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Introduction xi
CLARA THOMPSON
1 THEORY
Freud's Formulations
3 Mental Qualities 14
SIGMUND FREUD
PAGE
Anxiety
Breams
CMIdSiood
15 Preadolescence 248
HARRY STACK SULLIVAN
PAGE
18 Individual Psychology, Its Assumptions and Its
Results 283
ALFRED ABLER
ill HERAP Y
Goals of Therapy
PAGE
Transference and CouittertransieFence
Therapy 485
JANET MACKENZIE RIOCH
Glossary 615
FOREWORD
producing drive in man. He thought that the goals that the indi-
vidual was seeking were more potent sources of difficulty than
traumatic experiences in the past. Thus he placed relatively little
emphasis on the recall of early childhood experiences and a
great deal of emphasis on the current motivations. In a sense
he was the first person to suggest a method of character analysis.
Jung's disagreement with Freud also centered around denial of
the sexual etiology of the neuroses. He saw libido as a vital force
not necessarily sexual in origin. He felt that Freud had not suffi-
ciently stressed the "higher" nature of man and he believed that
many difficulties were due to inability to achieve "self-realiza-
tion."He recognized the importance of early childhood but did
not see the early ties to the parents as primarily sexual. Rather
he saw the early dependency on the mother as based on her food-
providing role. During the first years of his association with
Freud he made contributions Freudian theory but by 1913
to
his thinking differed so widely from Freud's that he left the
Freudian group and eventually established his own school.
In the course of his study of the total personality, Freud began
to note aspects of behavior which were not readily explained by
his theory that man is dominated by the pleasure principle,
noted that not all cases of hostile and aggressive behavior could
be explained as sadistic expression of the libido. He also ob-
served that there was a tendency for people to get into the same
repeatedly, that there seemed to be
of a tendency
types .difficulty
in man
to repeat earlier experiences automatically irrespective
of whether the experience was pleasant or painful. This drive
seemed to be a stronger force than the pleasure principle. Freud
named it the repetition compulsion. By 1920 his ideas of a new
theory of the instincts became crystallized
and were described
in a book, Beyond the Pleasure Principle. In it he presented for
the first time the idea of a death instinct which he saw as exist-
ing side by side with the life instinct. He postulated that these
two forces are active from birth. The death instinct, which was
a new idea, he saw as primarily a self-destructive force which
could be prevented from destroying the individual in two ways.
It might be turned outwards toward others in the form of
hos-
independence.
Ferenczi also felt that the destruction of the infallible authori-
was important. He suggested, as a
tarian position of the analyst
means of bringing this about and making the analytic situation
a more genuine emotional experience, greater frankness on the
part of the analyst about himself and his attitudes. He should be
more ready to admit any mistakes he might make and he should
not try to work with a patient toward whom he could not feel
a genuinely friendly attitude of acceptance. Among the contribu-
tions in this book those of Balint come closest to representing
Ferenczi's approach. Ferenczi himself published almost nothing
about the work of his later years.
Although there was considerable resistance among analysts
to both Rank's and Ferenczi's ideas of the role of the therapist,
the attitude toward the patient has been gradually shifting in
the direction of their views. At
least it has changed to the extent
that the patient's dependency and transference are dealt with
earlier in treatment and the analyst seeks to avoid and certainly
does not encourage an authoritarian type of relationship. In the
course of developing his "will" theory, Rank turned away from
Freud's instinct theories and in 1925 Freudian group.
left the
phasized since the earlier views on the subject are chiefly of his-
torical interest.
"Transference and Countertransference" presents the two
topics of great interest in psychoanalysis at the present time. The
papers in this section explore these phenomena in their con-
temporary setting, at the same time pointing out their dynamic
roots in the past.
THEORY
Freud's Formulations
SIGMUND FREUD
The Theory of the Instincts*
against himself: he tears his hair or beats his face with his fists
treatment which he would evidently have preferred to apply to
someone else. Some portion of self-destructiveness remains per-
manently within, until it at length succeeds in doing the individual
to death, not, perhaps, until his libido has been used up or has
become fixated in some disadvantageous way. Thus it may in
body. This is most clearly seen in the case of the portion of the
libido which, from its instinctual aim, is known as sexual excita-
tion. The most prominent of the parts of the body from which this
libido arises by the name of erotogenic zones,
are described
though strictly speaking the whole body is an erotogenic zone.
The greater part of what we know about Eros that is, about its
exponent, the libido has been gained from the study of the
sexual function, which, indeed, in the popular view, if not in our
theory, coincides with Eros. We have been able to form a pic-
ture of the which the sexual impulse, which is destined
way in
to exercise a decisive influence on our life, gradually develops
out of successive contributions from a number of component
instincts, which represent particular erotogenic zones.
3
[The words "cathexis" and "to cathect" are used as renderings of the
German "Besetzung" and "besetzen." These are the terms with which Freud
expresses the idea of psychical energy being lodged in or attaching itself to
mental structures or processes, somewhat 011 the analogy of an electric charge.
Trans.]
SIGMUND FREUD
The Development of the
Sexual Function*
fact that there are people who are only attracted by the persons
and genitals of members of their own sex. (2) It is equally re-
markable that there are people whose desires behave in every way
like sexual ones, but who at the same time entirely disregard the
sexual organs or their normal use; people of this kind are known
as "perverts." (3) And finally it is striking that many children
(who are on that account regarded as degenerates) take a very
early interest in their genitals and show signs of excitation in
them.
It may well be believed that psychoanalysis provoked astonish-
ment and denials when, partly upon the basis of these three
x
Cf. the hypothesis that man is descended from a mammal which reached
sexual maturity at the age of five, but that some great external influence was
brought to bear upon the species and interrupted the straight line of de-
velopment of sexuality. This may also have been related to some other trans-
formations in the sexual life of man as compared with that of animals, such
as the suppression of the periodicity of the libido and the exploitation of the
part played by menstruation in the relation between the sexes.
The Development of the Sexual Function 11
of that zone. In the first instance, of course, the latter serves the
purposes of self-preservation by means of nourishment; but physi-
ology should not be confused with psychology. The baby's ob-
stinate persistence in sucking gives evidence at an early stage
of a need for satisfaction which, although it originates from and
is stimulated by the taking of nourishment, nevertheless seeks to
9
The question arises whether satisfaction of purely destructive instinctual
impulses can be felt as pleasure, whether pure destructiveness without any
libidinal component occurs. Satisfaction of what remains in the ego of the
death instinct seems not to produce feelings of pleasure, although masochism
represents a fusion which is precisely analogous to sadism.
3
The occurrence of early vaginal excitations is often asserted. But it is
most probably a question of excitations in the clitoris, that is, in an organ
analogous to the penis, so that this fact would not preclude us from describing
the phase as phallic.
12 Sigmund Freud
earlier phases are then found, the trend of which, moving inde-
Mental Qualities*
* An
Reprinted from Outline of Psychoanalysis by Sigmund Freud, by per-
mission of W. W. Norton & Company, Inc. and The Hogarth Press, Ltd.
Copyright 1949 by W. \V. Norton & Company, Inc.
1
Extreme lines of thought, such as the American doctrine of behaviorism,
think it possible to construct a psychology which disregards this fundamental
fact.
14
Mental Qualities 15
obey and to follow over long and unbroken stretches their mu-
tual relations and interdependences in short, to gain what is
known as an "understanding" of the sphere of natural phenomena
in question. This cannot be effected without framing fresh hy-
goes deeply into the subject will find that our technique holds its
ground against every criticism.
In the course of our work the distinctions which we denote
as mental qualities force themselves on our attention. There is no
need to characterize what we call conscious: it is the same as the
consciousness of philosophers and of everyday opinion*
Every-
thing else that is mental is in our view unconscious. We
are soon
led to make an important division in this unconscious. Some proc-
esses become conscious easily; they may then cease to be con-
scious, but can become conscious once more without any trouble;
as people say, they can be reproduced or remembered. This re-
Mental Qualities 17
sciousness and on the other hand by being linked with the verbal
residues, is nevertheless something peculiar, the nature
of which
is not exhausted by these two characteristics. The proof of this is
that large portions of the ego, and in particular of the superego,
which cannot be denied the characteristic of being preconscious,
none the less remain for the most part unconscious in the phe-
nornenological sense of the word. We do not know why
this must
1. Introductory Review
in over-
puts up against them and on the emotional experience
them. This makes the analytic task a vastly different one.
coming
From the standpoint, it is sufficient to bring into the pa-
topical
tient'sconsciousness, one after the other, the manifest elements
of the unconscious; in other words, the guiding line is the con-
tent of the material. If one also considers the dynamic factor one
has to relinquish this guiding line in favor of another which com-
that of
prehends the content of the material as well as the affects:
the successive resistances. In doing so we meet, in most patients,
with a difficulty which we have not yet mentioned.
which developed late. For the important thing is not whether the
symptoms have made their appearance early or late. The impor-
tant thing is that the neurotic character, the reaction basis for
the symptom neurosis, was, in its essential traits, already formed
at theperiod of the Oedipus phase. It is an old clinical experience
that the boundary line which the patient draws between health
and the outbreak of the disease becomes always obliterated during
the analysis.
Since symptom formation does not serve as a distinguishing
criterion we shall have to look for others. There is, first of all, in-
liness into a compulsive ceremonial, that is, not until the neurotic
character exacerbates symptomatically, that the person feels ill.
True enough, there are also symptoms for which there is no
or only slight insight, things that are taken by the patient as bad
habits or just peculiarities (chronic constipation, mild ejaculatio
praecox, etc.). On the other hand, many character traits are often
felt as illness, such as violent outbreaks of rage, tendency to lie,
sight characterizes the neurotic symptom and its lack the neurotic
character trait.
The second difference is that the symptom is never as thor-
oughly rationalized as the character. Neither a hysterical vomiting
nor compulsive counting can be rationalized. The symptom ap-
pears meaningless, while the neurotic character is sufficiently ra-
tionalized not to appear meaningless or pathological. reason A
is often given for neurotic character traits which would imme-
just is thatway." That implies that the individual was born that
way, that this "happens to be" his character. Analysis shows this
interpretation to be wrong; it shows that the character, for definite
reasons, had to become way and no different; that, in princi-
that
ple, it can be analyzed symptom and is alterable.
like the
terological reaction basis from any symptom. The symptom has its
30 Wilhelm Reich
thus it can also be the starting point for evolving the technique
of character-analysis.
Footnote, 194?: The form of expression is far more important than the
1
may even remember the hatred of his father, but he will not ex~
perience unless one interprets consistently the meaning of his
it
positive transference has the same content in either case, the form
of the transference resistance will be quite different: the hysterical
show an anxious silence and a shy behavior; the
patient will, say,
compulsive character a spiteful silence or a cold, haughty be-
havior. In one case the positive transference is warded off by
aggression, in the other by anxiety. And the form of this defense
will always be the same in the same patient: the hysterical patient
will always defend herself anxiously, the compulsive patient ag-
tient says or does, but how he talks and acts, not what he gives
2
By the realization of this fact, the formal element becomes included in
the sphere of psychoanalysis which, hitherto, was centered primarily on the
content.
On the Technique of Character-Analysis 35
interpreted;
b) the technique of resistance interpretation itself.
As to a) If we speak of "selection of material," we have to ex-
:
also has made a selection if one pays attention only to the con-
tent of the communications but not to their form. In other words,
the very fact that the patient presents material of the most diverse
kinds forces one to make a selection; what matters is only that
one select correctly with regard to the given analytic situation.
In patients who, for character reasons, consistently fail to fol-
low the fundamental rule, and generally where one deals with a
character resistance, one will be forced constantly to lift the char-
acter resistance out of the total material and to dissolve it by the
interpretation of its meaning. That does not mean, of course, that
one neglects the rest of the material; on the contrary, every bit of
material is valuable which gives us information about the mean-
ing and origin of the disturbing character trait; one merely post-
pones the interpretation of what material does not have an imme-
diate connection with the transference resistance until such time
as the character resistance is understood and overcome at least
portant task of
studying and systematically describing the vari-
ous forms of characteroiogical transference resistances. If we
understand them, the technique derives automatically from their
structure.
the structure
d) Derivation of the situational technique from
of the character resistance (interpretation technique of
the defense).
attribute that closely mimics it. That is the sense of urgent "ought-
u
ness," a categorical imperative. Actually this oughtness" in the;
superego may get attached to attitudes that are either moral or
immoral as
judged by our reason and conscience, although ia.
both cases it is at least as strong and compelling as any corre-
sponding dictate of the conscience. If, therefore, it is to be called;
moral it can only be in an extended-irrational sense of the word-
Furthermore I have been able to trace this pseudo-moral feeling:
of "oughtness" to an earlier stage in development that antedates
any sense of right or wrong, one to which I have given the name
of "prenefarious inhibition." It would seem to be in this dark
region that we have to search for the beginnings of what later
becomes a moral attitude.
A paradox that must be faced is that we are able to describe
the superego only by using two apparently incompatible termi-
nologies, one and the other dynamic. There is an analogy
static,
to this in the dilemma of modern physics which has to describe
its ultimates both as particles and as waves, neither alone being
able to comprehend all the data. Presumably with psychology
as with physics it indicates the imperfection of our knowledge.
On the one hand it seems necessary to describe the
superego as
an object, an introjected object, an entity which can be offered
to the id to love or hate or fear, in place of an external object,
pressed oedipus wishes of the id. Freud thus termed the superego
the heir of the oedipus complex: its derivative and substitute.
Now if all this refers to the fully developed and finished product,
the superego as it will on the whole remain through life, and also
if one reserves the term superego exclusively to this finished
product, then Freud's formula still stands. But if it means that
nothing of the superego is to be discerned until the oedipus
wishes are renounced according to Freud at about the age of
four or five then the conclusions based on later experience
widely depart from it. It is partly a matter of nomenclature,
though only partly. Freud would restrict the term superego to
what I have called the finished product, and he would attach the
greatest importance
in its genesis to the oedipus conflicts be-
tween the ages of three and five.But he would certainly have also
is some further prehistory both to the oedipus
agreed that there
complex (pregenital difficulties, etc.) and perhaps even to
itself
in which Freud envisaged them and reach back certainly t<s the
second, and perhaps even the first, year of life. Secondly, the fear
of punishment and also other sources of anxiety which play such
an essential part in the genesis of the superego do not by any
means all emanate from the oedipus situation itself, but have
still deeper origins. To put it plainly, the boy has other reasons
for anxiety besides the dread of punishment at the hands of his
paternal rival; they spring more directly from the relation to his
mother alone.
As was mentioned above, the reasons for these extensions and
modifications of Freud's formula come from closer study of the
processes of introjection and projection. Thanks mainly to the
work of Melanie Klein, we have become familiar, not merely with
the early age at which they operate, but with the extraordinary
and quite continuous interplay between them at every moment of
the infant's experiences of life. The introjections are what con-
stitute the superego, but and this is a most essential point
they are far from simple incorporations of external realities, but
are to a greater extent incorporations of the infant's projections
as well. Once this point is grasped one understands that the in-
fant's own contribution to its future superego is more important
than those made by the outer world (essentially the parents), a
conclusion to which Freud would perhaps have demurred.
We may now return to Freud's view concerning the relation-
ship of the oedipus complex to the superego. He would un-
doubtedly have agreed that the child's picture of the prohibiting
and threatening parent is an exaggerated or distorted one. Though
fathers may kill or castrate their boy children they very seldom
do: nevertheless every boy feels these eventualities to be likely
ones and is in consequence terrified of them. When, therefore,
Freud says that the superego gains its power of affecting the ego
from its representing reality demands, 2 one certainly has to add
"and unreality demands as well": more accurately, the demands
of psychical reality as well as those of physical reality. In my
opinion these additions made by the child's imagination
to the
3
Freud: Collected Papers, Vol. II, pp. 251-253.
44 Ernest Jones
present paper.
Whence come all these fearsome bogies and with them the need
for such desperate defenses? The superego is certainly, among
other things, a cruelly persecuting agency which the ego has good
reason to dread. But, after all, the superego is only in small part
thrust on to the growing child by outer prohibitions and con-
demnations. It is in a larger part its own creation. Why does it
* XXI, p. 457.
Papers on Psychoanalysis, Fourth Edition, Chapter
The Genesis oj the Superego 45
There must be a good reason for its doing so strange a thing. Or,
put moreobjectively, the superego must fulfill some highly im-
portant function of value to compensate for its obvious dis-
advantages.
There can be little doubt that the sense of "oughtness" charac-
teristic of the superego, the source of what later will be a moral
attitude, is derived from an earlier sense of "mustness." Put in
other words, the superego's threat to the ego: "You ought not
to do that and I will punish you if you do" is a replacement of an
earlier: "You must not do that for it is harmful (or dangerous).'*
How is this transformation effected from fear into the earliest
traces of morality, and what is the nature of the fear in question?
The earliest fears of the child are on the material rather than the
spiritual plane: they are fears of damage to its interests (priva-
tion, deprivation, bodily injury, and so on). But in the first year
of life love and the need for love begin to play an increasingly
important part. This brings with it a new possibility, the fear of
losing love by offending or injuring the loved and loving object
partially the mother. And it is this extension of its needs from
the bodily to the spiritual plane that effects the transformation
from mustness to "oughtness." To provoke the risk of castration
is still a non-moral situation: to run the risk of offending the
mother and losing her love becomes a "wrong" thing to do. And
in time, as the relationship with the parents becomes more com-
*
Op. cit.
The Genesis of the Superego 41
WILLIAM V. SILVERBERG
all, merely the opinions of those who make them and in the final
analysis only the person who acted or spoke can say what his
intentions were. This reasoning, arrived at long ago, does not,
of course, take unconscious mental functioning into account;
but the witness is no more competent to assay the unconscious
motivations of another person than that person himself, and a
psychoanalysis of every person involved in criminal proceedings
whose unconscious intentions are in question would be cumber-
some indeed. Ultimately the jurymen must decide this matter of
*
Reprinted by permission from Childhood Experience and Personal Destiny
(New York, 1952). Copyright, 1952, Springer Publishing Company, Inc.
48
Toward a Theory of Personality and Neurosis 49
identity change, once the fetus is born, and when, and how, and
why? In cases where the mother and the physiologic home-
is ill
lowered by it, he will abandon the sense of reality and will at-
tempt to function in terms of a sense of supposed omnipotence.
This we see clearly and often in the case of adults, and we may
therefore postulate it a fortiori in the case of the child. Further-
more, it should here be remarked that when we speak of omnip-
otence in the psychic sense, we do not give the word precisely
the same meaning as we do when we use it in a metaphysical or
in a theological context. In the latter we mean literally all-power,
power over everything conceivable, as when we speak of God's
may be felt or they may not be felt. The fact that in acculturated
human beings and in some animals capable of training, the efforts
toward such fulfillment of needs and wishes may be temporarily
or "permanently" inhibited does not vitiate the general state-
55 William V. Silver berg
The man who covets his neighbor's wife would try to take her
set of moral scruples
if he could square it with his acculturated
cally does not vitiate this hypothesis of their operating upon the
basis of specifically different drives. Just as different people may
function, now in antagonism, now in cooperation, so different
psychic agencies within the same person may function. Indeed,
effective aggression may be seen as an attempt to achieve
since Freud assigned it the minor role, its operations were seen
as mere temporizings, as detours from the highroad of death,
as delays and interim arrangements in the major process that
had as its goal the decay and disintegration of the living, organic
substances of the body into nonliving, chemically inorganic sub-
stances. The psyche desired passionately the death of its own
soma and the destruction of the soma of others; survival meant
littleto it in comparison to the peace of biologic nothingness.
This metapsychologic picture seems greatly at odds with hu-
man nature and, in fact, with general organic nature as it
is observed. Freud [9, chap. 6] himself attempted
to deal criti-
empirically to take precedence over all other drives, and for the
executive function of the ego. These are serious deficiencies, and
1
Freud's particular "preferences' seem to have relegated the ego
to the position of stepchild of psychoanalysis. The historical
reasons for this are well known, but whether they were inherent
in the material that confronted Freud in his early work and as
he went along, or whether they were inherent in his prefer-
ences, is a debatable question. There can be little doubt that it
is to the advantage of psychology that Freud elected to pursue
tive to the extent to which the mother fulfills his needs. Tht
more alert the mother, the briefer and less frequent will be the
periods of disturbed homeostasis, and in accord with his sub-
jective bias, the more effective and powerful the infant will feel
66 William V. Silverberg
the earliest weeks and months. It would seem that too much
disturbance of homeostasis too soon in life cannot be tolerated
by the psychosomatic constitution as it then exists.
One is reminded here of Freud's concept (in Beyond the Pleas-
ure Principle [9]) of a Reizschutz or protective barrier against
excessive stimuli arising both from the external world and from
within the organism itself. He likened this to a hard rind devel-
oping from the surface membrane of an organism of vesicular
The ego has other devices for dealing with id-impulses that
threaten to upset the harmony and safety which the ego has been
at pains to establish and maintain in the organism's relations
with the outside world. Prominent among these is reaction-for-
mation, in which the ego manifests an impulse precisely opposite
to the one actually aroused in the id by the external situation.
The impulse manifested in the device of reaction-formation is, as
Sullivan once pointed out, 2 the appropriate id-syntonic impulse
with a not prefixed to it. If the original impulse is to kill, reac-
tion-formation transforms it into to not-kill, which
may come to
mean must be added, however, that reaction-
to take care of. It
formation is not simply a matter of grammar and semantics. If
the opposite impulse, the one expressed by the prefixed not, does
not exist in its own right as a psychic potentiality, it cannot be
used for purposes of reaction-formation. Suppose that the ex-
ample given arises in a situation of sibling hostility: the original
impulse, then, is to kill the sibling, but owing to the process
above described it becomes transformed by reaction-formation
into the not-kill, take-care-of impulse. This transformation will
the more readily take place if the child has already evolved some
tendency to want a baby of his own to take care of, in what-
ever specific terms he conceives this. In other words, reaction-
formation involves of necessity some positive quality in the
not-impulse; the negativity of the not-impulse, taken alone, is
an insufficient basis for its adoption even as an anxiety-solving
device. It seems to me likely that where the appropriate not-
2
In a lecture in Washington, D. C., in 1935, so far as I know unpublished.
