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Contents
Preface 1 4
Preface 2 6
Spirituality 24
Enlightenment 27
Testimonials 48
Contacts 56
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Preface 1
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feelings and beliefs – my negative identities that had
overpowered the real me.
“Finding the Real You” is, for all us ‘visual’ people out there, an
explanation of what is really happening and how it really is,
written in a way to help you start ‘seeing’ what’s really
happening – what IS!
Nicole Vlug
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Preface 2
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Dr. John Mace was awarded a Ph.D. for his unique and
groundbreaking research, which led him to develop the Mace
Method. There are now many practitioners worldwide.
Please enjoy exploring how this process can assist you in being
all that you where meant to be! It is simple and unique
in its procedure as there is absolutely no personal
disclosure necessary
Sherrie Hatfield
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Introduction – The Real You!
How often have you heard people say, ‘I'll
believe it when I see it’? The atheist, the supreme
sceptic, the supreme materialist, a person who
has no belief in the spiritual nature of human
beings and therefore no awareness of their own
spirituality, epitomises the saying ‘Show me and I
will believe you.’
Not only are we invisible, but also, as science will tell you, as
energy we are indestructible, a concept that aligns with
immortality! The energy component of humanity has no
physical properties at all; it is an elusive will-of-the-wisp. You
can describe anything that has a physical component, but you
cannot describe anything that has no form or substance
detectable by the physical senses. Try describing sound to a
person who has been deaf since birth!
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you cannot see it. It has no physical component, no matter what
its guise or form: its presence can only be detected by the effects
it creates.
No dictionaries that I have seen actually define what it is; they all
refer to what it does. That is perfectly understandable, for energy
has no weight, no colour and no form – all negatives – but it can
create effects, hence this Causism definition: Energy has no
substance, no weight, no colour, and no form. It does
produce effects.
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Connecting Human Nature and Energy
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‘See it? Oh ... I suppose not. But you certainly know it’s
there.’
If you hold a pencil out from your body and let it go, it will drop
onto whatever is below it. As with magnetism, it is the effects of
gravity that are visible, not gravity itself. What this action plus
the above conversation illustrate is that the existence of any form
of energy is only apparent by the effects it creates, and one of
those effects is human emotion. A bit left field, but true
nevertheless.
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As valuable as electricity is in our present society, it is
a relatively crude form of energy when compared
with magnetism. Not as crude as steam, for
example, but still relatively crude. Electricity can be
insulated by a material such as rubber, and also
requires a conductor, whereas magnetism is a highly
refined form of energy that does not require a conductor.
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this planet. It is also an integral
component of our solar system, for it is
the pushing and pulling of gravitational
forces between and within the bodies of
our solar system that keep it in balance.
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Similarly, how fast the iron filings move and how long they take
to settle around a magnet are entirely dependent on the same
factors. The movement within and between the galaxies in the
universe is the same thing on a larger scale, and the greater the
distances, and the greater the mass in motion, the greater the
time necessary to find equilibrium.
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magnets. It is the movement of the copper wire within the
magnetic field that creates the electric flow within the wire, for it
is the changing position of the magnetic field in relation to the
wire that causes the generation of electricity. A stationary wire
with a magnetic field passing over it will have the same effect.
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forms. The supreme energy form of the universe activates
humans, and it is this fact that separates us from all other forms
of life. The closest energy to our own class, the human spirit, is
apparently the class of energy activating primates.
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To return to the principle that energy is only
recognisable by the effects it creates: it is
obvious that every movement of a human body
is a manifestation of an energy unit operating
independently of an outside source. The real
you is not a body; you are an energy unit
inhabiting a body. An enormous hurdle is
surmounted the moment you accept the fact that you are a class
of energy, albeit invisible and undetectable by human senses.
This energy unit, just like gravity, cannot be insulated by matter;
and just as magnetism and gravity can permeate matter, so too
can the human spirit. How else can a person feel that they are
within their body? If they can get into a body, they must also be
able to get out, hence the numerous stories of ‘out-of-body’
experiences.
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right, no matter what its class. Therefore the human energy
unit must also perfect! This begs the question, ‘If we are perfect,
how is it that life itself is not perfect, for individuals, or humanity
as a whole?’ The magnitude and the importance of that
question are beyond calculation. It was one of the first questions
I asked myself – and it has at last been answered.
