with the narcissistic
(grandiose) self leads to later narcissistic vulnerability because the
grandiose fantasy becomes repressed and inaccessible to modifying
influences." (7,p.436)
The term narcissistic transference (in contrast with classical or
neurotic transference) was replaced by the term selfobject function.
Kohut saw mirroring, idealizing, and twinship selfobject functions
as being ways to describe specifically the needs of the narcissistic
transference.
Along the mirroring pole or line of development (or mirror trans-
ference in the treatment situation), if parents or other caregivers do
not provide sufficient attunement, acceptance, affirmation, and ad-
miration of the self in its uniqueness and particularity, normal but
still immature narcissism gets buried in unmodified form. When
this happens (failure) occasionally, the child is forced to develop his
or her own inner resources and becomes increasingly self reliant.
Along this grandiose self line of development or mirroring pole, am-
bitions become more realistic and goal oriented all along being
modified by the limits of reality, and energy is released for produc-
tive activities. If disappointments are traumatic and excessive, and
the child is abruptly cut off from narcissistic supplies, the unre-
sponded to self is not able to transform childish grandiosity into
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ation (as with some members of cults) are frequent fantasy elabora-
tions used in this way as a means to create illusory, but consis-
tently re-creatable selfobject experiences, however brief and vul-
nerable. For patients whom we are able to help in psychotherapy, a
strong desire for sustainable selfobject experiences from more ordi-
nary sources persists alongside of the addictive search for alter-
nate triggers recognized to be maladaptive.
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