70 William V. Silverberg
tried and true. Folk wisdom expresses the conflict in two anti-
thetic proverbs: "If at first you don't succeed, try, try again,"
and "Let sleeping dogs lie."
dom has still to be made and would probably prove both inter-
esting and profitable. Proverbs,
which are the vehicles of folk
wisdom, often exist in opposites, such as the pair just mentioned,
hay while the sun shines" do it now; "Don't cross the bridge
off until tomorrow. From the view-
until you come to it" put it
point of common
sense, the fact that mutually contradictory
the
proverbs often occur has no very profound meaning: beyond
Toward a Theory of Personality and Neurosis 71
adopted because the ego senses that the organism is not safe con-
stituted as it is and that inner modifications are essential, whereas
the alloplastic devices, which are modes of attempting to alter
factors external to the organism itself, may operate with no im-
mediate purpose of producing inner modifications. The former
devices might be summed up in the sentence: "I am not safe as
I am; I'd better change myself"; while the latter might be ex-
pressed: "I am all right as I am; but I have to change him, her,
them, or it." Both are adopted in order that aggression may be
the more effective and therefore that self-esteem may be main-
tained at the highest possible level. The ego's own survival (self-
esteem) corresponds to the survival of the total organism, when
the latter is at stake. When it is not, when somatic survival is not
involved in the organism's doing, then what is involved is home-
ostasis, whether described as psychic, somatic, or psychosomatic.
When not confronted with emergencies that threaten life, the ego's
chief concern is to maintain a high level of competence and
thus to avoid illness, whether this takes the form of low self-
esteem or a bodily deficiency that impairs competence in doing.
Psychic illness, then, implies illness of the ego low self-es-
teem primarily occasioned by a diminution in the effectiveness
of aggression. All of the ego's defensive devices, which are orig-
inally used to promote and improve this effectiveness, indicate
Toward a Theory of Personality and Neurosis 73
that the ego does not feel itself strong enough or safe enough to
pursue the organism's aim directly; hence, the devices emerge
in an indirection which not only signalizes a relatively weak ego,
but which in itself further weakens the ego. The strength of the
ego the degree to which it is at one with the remainder of
lies in
its ownorganism. Freud [10, p. 141] pointed out that the differ-
entiation into ego and id signifies a defect in the human psyche,
by which he meant that the human psyche functions poorly in so
far as it is at war with itself, and that this differentiation would
not have occurred had not the psyche at an early stage of its ex-
istence fallen into inner conflict. Since this differentiation never
fails to occur even in the healthiest human being, a certain inner
psychic disunity seems inevitable in everyone. If the very exist-
ence of an ego implies some degree of psychic disunity, the
strength of the ego must always be seen as a relative strength: it
ismore or less at one with the remainder of its organism.
Whether an ego may rightly be considered as inherently or
constitutionally strong or weak, is a problem about which we are
in such profound ignorance that we cannot even propound the
question in a form that might evoke responses, nor have we any
idea what factors such constitutional strength or weakness might
relate to. Our ignorance is here so complete that any statement
cerned solely with our own culture. By "our own culture" I mean
specifically the American culture. This may be at times extended
to include the contemporary culture of western civilization as a
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Psychology and Interpretation in Psychoanalytic Therapy 79
psychology. His advice that analysis should start from the sur-
face, and that resistance be analyzed before interpreting content
implies principles basic in ego psychology. This accounts for
the status of Freud's papers on technique in psychoanalytic
literature: they have retained a pivotal position and most trea-
tises on technique have illustrated or confirmed rather than
to some extent
discovery in psychoanalysis is bound to influence
therapeutic procedure. The value of clinical presentations is
that in listening to them we are stimulated to review our own
clinical experiences, revise our methods, and to profit in what
analyst Ella Sharpe stresses the fact that only familiarity with the structural
to handle transference problems
concept, particularly the superego, enabled her
of his early technical vicissitudes
Adequately [31, p. 74]. For a similar report
see also Abraham [1].
This naturally does not apply to all individuals. The relation of theoretical
5
to analyst, and is no
insight to therapeutic procedure varies from analyst there^
evidence upon which to base ail opinion as to which type of relation is
optimal.
Ego Psychology and Interpretation in Psychoanalytic Therapy 81
Illustrations
be the one interpretation which the little boy can most easily
apply in his self-observation. He might
learn to experience cer-
tain of his own reactions as "not belonging" (i.e., as symptoms)
and thus be led an important step on the way toward readiness
for further psychoanalytic work.
We did not choose this example to demonstrate the poten-
tialities of an interpretation aimed at making the use of a mecha-
8
This is probably what Anna Freud means when she says that the child was
not identifying himself "with the oerson of the aggressor but with his aggres-
sion."
Ego Psychology and Interpretation in Psychoanalytic Therapy 83
9
Another apparent discontinuity or "jump" in reaction, no less frequent and
no important, is designated by what Hartmann calls "the principle of
less
multiple appeal" in interpretations [18]. Examples of this kind make the idea
of interpretation proceeding in layers, advocated by Wilhelrn Reich, highly
doubtful [27, 28]; see also in this connection Nunberg [26] and Alexander [2].
$4 Ernst Kris
analyst (a woman) lest she feel in any way hurt by his not return-
tient was and the very length of the silence had a special
silent
10
The value of similar attempts at starting from careful descriptions has
been repeatedly discussed by Edward Bibring. I quote his views from a brief
report given by Waelder [32, p. 471]. "Bibring speaks of 'singling out' a
patient's present patterns of behavior and arriving, by way of a large number
of intermediate patterns, at the original infantile pattern. The present pattern
embodies the instinctual impulses and anxieties now operative, as well as the
ego's present methods of elaboration (some of which are stereotyped responses
to impulses and anxieties which have ceased to exist). Only by means of the
most careful phenomenology and by taking into consideration all the ego
mechanisms now operative can the present pattern of behavior be properly
isolated out. If this is done imperfectly ... or if all the earlier patterns are
not equally clearly isolated, there is a danger that we shall never arrive at a
correct knowledge of the infantile pattern and the result may well be an
inexact interpretation of infantile material."
Ego Psychology and Interpretation in Psychoanalytic Therapy 87
p. 65], who reported this instance, had taken a daring step, and
that her unpremeditated short cut went too far. But on second
thought we may
conclude that, provided the patient had been
suitably prepared for the appearance of aggressive impulses
within the transference, the wit of the interpretation may have
struck home and created insight. Whether or not one approves
of such surprise effects and I confess my own hesitation it is
obvious that conscious premeditation could hardly bring them
about. But even those of us who do not share the ebullient mas-
tery of Ella Sharpe have reason to believe in the constructive
contribution of intuition. Let me briefly refer to a patient who
had been analyzed and whom I saw fifteen years after
as a child,
his first analytic experience had been interrupted through the
influence of a truly seductive mother who could no longer bear
to share the child with the child analyst. I was familiar with
some of the aspects of the earlier analysis. Some of the symp-
10
See Freud's description of these relationships in various passages of his
early papers [13, p. 334].
90 Ernst Kris
technique.
Whenever we speak of the intuition of the analyst, we are
touching upon a problem which tends to be treated in the
psychoanalytic literature under various headings. refer to We
the psychic equilibrium or the state of mind of the analyst. One
oart of this problem, however, is directly linked to the process
Psychology and Interpretation in Psychoanalytic Therapy 91
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ROLLO MAY
Freud's Evolving Theories
of Anxiety*
problem.
1
More specifically, he directed attention to anxiety as
the basic question for the understanding of emotional and psy-
*
Reprinted by permission from The Meaning of Anxiety (New York,
1950). Copyright 1950 by The Ronald Press Company.
1
Freud stands in the line of those explorers of human nature of the
nineteenth century -including Kierkegaard, Nietzsche, Schopenhauer who re-
discovered the significance of the irrational, dynamic, "unconscious" elements
in (Cf. Thomas Mann, Freud, Goethe, Wagner [New York r
personality.
1937].) These aspects of personality had tended to be overlooked and in
many ways suppressed by the rationalistic preoccupations of most Western
thinking since the Renaissance. Though Kierkegaard, Nietzsche, and Freud
attacked the rationalism of the nineteenth century for different reasons, they
had in common the conviction that the traditional modes of thought omitted
elements vital for the understanding of personality. The so-called irrational
springs of human behavior had been left outside the accepted area of scientific
investigation or lumped under the so-called instincts. Freud's reaction against
the endeavors of academic medicine of his day to explain anxiety by "de-
scribing the nerve-pathways by which the excitations travel" and his conviction
that the methods of academic psychology of his day yielded little or no help
in the dynamic understanding of human behavior which he sought can be
understood, it seems to this writer, in this light. At the same time, Freud felt
himself to be an enthusiastic champion of science in his avowed intention
of making the "irrational" elements in behavior explicable in terms of his.
broader concept of scientific method. That he carried over into his work some
of the presuppositions of the nineteenth century traditional (physical) science
is illustrated in his libido theory, which will be commented on below.
97
98 Rollo May
chological disorders; anxiety, he notes in his later essay devoted
to this topic, is the "fundamental phenomenon and the central
2
problem of neurosis."
Students of dynamic psychology would no doubt agree that
Freud is the pre-eminent explorer of the psychology of anxiety,
that he both showed the way and gave many of the most efficacious
2
The problem of anxiety, trans. H. A. Bunker (American eel; New York,
1936), p. 111.
8
New introductory lectures in psychoanalysis (New York, 1933), p. 113.
*
Genera/ introduction to psychoanalysis, p. 343. Beyond this brief dis-
tinction, Freud does not either in the chapter on anxiety in the General
introduction to psychoanalysis or in his later Problem of anxiety throw much
illumination on the problem of fear as such. He treats Stanley Hall's list of
allegedly innate fears, such as fear of darkness, fear of bodies of water, of
thunder, etc., as phobias, which are by definition expressions of neurotic
anxiety. In a summary of Freud's views in W, Healy, A. F. Bronner, and
A. M. Bowers, The structure and meaning of psychoanalysis (New York,
1930), p. 366, a distinction between real fear and neurotic fear is made which
is parallel to Freud's distinction between real and neurotic anxiety. Real fear,
will obviously depend to a great extent upon the state of the per-
son's knowledge and feeling of power regarding the outer
world." 5 This "anxious readiness," as Freud terms objective
anxiety, an expedient function, since it protects the individual
is
the protecting object, namely, the mother" Ibid. This is synonymous with
his definition of the source of anxiety in similar situations; apparently the
terms "fear" and "anxiety" are here used interchangeably, the former being the
term for the emergence of anxiety in specific form.
5
General introduction to psychoanalysis, p. 342.
Ibid., p. 343.
7
The first and second theories have to do with the mechanics, as contrasted
with the origins, of anxiety.
100 Rollo May
vironment. In obsessional acts, likewise, the patient seems to
be free of anxiety so long as he is permitted to carry out his act
in unmolested fashion, but as soon as he is prevented from
performing the obsessional act, intense anxiety appears. So,
Freud reasoned understandably, some substitutive process must
be occurring, i.e., the symptom must in some way be taking the
place of the anxiety. He observed at the same time that his
8
General introduction to psychoanalyse, p. 348.
"The problem of anxiety (American ed.; New York, 1936), pp. 51-52.
10
General introduction to psychoanalysis, p. 3 50.
rbiU, p. 355.
Freud's Evolving Theories of Anxiety 101
sary, too, by
on the role of the ego,
his increasing emphasis
14
which had played only an auxiliary part in the first theory.
He demonstrates the analysis which led to the new theory
with the case of Hans, the five-year-old boy who refused to go
out into the street (the inhibition) because of his phobia of
horses (the symptom). Hans had considerable ambivalence
toward his father, which Freud explains in classical Oedipus
fashion. The little boy felt strong desires for the love of his
mother and consequent jealousy and hatred of his father. But at
the same time he was devoted to his father in so far as his
mother did not enter the picture as a cause of dissension. Because
of the father's strength, the aggressive impulses in Hans would
cue off anxiety. The hostility carries with it frightening possi-
bilities of retaliation, and it also involves the boy in continuous
"The division of the mental personality into a super-ego, ego and id ...
of
has forced us to take up a new position with regard to the problem
anxiety." New introductory lectures, p. 118.
Freud's Evolving Theories of Anxiety 103
"the child seems to bring very little into the world." And "it
isentirely due to training that real anxiety
does eventually awake
in him." 21 We
take this to mean that in Freud's viewpoint the
tendency to, or capacity for, anxiety is part of the individual's
his father, for example). Now it is well known that inner promptings in the
individual's experience can come easily to stand for external, objective dangets.
If hostility toward the parent is met by retaliation, the child will soon be
innate capacity, whereas the specific forms this anxiety will take
are due to learning.
Beyond the above general statement, Freud finds the origin
of anxiety in the birth trauma and fear of castration. These two
concepts are interwoven and progressively reinterpreted in his
writings. The which comes with anxiety, Freud holds in
affect
his early lectures, a reproduction and repetition of some par-
is
22
General introduction to psychoanalysis, p. 344.
28
The problem of anxiety.
* Ibid., p. 75.
106 Rollo May
of death is castration, since no one has actually
an analogue of
experienced death but everyone has experienced a castration-like
experience in the loss of the mother's breast in weaning.
He
then speaks of the danger of castration "as a reaction to a loss,
28
Since castration and other aspects of the Oedipus situation are so im-
portant in Freudian discussions of anxiety, another question may be raised.
Does not neurotic anxiety arise around castration or the Oedipus situation
only when there are prior disturbances in the relationship between parents
and child? To illustrate in the case of Hans, are not the boy's jealousy and
consequent hatred of his father themselves the product of anxiety? Apparently
Hans had exclusive needs for his mother, needs which her loving the father
would threaten. Are not such needs (which may fairly be termed excessive)
in themselves an outgrowth of anxiety? It may well be true that the conflict
and anxiety leading to the particular phobic construction which Freud analyzes
are specifically related to ambivalence and hostility toward the father. But we
submit that this hostility and ambivalence would not have developed except
as Hans was already in a disturbed relationship with his mother and father
which produced anxiety and led to exclusive demands for his mother. One can
understandably hold that every child experiences clashes with its parents in its
do not become the foci of neurotic anxiety unless prior anxieties already
exist in the family constellation.
20
For discussion of the possible relation between Mrth and anxiety, sea
Symonds, op. cit.
108 Rollo May
from the mother (or mother's love), and thence fear of the loss
of subsequent values. Indeed, in the development and clinical
application of Freudian theory, this interpretation is widely made,
often in the form of the primal source of anxiety as being re-
30
jection by the mother.
Freud a trend toward removing the libido theory from the pri-
to a secondary
mary position in his understanding of anxiety
position. Whereas the earlier theory of anxiety was almost
wholly a description of what happened to libido (it was an "ex-
clusively economic interpretation," Freud remarks),
in his later
80
Cf. D. M- Levy: "[The] most potent of all influences on social
. . .
behavior is derived from the primary social experience with the mother/'
Maternal over-protection, Psychiatry, 1, 561 ff. Grinker and Spiegel, whose
viewpoint represents a development of Freudianism, point out in their study
of anxiety in combat airmen that fear or anxiety will not develop unless the
value or object that is threatened in combat is "something that is loved,
highly prized, and held very dear." This may be a person (one's self or a
loved one) or a value like an abstract idea. Men under stress (Philadelphia,
1946), p. 120. We
here suggest, in line with Freud's discussion above, that
the primal form of the prized person is the mother and that the capacity to
and values is a development from this first prototype.
prize other persons
81
This approach plotting the trends in Freud's thinking is fitting in the
Though Freud retained the libido concept through all his writ-
ings, the trend isfrom a description of anxiety as an automatic
conversion of libido to a description of the individual perceiving
a danger and utilizing libido (energy) in coping with this dan-
ger. This trend accounts partially for the fact that Freud's
second theory presents a more adequate description of the
mechanism of anxiety. But the present writer questions whether
the secondary emphasis on the libido theory in Freud's later
writings on anxiety does not confuse the problem by its emphasis
on the individual as a carrier of instinctual or libidinal needs
which must be gratified. 33 The view taken in the present study
involves carrying the above trend in Freud's writing further in
the respect that libido or energy factors are seen not as given
economic quantities which must be expressed, but as functions
of the values or goals the individual seeks to attain as he relates
himself to his world.
A second trend is seen in Freud's conception of how anxiety
symptoms are formed. This trend is shown most vividly in the
reversal of his early view that repression causes anxiety to the
later view that anxiety causes repression. What this shift im-
plies is that anxiety and its symptoms are seen not as merely
the outcome of a simple intrapsychic process, but as arising out
of the individual's endeavor to avoid danger situations in his
world of relationships.
Another trend, with implications similar to that above, is
indicated in Freud's endeavor to overcome the dichotomy be-
tween '"internal" and "external" factors in the occasions of anxi-
ety. Whereas in the earlier theory
neurotic anxiety was viewed
as fear of one's own libidinous impulses, Freud later saw that
the libidinous impulses are dangerous because the expression of
them would involve an external danger. The external danger
was of only minor importance in the first theory when anxiety
could be viewed as an automatic intrapsychic transformation of
aa
The present writer agrees with those critics of the Freudian libido theory
who hold that the theory is a carry-over from nineteenth century physio-
chemical forms of thought. As an example of this physiochemical form of
Freud's thinking, the translator of Freud's latest work makes an analog*
between libido and an "electric charge." (An outline of psychoanalysis, trans
J. Strachey [New York, 1949],
p. 23.)
110 Rollo May
libido,but it became a pressing problem to him in the cases he
was analyzing in his later periods when he saw that the internal
danger danger from one's own impulses arose from the fact
that the individual was struggling against an ''external and real
danger-situation." This same trend toward seeing the anxious
individual in a struggle with his environment (past or present)
is indicated in the increasing prominence in Freud's later writ-
encies in the theory but also shifts the attention away from the
112 JRollo May
real locus of the problem, namely the organism and its danger
situation. 37
Another application of his topology made by Freud which
in
reveals this problem is seen in his discussion of helplessness
anxiety. He holds that in neurotic anxiety the ego is made help-
less by its conflict with the id and superego. While the present
writer would agree that in all neurotic anxiety the individual is
FRIEDA FROMM-REICHMANN
4
The most unpleasant and at the same time the most universal
experience, except loneliness, is anxiety. We
observe both healthy
and mentally disturbed people doing everything possible to ward
off anxiety or to keep it from awareness.
*
This paper is part of the author's forthcoming publication on "The
Philosophy of Psychotherapy" to be published by Grune & Stratton with
whose permission it is preprinted here.
113
H4 Frieda Fromm-Reichmann
facets but also some
anxiety not only has negative, disintegrative
constructive ones. As we set out to clarify the philosophy
positive,
of psychotherapy regarding neurotic and psychotic anxieties,
we
must keep these two aspects of anxiety clearly in mind.
a great variety of ways. Sub-
Anxiety, as we know, shows in
it may be experienced as a most unpleasant
interference
jectively
with thinking processes and concentration, as a diffuse, vague
or as a dis-
and frequently objectless feeling of apprehension
of uncertainty and helplessness. As it arises
comforting feeling
a shift in tone of
in its milder forms, it may show objectively by
voice,and/or tempo of speech, by a change of posture, gesture
and motion, also by the anxious person's intellectual or emotional
preoccupation or blocking of communication. In people who are
in
even more anxious, anxiety manifests itself psychologically
more or less marked degrees of paralysis of thought and action.
able drives and wishes; his anxiety is with regard to loss of love
and punishment, i.e. along the lines of Freud's libidinal con-
cepts, castration-fear. [9]
Weneed not go into the discussion of Freud's older explana-
tion of anxiety as the result of repressed sexual desires, [5] be-
cause he rejected it himself in "The Problems of Anxiety."
Freud the concept of the anxiety-arousing
Sullivan shares with
power of inacceptable thoughts, feelings, drives, wishes and ac-
tions. But in the framework of his interpersonal conceptions he
sees these forbidden inner experiences as interpersonal ones, not
as instinctual drives per se; also the expected punishment is
not seen as castration-fear. Rather, it is experienced by the
anxious person as the anticipated disapproval, i.e. loss of love,
from the significant people of his early life, from whom he has
originally learned to discriminate between acceptable and in-
personal relationships.
An adult person who finds himself compulsively appraising
other people inadequately, incorrectly evaluating their reactions,
acting upon and responding to them in line with these mis-
conceptions in terms of early patterns of living, may many times
become semi-aware of his erroneous judgment and behavior.