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The Being and the Person
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This composite, a perfect being plus a body and identities, is a
“person’ and the more negative identities it takes on board, the
more baggage it is carrying around and the less perfect it seems
to be. It is it’s association with a body, which first detracts from
its perfection, and although the body is a necessary factor in
playing the game of life, it is baggage all the same; a decidedly
limiting factor, that has to be accepted in playing this game of
life.
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Every person is a potential Buddha,
for enlightenment is not confined to a
fortunate few. A being will never
create a negative identity but an
unknowing person will – this is the
dwindling spiral of existence that the
Mace Method reverses. If you did not
have a negative identity that became the effect of a situation,
you would not get upset and make another negative decision to
cause another upset in the future – this is the dog chasing its tail
– the dwindling spiral. Unfortunate but true!
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If
If you can keep your head when all about you
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:
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And never breathe a word about your loss;
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Spirituality
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Any time that a person feels euphoric– at peace with the world –
calm and serene, they have risen above most negative creations
in their universe and are detached from them - in control of their
lives. They are enjoying their own ‘certainty of self. ’
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game of life to its fullest. What this means is that the more
negative identities you rid from your universe, the more
you are in control of your life and the more that good
things just happen!
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Enlightenment
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No matter how eloquent one is in the art
of speaking or writing, words are totally
inadequate. It is like attempting to
describe the difference between the taste
of pears and apples – they have to be
tasted to give complete subjective reality.
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encompasses life in ALL its facets. The latter is a more
profound expression than multi-view pointed because as just
stated it is a viewing of life from ALL viewpoints. It is at this level
that a person accepts others for what they are without any
qualifications and with that degree of understanding comes true
bliss and love of one’s fellows. This does not mean you have to
like everyone you meet, like what they represent, agree with
what they do, but importantly, you do not have to dislike them,
have to oppose them or compulsively want to change them. It
does mean that they be accepted for what they are.
Great inner peace is available to those who can truly accept life
for what it is and accept that it is what it is, without having to ask
such questions as:
“Where have we come from?”
“Who created us?”
“When were we created?”
“When will it all end?”
“Who created God?”
“Why did he create us?”
All the “Why’s” and “What if’s” are futile. Only when a person
KNOWS, as distinct from BELIEVING they are immortal
spiritual beings, will this inner peace come. Asking any of
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the above questions is as futile as asking, “What came first…the
chicken or the egg?” for there is no answer. We are all
spiritual beings, we have always been here and will
always remain here and that is how it is. It could be said
that this is the bottom line of enlightenment.
This applies to every aspect of life, for all the regrets and
explanations will not change anything. “What is is” and “It is
what it is now” are synonymous. An expression popular with the
New Age movement is, “Being in the Now!” It is obvious that
this is their way of expressing the above two concepts.
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naturally and this is not uncommon when doing what is best
described as spiritual awareness exercises such as when
undergoing therapies to do with enhancing spiritual awareness.
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The act of ‘being exterior’ gives reality to the being’s ability to
permeate matter, for if they are out of their body they must have
passed through the body to be out of it. Just as light which is
energy, can pass through glass, and X-rays, another energy form
can pass through body tissue, so also can the energy known as a
spiritual being pass through or permeate matter.
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without realisation,
So simple to forget truth, dream, vision, belief
The life.
Smaller and shrinking and too small to feel,
The pain is bigger than me.
Then the cool drenching of knowing.
A thirst for more to grow and to thrive
Reaching upward for the future and outwards for the past
More than survival, transformation into the new
Becoming Old.
Once again like I was, like I always longed to be
Return to Myself.
Love Bronwyn
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Mind, Body, Spirit and Brain
The left-hand drawing shows the being centred within the head.
This is where the being is usually centred and located. The
being’s normal location in the head together with the mind and
the brain is the reason why the confusion exists as to the true
relationship between, Brain, Mind & Spirit.
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Giving lip service to Mind, Body & Spirit as separate entities is
one thing and although being fully aware of my own spiritual
nature as separate from my body, there was still an undefined
and incomprehensible connection to my mind. It still seemed to
be a part of me, although intellectually I knew it was not. It is an
example of the difference between ‘knowing’ and ‘believing’ – or
‘knowing’ and ‘knowing about’ for they are poles apart in reality.
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Peak Experience and Higher Self. I do not see any fundamental
difference between any of them, although Higher Self does need
qualifying, as they are all referring to the same phenomena, but
there are of course degrees of experience.
