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FLORIDA TODAY K1 SUNDAY, JUNE 1, 2014 5E

FIVE THINGS

LEARN MORE Dealing with


cancer diagnosis
National Cancer
Survivors Day
Foundation: ncsd.org;
American Cancer
Society: cancer.org

Christina LaFortune
celebrates
Each survivor navigates ordeal in uniquely personal way
National Cancer
Survivors Day on By Christina LaFortune and everyone has a different At first, even basic questions
the first Sunday in FLORIDA TODAY experience. For some it may be like How did you find out?
June. FLORIDA TODAY, best to share the news publicly and Whats next for you?

I
am a cancer survivor. and connect with a wider pop- were difficult for me. For each
This may come as ulation. I chose to share the person I told about my diagno-
news for some of my news only with an inner circle, sis, I had to rehash it all over
friends and colleagues. at least at first. Here are five again, leaving me feeling re-
While my cancer wasnt reasons it took me so long to peatedly vulnerable to my own
a secret, I chose not to tell people I had cancer. fears. It was easier for me to
make a big deal about it face the process with just a
at the time. And I
havent shared it pub-
licly before today.
1. Its a personal thing. As a
generally private person,
I was anxious about going
few close loved ones in the
know.

In 2012, I was diag-


nosed with cervical
cancer, one of the
public with my diagnosis.
There is no one etiquette for
this situation; it is an individual
4. I didnt want to hear
other peoples advice.
This may sound harsh, espe-
most terrifying choice that cancer patients cially understanding that most
things Ive ever expe- need to make for themselves. people just want to be helpful.
rienced. Because I While some people may feel But stories about my neigh-
had an early diagno- comfortable posting their news bors moms friends experi-
sis, I was able to take via social media or other pub- ence with cancer didnt give
immediate action. I lic forums, for me it felt unnec- me comfort, and werent al-
am happy to say Im essary at the time. I felt like I ways relevant to my condition
now cancer-free. needed to get through it myself or helpful to my outlook.
These days, more first, and until I did that, I
and more people are
surviving cancer, bene-
didnt want everyone to worry.
5. It was my story to tell. I
wanted to share my story
fiting from early diag-
noses and advanced
treatments. The first
2. I couldnt comfort every-
one. There are few
things more scary than a can-
in my own time, in my own
way. Two years later, it is still
hard to talk about it. Ive cho-
Sunday in June is National cer diagnosis. Those three sen to make my story public
Cancer Survivors Day, an little words, I have cancer, because I believe there is a
annual celebration of life for trigger such a deep emotional greater good in adding my
those estimated 14 million response, and not just for the voice to the many. Undoubted-
Americans who have sur- patient. Its natural for friends ly, there are people who may
vived the disease. Accord- and loved ones to feel scared, read this, who are struggling
ing to the National Cancer anxious and even helpless. It through similar dynamics and
Survivors Day Foundation, was tough enough to handle fears. The choice to make your
a survivor refers to any- my own feelings without wor- journey with cancer public is a
one living with a history of rying about how everyone else complex and personal one. I
cancer, from the moment of was handling it. I needed that am hopeful that I might help
diagnosis throughout the rest boundary to focus on my own others know theyre not alone.
of their life. emotional response and heal- I understand, Ive been there,
So why, you may ask, didnt ing. and Im still kicking.
I tell people what I was going
through? Well, its complicated.
Choosing with whom to share
the news is a difficult thing,
3. I didnt want to explain
it again. It is normal for
people to ask a lot of questions.
Email your ideas for Five Things to
clafortune@floridatoday.com.

Canine Commandos
save and socialize
dogs, teach kids
Elementary students program has grown
to reach 18 schools, hundreds of volunteers
By Maria Sonnenberg provide daily, consistent train-
For FLORIDA TODAY ing.