However, he may feel inadequate and helpless in his dim wish or
attempt to change and correct his judgment and his emotional
reactions because he is unaware of their unconscious roots, the
unmodified fixations to the patterns of interpersonal relationships
which he acquired in his early years. This helplessness in the
Psychiatric Aspects of Anxiety 119
paralysis. It means
that the person concerned is living in an
unreal psychological world and that he feels he is in danger of
pulling the people of his environment actually or in fantasy into
the same threatening abyss of unreality. Being unable to success-
fully avail himself of the possibility of using new means of eval-
uating people and of relating himself meaningfully to them
amounts to being blocked in the utilization of learning processes
which serve growth and change. This absence of growth and
change is tantamount to psychological stagnation and emotional
psychological death. [14] In other words, the repeti-
sterility, i.e.
and explain to them some facts about her life which she fek
would be of immeasurable value for them and for her in the
general family picture. Mr. N. assured Anna of his complete
willingness to do this and when Anna left him she was confident
that Mr. N. would take care of the situation with understanding
and skill. For valid rational reasons, which are beside the point
of our discussion, Mr. N. decided later not to meet the members
of the family and have a talk with them along the lines sug-
gested by Anna. He did not have an opportunity to discuss this
with her. When Anna found out about it a few days later, she
felt deep resentment against Mr. N. and developed a spell of
severe anxiety. Why? She felt that her friend had not accepted
here appraisal of the total situation nor given it serious considera-
tion. She also felt he had treated her the same way her parents
had always done; to judge everything the little girl suggested or
offered for consideration as not being worthy of serious thought
on their part, "little girls are too emotional." Anna realized
though, that her resentment against Mr. N., whom she felt had
betrayed her and had not taken her suggestion seriously was,
somehow, unfounded and sensed dimly that he might well have
fallen down on their agreement for valid, rational reasons. How-
ever, she felt completely incapable of overcoming her resent-
ment and her severe spell of anxiety lasted for hours. The semi-
awareness she had about the irrationality of her anxiety and
resentment did not help any until, by psychoanalytic investiga-
tion, she finally discovered the reasons, of which she had been
unaware. Then she recognized that her resentment was due to a
distortion of the present situation between her and Mr. N., in
the light of the unresolved interpersonal pattern of living with
the parents of her childhood, ("little girl" "too emotional"
judgment and suggestions deserve no consideration.)
Jurgen Ruesch's interesting new concept of anxiety which he
gained from observation and investigation of people under stress,
fitsinto this context. He says that anxiety arises as a result of
overstimulation which cannot be discharged by action. [28] The
anxious people who have been described are barred from dis-
charging tension by action, from converting anxiety into euphoria
because they live in a state of "not-being," or "nothingness."
122 Frieda Fromm-Reichmann
connected guilt feelings. Love for the parent of the opposite sex
and competitive hatred of the parent of the same sex should
be mentioned here as the most outstanding example of such
anxiety and guilt evoking psychological constellations.
The resolution of such early tie-ups with the parents of one's
childhood, which I have implicitly recommended as a preventive
against anxiety, should not be
confused with manifestations of
a child's outwardly breaking away from his parents. Children
who succeed in breaking away from their parents early may ex-
this emerging independence of
perience increased anxiety, since
a child meets with a sense of loss on the part of the parents,
hence frequently with their disapproval of the child.
The psychology of masturbation is illustrative of our last state-
ment. There has been much discussion about the following
question: Why are there so many children who
never have been
exposed to any warning against masturbation and many adults
who intellectually do not consider masturbation forbidden or
dangerous and yet there are practically no people who masturbate
without feeling guilty and anxious about it? How can we explain
this fact? I believe that guilt eliciting masturbatory fantasies
are only partly, if at all, responsible. Many cases of masturbatory
operates unrecognized.
There is one more important psychotherapeutic issue which
is in danger of being obscured in cases of psychiatrists' un-
recognized anxiety. A
therapist who fails to recognize and to
accept his own anxieties will also fail to
differentiate correctly
Summary
agree.
Psychiatric Aspects of Anxiety 131
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general.
We must remember that the interpretation of dreams stands
as the corner-stone of psycho-analysis, and that mainly by such
first earned by the cures achieved,
interpretation psycho-analysis
The dream still remains, I believe,
adherents to the new therapy.
an important and almost indispensable means of understanding
unconscious psychical conflicts.
sion and generosity. The people who came to her mind were all
of one type, generous with money, with ideas, with affection. The
analyst said: "There was surely a time when you thought of your
father as a generous giver. You seem to have thought of him as
having abundance of good things which he gave generously, so
much so he could afford not to care if there was waste.** To this
the patient replied incredulously, "But my father as long as I
dren, or for the belief that omnipotently she brought about the
death of her small brother at the age of two, but it is the explora-
tion of the dream in terms of the pre-conscious and conscious
mind that will give us just how this primitive wish, belief and
guilt feeling work out in present-day life itself and, during the
analysis, in terms of transference to the analyst.
Given a woman of fifty, married, and with grown-up children,
the dominance of this unconscious conflict will have resulted
in specific present-day situations and present-day thinking. More
than half a lifetime of psychical building has been done in con-
nection with this major core of the long past. Not by the mere
magic of interpretation alone shall we alter the patient's psychical
orientation, an interpretation which was possible for the analyst
to make in the case of this woman in the first week of analysis.
The analyst must illustrate this past still living in the present, the
past that cannot be left behind. We can do this only by seeing
people of the present day in the roles of post imagoes, by seeing
what are the present-day equivalents of past situations and realize
the denouements that are forever being reached. So in this par-
ticular patient the problem revealed itself in terms of houses
first of all. Over a period of years her husband had secured house
Evaluation of Dreams in Psycho-Analytic Practice 14!
after house for her, always with the one result that her interest
gradually waned, she finally disliked her home and decided they
must leave it. She then had a prolonged holiday after which they
made a fresh start. One factor alone is quite inadequate to explain
this woman's unrest but one factor was undoubtedly the self-pun-
ishment of turning herself out of her house to make amends for
the wish and the belief that she had turned her brother out. My
point at the moment is that the dream is a means of exploring
the pre-conscious which together with its correlation with the
conscious present-day settings of emotion and conflict will also
include the past conflicts brought up to date. By this means,
whether in transference or in the wider-flung life of the patient in
all activities, we can estimate how far repressed memories and
paste for sticking scraps in an album she had not only pasted in the
scraps but had then proceeded to cover the furniture in the room
and finally herself with the sticky paste. Her father on his return
had smacked her hands, the first time he had physically punished
her. The escapade was followed not only by a washing of the
furniture but she herself was bathed. Clean and tidy once more
the child saw her father again, was forgiven and kissed. The after-
noon bath for the patient of forty still brought a feeling of absolu-
tion that was greater than mere cleanliness. Nor, I may add, did
the knowledge she gained of the significance of her unconscious
dramatization lessen her satisfaction in an afternoon bath. This is
142 Ella Freeman Sharpe
a minor and innocuous example of dramatization. More serious
types occur. When such dramatization constitutes in itself the
re-enacting of the dissociated traumatic occurrence, dreams can
be an important means of the resuscitation of the prototype of
the dramatization. Here is such a dream which after a long baf-
fling analysis brought me insight concerning the problem the
patient was compelled to dramatize. Although the interpretation
brought no direct conviction to the patient and no recovered
memory it yet had the effect of making the actual dramatiza-
tions that subsequently took place less fraught with serious con-
sequences than former ones. The dream ran thus: *7 said good-
bye to G. and sent her away and then I turned to you to embrace
you [i.e. the analyst] and said good-bye. But I was standing on
stiltsand my dilemma was that if I let go my hand on the stilts to
bend forward to kiss you it would mean my legs would give way
and I should jail." From the associations given I was able to make
the interpretation that in the dream the analyst represented the
patient when a child and the patient in the dream represented a
grandparent. The patient had been told, but had no active mem-
ory, of an incident that occurred when she was two years of
age. The grandparent was bending down to kiss the child when
he collapsed from a seizure from which he died. I cannot enter
here into all the fatalistic phantasies that subsequently were in-
separable from the love impulses of this child. My purpose is to
tell you that this dream gave the first satisfactory clue to the
giving us the modern setting in which the long past is still played
out, the modern persons in the old drama, the modern substitutes
in present-day situations moulded on the past, the way in which
Evaluation of Dreams in Psycho-Analytic Practice 143
the past, just as for the time being the analyst is the person on to
whom the problems in the unconscious mind are transferred.
It is to this aspect of transference the analyst must adhere, and I
know of no corrective like dreams to illuminate the fact that it
is the infantile elements of development that are thus worked out
in transference on to the analyst. We
shall not be tempted to look
moment the actor forgets his lines. Time and again he makes the
attempt with no result. Rolls of film must have been spoilt"
The dreamer had great anxiety watching the actor fail at these
critical moments.
It is only when one knows the latent content that one realizes
the conflict of wishes represented in such a dream. The photog-
raphers and voice recorders cannot get the actor
to perform
although they are all assembled for that purpose. He forgets his
lines. The anxiety of the dreamer is, in the manifest content,
of the psyche. We
have the recording of sight and sound by the
infant and the incorporation by the senses of sight and hearing of
the primal scene. We
have evidence of this incorporated scene by
itsprojection into the dream dramatization. The modern inven-
tion of the screen of the cinema is pressed into service as the
unearthing the infantile situation and finding the figure for whom
the analyst is a proxy. When a strong positive or negative trans-
ference is in full swing a dream may so gather up the infantile
longings and so strongly picture them with regard to the analyst
that the manifest dream content is taken almost as a reality. The
reason for this is often due to the fact that in the dream there
is embedded a bit of childhood reality not remembered in con-
were angry with me and would not forgive me." The patient who
related this dream could not for a time rid herself of the convic-
tion that the analyst was in reality angry with her. Only by the
analyst's close following on of the work of the previous day's
analysis did there emerge the memory of putting
the paste over
the furniture, an incident to which I referred in illustrating dram-
atization. The fact was that the child was angry with her father.
In the analysis the affective projection on the analyst came first.
"You are angry with me and won't forgive me." The psychical
truth was "I am angry with you and won't forgive you," which
was the real significance of the childhood escapade.
I find that short compactdreams also are apt to be taken at
the valuation of the manifest content and interpreted often by
the patient off-hand and dismissed with satisfaction. For example,
says, "7 dreamt I was having successful
a man intercourse
patient
with X." He goes on to say: "I told you I met her the other day
and how pretty and attractive I thought she was." He comments
further, "A very natural dream, and it is easy to see a wish-ful-
filment." This is a good example of what I mean by the urge to
interpret the manifest content as it stands. The short compact
dream of this type isoften most difficult to analyse and when it
yields to analysis is often the most fruitful. This particular dream
led to the most deep-seated phantasies of the dreamer's infantile
fears of the inside of the mother's body. These latent thoughts
were only accessible through associative material that was avail-
able when he thought of women who had characteristics the
exact opposite of the woman in the dream.
Having stated the general rule I would now draw your atten-
tion to exceptions. There are dreams in which it is possible to read
the meaning without the latent content, dreams of a simple type
in which the symbolism is straightforward and typical. The dream
I quoted in the first chapter in which the dreamer saw music in
of mountains and
pictures which passed before her eyes, pictures
hills softly rounded, is an example, This dream could be evalu-
ated at once, since it was the dream of a patient who had passed
through a severe trauma, who was keeping contact with reality
but struggling and finding it almost unbearable. The external
reality situation of extreme frustration is compensated for by
Evaluation of Dreams in Psycho-Analytic Practice 147
dreams.
These are dreams in which the latent content may be of sig-
nificance, but not of such importance as the psychological pur-
pose which the whole dream fulfils. The manifest content of the
dream will not necessarily give the purpose of the dream as in
the case of the examples I have cited. The dream will yield up its
latent meaning through analysis, and yet to direct the analysis to
analysis and yet they were most revealing in the sense that one
was ultimately led to the revelation of an actual trauma.
I will only refer to typical dreams very briefly. A "crowd" in
a dream indicates a secret. The analyst's work is to find the secret.
Examination and train dreams however typical will have their
Evaluation of Dreams in Psycho-Analytic Practice 151
stationary and yet I told you I was moving." From the content of
the hour the interpretation of "stationary and yet moving" was
that he was urinating.
I find that machinery and movable apparatus
on to all kinds of
can be transferred bodily sensations, especially those experienced
at an early age. These are a few examples: '7 was in a room and
suddenly the door opened and a great flood of water came in."
This is interesting enough as the evidence of an "accident" but
it is the one dream that I am bold enough to quote as possibly
embodying also a birth experience. It was ascertained that the
patient's birth was heralded by an unexpected sudden bursting of
the waters. fact was unknown to the patient at the time of the
The
dream. '7 was in a lift and suddenly it went down flop." This
dream I found to be the representation of an experience of fluid
excreta rushing down and flopping on the floor. Here is an as-
surance in a dream dealing with the same anxiety experience in
childhood. The dreamer said: *7 saw a marvellous thing happen.
A 'car' went straight up a building on the outside somehow and
got safely to a garage, I suppose on the upper storey." The associ-
ations to this dream through references made to the way in which
a dentist's chair works up and down brought the memory of the
patient's baby's chair that could be made higher and lower. The
dreamer had no actual memory of herself in the chair, but the
dream undoubtedly dramatized an experience where instead of
the "car" (Ka Ka) going up safely into a garage it came down
much to the anxiety of the little child. The dream had further sig-
nificances. On to the mechanism of the chair were transferred
the bodily sensations felt while the child was in the chair, and
from this dream the inference could be made that the accident
occurred in the chair. To another patient I am indebted for this
very valuable dream. The patient dreamt he was trying to get rid
of faeces in a lavatory pan, and then it filled up with water instead
cf emptying. The phantasies involved in this dream were of im~
Evaluation of Dreams in Psycho-Analytic Practice 153
portance, but I think even then their full significance can only be
realizedby the understanding of an actual happening. Here in this
dream we have a representation of what it felt like first to try
to pass a motion and then the subsequent experience of an enema
administration.
Here is another dream of the same type. The dreamer thought
he was in a passage-with a mop which he was using to swab it out.
set quite alike." After telling me the patient covered his ears
this,
with his hands. The dream stimulated the patient to give phanta-
sies and associations that had reference both to faecal matter and
hair. The gesture of covering the ears had the significance of both
memory as well the passage was actually an ear passage that was
:
once swabbed out. In this dream the man is the active doer, not
the passive agent. A
stimulus for the dream in addition to the
reference to ears in the conversation of the evening before was
that for a few seconds during his analysis of the previous day
the maid was dusting the stairs outside the consulting room. I
registered this fact but it was noticeable that the patient made no
reference to this at the time.
In the interpretation of dreams the analyst can turn to account
the gestures or minor actions performed by the patient during the
analytic hour. The technique in this way approximates in adult
analysis to the principles of play-technique with children. One has
to interpret actions or gestures as either dramatizing the dream
in some symbolic way or as a means of dealing with anxiety by
correcting the impulse or event in the dream. Here are some
illustrations of these different purposes of actual dramatization
during analysis.
The patient who dreamt of the eiderdown slipping off the bed
154 Ella Freeman Sharpe
and of its being put over her again, suddenly felt cold during the
analysis and put her coat over her. The dream gives first an
experience of the night before when she really was cold and did
not wish to wake up to adjust the eiderdown, and so dreamt it
was done for her. This was a convenience dream. The repetition
of the situation during the analytical hour, however, needed in-
quiry, for the room was warm.
Here is an example of dramatization during analysis that must
be interpreted alongside the dream material. The purpose served by
the dramatization was that the anxiety inherent in the dream was
resolved, for the actions were the exact opposite of the repressed
memory and wish. The patient, a man, came in and lay down on
the couch. A second afterwards he thrust his hands in his pocket.
"Hullo," he said, in great surprise. "What's this?" He drew out a
crumpled envelope, looked at it and then said: "Oh, it's nothing,
waste paper, that's all." He then went on talking in the usual
way. A little later he thrust his hand in his pocket again and
suddenly got up saying: "I can't stand this any longer, where's
your wastepaper basket? I must get this into the wastepaper
basket." Still later in the hour when talking about a MS. he was
at work upon he said: "Look here, I must just see if I made those
always ask for more details concerning any colour, and in addi-
tion, if the colour is pertaining to material, I ask for detailscon-
cerning the type of material. I have proved conclusively through
this patient my surmise that both creative imagination and artistic
dream analysis.
Dreams may prove of value apart from or in addition to the
significance of the latent content. They may be used as a means
of unconsciously placating the analyst, as symbolic of power, of
control over fascal product, as proof of control over the analyst.
The dream may represent a love gift.
The patient's over- valuation or under-estimation of dreams is
C. G. JUNG
Application*
village where I was born. Some peasant boys who went to school
with me are standing together in the street. I walk past them, pre-
tending not to know them. I hear one of them, who is pointing at
"
me, say: 'He doesn't often come back to our village.' No tricks
of interpretation are needed to recognize and to understand the
allusion to the humble beginnings of the dreamer's career. The
dream says quite clearly: "You forget how far down you began."
Here is the second dream: "I am in a great hurry because I am
going on a journey. I hunt up my baggage, but cannot find it.
Time flies, and the train will soon be leaving. Finally I succeed
in getting all my things together. I hurry along the street, discover
that I have forgotten a brief-case containing important papers,
dash breathlessly back again, find it at last, and then run towards
the station, but make hardly any headway. With a final effort I
rush on to the platform only to find the train steaming out into
the yards. It is very long, and runs in a curious S-shaped curve.
It occurs to me that if the driver is not careful, and puts on full
162
steam when he comes to the straight stretch, the rear coaches will
still be on the curve and will be thrown over by the speed of the
lion to the patient's past; he must always ask: "Why?" and neglect
the equally pertinent question: "What for?" This is frequently
very harmful to the patient, for he is forced to search in his
memory perhaps over a course of years for a hypothetical
event in his childhood, while things of immediate importance are
grossly neglected. A
purely causalistic approach is too narrow to
do justice to the true significance, either of the dream, or of the
neurosis. A
person is biassed who turns to dreams for the sole
purpose of discovering the hidden cause of the neurosis, for he
leaves aside the larger part of the dream's actual contribution.
The dreams I have cited unmistakably present the setiological
factors in the neurosis; but it is clear that they also offer a prog-
nosis or anticipation of the future and a suggestion as to the
course of treatment as well. We
must furthermore bear in mind
that a great many dreams do not touch upon the causes of the
neurosis, but treat of quite different matters among others, of
the patient's attitude to the doctor. I should like to illustrate this
by recounting three dreams of the same patient. She consulted
three different analysts in turn, and at the beginning of each treat-
ment she had one of these dreams.
Here is the first: "I must cross the frontier into the next coun-
try, but no one can tell me where the boundary lies, and I can-
not find it." The treatment which followed this dream was
unsuccessful, and was soon broken off.
derstood. The latter in any case relies too much upon the mysteri-
ous insight of the doctor, and, by appealing to his professional
in the
vanity, lays a dangerous trap for him. By taking refuge
doctor's self-confidence and "profound" understanding, the pa-
tient loses all sense of reality, falls into a stubborn transference,
and retards the cure.
Understandingis clearly a subjective process. It may be very
may be theoretically sound, but does not win the patient's assent.
In so far as the pronouncement fails in this respect, it is incor-
rect in the practical sense; and it may also be incorrect in the
sense that it anticipates and thereby cripples the actual develop-
ment of the patient. We
appeal only to the patient's brain if we
try to inculcate a truth; but if we help him to grow up to this
truth in the course of his own development, we have reached his
Dream Analysis in Its Practical Application 167
heart, and this appeal goes deeper and acts with greater force.
When the doctor's interpretation is based merely upon a one-
sided theory or a preconceived opinion, his chances of
convincing
the patient or of achieving any therapeutic results depend chiefly
upon suggestion. And let no one deceive himself as to the effects
of suggestion. In itself suggestion is not to be despised, but it
has serious limitations, and reacts upon the patient's independ-
ence of character in a very undesirable way. practising analyst A
may be supposed to believe in the significance and value of the
widening of consciousness I mean by this the procedure of
bringing to light the parts of the personality which were previ-
ously unconscious and subjecting them to conscious discrimina-
tion and criticism. It is an undertaking which requires the patient
to face his problems, and taxes his powers of conscious judgment
and decision. It is nothing less than a challenge to the ethical
sense, a call to arms that must be answered by the whole per-
sonality. Therefore, with respect to personal development, the
analytical approach is of a higher order than methods of treat-
ment based upon suggestion. This is a kind of magic that works
in the dark and makes no ethical demands upon the personality.
Methods of treatment based upon suggestion are deceptive make-
shifts; they are incompatible with the principles of analytical
the human
psyche, and contrast it with the nocturnal realm of
unconscious psychic activity which we apprehend as dreamlike
fantasy. It is certain that consciousness consists not only of wishes
and fears, but of vastly more than these, and it is highly probable
that the unconscious psyche contains a wealth of contents and
along. Three months after this the end came. He went on a climb
accompanied by a younger friend, but without guides. An alpinist
standing below saw him literally step out into the air as he was
letting himself down a rock wall. He fell on to the head of
tiis friend, who was waiting beneath him, and both were dashed
Its nursery-tales about the terrible old man of the tribe and its
unequivocal and are marked with plus or minus signs that are
immutable. As I see the question, this view is too naive. The
174 C. G. Jung
librium as the body does. Every process that goes too far im-
mediately and inevitably calls forth a compensatory activity.
Without such adjustments a normal metabolism would not exist,
nor would the normal psyche. We can take the idea of com-
pensation, so understood, as a law of psychic happening. Too
little on one side results in too much on the other. The relation
too good. The younger man actually deserves the French so-
briquet of fils & papa. His father is still too much the guarantor
of his existence, and he is still living what I call a provisional
life. He runs the risk of failing to realize himself because there
is too much "father" on every side. This is why the unconscious
manufactures a kind of blasphemy: it seeks to lower the father
and to elevate the son. "An immoral business," we may be
tempted to say. Every father who lacks insight would be on
his guard here. And yet this compensation is entirely to the
point. It forces the son to contrast himself with his father, and
that is the only way in which he can become aware of himself.
The interpretation just outlined was apparently the correct
one, for it struck home. It won the spontaneous assent of the
young man, and did no violence to his feeling for his father,
or to the father's feeling for him. But this interpretation was
only possible when the father-son relation had been studied in
the light of all the facts that were accessible to consciousness.
Without a knowledge of the conscious situation the true mean-
ing of the dream would have remained in doubt.
It is of the first importance for the assimilation of dream-
fast sexual "symbols"; but these are just what I should call signs,
for they are made to stand for sexuality, and this is supposed
to be something definitive. As a matter of fact, Freud's concept
of sexuality is thoroughly elastic, and so vague that it can be
made to include almost anything. The word itself is familiar,
but what it denotes amounts to an indeterminable or variable *
178 C- G. Jung
much with fixed symbols, there is danger of his falling into mere
routine and dogmatism, thus failing to meet the patient's need.