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“Out of body” medical experiences are generally aligned with
“near death” such as during a medical emergency, but they also
occur as the result of ingesting hallucinatory drugs. Quite often,
although making people aware of their spiritual nature, these
drug enforced experiences may have decidedly negative
connotations, but like “near death” experiences they afford
subjective reality as to one’s nature as a spiritual entity.
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would be rather applicable, particularly as a Being can be
anywhere and everywhere.
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and with that he just went, probably a little relieved and
surprised that someone understood.
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into a past life situation aboard a sailing ship. It is very real to
me that we only “need” our physical senses when in the confines
of a body and this opens up another line of future research, for a
“Person” needs eyes but a “Being” does not; a “Person” needs
ears but a “Being” does not.
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About the Mace Method
Identities
It is generally accepted that life is composed of three elements,
mind, body and spirit, but the discovery of Identities introduces a
fourth element, so that life is really composed of mind, body,
spirit and identities. Identities are the missing link in
understanding life, in understanding human nature.
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person’s personality and negatively charged identities hold every
unwanted aspect of that personality.
Creating Identities.
The source of Negative Identities is upsets, which is defined as,
“anything that a person would not experience by choice”. The
word ‘upset’ indicates that it is unwanted and irrespective of the
event itself, it is the unwanted feeling it naturally contains that is
of real importance. Although they are really clumps of
accumulated energy, identities are best likened to
ridges, which in the material world are caused by two
elements pushing against one another. Two tectonic
plates pushing against each other form the Himalayas and the
material in the plates forms the mountains. That is what
happens in our psyche; we naturally oppose every unwanted
emotion that we experience, creating a ridge of energy, which
contains all the unwanted feelings in the upset, hence Negative
Identities.
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That has a fortunate plus side, because if you created them,
albeit unknowingly, then you can also knowingly dis-
create them, provided you have the tools. The Mace
Method provides the tools. Although everything in our
personalities that we do not like are found in these negative
identities, the closest we come to being aware of them is when
we ask ourselves, “Why do I keep
doing that?” or when we have
inward thoughts such as, “I’m a
born loser!’ or a continuous nagging
sense of self doubt, “I am not good
enough”. You know these are
irrational but they are always there.
Salient Points
There are many salient points in this method, but the first to be
discovered and from which everything else flowed, was the
discovery that the mind has the ability to create a mental
image to represent a concept. This is the cornerstone of the
method, for all negative identities are actually concepts, an idea
or notion about something and this is what the method
harnesses. If a person understands a concept their mind will
create an image, but the intriguing thing is that the image is
totally irrelevant to the concept itself, totally devoid of
rationality. As is said to clients, it can be anything from a donut
to a dinosaur, an ice cream to an oak tree!
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To explain the mechanics of eliminating a
negative identity, let us use a not uncommon
concept – “I am not good enough”. The
negative identity holding this concept has to
have a location in the client’s universe and with
the client’s eyes closed and their attention on
the concept, a mental image will appear and
very importantly, the image pinpoints its location.
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The “Method” and Science
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Using the yardstick that to be a “science” the subject addressed
must concern tangibles, it seems that the Mace Method has
bridged the gap and brought the intangibles of emotional states
into the physical universe where it can be viewed and analysed.
What lies behind this statement is the utilisation of the mind’s
ability to produce an image of what the being has their attention
on.
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The procedures developed have made the quantum leap of
locating the cause and displaying it as a mental image. The
cause is no longer a will of the wisp, but something, which can
be seen, something which has substance and which can be
handled and dismissed from the client’s personal universe by dis-
creating it. The procedures therefore certainly appear to meet
the fundamental requirements of a science, especially when we
use the words “dis-creating it.”
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Testimonials
For about 6 months, I’ve had frequent contact with a delightful and
inspiring 81-year-old researcher, Dr. John Mace. I have studied his
materials and he has given me many sessions on my old stuff (pleasantly
gone now). And I’ve delivered over 200 sessions in many aspects of this
modality with others (mostly live clients). In the process I have become
certified. I consider the Mace Method to be a major advancement in
psychology, psychotherapy, and Energy Psychology. The method involves
no analysis; limited discussion; no tapping, poses, gestures, bodily postures,
or muscle testing; although I’ve been exploring if there is any need to
integrate the method with other approaches. I believe it is a stand-alone
method that relies simply on mental images and that it generally works
faster and deeper than other more complicated therapeutic methods. To
get a sense of this powerful approach, go to the link below to listen to two
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interviews demonstrating this simple yet amazing method. My experience
with John’s approach is highly compatible with Energy Psychology theory,
although it is also quite distinct. Also my keynote at the ACEP Conference
this year highlighted aspects of the Mace Method and I covered a case
example. That recording is available through ACEP. I also highly
recommend John’s book, Don’t Think of an Elephant.