F
ew programs can beat the Q:How many schools have Ca-
success of Canine Com- nine Commandos these days?
mandos, the program Hamilton: Were in 18 schools
started by Virginia Hamilton with about 250 students and 18
and her gifted students at In- teachers and tons of parent
dialantic Elementary School. chaperones.
With the goal of socializing
and training shelter animals to Q: Training a dog requires a lot
make them more adoptable, of repetitive work. How do the
Canine Commandos help bring Commandos achieve a training
the goal of no more homeless regimen for the dogs?
pets closer to reality. Addition- Hamilton: The Commandos
ally, Canine Commandos is are in small groups each with a
helping prepare the next gen- dog. They teach five basic
eration of pet owners to be commands, watch me, sit,
humane and responsible down, stay and come.
adults. A comment card is used to
South Brevard Commandos track the dogs progress. When
weekly train the dogs housed another school goes to the
the South Animal Care Center shelter the next day, they refer
in Melbourne, while Comman- to the card and review the
dos who live in the north end of commands already taught
the county focus on the ani- them and continue where the
mals at Central Brevard Hu- previous school left off. They Virginia Hamilton, a teacher at Indialantic Elementary School, started For more information on
mane Society. The goal is to also go inside and clicker train Canine Commandos in 2002. MALCOLM DENEMARK/FLORIDA TODAY Canine Commandos or to
improve the dogs behaviors to by standing in front of the dog donate to the program
help them find forever homes. runs to get them to stop bark- year? are of the Commandos who are through PayPal, visit canine-
Hamilton and the Comman- ing and jumping. This makes Hamilton: 226 dogs and 334 terrified of dogs and get over commandos.com. Virginia
dos have been recognized by the shelter quieter and the cats. At the Central Brevard their fear through the inter- Hamilton can be reached at
Good Morning, America as dogs more desirable for adop- Humane Society, the Comman- action. A touching story was of Hamilton.Virginia@Brevard-
one of the top 18 volunteer tion. When the dog settles dos also socialize cats. the Commando who was at- Schools.org.
programs in the nation. Disney down, the Commando gives a tacked by her friends dog two
Adventures All-Stars magazine single click and a Cheerio. Q:Its a sad fact that because of years ago. After she healed,
also awarded the Commandos The Commandos are always pet overpopulation, many shel- she continued training with the
kudos as a top school volunteer sad to leave because after ter animals end up being euthan- Commandos.
program. training with these sweet dogs ized. How do you handle that
In 2002, the first year for they get attached to them, but issue with the Commandos? Q: Whats ahead for the Com-
the Commandos, community they feel much better knowing Hamilton: More and more, we mandos?
service was a requirement for that they may have saved a talk about the plight of our Hamilton: Growth. Wed like
teaching gifted students. dogs life. It is very exciting to shelters. The Commandos all to see the program go outside
I wanted to find a project have a dog taken directly from know about the killing for this county. In order to run the
that would be memorable and the Commandos during train- space and now the high rate program, we write grants and
sustainable and something the ing. We invite the public to go due to behaviors, but at the fundraise. We have a phenome-
kids couldnt wait to do each outside to watch the dogs in South Animal Care Center, we nal trainer that some of the
month, said Hamilton, who training. This often ensures an do not know if a dog has been funds pay for. We need her in
calls herself a teacher of gift- adoption. killed if he is not there the next order to keep the safety and
ed students and K9s. time we visit. integrity of the program, be-
Q: Have some of the animals Central Brevard Humane cause the teachers are not certified humane education
Question: How was the program been adopted into a Commando Society is no-kill, so those kids experienced trainers. specialist endorsement to pro-
created? family? know their dog was adopted. We do not train over the vide teacher in-services on
Hamilton: Everything is kid- Hamilton: Oh, yes, someone According to the Humane Soci- summer, but I continue to vol- humane education in their
created. Everything! The pro- always falls in love, and Ive etys comment cards, 61 per- unteer, plus Im the education classrooms.
gram grew because I realized seen parents call a friend to cent of all the dogs weve director for Brevard Aiding
that only one class once a tell them the perfect dog is trained were adopted. Shelter Animals Project. I use Q:How many dogs own you,
month could not make a waiting for them. the summer to continue my Virginia?
change with the dogs behav- Q: What are some of the success online classes through Hu- Hamilton: I personally have
iors, so I wrote a grant which Q: How many dogs and cats stories? mane Society of the United four dogs: JD, who is 12; Mavis,
allowed seven schools to join to were helped by the program this Hamilton: My favorite ones States. Im working on my also 12; Arlo, 5; and Mongo is 4.

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