It is unfortunate that, to illustrate the above, I should have to
go into greater detail than space here permits, but I have else-
where published illustrative material that amply supports my
statements.
As already remarked, it frequently happens at the very be-
ginning of a treatment, that a dream reveals to the doctor, in
a wide perspective, the general direction in which the uncon-
scious is moving. But, for practical reasons, it may not be
feasible to make clear to the patient, at this early stage, the
deeper meaning of his dream. The demands of therapy are
binding upon us in this way When the doctor gains such
also.
a far-reaching insight, thanks to his experience in the
it is
and then. We must therefore look more closely into the mean-
ing of the outstanding symbols, "mother" and "horse." These
figuresmust be equivalent one to the other, for they both do
the same thing: they commit suicide. The mother symbol is
archetypal and refers to a place of origin, to nature, that which
passively creates, hence to substance and matter, to material
nature, the lower body (womb) and the vegetative functions.
It connotes also the unconscious, natural and instinctive life,
one hand it has been kept alive by the language, and on the
other hand it is inherited with the structure of the psyche and
is therefore to be found in all times and among all peoples.
;ars to hear.
"Horse" is an archetype that is widely current in mythology
and folk-lore. As an animal it represents the non-human psyche,
Dream Analysis in Its Practical Application 18!
with a slight shift of meaning. The mother stands for life at its
origin, and the horse for the merely animal life of the body. If
we apply this meaning to the dream, it says: the animal life
destroys itself.
THERESE BENEDEK
York, 1952). Copyright 1952 The Ronald Press Company. Originally pub-
lished in the American Journal of Orthopsychiatry, Vol. 19, 1949.
x
Beata Rank [1] and her collaborators observed such psychic transmission
of conflict constellations to children who became feeding problems. Betty
in infants of five to seven months who
Joseph [2] has shown the same
the
developed biting symptoms and anxiety. Margaret Fries [3] investigated
interaction between mother and infant during the lying-in period, and Dr.
Rene" Spitz [4j demonstrated the infant's reactions to the mother's depression.
185
1$6 Therese Benedek
2
We could not determine whether this occurs in correlation with progestin
alone or in correlation with prolacrin production in these women who are
neither pregnant nor lactating.
188 Therese Benedek
8
This is the reason that some women, even if they have to hide the
pregnancy for example, unmarried mothers do not realize the actual diffi-
culties they have to face, hut forget about them until the delivery creates a
different emotional situation.
Psychosomatic Implications of Mother-Child Relationships 189
*
There are other factors in the psychology of pregnancy which may interfere
with the development of motherliness, such as the fear of death at child-
birth, exaggerated fear of labor pains, etc. These are, however, symptoms
motivated by developmental conflicts of the woman and are, therefore,
secondary. Here the discussion is limited to those aspects of the psychology
of motherhood which are related directly to the hormonal processes. How-
ever, the hormonal processes may be influenced by environmental factors
which motivate the psychosexual development in roto, such as the girl's
identification with the mother [5].
190 Therese Benedek
that when the newborn leaves the womb and has to become active
in securing the basicneeds for living, the mother's organism has
this may be con-
to become reorganized also. In some sense,
cry of her baby. The sensation of love reassures the mother about
the continuity of her oneness with the child and she may relax
and wait serenely to receive her child on her breast. It is different
if the mother, instead of love, feels a sense
of loss and emptiness;
if she has the feeling of a distance between
herself and the infant;
guilty, become anxious; and with this the insecurity toward the
child begins. 6
The further development of the mother-child relationship de-
pends on the total personality of the mother; she may develop a
depression and withdraw from the child; she may turn against
the child who exposed her failure in loving and reject it com-
pletely; or she may overcompensate the fear of not being able
to loveand may become overindulgent and protective. This early
post-partum emotional lag is a critical period during which the
husband's relationship to his wife, his readiness for gratifying his
wife's dependent needs, is of great importance. The post-partum
woman, for many
reasons, including physiological motivations,
has a regressive tendency, and therefore has a great desire to be
mothered. Through the love which she passively receives, she
may be able to overcome the depression and give love to her
child.
Whether the mother, through the feeling of love, is able to
maintain the sense of unity with her child, or whether she has to
miss this most significant gratification, the organism of the mother
is not ready to give up the symbiosis after parturition. The need
possibly can
it regulate the metabolic needs of the infant better
than breast feeding does; but it cannot develop motherliness
through the bottle, even if the mother is permitted to hold her
baby in her arms while she feeds him, as present-day nursing
care encourages.
One example of incipient disturbance of motherliness I ob-
served recently: thisyoung woman was very anxious to have a
second baby and was very happy when she became pregnant. Her
moodiiiess, which often led to suicidal ideas, disappeared and she
feltserene during the pregnancy. While the delivery of the first
baby in a military hospital during the war had been a frightening
experience, this fear was now overcome since everything could
be arranged according to her wishes. She had a normal delivery
with anesthesia only at the end. To the great surprise of the nurses,
she wanted her baby rooming-in with her. She felt happy and
contented, watching her infant and nursing him, concentrating
on him completely. Then she developed a slight infection and
the baby was taken away from her. When she went home, a nurse
took over the care of the baby. As the nurse watched her feed-
Psychosomatic Implications of Mother-Child Relationships 193
ing the baby, she felt her milk being dissipated. The nurse was
eager to give the baby the bottle. The mother became uncomfort-
able and depressed. Although she felt that she was losing what
she wanted so much, her friends began to tell her that it was time
for her to go out, to enjoy her freedom while she had the nurse.
She became moody. "I spend time fantasying about being sick
and in the hospital again," she confessed. She complained that
she was superfluous to the baby, yet she did not dare to send the
nurse away and take full responsibility, for she was not certain
that she could enjoy at home the same concentration upon the
infant as she had felt in the hospital. "That would be unfair to
the older child," she protested, and it would also seem silly to
some of her friends. Thus, five weeks after delivery in old times,
she would still be "in confinement" she was in the psychiatrist's
office complaining about two things: (a) that she loved the baby
in the hospital, but now did not know how to love him; and (b)
that the baby, who was
so quiet and gained weight so well, had
become was crying a great deal, and had even vomited
fussy,
once or twice, and this frightened her.
No single example can completely illustrate the point which I
want to make: namely, that not only the infant has the need for
the mother's readiness to nurse, to take care of him; not the baby
alone thrives on the closeness of the mother, by her warmth and
tenderness; but the mother also has an instinctual need to fulfill
the physiological and emotional preparedness for her motherli-
ness. If this process of the mother's
development is suppressed,
hormonal function may disturb that
the enforced changes in the
psychosomatic balance which is the source of motherliness. The
vulnerability of the integration of motherliness can be explained
7
by a summary of the psychosomatic processes of the puerperium
and lactation.
1. When one compares the psychosexual integration of the
personality during the puerperium with that of the "highest"
integration of the personality, the lactating or puerperal mother
appears regressed to an oral level.
2. While this psychosexual state accounts for the (uncon-
7
Puerperium is the period from termination of labor to the completion of
the involution of the uterus usually six weeks.
194 Therese Benedek
disturbance influenced not only the quantity, but also the quality
of the milk, so that the baby received milk which was "difficult
to digest" and caused and other suffering. For many years,
colic
&
The
concept of confidence can be compared with the concept of nope [9].
French shows how "hope" facilitates the mental processes necessary for
achieving a goal. We
believe that hope develops as a mental habit on the
basis of confidence. Through confidence in the forthcoming passive gratifica-
tions and in tne forthcoming help and support in attempts at active mastery,
the ego develops to a stage in which it is able to project the expectations for
gratification in the future. Hope, like confidence, diminishes the sense of
frustration and already in early childhood enables the individual to wait for
gratification without a sudden increase in the psychic tension.
196 Therese Benedek
offeredfrom the side of the bed other than they were used to.
Such children adapt to the routine gratification of their needs
with conditioned reflexes.
Conditioned reflexes represent a significant part of primary
is an important differ-
learning in normal children also. Yet there
ence between the learning of the healthy infant and that of the
infant developing various degrees of hospitalism. Conditioning is
an adaptive mechanism, which serves as protection against anxi-
ety. Anxiety has several sources. One
of them is the body itself,
which generates pain by the sensation of unsatisfied physiologic
needs; the other source of anxiety is the danger in which the weak
ego finds itself when alone and isolated. Infants raised by love-
less routine are exposed to anxiety-producing situations more
often than those whose needs are met with loving care. The ego,
beset by anxiety too often, and for too long a time, remains fix-
ated to the level of primitive conditioning. Such reflex adaptation
saves the child from further increase of tension, and the child
remains calm as long as every step of the routine is followed with-
out a change. Every new situation, even a slight change in the
routine, will, however, be experienced as a danger; the child
responds with anxiety, i.e., with crying. If the environmental
situation cannot be improved, the inhibition increases; the child,
in order to avoid anxiety, finally refuses to respond and does not
tionship.
I have presented two extremes. In the one environment, the
type of crying. Gesell and Ilg [11] state: "The baby shows a
tendency to cry prior to sleep." This "wakefulness crying" tends
to occur in the afternoon and the evening. It loses its prominence
at about ten or twelve weeks.
What is the cause of this irritability? In the light of our assump-
10
First-born infants, on account of lesser maturation, or on account ot
greater birth trauma, represent a more difficult task to a mother who has also
less maturity in handling the child. Thus, the first-born infant's activity
pattern is more fitful; it takes longer for him to quiet down than for sub-
sequent children of the same parent. This statement must be checked, how-
ever, in regard to the many factors which may influence mother and child
198 Therese Benedek
tion that the mother as well as the baby has a need for continua-
tion of the symbiosis, we may speculate on the significance of the
baby's increased demand on the mother at a time when she begins
to tuna away from the baby and becomes more active in the other
areas of her existence. Do infants then demand more intensely
the re-establishment of the symbiosis? Or do they respond to the
increased tenseness of the mother? Be that as it may, the infant
has no means other than his crying fit for discharging tension.
It is fortunate that the infant has no memory of the amount of
discomfort and pain which his crying fit would indicate. The un-
readiness of his nervous system, the lack of internal barriers
(Reiz-Schutz) accounts for the spreading of the tension which
,
fancy.
Summary
The psychosomatic (hormonal) aspects of motherliness were
discussed to demonstrate the mother's biological need for con-
tinuation of symbiosis in the puerperiurn and during the child's
infancy. This instinctual tendency toward motherliness corre-
sponds to the helplessness of the newborn; it is gratified by
sundry intimate functions of motherhood which supply both
mother and infant with the gratification of their dependent
needs. Motherliness, developing through sublimation of instinc-
tual impulses, enlarges the span of the mother's personality; it
Discussion
ship.
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ERNEST G. SCHACHTEL
On Memory and Childhood Amnesia
5*
Ulysses.
*
Reprinted by special permission of The William Alanson White Psy-
and Patrick Mullahy, from A Study of Interpersonal
chiatric Foundation, Inc.,
Relations, edited by Patrick Mullahy, and published by Hermitage House,
Inc., New York. Copyright, 1949, by Hermitage Press, Inc. (Originally pub-
lished in Psychiatry, 1947, 10:1-26; and, in abridged form, in Politics, Spring
1948).
ir
The words "muse" and "mnemosyne" derive from the same root: "men"
or "man." Preller, Ludwig, Griechische Mythologie; Berlin 1872; vol. l r
the past with its promise of happiness and pleasure, and its
threat to the kind of activity, planning,and purposeful thought
and behavior encouraged by modern western civilization have
attracted the thought of two men in recent times who have made
the most significant modern contribution to the ancient questions
posed by the Greek myth: Sigmund Freud and Marcel Proust.
Both are aware of the antagonism inherent in memory, the
conflict between reviving the past and actively participating in
the present life of society. Both illuminate the nature of this
conflict from different angles. Proust, the poet of memory, is
Things Past." He
pursues this conflict between activity and
memory into most
its subtle manifestations. He knows that, as
the awakening dreamer may lose the memory of his dream when
he moves his limbs, opens his eyes, changes the position of his
body, so the slightest motion may endanger and dispel the deep
pleasure of the vision of the time in Combray, recaptured by
the flavor of the madeleine, or the image of Venice conjured up
by the sensation and the posture which the unevenness of the
pavement in the court of the Guermantes town house brought
to him as the unevenness of the pavement of San Marco had
years ago. He does not dare to stir, for fear that the exhilarating
vision may disappear. Bodily movement is the basic and simplest
form of all activity endangering memory. Action itself, the atti-
it must be woven into the fabric of our inmost self, must become
one with it, create a new and better self in us and thus live and
become a productive force in ourselves. There is no past that one
is allowed to long for. There is only the eternally new, growing
the material is again accessible to recall. But even the most pro-
found and prolonged psychoanalysis does not lead to a recovery
of childhood memory; at best it unearths some incidents and
feelings that had been forgotten. Childhood amnesia, then, may
be due to a formation of the memory functions which makes
them unsuitable to accommodate childhood experience, rather
than exclusively to a censor repressing objectionable material
which, without such repression, could and would be remembered.
The adult is usually not capable of experiencing what the child
experiences; more often than not he is not even capable of im-
agining what the child experiences. It would not be surprising,
then, thathe should be incapable of recalling his own childhood
experiences since his whole mode of experiencing has changed.
The person who remembers is the present person, a person who
has changed considerably, whose interests, needs, fears, capacity
for experience and emotion have changed. The two mechanisms
of forgetting suggested here shade gradually and imperceptibly
into one another. They are neither alternatives nor opposites,
but rather the two ends of a continuous scale.
Both Freud and Proust speak of the autobiographical memory,
and it is only with regard to this memory that the striking phe-
nomenon of childhood amnesia and the less obvious difficulty of
recovering any past experience may be observed. There is no
specific childhood amnesia as far as the remembrance of words
learned or objects and persons recognized is concerned. This
type of material is remembered because, in contrast to the
autobiographical past, it is constantly re-experienced and used
and because it is essential for the orientation and adaptation
of the growing child to his environment.
The autobiographical memory shows indeed in most persons,
if not in all, the amnesia for then: early childhood from birth
has made (how many years he has lived); how fast he went
(how successful he was); what places he has visited usually
only the well known ones, often he visits only those that one
"simply must have seen" (the jobs he has held, the prestige he
has gained). He can tell you whether the driving was smooth
or rough, or whether somebody bumped his fender, but he will
be quite unable to give you any real idea of the country through
which he went. So the average traveler through life remembers
chiefly what the road map or the guide book says, what he is
supposed to remember because it is exactly what everybody else
remembers too.
In the course of later childhood, adolescence, and adult life,
perception and experience themselves develop increasingly into
the rubber stamps of conventional cliches. The capacity to see
and feel what is there gives way to the tendency to see and feel
what one expects to see and feel, which, in turn, is what one is
7
expected to see and feel because everybody else does. Experience
increasingly assumes the form of the cliche under which it will be
T
Tolstoi gives a masterful description of how, in an adolescent girl during
a visit to the opera, the experience of what happens on the stage changes from
a genuine, naive, and fresh view to the conventional "appreciation" of the
opera habitue". His account of her initial perceptions, by the way, is a sur-
realist description of opera more than half a century "before surrealism.
Tolstoi, War and Peace, part 8, chapters 9 and 10.
212 Ernest G. Schachtel
one which merely registers the label of things seen, the furniture
of the room, the familiar faces, the houses on the street. Yet this
difference is small when compared with the difference that sepa-
rates the young and discoveries from the
child's fresh experience
adult's recognition of the familiar cliches into which the auto-
matic labeling of perception and language has transformed the
objects around him. Since adult memory functions predominantly
in terms of recalling cliches, the conventional schemata of things
and experiences rather than the things and experiences them-
selves, it becomes apparent how ill-equipped, in fact incapable,
such conventionalized memory is to recall the experiences of
On Memory and Childhood Amnesia 215
ent from what his concepts and words articulate. The awareness
of this unexplored margin of experience, which may be its essen-
tial part, can turn into that productive energy which
enables man
8
Something of the importance of the deeply rooted taboo on smell in
westernman conies to the surface in the vituperative and hateful use that is
one forget by far the greater part of his mental life going on dur-
ing sleep, a life that in most people, judging from the fragments
recalled, seems to be far more original, interesting, spontaneous,
and creative than their waking life? It shares these latter qualities
with early childhood which, from all one can observe, seems to
be the most fascinating, spontaneous, original, and creative period
in the life of most or perhaps of all people. Is it because of these
only against the dream thought but against the whole quality and
language of the dream, a resistance, to be sure, of a somewhat
different character, yet fundamentally related to that which re-
presses and censors those dream thoughts which are intolerable
for consciousness.
In sleep and dream, man's activity in the outer world is sus-
by man's life in his society are much less suitable to preserve the
222 Ernest G. Schachtel
the past time, has been forgotten and thus has remained isolated
as at the bottom of a valley or on the peak of a summit, gives it
an incomparable air of freshness and aliveness when it is re-
On Memory and Childhood Amnesia 223
covered, because it has not been able to form any link -with the
gotten experience and, with it, something of the person that one
was when having the experience carries with it an element of
enrichment, adds to the light of consciousness, and thus widens
the conscious scope of one's life.
and so on, the more stringent becomes the rule of the conven-
tional experience and memory schemata in the lives of the mem-
bers of that society. In the history of the last hundred years of
western civilization the conventional schematization of experi-
Press, London 1922; p. 28. See also, The Interpretation of Dreams, Basic
Writings, pp. 488-491.
224 Ernest G. Schachtel
tion of which the educators are not aware and of which the child
istoo helpless and too inarticulate to have more than the vaguest
feeling that something is happening to him. On the other hand,
those strivings, qualities, and potentialities of the child which are
too strong to be left behind to die by the side of the road of edu*
cation and which endanger the current social and cultural pattern
have to be battled by the more drastic means of taboo and repres-
sion. In this sphere sexuality and the conflict with parental auv
thority play central roles. One might say that taboo and repres*
sion are the psychological cannons of society against the child
and against man, whereas in normal amnesia society uses the
method of blockade and slow starvation against those experiences
and memories which do not fit into the cultural pattern and which
do not equip man for his role in the social process. The two
methods of warfare supplement each other and, in the siege con-
ducted by society against the human potentialities and inclina-
tions which transcend the cultural pattern, the cannon helps to
maintain the blockade, and the blockade and ensuing starvation
make it less necessary to use the cannon.
226 Ernest G. Schachte!
11
Hesiod, Theogony, 227.
Plato, Gorgias, 493 c 2. For the mythology of Mnemosyne and Lethe,
see Kerenyi, Karl, Mnemosyne-Lesmosyne, in Die Geburt der Helena; Rhein
Verlag, Zuerich 1945.
14
ERIK H. ERIKSON
dren. . . .
and places, however, mere fun always connoted sin; the Quak-
ers warned that you must "gather the flowers of pleasure
in the fields of duty." Men of equally puritan mind could permit
play only because they believed that to find "relief from moral
activity is in itself a moral necessity." Poets, however, place the
*
Reprinted from Childhood and Society by Erik H. Erikson, by permission
of W. W. Norton & Company, Inc. Copyright 1950 by W. W. Norton &
Company, Inc.
227
228 Erik H. Erikson
months old. It was more than a casual observation, for I lived for
some weeks under the same roof as the child and his parents, and
it was a considerable time before the
meaning of his puzzling and
continually repeated performance became clear to me.
The was in no respect forward in his intellectual develop-
child
ment; but he made himself understood by his parents and the
. . .
kept throwing it with considerable skill, held by the string, over the
side of his little draped cot, so that the reel disappeared into it, then
said his significant "O-o-o-oh" and drew the
by the string out reel
of the cot again, greeting its reappearance with a joyful "Da" [there].
This was therefore the complete game, disappearance and return,
the first act being the only one generally observed by the onlookers,
and the one untiringly repeated by the child as a game for its own
sake, although the greater pleasure unquestionably attached to the
second This interpretation was fully established by a fur-
act. . . .
ther observation.One day when the mother had been out for some
hours she was greeted on her return by the information "Baby o-o-o-
oh" which at first remained unintelligible. It soon proved that during
his long lonely hours he had found a method of bringing about his
230 Erik H. Erikson
string. He makes her go away, even throws her away, and then
makes her come back at his pleasure. He has, as Freud put it,
turned passivity into activity; he plays at doing something that
was in reality done to him.
Freud mentions three items which may guide us in a further
social evaluation of this game. First, the child threw the object
corporating not only the person who, in life, is beyond his control,
but the whole situation, with both its partners. . . .
play. Only thus can he decide whether or not the unique mean-
ing transcends the common meaning. To understand the unique
meaning itself requires careful observation, not only of the play's
content and form, but also of accompanying words and visible
affects, especially those which lead to what we shall describe in
the next chapter as "play disruption."
In order to approach the problem of anxiety in play, let us con-
sider the activity of building and destroying a tower. Many a
232 Erik H - Erikson
his work that the adult projects past experience into dimensions
which seem manageable. In the laboratory, on the stage, and on
the drawing board, he relives the past and thus relieves leftover
affects; in reconstructing the model situation, he redeems his
the future from
failures and strengthens his hopes. He anticipates
the point of view of a corrected and shared past.
No thinker can do more and no playing child less. As William
Blake puts it: "The child's toys and the old man's reasons are
the fruits of the two seasons.'*
the child has the toys and the adult for himself, and that sibling
rivalry,parental nagging, or any kind of sudden interruption
does not disturb the unfolding of his play intentions, whatever
they may be. For to "play it out" is the most natural self-healing
measure childhood affords.