http://www.modavox.com/voiceamericacms/ECardLinkFiles/_77200821322
PM.html
Warmly,
Fred
Dear Friends,
Imagine a young man laying on the floor of your waiting room office curled
up in a foetal position. Abused and abandoned by family, always the black
sheep he often says he wants to kill himself, calls 9-1-1 on an almost daily
basis and has gone to jail because of this. Tossed around from mental
health centre to centre over thousands of miles, because no one could help
him, nor could anyone keep him out of hospital for more than a few days.
Some suggested that he was beyond help, an institutionalized person, never
to stand on his own two feet again.
Yesterday, he was helped with a Mace Session. The emotions he revealed
included hurt and anger. Asked how he felt before the session, he said
“angry” How did he feel after session? “Excellent!” He said with a smile. I
was not aware before, that he even knew what the word meant, since
before hand he had been so low functioning.
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He came crawling into the office and walked out like a man. Thank you Dr
John Mace.
- And this American Suicide Research Psychiatrist wrote after adopting the
“Mace Method”
'Australian Researcher Dr John Mace's “Mace Method” advances
the effective treatment of emotional illness and heralds a
breakthrough of such unparalleled importance to be worthy of a
“NOBEL PRIZE.”'
POSTNATAL DEPRESSION
I wish to express my gratitude for the change in my health and well being
since my session with you in early July. To give you a little background, I
had suffered with Post Natal Depression since my first child was born seven
years ago. After my second child was born two and a half years later I was
experiencing severe exhaustion, panic attacks and anxiety. I was so bad that
I was unable to cope with looking after the children and travelled from
Melbourne to Perth , for help, from family, for a month to try and pull
myself together. The depression, anxiety and panic attacks continued on
and off for the next four years. I have tried everything from psychology,
acupuncture, kinesiology and hypnotism to ease my anxiety. After my
session with you I felt more confident and calm within. A lot of my anxiety
was removed and I feel I can cope with any stressful situation over which I
would previously panic. I also notice that my physical health and wellbeing
has improved a great deal.
Sincerely, J.S.
DEPRESSION
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I was watching TV with my wife and feeling completely normal. Incidentally
I had felt completely overwhelmed several days before I rang you and in
the blackest space imaginable, thank you so much, sincerely B.D. PERTH .
A lady suffering depression reported a year later after only one “MACE
METHOD SESSION” “I have not had the slightest return of depression
since and I do not need anti -depressants anymore” Thanks Rebecca QLD
I wish to thank you for the wonderful changes in my life since having that
session with you. Over my life I have suffered with depression and anxiety.
I've tried many modalities to heal and change this condition, which has
plagued me; counselling, regression, group therapy, attitudinal healing,
breath work, bodywork, psychology, John Bradshaw family therapy and
co–dependence. They all helped to some degree but the depression still
reared its ugly head. After one session with you the change is so profound
that I have decided to train with you and become a practitioner, as it is the
only modality that has completely eradicated my depression.
Thank you with all my heart.
B.M.
Note: Good as her word this lady is now fully trained and is helping many
others
From a young mother who had lost a son and then a husband in tragic
circumstances, she had been on anti depressants for 6 years. She wrote
after a Mace Session “I feel like a new person, confident about who I am
now, the depression has been lifted I feel as though I can handle anything
that is out in front of me. I am a lot happier about life and living. G.L . QLD
A Policeman suffering post traumatic stress, who had not slept nightmare
free for 2 years, the result of a shooting incident at work, he had even put a
gun in his own mouth to end it all. He said on an International Website
“One session of the Mace Method achieved what a long list of anti-
psychotics and depressant drugs could not, I NOW SLEEP NIGHTMARE
FREE. I once said I would sell my soul for one good night of sleep, I don't
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have to sell anything, I will be eternally grateful THANKS To Dr John
Mace"
AN INDECISIVE CLIENT
A client comes to mind, she was a lady in her early sixties, she came to
handle an inability to make her mind up confidently, causing her to be
stuck in life. The upset we handled was a trauma, which happened when
she was an eleven-year-old, their house was burned down, her young
brother was burned to death, she carried his body out which was in a
terrible state, quite a shock, trauma and loss for an eleven- year-old or
anyone for that matter.