Let us remember here the simple, if often embarrassing, fact
that adults, when traumatized, tend to solve their tension by
"talking it out." They are compelled, repeatedly, to describe the
signed to cure the soul or the mind make ritual use of this
tendency by providing, at regular intervals, an ordained or other-
Toys and Reasons 235
inability to play. We
saw such play disruption occur, on my
provocation, in Ann's case, when she had to leave me and my
tempting toys in order to rejoin her mother. Similarly, we saw
Sam trapped by his overpowering emotions in the middle of a
game. In both cases we used play as an incidental diagnostic
tool. I shall now introduce a little girl who, although she came
for diagnostic purposes only, led me through a full cycle of
play disruption and play triumph, and thus offered a good
example of the way in which the ego, flooded by fear, regains
through transference its synthesizing power.
Our patient is Mary. She is just three years old. She is a
somewhat pale brunette, but looks (and is) intelligent, pretty,
and quite feminine. She is said to be stubborn, babyish, and
shut-in when disturbed. Recently she has enriched her inven-
tory of expression by nightmares and by violent anxiety attacks
in the play group which she has recently joined. All that the
play group teachers can say is that Mary has a queer way of
lifting things and has a rigid posture: and that her tension seems
to increase in connection with the routines of resting and going
236 Erik H- Erikson
our office.
certain things and, most of all, certain people make him feel un-
comfortable and he wishes that we would do something about
these things and people not about him. Often he feels that
parents, and mostly he is right.
But
something is wrong with his
he has no words for this and, even if he did have, he has no
reason to trust us with such weighty information. On the other
hand, he does not know what the parents have told us about
hi m while God only knows what they have told the child about
us. For the parents, helpful as they may wish to be and necessary
as they are as initial informants, cannot be trusted in these
matters; the initial history given is often distorted by the wish
to justify (or secretly punish) themselves or to punish (and
unconsciously justify) somebody else, perhaps the grandparents
5
who "told you so.*
she offers me her hand it is both rigid and cold. She gives me a
brief smile, then turns to her mother, puts her arms around her,
and holds her close to the still open door. She buries her head in
her mother's skirt as if she wanted to hide in it, and responds to
my advances only by turning her head to me with tightly closed
eyes. Yet she had for a split moment looked at me with a smile
that seemed to convey an interest as if she wanted to see
whether or not the new adult was going to understand fun. This
makes her flight to her mother seem somewhat dramatic. The
mother tries to encourage her to look at the toys, but Mary again
hides her face in her mother's skirt and repeats in a dramatically
babyish voice, "Mommy, mommy, mommy!" A
dramatic young
lady: I am not even quite sure that she is not hiding a smile. I
decide to wait.
Now Mary does make a decision. Still holding on to her mother,
she points to a (girl) doll and says several times quickly and
babyishly, "What that, what that?" After the mother has pa-
tiently explained that it is a dolly, Mary repeats "Dolly, dolly,
dolly," and suggests in words not understandable to me that
the mother take off the dolly's shoes. The mother tries to make
her perform this act herself, but Mary simply repeats her de-
mand. Her voice becomes quite anxious, and it is clear that we
may have tears in a moment.
Now the mother asks if it is not time for her to leave the
room and wait outside as she has told Mary she would. I ask
Mary whether we can let her mother go now and she, unex-
pectedly, makes no objection, not even when she suddenly finds
herself without anybody to lean on. I try to start a conversation
about the doll,which the mother has left in Mary's hand. Mary
grasps it firmly around the legs and suddenly, smiling mischiev-
ously, she begins to touch various things in the room with the
doll's head. When
a toy falls from the shelf, she looks at me
to see whether she has gone too far; when she sees me smile
of fun. But as the engine overturns she suddenly stops and be-
comes pale. She leans with her back against the sofa, holds the
doll over her lower abdominal region, and drops it on the floor.
She picks it up again, holds it over the same region, and drops
first to
it again. While repeating this several times, she begins
whine and then to yell, "Mommy, mommy, mommy."
The mother re-enters, sure that communication has failed, and
asks Mary whether she wants to go. I tell Mary that she may go
if she wishes but that I hope she will be back in a few days.
to
Quickly calmed, she leaves with her mother, saying good-by
the secretary outside as if she had had a pleasant visit.
while the other, in clutching it, may represent the victim's at-
tempt to protect herself. Mary's attack impressed me as being
of such a nature: by dropping the doll several times, panicky
and yet as if obsessed, she seemed to be inexorably driven to
dramatize both the robbed and the robber.
But what was to be stolen from her? Here we would have tc
know which meaning is more relevant, the doll's use as an ag-
gressive tool or the doll as representing a baby. In the play
school, toilet situations were prominent among those which led
to similar outbreaks of anxiety. In this play hour the dropped
doll had first been the prolongation of an extremity and a tool
of (pushing) aggression, and then something lost in the lowei
abdominal region under circumstances of extreme anxiety. Does
Mary consider a penis such an aggressive weapon, and does she
dramatize the fact that she does not have one? From the mother's
account it is entirely probable that on entering the nursery school
Mary was given her first opportunity to go to the toilet in the
presence of boys.
I am thinking of the mother when she raps on the door. She
has left the child, now quite composed, outside to come back
and tell me that Mary was born with a sixth finger which was
removed when she was approximately six months old. Just prior
to the outbreak of her anxiety attacks, Mary had repeatedly and
urgently asked about the scar on her hand ("What that, what
that?")and had received the routine answer that it was "just a
mosquito bite." The mother admits that the child when some-
what younger could easily have been present when her congenital
anomaly was mentioned. Mary, the mother adds, has recently
been equally insistent in her sexual curiosity.
We can now understand the fact that Mary feels uneasy about
the aggressive use of her hand, which has been robbed of a
finger. But why did she put the hand
extension over the genital
to dramatize its loss from there? Is there some asso-
region only
ciation between the lost finger and the absent penis? Such an
association would bring into juxtaposition the observation of sex
differences in the play school and the immediate question of arj
operation.
Before Mary's second visit, her mother offered this furthei
240 Erik H, Erikson
routine in which she could do, say, and ask the same thing over
and over again had always been a necessary condition for Mary's
inner security. She was "heartbroken" over the consequent ex-
clusion from the father's toilet.
We also discussed the fact (which I have already mentioned)
that Mary's disturbed sleep and foul breath had been attributed
by a pediatrician to a bad condition of the tonsils, and
that the
mother and the physician had engaged in a discussion in front
of Mary as to whether she needed an immediate operation or
not. Operation, then, and separation are seen to be the common
denominators: the actual operation on the finger, the anticipated
which
operation of the tonsils, and the mythical operation by
boys become girls; the separation from her mother during play-
school hours, and the estrangement from her father. At the end
of the first hour of play observation, then, this was the closest
we could come to meanings on which all of the play elements
and biographic data seemed to converge.
The antithesis of play disruption is play satiation, play from
which a child emerges refreshed as a sleeper from a dreamless
sleep. Both disruption and satiation
are very marked and very
clear only in rare cases. More often they are diffused and must
be ascertained by detailed study. But not so in Mary's case. Dur-
ing her second appointment she obliged me with as dramatic a
specimen of play satiation as she had previously demonstrated
of play disruption.
At first again smiles bashfully at me. Again she turns her
Mary
head away, holding on to her mother's hand and insisting that
the mother come with her into the room. Once in the room,
however, she lets her mother's hand go and, forgetting about
Toys and Reasons 241
about the cow. She then adds five blocks to one long side of the
house and experiments with a sixth block until its position satisfies
her (see Figure 1).
FIGURE
mm.
This time, then, the dominant emotional note is peaceful play
concentration with a certain maternal quality of care and order.
There is no climax of excitement, and the play ends on a note
of satiation; she has built something, she likes it, now the play
isover. She gets up with a radiant smile which suddenly gives
place to a mischievous twinkle. Before I realize the mischief I
am about to fall victim to, I note that the close-fitting stable
looks like a hand with a sixth finger. At the same time it ex-
presses the "inclusive" mode, a female-protective configuration,
corresponding to the baskets and boxes and cradles arranged by
242 Erik H. Erikson
little and big girls to give comfort to small things. Thus we see
two restorations in one: The configuration puts the finger back
on the hand and the happily feminine pattern belies the "loss
from the genital region" previously dramatized. The second
hour's play thus accomplishes an expression of restoration and
safety and this concerning the same body parts (hand, genital
region) which in the play disruption of the first hour had ap-
peared endangered.
But, as I said, Mary suddenly looks teasingly at me, laughs,
takes her mother's hand and pulls her out of the room, saying
with determination, "Mommy, come out." I wait for a while,
then look out into the waiting room. A loud and triumphant,
"Thtay in there!" greets me. I strategically withdraw, where-
upon Mary closes the door with a bang. Two further attempts
on my part to leave my room are greeted in the same gay way.
She has me cornered.
There is nothing to do but to enter into the spirit of the
game. I open the door slightly, quickly push the toy cow through
the opening, make it squeak, and withdraw it. Mary is beside
herself with pleasure and insists that the game be repeated a
few times. She gets her wish, then it is time for her to go home.
When she leaves she looks triumphantly and yet affectionately
at me and promises to come back. I am left with the task of
both her scar and her genitals required a truthful attitude. She
needed to have other children, especially boys, visit her for play
at her home. The matter of the tonsils called for the decision of
a specialist, which could be candidly communicated to the child.
It did not seem wise to awaken and to restrain her during her
her dreams out, and
aightmares; perhaps she needed to fight
there would be opportunity to hold her lightly and to comfort
aer when she awoke spontaneously. The child needed much ac-
tivity; playful instruction
in rhythmic motion might relax some
of the rigidity in her extremities, which, whatever the initial
cause, may have been at least aggravated by fearful anticipation
since hearing for the first time about the secret amputation of
her finger.
When Mary, somewhat later, paid me a short visit, she was
entirely at home and asked me in
a clear, loud voice about the
color of the train I had taken on my vacation. It will be remem-
bered that she overturned a toy engine on the occasion of her
first visit: now
she could talk about engines. A
tonsillectomy had
proved unnecessary; the nightmares had ceased; Mary was mak-
ing free and extensive use of the new play companions provided
in and near her home. There was a revived play relationship with
her father. He had intuitively made the most of Mary's sudden
ing and frightening her in the general area which was already
disturbed. It was, then, this area which appeared in her play in
a condensed form, while she attempted, from the frightfulness of
isolation, to work her way back to playful mutuality.
Neither Mary's play nor the insight it provided could change
the father's economic worries. But the moment he recognized
the impact of his anxieties on his daughter's development, he
realized that from a long-range point of view her anxieties mat-
tered much more than the threatened change of his work status.
In fact, actual developments did not confirm his apprehensions.
The father's idea of taking walks to the engine yards was
felicitous. For now the real engines became symbols of power
shared by father and daughter alike and sustained by the whole
imagery of the machine culture in which this child is destined to
become a woman.
Thus at the end of any therapeutic encounter the parent must
sustain in a child what the adult patient must gain for himself:
a realignment with the images and the forces governing the cul-
turaldevelopment of his day, and from it an increased sense of
identity.
But here, at last, we must try to come to a better description
and definition of what we mean by identity.
it is a misfortune in development.
Because one draws so close to another, because one is newly
capable of seeing oneself through the other's eyes, the preado-
lescent phase of personality development is especially significant
in correcting autistic, fantastic ideas about oneself or others. I
would like to stress at the risk of using superlatives which
sometimes get very tedious that development of this phase of
personality is of incredible importance in saving a good many
rather seriously handicapped people from otherwise inevitable
serious mental disorder.
I mayperhaps digress to the extent of saying that for some
years have
I had no negative instance to the following generaliza-
tion: As a psychiatrist and a supervising psychiatrist, I have had
.occasion to hear about many male patients who find all relation-
ships with other men occasions for considerable tenseness and
vigilance, and who are uncomfortable in all their business, social,
or other dealings with other men; of this group, I have found
without exception that each one has lacked anything like good
opportunities for preadolescent socialization. (I am confining my
remarks to male patients here because the female picture is more
complicated and I have less material on it.) These male patients
may have what they call very close friends of the same sex, may
even be overt and promiscuous homosexuals; but they are not
at ease with strange men, they have much more trouble doing
business with other men than seems to be justified by the factual
aspects of the difficulty, and they are particularly uncertain as tc,
'what members of their own sex think of them. In other words, )
252 Harry Stack Sullivan
am practically convinced that capacity for ease, for maximum
profit from experience, in carrying on the conventional businesses
of life with members of one's own sex requires that one should
have been fortunate and profiting from relations
in entering into
with a chum in the preadolescent phase of personality develop-
ment.
It is self-evident, I suppose, that I am conspicuously taking
exception to the all-too-prevalent idea that things are pretty well
fixed in the Jesuitical first seven years. This idea has constituted
one of the greatest problems for some anthropologists who have
tried to translate psychiatric thought into anthropologically use-
ful ideas. The anthropologists have noised at them from all sides
the enormous importance of infantile experience meaning ex-
perience certainly under the age of eight. Yet one of the most
conspicuous observations of an anthropologist working anywhere
is that children of the privileged, who are raised by servants, do
not grow up to be like the servants. That is a little bit difficult
for an anthropologist to reconcile with the tremendous emphasis
on very early experience. My work has shown me very clearly
that, while early experience does a great many things as \ have
been trying to suggest thus far the development of capacity
for interpersonal relations is by no means a matter which is
completed at some point, say, in the juvenile era. Very far from
it.And even preadolescence, which is a very, very important
phase of personality development, is not the last phase.
FreadoIesceBt Society
does entail some very serious risk to personality and can, I think,
in quite a number of instances, be suspected of having consider-
able to do with the establishment of a homosexual way of life, or
at least a "bisexual" way. And, as I have already hinted, there
can all recognize from your remembered past, as the need for
acceptance. To put it another way, most of you have had, in the
juvenile era, an exceedingly bitter experience with your com-
peers to which the term "fear of ostracism" might be justifiably
applied the fear of being accepted by no one of those whom one
must have as how
models for learning to be human.
And in preadolescence we come to the final component of the
really intimidating experience of loneliness the need for in-
timate exchange with a fellow being, whom we may describe or
identify as a chum, a friend, or a loved one that is, the need for
the most intimate type of exchange with respect to satisfactions
and security.
Loneliness, as an experience which has been so terrible thai
it practically baffles clear recall, is a phenomenon ordinarily en-
Early Adolescence*
As adolescence is ushered in, there is, in people who are not too
much warped for such a development, a change in the so-called
object of the need for intimacy. And the change is from what I
shall presently be discussing as an isophilic choice to what may be
called a heterophilic choice that is, it is a change from the seek-
1
[Hortense Powdermaker, Life in Lesu: l"he Study of a Melanesian Society
in New Ireland; New York: W. W. Norton & Co., Inc., 1933.]
264 Harry Stack Sullivan
indeed. As I have previously hinted, it is not uncommon for the
preadolescent phase to fade imperceptibly into the early adoles-
cent phase, and for gang-wise genital activity to become part of
the pattern of the very last stage of preadolescence or the verge
of adolescence. Thus one not uncommonly finds at this point
that the lust dynamism is actually functioning and governing a
good part of group activity, but this is very definitely oriented to
that which is to follow with members of the other sex.
In this change from preadolescence to adolescence, there has to
be a great deal of trial-and-error learning by human example. A
considerable number of those at the very beginning of adoles-
cence have some advantage in this learning by virtue of having
already acquired data from their observation of and experience
with a sibling of the other sex not very far removed from them
in developmental age; these data which had been previously un-
lusion on the part of the jealous person. So much for merely a few
high spots on the type of collisions between the feeling of per-
sonal worth and the change in the direction of the need for
intimacy.
There are also collisions between the intimacy need and lust. In
establishing collaborative intimacy with someone, four varieties
of awkwardnesses are common, of which the first three embar-
rassment, diffidences, and excessive precautions make up one
group. The fourth represents one of our magic tricks of swinging
to the other extreme to get away from something that doesn't
work, which I call the not technique. In other words, you know
what an apple is, and if you were under pressure enough you
could produce an imaginary truth, not apple, made up entirely of
the absence-of-apple characteristics. Thus, one of the ways of at-
tempting to solve this collision between the intimacy need and
lust isby something which is about the opposite of diffidence
namely, the development of a very bold approach in the pursuit of
the genital objective. But the approach is so poorly addressed to
the sensitivities and insecurities of the object that the object is in
turn embarrassed and made diffident; and so it overreaches and
has the effect of making the integration of real intimacy quite
improbable.
A much more common evidence of the collision of these two
powerful motivational systems is seen among adolescents in this
culture as the segregation of object persons, which is in itself
an extremely unfortunate way of growing up. By this I refer to
the creating of distinctions between people toward whom lustful
motivations can apply, and people who will be sought for the
relief of loneliness that is, for collaborative intimacy, for friend-
The classical instance is the old one of the prostitute and
ship.
the good girl. The prostitute is the only woman who is to be-
thought of for genital contact; the good girl is never to be thought
of in that connection, but only for friendship and for a somewhat
nebulous future state referred to as marriage. When this segrega-
tion has been quite nebulous state takes on a purely
striking, this
fantastic character.Nowadays, the far more prevalent distinction
is between sexy girls and good girls, rather than this gross divi-
sion into bad and good women. But no matter how it comes about
268 Harry Stack Sullivan
that the other sex is cut into two groups one of which can
satisfy a person's loneliness and spare him anxiety, while the other
satisfies his lust the trouble with this is that lust is a part of per-
far at completing his per-
sonality, and no one can get very
one's lust must
sonality development in this way. Thus satisfying
be at considerable to one's self-esteem, since the bad
expense
girls are unworthy and not really people in the sense that good
are. So wherever you find a person who makes
this sharp
girls
members of the other sex into those who are, you
separation of
might say, lustful and those who are nonlustful, you may assume
that this person has quite a cleavage with respect to his genital
behavior, so that he is not really capable
of integrating it into his
the anxiety of the male, or even his sexual excitement, this pre-
these uncanny feelings refer to the not-me, and are, by this stage
of personality, practically always signs that there is serious dis-
sociation somewhere in personality. Another solution of this kind
is to fall homosexual way of getting rid of lust; this is
into a
SIGMUND FREUD
Character and Anal Erotism*
stands appeared to him so grotesque and comic that he sat down and
it
laughed over it tor a quarter of an hour. This passage runs: 'It is one of
the best signs of later eccentricity or nervousness if an infant obstinately
refuses to empty its bowel when placed on the chamber, that is, when the
nurse wishes, but withholds this function at his own pleasure. Naturally it
does not matter to the child if he soils his bed; his only concern is not to
lose the pleasure incidental to the act of defgecation.' The picture of this
infant sitting on the chamber and deliberating whether he should allow such
a limitation of his personal independence, and of his anxiety not to lose the
pleasure of defsecation, caused my friend the greatest merriment. Some twenty
minutes later, as we were sitting at tea, my acquaintance suddenly remarked
without any preliminary, "Do you know, there fust occurs to me, as I see the
cocoa in front of me, an idea thai I always had as a child. I then always
pretended to myself that I was the cocoa manufacturer Van Houten' (he
pronounced it 'Van Hauten'), 'that I possessed a great secret for the prep-
aration of this cocoa, and that all the world was trying to get this valuable
secret from me, but that I carefully kept it to myself. Why it was Van
Houten that I hit upon I do not know. Probably it was that his advertise-
ments made the greatest impression on me.' Laughing, and without thinking
much about the meaning of my words, I replied, 'Warm haut'n (Van
Houten) die Mutter?* [When do mothers smack?] It was only later that I
realized that my pun really contained the key to the whole of his sudden
recollection from childhood, which I now recognized as a striking example of
a screen-phantasy, setting at rest the sense of guilt by means of a complete
reversal of the value of its memory content, while ft retained its reference to
280 Sigmund Freud
ALFRED ABLER
larly poet, so to present the minute traits of his creations that the
observer is able to obtain from them the general principles of per-
sonality. He is thus in a position to reconstruct
those very things
that the artist when thinking of his finale had previously hidden
therein. Since life in any given society, life without any of the pre-
necessary.
When I hurry home, I am certain to exhibit to any observer
the carriage, expression, the gait, and the gestures that are to be
expected of a person returning home. My
reflexes indeed might
be different from those anticipated, the causes might vary. The
1
William Stern has come to the same conclusions starting from a different
method of approach.
Individual Psychology, Its Assumptions and Its Results 285
goal. All the temporary and partially visible objectives, after the
short period of psychic development of childhood, are under the
domination of an imagined terminal goal, of a final point felt
and conceived of as definitely fixed. In other words the psychic
life of man is made to fit into the fifth act like a character drawn
by a good dramatist.
The conclusion thus to be drawn from the unbiased study of
any personality viewed from the standpoint of individual-psy-
chology leads us to the following important proposition: every
psychic phenomenon, if it is to give us any understanding of a
person, can only be grasped and understood if regarded as a
preparation for some goal.
To what an extent this conception promotes our psychological
understanding, is clearly apparent as soon as we become aware of
the multiplicity of meaning of those psychical processes that have
been torn from their proper context. Take for example the case
of a man with a "bad memory." Assume that he is quite con-
scious of this fact and that an examination discloses an inferior
capacity for the repetition of meaningless syllables. According to
present usage in psychology, which we might more properly call
an abuse, we would have to make the following inference: the
man is suffering, from hereditary or pathological causes, from
a deficient capacity for repetition. Incidentally, let me add, that
in this type of investigation we generally find the inference al-
ready stated in different words in the premises. In this case e.g.
we have the following proposition: if a man has a bad memory,
or if he only remembers a few words then he has an inferior
capacity for repetition.
The procedure in individual-psychology is completely different.
Individual Psychology, Its Assumptions and Its Results 287
chology of personality, who always break off just when they are
about to show us what exactly it is they have understood, as for
instance, Jaspers. The danger of discussing briefly this aspect of
our investigations, namely, the results of individual-psychology,
is sufficiently great. To do so we should be compelled to force the
seeking secretly to push its way along the path of group con-
sciousness.
At this place let me go out of my way to endorse an old funda-
mental conception of all who know human nature. Every marked
attitude of a man can be traced back to an origin in childhood.
In the nursery are formed and prepared all of man's future atti-
tudes. Fundamental changes are produced only by means of an
exceedingly high degree of introspection or among neurotics by
means of the physician's individual psychological analysis.
Let me, on the basis of another case, one which must have
happened innumerable times, discuss in even greater detail the
positing of goals by nervous people. A remarkably gifted man
who by and refined behaviour had gained the love
his amiability
of a girl of high character, became engaged to her. He then
forced upon her his ideal of education which made severe de-
mands upon her. For a time she endured these unbearable orders
but finally put an end to all further ordeals by breaking off rela-
tions. The man then broke down and became a prey to nervous
attacks. The individual-psychological examination of the case
showed that the superiority-goal in the case of this patient as
his domineering demands upon his bride indicated had long ago
pushed from his mind all thought of marriage, and that his object
reallywas to secretly work toward a break, secretly because he
did not feel himself equal to the open struggle in which he
imagined marriage to consist. This disbelief in himself itself
dated from his earliest childhood, to a time during which he, an
only son, lived with an early widowed mother somewhat cut off
from the world. During this period, spent in continuous family
quarrels he had received the ineradicable impression, one he had
never openly admitted to himself, that he was not sufficiently
virile, and would never be able to cope with a woman. These
years old now. Let us assume that he is going to carry his pain
along with him for another ten or twenty years and that he is
8
Cf. "The Problem of Distance" in this volume. [The Practice and Theory
of Individual Psychology, pp. 100-108]
294 Alfred A deer
going to mourn for his lost ideal for the same length of time.
He has thereby protected himself against every love-affair and
permanently saved himself from new defeat.
He interprets his nervous break-down by means of old, now
strengthened, weapons of experience, just as he had as a child
refused to eat, sleep or to do anything and played the role of a
dying person. His fortunes ebb and his beloved carries all the
stigma, he himself rises superior to her in both culture and char-
acter, and lo and behold: he has attained that for which he
longed, for he isthe superior person, becomes the better man and
his partner like all girls is the guilty one. Girls cannot cope with
the man in him. In this manner he has consummated what as a
child he had already felt, the duty of demonstrating his superi-
ority over the female sex.
We can now understand that this nervous reaction can never be
sufficiently definite or adequate. He is to wander through the
world as a living reproach against women. 4
Were he aware of his secret plans he would realize how ill-
natured and evil-intentioned all his actions have been. However
he would, in that case, not succeed in attaining his object of
elevating himself above women. He would see himself just as we
see him, falsifying the weights and how everything he has done
has only led to a goal previously set. His success could not be
described as due to "fate" nor assuredly would it represent any
increased prestige. But his goal, his life-plan and his life-falsehood
demand this prestige! In
consequence it so "happens" that the
life-plan remains in the unconscious, so that the patient may
believe that an implacable fate and not a long prepared and long
meditated plan for which he alone is responsible, is at work.
I cannot go into a detailed description of what I call the "dis-
*
The paranoidal trait is recognizable. Cf. "Life-lie and Responsibility in
Neurosis and Psychosis," in this volume. [The Practice and Theory of Indi-
vidual Psychology, pp. 235-245.]
Individual Psychology, Its Assumptions and Its Results 295
craving for action, his playing of roles, the pitting of his strength
5
The "struggle for existence," the "struggle of all against all," etc., are
merely other perspectives of the same kind.
296 Alfred Adler
longer and more definitely the child feels his insecurity, the more
he suffers either from physical or marked mental weakness, the
more he is life's neglect, the higher will this goal be
aware of
placed and the more faithfully will it be adhered to. He who
wishes to recognize the nature of this goal, should watch a child
at play, at optionally selected occupations or when phantasy-
KARL ABRAHAM
Contributions to the Theory
1
"Anal-erotic Character Traits" (1918).
3
"Analerotik und Analcharakter"
300 Karl Abraham
had become pregnant for the third time, and had determined
to hasten the education of her second child in cleanly habits,
so that she should not be too much taken up with her when
still
the third child was born. She had demanded obedience on its
part regarding the carrying out of its needs earlier than is usual,
and had reinforced the effect of her words by smacking it. These
measures had produced a very welcome result for the harassed
mother. The child had become a model of cleanliness abnormally
early, and had grown surprisingly submissive. When she was
grown up, the patient was in a constant conflict between a con-
scious attitude of submissiveness, resignation and willingness to
sacrifice herself on the one hand, and an unconscious desire for
morning were set out as follows: (1) Get up. (2) Use the
chamber. (3) Wash, etc. In the morning she would knock from
time to time at her daughter's door, and ask, "How far have
you got now?" The girl would then have to reply, "9" or "15," as
the case might be. In this way the mother kept a strict watch over
the execution of her plan.
It might be mentioned here that all such systems not only
testify to an obsession for order in its inventor, but also to his
love of power which is of sadistic origin. I intend later to deal
with the combination of anal and sadistic impulses in detail.
Allusion may be made here to the pleasure these neurotics
take in indexing and registering everything, in making up tabu-
larsummaries, and in dealing with statistics of every kind.
They furthermore show the same self-will in regard to any
demand or request made to them by some other person. We are
Contributions to the Theory of the Anal Character 305
criticism of others,
thing are inclined to be exaggerated in their
and this easily degenerates into mere carping. In social life they
constitute the main of malcontents. The original anal
body
characteristic of self-will can, however, develop in two different
do the work, or to
quite still and let the physician
all analytical
The of the facts disclosed by the
be questioned by him. similarity
protracted nature of the process in the one case, and in its rapid
course in the other. As regards the patient just mentioned the
long-deferred beginning of the work signified a turning from
7
pleasure in retention to pleasure in evacuation.
A
detail from the history of the same patient will show the
money into the bargain. The same patient also had the habit
of calculating the income of everyone he knew.
We have now come very close to one of the classical traits
of the person with an anal character, namely, his special atti-
tude to money, which is usually one of parsimony or avarice.
Often as this characteristic has been confirmed in psycho-analyti-
cal literature, there are yet a number of features connected with
it which have not received much notice, and which I shall there-
fore proceed to deal with.
There are cases in which the connection between intentional
retention of faeces and systematic parsimony is perfectly clear.
I may mention the example of a rich banker who again and again
s
"Sunday Neurosis" (1919).
is the true place of "production/' to which
*For these neurotics the w.c.
solitude is an assistance. One patient who showed violent
resistance against
its
hours produced them at home in
giving free associations during the analytic
the w.c., and brought them ready made to the analysis.
Contributions to the Theory of the Anal Character 313
empty match-boxes into small strips and give them to his servants
314 Karl Abraham
grand scale.
We occasionally come across persons with pronounced anal
character whose libido has turned quite exclusively to the pos-
session of money. A
patient told me that as a boy he did not play
10
"The Spending of Money in Anxiety States" (1917).
n
[The German word "Vermogen"
= "means," "wealth"; also = "sexual
capacity." Trans.]
Contributions to the Theory of the Anal Character 315
at battles with lead soldiers like other children, but with pieces of
money. He
got people to give him copper coins, and these repre-
sented ordinary soldiers. Nickel ones were non-commissioned
officers of various rank, and silver ones were officers. silver A
five-mark piece was the field-marshal. This officer was secured
from all attack in a special building "behind the front." One
side took "prisoners" from the other in the battle and added them
to its own army. In this manner one side increased its possession
of money until the other had nothing left. It is quite obvious
that the "struggle" in the patient's unconscious was against his
"rich" father. It is worth noting, however, that money entirely
replaced human beings. And indeed when this patient came to
me for treatment he took no personal interest in other people
whatever; only the possession of money and money values at-
tracted him.
The conduct of our patients with regard to order and clean-
liness is spending money. Tsas
just as contradictory as it is in
fact is so familiar to every psycho-analyst that a general refer-
ence to it should not be necessary; but certain particulars in this
connection deserve special consideration.
Pleasure in indexing and classifying, in compiling lists and
13
There
a saying in Berlin regarding such people:
is Oen hui, unten pfuiJ
["On top spry, below, oh fie!"]. In Bavaria they say more coarsely, Oben
all
a pronounced form.
I do not claim to have dealt exhaustively with the subject
of anal character-traits in this paper. On the contrary, I am
conscious how little justice I have done to the richness and
13
Some, it is true, have at their command plentiful narcissistic sources of
pleasure, and live in a state of smiling self-satisfaction.
Contributions to the Theory of the Anal Character 319
ERICH FROMM
*
From Man for Himself: An Inquiry into the Psychology of Ethics, by
Erich Fromm. Copyright 1947 by Erich Fromm, reprinted by permission of
Rinehart & Co., Inc. and Routledge & Kegan Paul Ltd.
320
Selfishness, Self -Love, ana Self-Interest 321
us, as far as possible, forget ourselves and all things that are ours.
On the contrary, we are God's; for Him, therefore, let us live and
die. For, as it is the most devastating pestilence which rums
people if they obey themselves, it is the only haven of salvation
not to know or to want anything by oneself but to be guided by
God Who walks before us." 1 Man should have not only the
conviction of his absolute nothingness but he should do every-
thing to humiliate himself. "For I do not call it humility if you
Kant differentiates
egotism, philautia a benevo-self-love,
lence for oneself and arrogance, the pleasure in oneself. But
even "rational self-love" must be restricted by ethical principles,
the pleasure in oneself must be battered down, and the individual
must come to feel humiliated in comparing himself with the
9
sanctity of moral laws. The individual should find supreme hap-
piness in the fulfillment of his duty. The realization of the moral
principle and, therefore, of the individual's happiness is only
6
Compare Immanuel Kant, Kant's Critique of Practical Reason and Other
WbrJcs on the Theory of Ethics, trans, by Thomas Kingsmill Abbott (New
York: Longmans, Green & Co., 1909), Part I, Book I, Chap. I, par. VIII,
Remark II, p. 126.
7
Ibid, in particular Part I, Book I, Chap. Ill, p. 186.
s
Loc. cit., Fundamental Principles of the Metaphysics of Morals; second
section, p. 61.
8
Loc. cit., Part I, Book I, Ch. Ill, p. 165.
Selfishness, Self-Love, and Self-Interest 323
possible in the general whole, the nation, the state. But "the
welfare of the state" and salus rei publicae suprema lex est
is not identical with the welfare of the citizens and their happi-
ness. 10
In spite of the fact that Kant shows a greater respect for the
integrity of the individual than did Calvin or Luther, he denies
the individual's right to rebel even under the most tyrannical
government; the rebel must be punished with no less than death
ifhe threatens the sovereign. 11 Kant emphasizes the native pro-
12
pensity for evil in the nature of man, for the suppression of
which the moral law, the categorical imperative, is essential lest
man should become a beast and human society end in wild
anarchy.
In the philosophy of the Enlightenment period the individual's
claims to happiness have been emphasized much more strongly
by others than by Kant, for instance, by Helvetius. This trend in
modern philosophy has found its most radical expression in
Stirner and Nietzsche. 13 But while they take the opposite position
to that of Calvin and Kant with regard to the value of selfishness,
they agree with them in the assumption that love for others and
love for oneself are alternatives. They denounce love for others
as weakness and self-sacrifice and postulate egotism, selfishness,
and self-love they too confuse the issue by not clearly differen-
tiating between these last as virtue. Thus Stirner says: "Here,
in particu-
lar "Der Rechtslehre Zweiter Tefl" I. Abschnitt, par. 49, p. 124. I translate
from the German
text, since this part omitted in the English translation of
is
life up." F. Engels has clearly seen the one-sidedness of Stirner's formulations
and has attempted to overcome the false alternative between love for oneself
and love for others. In a letter to Marx in which he discusses Stirner's book,
Engels writes: "If, however, the concrete and real individual is the true basis
for our 'human' man, it is self-evident that egotism of course not only
Stirner's egotism ot reason, but also the egotism of the heart is the basis for
18
C. G. A. Morgan, What Nietzsche Means (Cambridge: Harvard Uni-
versity Press, 1943).
^Friedricn Nietzsche, Thus Spake Zarathustra, trans, by Thomas Common
(New York: Modern Library), p. 75.
'
This point has been emphasized by Karen Homey, The Neurotic Person-
35
ality ofOur Time (New York: W. W. Norton & Company, 1937), and by
Robert S. Lynd, Knowledge for What? (Princeton: Princeton University Press,
1939),
328 Erich Fromm
Before we start the discussion of the psychological aspect of
selfishness and self-love, the logical fallacy in the notion that
love for others and love for oneself are mutually exclusive should
be stressed. If it is a virtue to love my neighbor as a human
being, it must be a virtue and not a vice to love myself since
I am a human being too. There is no concept of man in which
I myself am
not included. A
doctrine which proclaims such an
exclusion proves itself to be intrinsically contradictory. The idea
that love for him (or her) results in a withdrawal of love from
ethers. Love which can only be experienced with regard to one
it, by which one loves one's family but without feeling for
is
seems to care too much for himself but actually he only makes
an unsuccessful attempt to cover up and compensate for his
failure to care for his real self. Freud holds that the selfish person
330 Erich Fromm
is narcissistic, as if he had withdrawn his love from others and
turned it toward his own person. persons are
It is true that selfish
they are taught, under the mask of virtue, dislike for life. If one
has a chance to study the effect of a mother with genuine self-
love, one can see that there is nothing more conducive to giving
a child the experience of what love, joy, and happiness are than
being loved by a mother who loves herself.
Having analyzed selfishness and self-love we can now proceed
to discuss the concept of self-interest, which has become one of
the key symbols in modern society. It is even more ambiguous
than selfishness or self-love, and this ambiguity can be fully
understood only by taking into account the historical develop-
ment of the concept of self-interest. The problem is what is
considered to constitute self-interest and how it can be deter-
mined.
There are two fundamentally different approaches to this
any purpose transcending him. What happened was that man has
accepted the contents of the Calvinistic doctrine while rejecting
its religious formulation. He has made himself an instrument,
^William James expressed this concept very clearly. "To have/' he says,
"a self that I for, Nature must first present me with some object
can care
interesting enough to make me instinctively wish to appropriate it for its own
sake. . . . My
own body and what ministers to its needs are thus the primitive
object, instinctively determined, of my egoistic interests. Other objects may
become interesting derivatively, through association with any of these things,
either as means or as habitual concomitants; and so, in a thousand ways, the
primitive sphere of the egoistic emotions may enlarge and change its bound-
aries.This sort of interest is really the meaning of the word mine. Whatever
has it, is, eo ipso, a part of me!" Principles of Psychology (New York;
Henry Holt and Company, 2 vols., 1896), I, 319, 324. Elsewhere James
writes: "It is clear that between what a man calls rue and what he simply calls
mine, the line is difhcult to draw. We feel and act about certain things that
are ours very much as we feel and act about ourselves. Our fame, our children,
334 Erich Fromm
In the last few generations, under the growing influence of
the market, the concept of self has shifted from meaning "I am
2S
what I possess" to meaning "I am as you desire me." Man,
living in a market economy, feels himself to be a commodity.
He divorced from himself, as the seller of a commodity is
is
the work of our hands, may be as dear to us as our bodies are, and arouse
the same feelings and the same acts of reprisal if attacked. ... In its widest
possible sense, however, a man's Self is the sum-total of all that
he can call
his, not only his body, and his psychic powers,
but his clothes and his house,
his wife and children, his ancestors and friends, his reputation and works, his
land and horses and yacht and bank account. All these things give him the
same emotions. If they wax or prosper, he feels triumphant, if they dwindle
and die away, he feels cast down not necessarily in the same degree for each
thing, but in much the same way for all." Ibid., I, 291-292.
28
Pirandello in his plays has expressed this concept of self and the self-
doubt resulting from it.
hopes for a better world after the First World War, the depression
at the end of the twenties, the threat of a new and immensely
destructive war so shortly after the Second World War, and the
boundless insecurity resulting from this threat, shake the faith in
the pursuit of this form of self-interest. Aside from these factors,
the worship of success itself has failed to satisfy man's ineradi-
cable striving to be himself. Like so many fantasies and day-
dreams, this one too fulfilled its function only for a time, as
long asit was new, as long as the excitement connected with it
was strong enough to keep man from considering it soberly.
There is an increasing number of people to whom everything
they are doing seems futile. They are still under the spell of the
slogans which preach faith in the secular paradise of success and
glamour. But doubt, the fertile condition of all progress, has be-
gun to beset them and has made them ready to ask what their
real self-interest as human beings is.
This inner disillusionment and the readiness for a revaluation
Selfishness, Self-Love, and Self-Interest 337
ERICH FROMM
Character*
Freud developed not only the first but also the most consistent
and penetrating theory of character as a system of strivings
which underlie, but are not identical with, behavior. In order to
338
Character 339
such behavior traits we find that the behavior trait covers numer-
ous and entirely different character traits. Courageous behavior
may be motivated by ambition so that a person will risk his life
in craving for being
certain situations in order to satisfy his
admired; itbe motivated by suicidal impulses which drive a
may
person to seek danger because, consciously or unconsciously, he
does not value his life and wants to destroy himself; it may be
motivated by sheer lack of imagination so that a person acts
courageously because he is not aware of the danger awaiting
him; finally, it may be determined by genuine devotion to the
idea or aim for which a person acts, a motivation which is con-
ventionally assumed to be the basis of courage. Superficially the
behavior in all these instances is the same in spite of the different
less of the objective need for it. Another factor which is deter-
mined by the difference in motivation refers to the prediction of
behavior. In the case of a "courageous" soldier motivated by
ambition we may predict that he will behave courageously only
if his courage can be rewarded. In the case of the soldier who is
340 Erich Fromm
ter traits underlie behavior and must be inferred from it; that
they constitute forces which, though powerful, the person may
be entirely unconscious of. It follows Freud also in the assump-
tion that the fundamental entity in character is not the single
character trait but the total character organization from which
a number of single character traits follow. These character traits
are to be understood as a syndrome which results from a particu-
lar organization or, as I shall call it, orientation of character.
I shall deal only with a very limited number of character traits
which follow immediately from the underlying orientation. A
number of other character traits could be dealt with similarly, and
it could be shown that they are also direct outcomes of basic
good" to be outside, and he believes that the only way to get what
tie wants be it something material, be it affection, love, knowl-
edge, pleasure is to receive it from that outside source. In this
loyalties and promises. Since they cannot say "no," they love
to say "yes" to everything and everybody, and the resulting
paralysis of their critical abilities makes them increasingly de-
pendent on others.
They are dependent not only on authorities for knowledge and
help but on people in general for any kind of support. They feel
lost when alone because they feel that they cannot do anything
without help. This helplessness is especially important with regard
to those acts which by their very nature can only be done alone
making decisions and taking responsibility. In personal relation-
ships, for instance, they ask advice from the very person with
regard to whom they have to make a decision.
This receptive type has great fondness for food and drink.
These persons tend to overcome anxiety and depression by
eating or drinking. The mouth is an especially prominent feature,
often the most expressive one; the lips tend to be open, as if in
a state of continuous expectation of being fed. In their dreams,
being fed is a frequent symbol of being loved; being starved, an
life and its gifts, but they become anxious and distraught when
The
exploitative orientation, like the receptive, has as its basic
premise the feeling that the source of all good is outside, that
whatever one wants to get must be sought there, and that one
346 Erich Fromm
cannot produce anything oneself. The difference between the
two, however, is that the exploitative type does not expect to
receive things from others as gifts, but to take them away from
others by force or cunning. This orientation extends to all spheres
of activity.
In the realm of love and affection these people tend to grab
and steal.They feel attracted only to people whom they can take
finds here suspicion and cynicism, envy and jealousy. Since they
are satisfied only with things they can take away from others, they
tend to overrate what others have and underrate what is theirs.
by putting it, and keeping it, in its proper place in order to avoid
the danger of intrusion. His compulsive cleanliness is another
348 Erich Fromm
cerned.
The reader may object that this description of the market is
8
Cf., for the study of history and function of the modern market, K
Polanyi's TJfie Great Transformation (New York: Rinehart & Company, 1944).
350 Erich Fromm
for their services; others are employed, receiving salaries. But all
are dependent for their material success on a personal acceptance
by those who need their services or who employ them.
The principle of evaluation is the same on both the personality
and the commodity market: on the one, personalities are offered
for sale; on the other, commodities. Value in both cases is their
exchange value, for which use value is a necessary but not a
sufficient condition. It is true, our economic system could not
function if people were not skilled in the particular work they
have to perform and were gifted only with a pleasant personality.
Even the best bedside manner and the most beautifully equipped
office on Park Avenue would not make a New York doctor suc-
cessful if he did Dot have a minimum of medical knowledge and
skill. Even the most winning personality would not prevent a
secretary from losing her job unless she could type reasonably
fast. However, if we ask what the respective weight of skill and
what one knows and what one can do, one's self-esteem would
be in proportion to one's capacities, that is, to one's use value;
but since success depends largely on how one sells one's person-
ality, one experiences oneself as a commodity or rather simul-
but his success in the process of selling them. Both his powers
and what they create become estranged, something different from
Character 353
The meaning which the word peculiar has assumed is quite ex-
pressive of this attitude. Instead of denoting the greatest achieve-
ment of man that of having developed his individuality it has
become almost synonymous with queer. The word equality has
also changed its meaning. The idea that all men are created equal
implied that all men have the same fundamental right to
be
considered as ends in themselves and not as means. Today,
supposed to learn so many things that they have hardly time and
energy left to think. Not the interest in the subjects taught or in
knowledge and insight as such, but the enhanced exchange value
knowledge gives is the mam incentive for wanting more and
better education. We find today a tremendous enthusiasm for
knowledge and education, but at the same time a skeptical or
contemptuous attitude toward the allegedly impractical and use-
less thinking which is concerned "only" with the truth and which
has no exchange value on the market.