After her "Mace Method" session with all the negative feelings and negative
Identities eliminated she not only said she felt great and free of the loss for
the first time, but she realised she had always remained the eleven-year-old
when trying to make decisions. She said, "You know I don't think I ever
grew up" . This bears testimony to the fact that we can really become stuck
in a loss or shock and its confusion along with the negative feelings and
emotions long after the incident.
Prior to the session she had been agonizing over a decision whether to re-
marry or not as her husband had passed away six months before. She had
had a proposal from an old friend who had lost his wife. Straight after her
session she stood up and said "Of course I am going to marry him, I've
known him since my school days, I couldn't find a better man!" With all the
negative effects of the trauma/loss gone she confidently made the decision
easily. M. Taree
NOTE: This example proves every life problem has a “CAUSE” - handle
the cause with a Mace Session and the effects DISAPPEAR.
ADDICTIONS
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watch others smoke without feeling jealous or any other negative sensation.
My finances, health, self–esteem and general happiness have all improved
greatly and will continue to do so. I lead a more positive and productive life
now—something I have wanted for so long. Your unique method of
treatment has worked so rapidly for me and I am and will remain deeply
grateful. Thank you for helping me be more of myself.'
Love always, Lisa.
GAMBLING
'I am writing to you to share with you the results of our sessions so far.
Firstly I am relieved of a more recent addiction, that of gambling. This
problem caused so many other stresses and upsets in my life and I could
never understand why I continued to do the very thing that was causing so
much financial hardship, guilt and grief. After only one session, that
problem has disappeared. Or should I say dis–created. Over the last month
so much of my life has improved enormously, I am happier, healthier and
enjoying all my relationships more and even seeing people through
different eyes. I realised the other day that I am even sleeping really well
now and have more energy to perform my tasks during the day and I wake
up with a great attitude. This technology is amazing, I am so glad that you
made it available to me.'
With love, A.M.
FEELING GUILTY
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GENERAL
'I came in with a big load, heavy and negative, dull lifeless, not knowing
how to deal with everything. I am going out a very positive loving person
who is going to stay positive and at peace. I can now take charge of my life.'
KS Coffs Harbour
“I feel I have come out of a shell allowing myself to be more open. I have
given myself permission to be me without hiding behind a facade. I have
expanded, I feel lighter, I am centred and much more self confident.”
C.P. Armidale
A PHONE SESSION
“Thank you so much for the phone session last night. I just can't believe that
something so simple can make such a difference in my own feelings towards
myself.
I have spent years and years going to one counsellor or another to
overcome the crisis's in my life and even becoming a counsellor myself.
Only this morning I got up and looked in the mirror and thought I looked
different and really liked the person I saw.
Thank you”
M.
Newcastle
ALCOHOL
'Things are going really well at the moment. I don't believe I have ever felt
better in my life. I am a lot easier to get along with and don't seem to bother
about things that usually bother me and cause distress. I am being myself
and I am not so bad after all. Actually, people around me are laughing
more and everyone seems happier. This stuff is unbelievable. I would really
like to meet you properly one day and really let you know what this has
meant to my life. An old AA friend came to visit the other day and asked me
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why I don't go to meetings anymore. I answered, THERE IS ANOTHER
WAY YOU KNOW, AA ISN'T THE ONLY ANSWER IN THE WORLD,
unfortunately she thinks that I am lost. I know that I am free. Well the proof
of the pudding is in the eating so to speak and my life will continue to show
more benefit and fruit than anyone who knew me before could ever
imagine.'
With love.
DRUGS
I am writing this letter to you to express my appreciation for helping me get
through a troubled time in my life. Prior to doing a process with you I was
very depressed, lacked confidence and was very lonely within myself.
Whether or not I chose to admit this at the time is a different story. This
process I did with you is about my usage of drugs. I really wanted to stop
using drugs but did not know how. You gave me a key for myself to get me
off drugs and since then I haven't had the urge for even a sniff of the stuff. I
just turned twenty and I had the most enjoyable birthday of my life with no
chemical intoxication whatsoever and I feel terrific. I haven't had any drugs
in twenty days and I now know with my confidence level as high as it is I
will never use chemicals again. Once again John I say thank you very much
for your help in my life.'
M.G.H.
Note: Since writing this on 22.1.98 the person has not resorted to drugs.
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Contacts
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