Although I have presented the marketing orientation as one
8
Cf. Ernest Schachtel, "Zum Begriff und zur Diagnosis der Persoenlichkeit
in 'Personality Tests' [On the Concept and Diagnosis of Personality Tests]/*
Zeitschrift fuer Sozialforschirag (Jahrgang 6, 1937), pp. 597-624.
356 Erich Fromm
of the nonproductive orientations, it is in many ways so different
that it belongs in a category of its own. The receptive, exploita-
sent. Our whole culture, its ideas, and its practice discourage the
them how things are and how they ought to be done, and that all
they ought to do is listen to him and swallow his ideas. There are
experts for science, experts for happiness, and writers become
experts in the art of living by the very fact that they are authors
of best sellers. This subtle but rather general receptiveness as-
As laid down here the route to that promised profit may appear
strange, for few of us can imagine getting without striving. . . .
subordinated.
a) General characteristics
in the sense thatit does not originate from his own mental or
yet his actions are neither free nor rational but in opposition to
reason and to his interests as a human being. person so ob- A
sessed repeats himself, becoming more and more inflexible, and
more stereotyped. He is active, but he is not productive.
Although the source of these activities is irrational and the
acting persons are neither free nor rational, there can be im-
portant results, often leading to material success. In the concept
of productiveness we are not concerned with activity necessarily
leading to practical results but with an attitude, with a mode of
reaction and orientation toward the world and oneself in the
process of living. We are concerned with man's character, not
with his success. 11
Productiveness is man's realization of the potentialities charac-
teristicof him, the use of his powers. But what is "power"? It is
rather ironical that this word denotes two contradictory concepts :
phenomena.
The atrophy of the generative capacity is very fre-
relative
quent our
in culture. A
person may be able to recognize things
as they are (or as his culture maintains them to be), but he is
unable to enliven his perception from within. Such a person is
the perfect "realist," who sees all there is to be seen of the sur-
face features of phenomena but who is quite incapable of pene-
trating below the surface to the essential, and of visualizing what
is not yet apparent. He sees the details but not the whole, the
trees but not the forest. Reality to him is only the sum total of
what has already materialized. This person is not lacking in
imagination, but his is a calculating imagination, combining
factors all of which are known and in existence, and inferring
their future operation.
Onthe other hand, the person who has lost the capacity to
perceive actuality is insane. The psychotic person builds up an
inner world of reality in which he seems to have full confidence;
he lives in his own world, and the common factors of reality as
perceived by all men are unreal to him. When a person sees ob-
366 Erich Fromm
jects which do not exist in reality but are entirely the product
of his imagination, he has hallucinations; he interprets events in
terms of his own feelings, without reference to, or at least without
proper acknowledgment of, what goes on in reality. A
paranoid
person may believe that he is being persecuted, and a chance
remark may indicate a plan to humiliate and ruin him. He is
convinced that the lack of any more obvious and explicit mani-
festation of such intention does not prove anything; that, al-
though the remark may appear harmless on the surface, its real
if one looks "deeper." For the psychotic
meaning becomes clear
person actual reality is wiped out and an inner reality has taken
its place.
"realist" sees only the surface features of things; he sees
The
the manifest world, he can reproduce it photographically in his
mind, and he can act by manipulating things and people as
they appear in this picture. The insane person is incapable of
as a symbol and a
seeing reality as it is; he perceives reality only
reflection of his inner world. Both are sick. The sickness of the
psychotic who has lost contact with reality is such that he cannot
function socially. The sickness of the "realist" impoverishes him
as a human being. While he is not incapacitated in his social
functioning, his view of reality is so distorted because of its lack
of depth and perspective that he is apt to err when more than
manipulation of immediately given data and short-range aims
are involved. "Realism" seems to be the very opposite of insanity
and yet it is only its complement.
The true opposite of both "realism" and insanity is productive-
ness. The normal human being is capable of relating himself to
the world simultaneously by perceiving it as it is and by con-
ceiving it enlivened and enriched by his own powers. If one of
the two capacities is atrophied, man is sick; but the normal per-
son has both capacities even though their respective weights
differ. The presence of both reproductive and generative ca-
through the wall which separates him from another person and
to comprehend him. Although love and reason are only two
different forms of comprehending the world and although neither
is possible without the other, they are expressions of different
powers, that of emotion and that of thinking, and hence must
be discussed separately.
The concept of productive love is very different indeed from
what is hardly any word which
frequently called love. There is
child, our love for man, or the erotic love between two indi-
viduals. (That it is also the same with regard to love for others
and love for ourselves we shall discuss later.) 13 Although the
objects of love differ and consequently the intensity and quality
of love itself differ, certain basic elements may be said to be
characteristic of all forms of productive love. These are care,
responsibility, respect, and knowledge.
KAREN HORNBY
1
But, like any other living organism, the human individuum needs
* Human Growth by Karen Homey, by per-
Reprinted from Neurosis and
mission of W. W. Norton & Company, Inc. Copyright 1950 by W. W.
Norton & Company, Inc.
When in the future a reference is made to growth, it is always meant in
1
the sense presented here that of free, healthy development in accordance with
the potentials of one's generic and individual nature.
369
370 Karen Homey
favorable conditions for his growth "from acorn into oak tree";
he needs an atmosphere of warmth to give him both a feeling of
inner security and the inner freedom enabling him to have his
own feelings and thoughts and to express himself. He
needs the
good will of others, not only to help him hi his many needs but
to guide and encourage him to become a mature and fulfilled
But, when summarized, they all boil down to the fact that the
to rebel and fight; he may try to shut others out of his inner life
and withdraw emotionally from them. In principle, this means
that he can move toward, against, or away from others. . . .
would be incomprehensible. . . .
ing. These drives also seem more realistic because, with sufficient
luck, their possessors may actually acquire the coveted glamor,
honors, influence. But, on the other hand, when they do attain
more money, more distinction, more power, they also come to
feel thewhole impact of the futility of their chase. They do not
secure any more peace of mind, inner security, or joy of living.
The inner distress, to remedy which they started out on the chase
for the phantom of glory, is still as great as ever. Since these are
376 Karen Homey
not accidental results, happening to this or that individual, but
are inexorably bound to occur, one may rightly say that the
whole pursuit of success is intrinsically unrealistic. . . *
The last element in the search for glory, more destructive than
the others, is the drive toward a vindictive triumph. It may be
closely linked up with the drive for actual achievement
and
success but, if so, its chief aim is to put others to shame or defeat
them through one's very success; or to attain the power, by rising
.to prominence, to inflict suffering upon them mostly of a hu-
miliating kind. On the other hand, the
drive for excelling may
be relegated to fantasy, and the need for a vindictive triumph
then manifests itself mainly In often irresistible, mostly uncon-
scious impulses to frustrate, outwit, or defeat others in personal
because the motivating
relations. I call this drive "vindictive"
force stems take revenge for humiliations
from impulses to
suffered in childhood impulses which are reinforced during the
later neurotic development. These later accretions probably are
responsible for the way in which the need for a vindictive tri-
tive compulsion. This allows a person to act out his need, and
There are various solid proofs that the search for glory is a
comprehensive and coherent entity. In the first place, all the in-
dividual trends described above regularly occur together in one
person. Of course one or another element may so predominate as
to make us speak loosely of, say, an ambitious person, or of a
dreamer. But that does not mean that the dominance of one ele-
ment indicates the absence of the others. The ambitious person
will have his grandiose image of himself too; the dreamer will
want realistic supremacy, even though the latter factor may be
apparent only in the way in which his pride is offended by the
success of others. 4
Furthermore, all the individual trends involved are so closely
related that the prevailing trend may change during the lifetime
of a given person. He may turn from glamorous daydreams to
being the perfect father and employer, and again to being the
greatest lover of all time.
Lastly, they all common two general characteristics,
have in
both understandable from the genesis and the functions of the
whole phenomenon: their compulsive nature and their imagi-
native character. Both have been mentioned, but it is desirable
to have a more complete and succinct picture of their meaning.
The compulsive nature stems from the fact that the self-ideali-
zation (and the whole search for glory developing as its sequel)
isa neurotic solution. When we call a drive compulsive we mean
the opposite of spontaneous wishes or strivings. The latter are
an expression of the real self; the former are determined by the
4
Because personalities often look different in accordance with the trend
which is prevailing, the temptation to regard these trends as separate entities
is great. Freud regarded phenomena which are roughly similar to these as
separate instinctual drives with separate origins and properties. When I made
a first attempt to enumerate compulsive drives in neurosis they appeared to
me too as separate "neurotic trends."
578 Karen Homey
inner necessities of the neurotic structure. The individual must
abide by them regardless of his real wishes, feelings, or interest*
lest he incur anxiety, feel torn by conflicts, be overwhelmed by
by others, etc. In other words, the
guilt feelings, feel rejected
difference between spontaneous and compulsive is one between
"I want" and "I must in order to avoid some danger.'* Although
the individual may consciouslyfeel his ambition or his standards
5
From Phflebus, The Dialogues of Plato, translated into English by B.
Jbwett, MA, Random House, New York.
The Search for Glory 379
chase after more prestige, more money, more women, more vic-
tories and conquests keeps going, with hardly any satisfaction
or respite.
Finally, the compulsive nature of a drive shows in the reac-
tions to its frustration. The greater its subjective importance, the
more impelling is the need to attain its goal, and hence the more
intense the reactions to frustration. These constitute one of the
ways which we can measure the intensity of a drive. Although
in
not always plainly visible, the search for glory is a most
this is
while important and revealing when they occur, are not the most
injurious work of imagination. For a person is mostly aware of
the fact that he is daydreaming, i.e., imagining things which have
not occurred or are not likely to occur in the way he is experi-
encing them in fantasy. At least it is not too difficult for him to
become aware of the existence and the unrealistic character of
the daydreams. The more injurious work of imagination concerns
the subtle and comprehensive distortions of reality which he is
not aware of fabricating. The idealized self is not completed in
a single act of creation: once produced, it needs continuing at-
tention. For its actualization the person must put in an incessant
labor by way of falsifying reality. He must turn his needs into
virtues or into more than justified expectations. He must turn
his intentions to be honest or considerate into the fact of being
honest or considerate. The bright ideas he has for a paper make
him a great scholar. His potentialities turn into factual achieve-
ments. Knowing the "right" moral values makes him a virtuous
person often, indeed, a kind of moral genius. And of course his
imagination must work overtime to discard all the disturbing
evidence to the contrary. 6
Imagination also operates in changing the neurotic's beliefs.
He needs to believe that others are wonderful or vicious and
lo! there they are in a parade of benevolent or dangerous people.
It also changes his feelings. He needs to feel invulnerable and
behold! his imagination has sufficient power to brush off pain and
suffering. He needs to have deep feelings confidence, sympathy,
love, suffering: his feelings of sympathy, suffering, and the rest
are magnified.
The perception of the distortions of inner and outer reality
which imagination can bring about when put to the service of
the search for glory leaves us with an uneasy question. Where
does the flight of the neurotic's imagination end? He does not
6
Cf. the work of the Ministry of Truth in George Orwell's Nineteen
Eielirv-Four.
382 Karen Homey
afterall lose his sense of reality altogether; where then is the
7
The reasons for this difference are complicated. It would be worth examin-
ing whether crucial among them is a more radical abandoning of the real self
(and a more radical shift to the idealized self) on the part of the psychotic.
The Search for Glory 3S3
8
In this philosophical discussion I roughly follow Soren Kierkegaard, Sick-
ness unto Death, Princeton University Press, 1941, written in 1844. The
quotations' in this paragraph are taken from this book.
384 Karen Homey
considered himself more important than people usually do. And,
indeed, who will venture to draw a sharp line and say:
"This is
where the healthy ends, and the neurotic begins"?
Similarities between healthy strivings and the neurotic drives
exist because they have a common root in specific human poten-
Cf. also Dr. Kurt Goldstein, Human Nature, Harvard University Press, 1940.
Goldstein, however, does not make the distinction which
is crucial fo*
human beings between self-realization and the actualization of the idealized
self.
The Search for Glory 385
engaged in realizing his real self nor is the latter wholly driven
to actualize his idealized self. The tendency toward self-realization
operates in the neurotic too; we could not in therapy give any
help to the patient's growth if this striving were not in him to
begin with. But, while the difference between the healthy and the
neurotic person in this respect is simply one of degree, the dif-
ference between genuine striving and compulsion drives, despite
surface similarities, one of quality and not of quantity. 10
is
VIOLA KLEIN
the very theory which was chiefly responsible for a more enlight-
ened outlook in matters of sex and for the disappearance of
Victorian morality should have been tinged with its ideology,
with women. It is probably fair to
particularly in its dealing
that no other single scientific theory has so much affected the
say
outlook of the generation as psycho-analysis. It
has
present
created what W. H. Auden calls "a whole climate of opinion,"
it or not, the way we
and, no matter whether we are aware of
think and the way we feel is coloured by its discoveries. Its
imprint is perceptible in contemporary art, philosophy, literature,
no less than in psychology, psychiatry, anthropology, sociology
and education, and even our every-day commonsense judgments
bear the mark of its influence. If we no longer take people's
feelings and thoughts at their
face value; if we ask ourselves what
function certain attitudes fulfil in the life organization of a person;
ultimate cause the reproach that the mother has brought her into the
world as a woman instead of a man. 3
4
The Psychology of Women, p. 160.
5
Op. cit.
&
J,
Harnik: "The Various Developments Undergone by Narcissism in Men
and Women" (Internat. Journ. of Ps.-An., Vol. V, 1925).
7
S. Freud: The Psychology of Women, p. 170.
8
Ibid., p. 161.
390 Viola Klein
feminists are not pleased if one points to the way in which this factor
12
affects the development of the average feminine character.
energy.
15
Ibid., p. 169.
18
"Three Contributions to the Theory of Sex" (Imago, London, 1942).
394 Viola Klein
eitherbeen taken up, i.e. she must have been married, or else
she could not have any expectations for the future. This lack
of opportunities would in itself suffice to explain the "rigidity"
and "unchangeably" which Freud observed in his women
patients, without having
to resort to biological hypotheses.
Women represent the interests of the family and sexual life; the
work of has become more and more men's business; it
civilization
confronts them with ever harder tasks, compels them to sublimations
of instinct which women are not easily able to achieve. Since man
has not an unlimited amount of mental energy at his disposal, he must
accomplish his tasks by distributing his libido to the best advantage.
What he employs for cultural purposes he withdraws to a great extent
from women and his sexual life; his constant association with men and
his dependence on his relations with them even estrange him from
his duties as husband and father. Woman finds herself thus forced
20 Her
woman- I mean when she becomes a mother." capacity
for motherhood is so Karen Horney asserts an "indisputable
intense envy in boys.
superiority" of woman and is the cause of
This envy of feminine productivity is a dynamic factor in mascu-
line psychology and "serves as one, if not as the essential, driving
21
Karen Horney
force in the setting up of cultural values."
admits that the cultural productivity has been incomparably
"is not the tremen-
greater in men than in women, but, she asks,
dous strength in men of the impulse to creative work in every
field precisely due to the feeling of playing a relatively
small part
in the creation of living beings, which constantly impels
them
to an over-compensation in achievement?" The penis-envy in
women has not found a corresponding compensatory expression,
"either becauseit is absolutely less than the envy of men," or
20
Karen Homey: "On the Genesis of the Castration Complex in Women'"
Vol.
V, Jan., 1924).
(Internat. Jour, of Ps.-An.,
21
Karen Horney: "The Flight from Womanhood: The Masculinity Complex
in Women as Viewed by Men and by Women" (Internat. Jour, of Ps.-An.,
Vol. VII, 1926).
More recently another psycho-analyst, Gregory Zilboorg, equally "inclined to
think that it is not penis-envy on the part of woman, but woman-envy on the1
part of man, that is psychologically older and therefore more fundamental/
has made a new departure in psycho-analytical theory based on the assumption
of a basic feminine superiority in his study: "Masculine and Feminine. Some
Bioi'gical and Cultural Aspects" (Psychiatry, Vol. 7, Aug., 1944, No. 3).
The Feminine Character 397
easy to avoid any impoliteness. We had only to say: "This does not
apply to you. You are an exception, in this respect you are more
masculine than feminine." a
both sexes, but normally develops the one set to. a greater extent
than the other. There is no clear-cut line between absolute mas-
culinity and absolute femininity, but reality presents us with a
mixture of both in different proportions which vary considerably
with each individual. It is, in Freud's words, "as though the
!
The Psychology of 'Women, pp. 149-50.
398 Viola Klein
individual were neither man nor woman, but both at the same
other." 23
time, only rather more the one than the
In order to determine the proportion of the two elements in
a given mixture one has first to reduce these to their fundamental
essence for instance, Weininger has done with the stipulation
as,
of two pure types M
and W. For Freud the contrast masculine-
feminine is, ultimately, the contrast between active and passive;
or, to be more exact: masculinity implies activity, femininity is
characterized by a "preference for passive aims," which is not
a good deal of activ-
quite the same as passivity. ("It may require
24 In Freud's own words:
ity to achieve a passive end.")
To take from two opposite notions, which derive their meaning and
value from each other, one, and to raise this one to embrace and
dominate once more the whole game of give and take and of balance,
this time in an absolute sense, is a thoroughly human tendency, pre-
sumably of deep metaphysical origin, which has found an historic
paradigm in the fundamental sexual relation of Man.
The fact that the male sex is not only considered relatively superior
to the female, but that it is taken as the universal human norm, applied
equally to the phenomena of the individual masculine and of the
individual feminine this fact is, in many different ways, based on the
27
S. Freud: "Three Contributions to the Theory of Sex" (Imago, London,
1942).
38
Georg Simmel: "Das Relative und das Absolute im Geschlechterproblern"
(Fhilosophisclje ICultur, Leipzig, 1911).
400 Viola Klein
said: "A virtuous woman; Nay, I swear by good St. Denis that
this is more is a phoenix"; and in a seventeenth-century
rare than
book by Vendette a passage runs thus: "In love-affairs
men are
mere children in comparison with women; women have, in such
matters, a greater imagination and command more
time to dwell
on the affairs of the heart; they are more lascivious and love-sick
than men." 32
It thus appears that judgments on the strength or weakness of
the sex impulse in women are not based on organic facts but are
in accordance with a cultural pattern, and vary with time and
milieu. In Western civilization during the nineteenth and at the
beginning of the twentieth century it would have been not only
scandalous to admit the existence of a strong sex urge in women,
but it would have been contrary to all observation. And although
the enforcement of rules of conduct and of so many restrictions
was deemed prudent in order to keep up the illusion of "innate"
feminine virtuousness, it never occurred to our fathers and
grandfathers that it was but an illusion
and that, had this not
been so, the rigorous supervision of their daughters and wives
would hardly have been necessary.
Tenenbaum, who gives these and more instances in his chapter on "The Sex
Urge in Woman."
The Feminine Character 403
to get rid of those qualities which hamper its struggle for exist-
ence.
The normal craving of the child for nestling, the exaggerated sub-
missiveness of the neurotically-disposed individual, the feeling^ of
the realiza-
weakness, of inferiority protected by hyper-sensitiveness,
aside
tion of actual futility, the sense of being permanently pushed
and of being at a disadvantage, all these are gathered together into a
feeling of femininity. On the contrary,
active strivings, both in the
case of a girl as of a boy, the pursuit of self-gratification, the stirring
forward as a
up of instincts and passions are thrown challengingly
84
masculine protest.
made by Freud are correct. They are valid, that is to say, for
the class of people who made up his objects of observation: the
neurotic persons of middle and upper middle-class origin in the
Central-European society of his time. They are also valid, most
probably with corresponding modifications, in every society with
strong patriarchal traditions. For Freud and his orthodox pupils
there was no doubt that the patients they analysed, and the peo-
ple they met, were representatives of "the" human type. Future
research will have to concentrate on defining the specific charac-
ter of the field of observation on the basis of comparative evi-
dence. A
modified Freudian theory will have to include such
social and
cultural factors as particular influences of the environ-
ment, the power of prevailing traditions, ideals and historical
institutions.
It was in a sense rather fortunate for psycho-analytical theory
that, owing to otherwise very fateful political developments in
Central Europe, a great number of its supporters had to go
abroad. In foreign countries they came into close contact with
divergent cultural patterns and different personality types. In
consequence there came into existence mainly in the United
States of America a new type of psycho-analyst who, while
preserving the fundamental achievements of the Freudian school,
406 Viola Klein
85
Dr. Helene Deutsch: Psychology of Woman (Grune & Stratton, 1944).
38
Clara Thompson: "Cultural Pressures in the Psychology of Women/' pub-
lished in Psychiatry, Vol, V, No. 3, Baltimore, Aug. 1942.
The Feminine Character 407
References
1942).
"
'Penis Envy' in Women" (Psychiatry, Vol. 6, 1943).
ALFRED ADLER: The Practice and Theory of Individual
Psychology (Kegan
London, 1924).
Paul,
ALICE RUHLE-GERSTEL: Freud und Adler (Dresden, 1924).
Das Frauenproblem der Gegenwart (Leipzig, 1932).
ERWIN WEXBERG: Individual Psychology and Sex (Jonathan Cape, London,
1931).
GEORG SIMMEL: "Das Relative und das Absolute im Geschlechterproblem"
(PhiJosophische Kulrur, Leipzig, 1911).
GREGORY ZILBOORG: "Masculine and Feminine Some Biological and Cultural
Aspects" (Psychiatry, Vol. 7, 1944).
24
CLARA THOMPSON
Some Effects of the Derogatory
4
Attitude Towards Female Sexuality
2
Karen Homey, "Flight from Womanhood/' Internal J. Psycho-Analysis
(1926) 7:324-339.
Effects of Derogatory Attitude Towards Female Sexuality 411
that one could feel complete without a penis, assumes that the
must feel deprived. It is doubtless true that her lack of
little girl
a penis can activate any latent anxiety the boy may have about
the security of his own organ, but it does not necessarily follow
that the girl feels more insecure because of it.
In the "Economic Problem of Masochism" 3
Freud assumes
that masochism
a part of female sexuality, but he gives as his
is
reaction.
In general the male gets at least some physiological satisfaction
when she actively and from choice participates in her own char-
acteristic way. If she considered herself free to choose, she would
refuse the male except when she actually did desire to participate,
This being the case, it might be fruitful to examine the situa-
tions in which the woman submits with little or no interest. There
are, of course, occasions when she genuinely wishes to do this
for the man's sake; this does not create a problem. More fre-
quently the cause is a feeling of insecurity in the relationship;
this insecurity may arise from external factors that is, the male
concerned may insist on his satisfaction or else! The insecurity
may also arise from within because of the woman's own feelings
of inadequacy. These feelings may arise simply from the fact that
the woman subscribes to the cultural attitude that her needs are
not as insistent as the man's; but in addition she may have per-
sonal neurotic difficulties.
The question arises, How has it become socially acceptable for
a man to insist on his sexual rights whenever he desires? Is this
because rape a possibility, and the woman is physically rela-
is
him, then would lie awake the rest of the night in misery and
rage. Since I saw this woman only twice, I am not in a position
to say how much this situation contributed to her suicide about
a year later. Undoubtedly there were many other difficulties in
her relation to her husband of which the sexual may have been
only one expression. Certainly this extreme denial of sexual
Effects of Derogatory Attitude Towards Female Sexuality 415
1 do not wish to leave the impression that there is never a woman who
5
thinks she desires to possess the male genital as such, but I believe such
women are found relatively rarely.
416 Clara Thompson
was present, being brunette meant being sexy, and being sexy
was frowned upon.
Sex in general has come under the disapproval of two kinds of
thinking in our culture. The puritan ideal is denial of body pleas-
ure, and this makes sexual needs something of which to be
ashamed. Traces of this attitude still remain today in the feelings
of both sexes.
We also have another attitude which derogates sexuality, es-
over the radio but not before an audience. Another patient felt
for years that she could never marry because she would not be
able to keep her body clean at every moment in the presence of
her husband. Whenever she had a date with a man she prepared
for it by a very vigorous cleansing of the genitals especially try-
ing to make them dry. When she finally had sexual relations she
was surprised and greatly helped in her estimation of her body
6
B. Lewin, "Kotschmieren, Menses und weibliches iiber-Ich/' Internal.
Zschr. Psychoanal. (1930) 16:43-56.
418 Clara Thompson
by discovering that this highly prized dryness was just the oppo-
site of what was pleasing to the man.
she felt was proclaimed to the world by her body's odors and
secretions.
From these observations I hope I have emphasized the fact
that the problem of a woman's sexual life is not in becoming
reconciled to having no penis but in accepting her own sexuality
in its own right. In this she is hampered by certain attitudes in
the culture such as that her sexual drive is not important and her
genitals are not clean. With these two deprecatory cultural atti-
tudes in the background of women's lives it is to be expected that
both are important points at which difficulties in interpersonal
relations may be expressed,
II
THERAPY
Goals of Treatment
MICHAEL BALINT
Psycho-Analytic Treatment*
*
Read before the Thirteenth International Psycho-analytical Congress,
Lucerne, 1934. First published in German in Int. Z.f. Psa. (1935), 21, 36-45.
In English: Int. /. of PsA. (1936), 17, 206-16. Reprinted from Primary Love
and Psycho-Analytic Technique by Michael Balint, published by Liveright
Publishing Corp.
1 I
do not believe, in fact, that smoothly running cases, which terminate
without complications, can offer much for our purpose. First of all, in these
423
424 Michael Balint
analysis was deep enough, the final phase turns out similarly. In
the last months fresh material is only rarely made conscious, and
infantile incidents which were not already known or had till then
remained unconscious are hardly ever brought to light. Neverthe-
cases one can never be quite sure whether our therapeutic work did not
merely set going some mechanism which remains hidden from us, and
whether the patients did not recover with the help of this to us unknown
process. Secondly, it often happens that one can only
observe the result and
not the process of recovery. We
can learn far more from an analysis that does
not run smoothly. Firstly, one is, of necessity, bound to reflect more upon it;
less, during this time something very important must have hap-
pened to our patients, for before it they were still ill, and during:
it they became well. I know that all this is already familiar; it
generally known that even analysed people still dream, and that
dream analysis encounters resistance with them also. Conse-
quently, even after the end of an analysis, at least so much re--
mains unconscious in the mind as is necessary for dream forma-
tion, and enough resistance unresolved to be able to disturb a.
dream-analysis considerably. Others, also, have surely had the
experience that after a finished analysis, months or even years
later, patients suddenly remember fragments of their infantile
whether all the strangulated affects have in fact been dealt with,
nor whether those already dealt with suffice for a cure. Since the
theoretical clarifications of the repetition factor, not a few at-
tempts have been made to arrive at some more precise criterion
for judging this point. Ferenczi and Rank describe the goal as
"the complete reproduction of the Oedipus relation in analytic
experience"
2
Since we know how complicated the early infantile
Oedipus relation is, this description, though it doubtless signifies
a notable advance, seems to say too much. Rank claims the final
3 So much
goal to be "the abreacting of the birth trauma" has
already been written on the merits and defects of this theory,
that further criticism is superfluous. V. Kovacs's formulation,
4
"the unwinding of the repetition factor" emphasises, in contrast
to the two previous ones, the dynamics of the curative process,
but is still too generally stated. W. Reich conies to almost the
5
But he gives as the final goal "the attain-
same conclusions as I.
a
"Charakteranalyse und Neubeginn," Int. Z f. Psa. (1934), 20. ("Charac-
ter Analysis and New Beginning.")
428 Michael Balint
account this fact, which is generally known but has never been
fully appreciated.
According to this theory, all instincts, including those origi-
9
nally described as auto-erotic, are primarily bound to objects.
This primitive object-relation is always passive. This passive
primal aim of human sexuality the desire to be gratified, or,
the desire to be loved is preserved throughout life. Reality,
that, in the years during which interest was centred upon what
was called "ego-psychology" and upon the investigation of mental
structure, he never tired of continually stressing the importance
of external factors.
How necessary this was, and still is, I will show by a single
example, and for this purpose I have chosen from among many
paper on "The Development of the Capacity for
e
I may refer here to a
Love and the Sense by Alice Balint (published in Hungarian at
of Reality,"
Budapest in 1933) in which the author anticipated me in arriving at almost
the same results by a different path.
432 Michael Balint
other works one that can well bear criticism, since its excellent
FRANZ ALEXANDER
Factors
Analysis of the Therapeutic
in Psychoanalytic Treatment*
*
Reprinted by permission from the Psychoanalytic Quarterly, Vol. 19, pp.
482-500, 1950. Copyright 1950 by The Psychoanalytic Quarterly, Inc.
436
Therapeutic Factors in Psychoanalytic Treatment 437
when the ego was weaker. The weak ego had to repress these
emotions which therefore remained excluded from the ego's in-
tegrativeactivity. The emphasis is on the difference
between the
integrative powers of the adult and the immature ego.
The other
of the
important fact, according to Freud, is that the repetition
old conflict in the transference is of lesser intensity. Its intensity
is reduced because the transference emotions are reactions
to
not actual
previous experiences and to the patient-physician
relation. The only actual relationship between the patient and
doctor is that the patient comes to the physician for help. It is
only in the patient's rnind that the therapist
assumes the role
of the father or mother or of an older or younger sibling. The
most important consideration in this connection is that neurotic
are adaptive reactions
patterns do not develop in a vacuum; they
to parental attitudes. In the transference the original interpersonal
As soon we
clearly recognize the specific problem of the
as
patient, it to work consistently toward the
becomes possible
right kind of corrective experience. It is generally assumed that
the objective and understanding attitude of the therapist alone
is sufficient to produce such a corrective emotional experience.
No doubt, the most important therapeutic factor in psycho-
analysis is the objective and yet helpful attitude of the therapist,
tion. The
patient had, as a defense, developed
an overbearing
attitude in his home and treated his family, particularly his
son, as he was treated by his own father. The treatment con-
sisted of twenty-six interviews over a ten-week period with
satisfactory results. Not only have
all his symptoms disappeared
for him, it suddenly became clear to him that the situation with
his father could not be repeated; that it was a unique relation-
ship, and that no one but his indulgent father would love him
despite all his provocations. He realized that to be loved he
must make himself worthy of love; furthermore, the guilt feel-
ings resulting from his father's goodness diminished with the
analyst's open admission of his dislike. At the end of Ms analy-
sis this patient was very
appreciative, presenting the analyst
with a photograph of his new self. Years later he called on me.
He had become successful and was married happily. Every ex-
perienced analyst has had similar experiences. The case is note-
worthy because of the dynamics of the patient's remarkable im-
provement which was induced not by the usual understanding
objective attitude of the analyst but by an involuntary display of
his irritation.
The analyst's reaction was not calculated to be different from
that of the patient's father. He simply lost, for a moment, the
memories. At this time all his interest was focused upon tracing
the genesis of neurosis and of personality development in general.
He had first to understand the natural history of neuroses in order
to develop a sensible method of treatment. It was a lucky circum-
stance that this etiological study of the individual's past history
coincided, partially at least, with therapeutic aims. Both required
recovery of forgotten memories and this became for a time the
main therapeutic device. He came only gradually to realize the
pressed it, "An enemy cannotbe licked who is not seen." The pa-
tient must feel what he understands, otherwise he could be cured
expression diminishes.
In evaluating the mutual relation of these three factors in
often quite definite
?herapy, it is important to realize that
changes in the emotional pattern can be observed in patients
his actual problems. The two must take place more or less simul-
taneously.
Another significance of extratherapeutic experiences was first
Summary
The need for re-evaluation of the psychodynamic factors op-
erative during treatment is emphasized. According to the view
in the past. This does not consist in artificial play acting but in
References
[1] ALEXANDER, FRANZJ FRENCH, THOMAS M., ET AL.! The Principle O,f
Corrective Emotional Experience. In: Psychoanalytic Therapy, Principle*
and Application. New York: The Ronald Press Co., 1946, p. 66.
OTTO RANK
"Es gibt kein Hindernis, das man nicht zerbrechen kann, denn
das Hinder nis ist nur des Willens we gen da, und in Wahrheit
sind keine Hindernisse als nur im Geist"
45 *
456 tto
is so clear that only the wish not to seeit can explain its neglect
important that the neurotic above all learn to will, discover that
x
ln this sense the clever American is right in his ironical version of the
Adlerian inferiority complex, which he, with reference to the compensatory
benefits, designated as the golden complex. (Lee Wilson Dodd:
''The Golden
Complex. A defence of Inferiority." N. Y. 1927.)
458 Otto Rank
cording to the rule which holds for him also, must guard against
forcing his will upon the patient, either by prohibitions or com-
mands, or even by premature or enforced interpretations. We
know that on both sides this is possible only to a certain degree,
and that is lucky, for the impossibility of carrying through this
Buddhistic will-lessness provides the therapeutic foundation of
the analytic situation. With reference to later deductions, it would
not be paradoxical to say that psychoanalysis, in its therapeutic
460
very end of the analysis and often beyond it. I say usually it is
the analyst who begins, that is true only if one is not willing
to understand the coming of the patient for help as a disguised
a manifestation of his
challenge to a duel, in reality, however,
own inner conflict of will. The physician advises his patient and
the patient by accepting this advice makes this his own will
a medicine, de-
regardless of whether it has to do with taking
priving of an indulgence, seeking of a watering place, or the de-
ciding upon an operation. The analyst to whom the patient turns
for help, cannot advise him, avoids carefully everything which
approaches that, in order thus to find and permit the patient to
findwhat he himself actually wants. The analyst insists only on
this one which actually dictates to the patient, what
strict rule,
able, that is, the end setting; naturally, as I have always empha-
sized, not in the sense of an arbitrary act on the part of the ana-
in the right spirit, that is, with the understanding of the will psy-
chology, which shows that the will under the pressure of the
strange will can only manifest itself as counter- will in the analytic
situation.This automatic reaction, which the therapeutic situa-
tion with its apparent disadvantage to the patient regularly pro-
duces, governs the entire analytic situation from the beginning;
itonly needed an exact study of the will reactions of the patient in
%he open struggle of the ending to recognize and understand this
in its full significance. This showed that one was dealing essen-
fact that the patient, as we have seen, wants two different things
at the same time, both the end and the continuation of the analy-
sis. Incidentally this throws a light on the
nature of so-called
one can easily show him in these final reactions that this will con-
flicthas to do with an internal, not an external struggle, and
of his whole psychic life.
represents the fundamental conflict
Why and how this is so, belongs to a presentation of will psy-
elsewhere simultaneously. Here we
2
chology which I shall give
he resists. On
this very conflict the inability to submit and the
inability to put over his own will positively, his whole neurosis
depends. In the analytic situation he seeks to solve externally
this inner will conflict, since he puts a strange will over his own,
but soon feels this will as forced on him. Accordingly the task
of the therapist is not to act as will, which the patient would
like, but only to function as counter-will in such a way that the
will of the patient shall not be broken, but strengthened. If for
use it therapeutically. For the first thing the patient does when
he begins treatment, is to project his will-to-health onto the
analyst who represents it as it were, just by virtue of his profes-
sion. That is, the patient himself no longer needs to will to be-
come well, as the analyst must and will make him sound. This
is an example of the tendency of the patient just described to
make the therapist represent positive will, and to keep for himself
the negative role, a tendency on whose correct understanding the
whole psychotherapeutic process stands or falls. Its success de-
to be
pends on just this, the ability to allow this will-to-health
instead of per-
preserved and strengthened in the patient himself,
mitting it to be projected upon the analyst.
This is possible only
when the whole situation in all its manifestations is
therapeutic
evaluated constructively in terms of the will problem. The posi-
tive strengthening of the will-to-health to the level of an actual
*
The dream work which Freud emphasizes, is just the dynamic guided by
can determine
the dreamer within himself, whose consequence the therapist
only after the fact. With reference to affects
worked out in the dream, Freud's
wish-fulfilment theory proves to be too narrow, rather
one could speak of an
'
and particularly in the last phase, they show clearly that they have to do with
an attempt by the will to control the situation. The dream is here no wish-
fulfilment, but a will accomplishment, a distinction
which is meaningful as
the distinction between wish and will, for it says that the patient wants to
accomplish the whole task within himself and will find release only
in his own
The Basis of a Will Therapy 467
of his neurosis.
That the will in the therapeutic experience can only manifest
itself as resistance or as a timid wish, the pedagogic setting
lies in
autonomous self. This explains moreover the appearance of dreams soon after
the beginning of the analysis in persons who usually do not dream at all or
very seldom. That, in addition, the dream can also have during the treatment
the reversed meaning of a present, a gift to the analyst, proves nothing
against its autonomous tendency, which it has naturally. For the dream is not
destined usually for sharing and yet certainly has an auto-therapeutic effect.
In the production of dreams, especially in the end phase of treatment, the
patient seizes only upon the natural function of the dream, as a psychic self-
regulator in order t&us to make himself independent of the analyst once more,
that is of the therapeutic situation.
468 Otto Rank
ground for considering the two as related, and it may well develop
that as our understanding of character becomes clearer the con-
MICHAEL BALINT
On Transference of Emotions*
*
Paper originally read in 1933 to the Hungarian Psychological Society.
British examples substituted later. Published in Hungarian Gydgyaszat (1933) )L
471
472 Michael Balint
all there is the realm of symbols: the National Ensign, the British
Lion and Unicorn, the crest of a family, owe their great impor-
tance to transference of feelings. The same holds true for the
Queen's uniform, or for the officer's epaulettes. It would mean
carrying coals to Newcastle should I try to prove the significance
of symbols for inciting or appeasing feelings to a British audience.
"British" itself is such a symbol, carefully chosen not to hurt the
feelings of any nationality of the United Kingdom. Then each
corner of a postage stamp bears a symbolic flower: the rose, the
thistle, the daffodil and the shamrock. A
criminal act is taken as
having injured the sovereign, and all prosecutions are in his name,
Regina v. N. Every official envelope bears the imprint "On Her
Majesty's Service," and it cannot be left unmentioned that the
On Transference of Emotions 473
always transference. A
letter, a valueless object like a glove, a
the
tracted by him in high esteem for two years and married girl
afterwards.
A very frequent technique of joking is based
on transference.
of a husband who
To quote only one famous story: the dilemma
If he throws out the wife, he
surprised his wife with his partner.
has to give the dowry back, if he throws out the partner, his busi-
ness will go bankrupt, and thus, finally, after long hesitation, he
throws out the couch.
an important role. To
In linguistics, too, transference plays
prove it I have only to remind you of such phrases as: the front
table, the brow of a hill; then: the pale
of a house, the leg of a
moon, the blushing sky, happy day, distressful years, etc.
a
This enumeration could be continued endlessly I hope this
much is enough to show that transference really is a general
It is not difficult to detectboth the causes and the
phenomenon.
aims of transference. The cause is always the circumstance that
(at that moment) the emotion
cannot be lived out on the origi-
nal person or object or even cannot be lived out on it at all. This
is clearly demonstrated by our story
of the couch. The same is
true of reverence where the original person is either dead or
remote. Sometimes the original person is present, but some other
fear, compassion, love, etc., prevents us
from doing
feeling, e.g.
to him what we would like to do. As you see, transference has a
the mind; it enables us to live out emo-
great economical value for
tions which otherwise must be carefully controlled, and so frees
us from unnecessary strain e.g. after having banged the door or
banged door would like to say! I know this question sounds odd
or even funny. But I can confess now that
have aimed at this
I
the object, being inanimate, cannot say anything. Only this pro-
cedure made it possible for me to demonstrate to you such clear,
obvious situations. The whole picture at once becomes different
when emotions are transferred on to a human being, to whom it
matters considerably whether he has been caressed or hit, hon-
oured or despised. He certainly will not remain unimpressed and
will react according to his aroused emotions, hopelessly disturb-
ing the clear psychological situation. And more than that, trans-
ference being an absolutely general tendency, he too will strive
to get rid of the strain existing in him, i.e. he will strive to trans-
fer his non-abreacted emotions to everyone within his reach. A
complete mess.
You remember I said that transference, though a trivial experi-
ence, cannot be as easily observed as resistance. Here we have
the explanation. I want to add one more explanation only. all We
know what needed to bring about a clear situation again. One
is
too will react and transfer his emotions on to his patient. Thus the
psycho-analytic relation will change into a trivial human relation
of friendliness or hostility, sympathy, love or hate, or even indif-
ference.
On the other hand, if the analyst has been able to preserve his
elastic passivity, by not bringing anything from his side into the
to remember
thought that the real difficulty for the analyst
is
is
waiting for the analyst. At the same time you will see how cun-
in inventing ingenious devices
ning the unconscious mind can be
with the single aim of forcing the analyst to abandon his passivity.
E.g. one day a man appears
to consult me about his nervous com-
plaints. He tells
me his name, his family relations, really every-
thing, a very complicated story. As usual, before asking anything,
I tell' him that he would do better to refuse
to answer than to
ing the session and not he; during a great part, often the greater
part, of our working time, he has to prepare himself to endure
this unjust blow. A
fourth is very matter-of-fact, no emotions at
all; the time is over, he has to go; but he has to tell me that some-
thing very important came into his mind just at this moment;
certainly he has to wait with it till to-morrow if he does not for-
literally does not exist for the person in question. We call these
forms the character-traits. How are they to be treated in an analy-
sis? First of all the analyst must not react to them. That means,
eight. At that time I already knew that he had had to leave his
home when nine years old for a very severe boarding school, run
The i.e. the end of
by Jesuits. political situation at that time,
the war, three revolutions rapidly following one another and
the Rumanian occupation of Hungary, made it impossible for
his parents for about two years to take him home, or even to
come to see him; so he had to stand on his own feet. Outwardly
he was quite successful; a "cheerful" child at school, he developed
into a sincere and frank man who was always popular with
everyone. Now we had to learn what was the price he had to
pay for it. In his childhood he had to struggle against the same
emotions of being thrown out without mercy, but as there was
no hope of finding understanding, even a big risk of being laughed
at, he had to appear as a strong, robust man,
and to keep his
real, tender feelings to himself. Even today nobody knows what
he really feels; he has numerous good companions, not one
intimate friend. If possible, he sits in a corner, shielded by the
walls, speaks very little, is always on his guard and, curiously
enough, he does not like to do anything by himself, e.g. when
preparing for an examination he looks for somebody with whom
to work together, when rowing he always tries to make some-
one accompany him in order not to be alone in the boat, even
if he has to do the work of two. Of course his sexual life, his
love affairs, show the same picture: a strong longing for human
proximity with inability to maintain a real intimacy. The pic-
ture is in fact not simple, there are many ramifications, but two
tendencies are obvious: the fear of disclosing his affectionate
feelings and the striving not to become conspicuous. Needless to
say, the unveiling of this part of his history was an important
step in his analysis.
Let us take another case. The patient is a woman, of about
thirty-five, single; avery difficult case. I am her second analyst;
the first analysis was almost a failure. The main obstacle to the
analytical work is, her peculiar behaviour. Should there be any-
thing in her mind which is disagreeable or only inconvenient for
On Transference of Emotions 481
her to tell, she keeps silent or begins to chat about petty affairs
of the day. At times I can show her that she tendentiously tries
to avoid a specific subject in her associations, as often as not
even then she tells lies in order to escape. Days later, when her
emotions have gone, she admits her fears and insincere tricks.
Of course, in this way we need an immense amount of time for
the simplest matters. She knows very well that her whole life has
been made a hopeless mess by just such behaviour.
In one of our last sessions she produced again the same
"comedy" which is her own word. From the beginning it was
quite obvious that she was keeping something back. It cost more
than half an hour of hard work for both of us till she could
tell me that she had received a letter of recommendation from
her family doctor, and that in this letter she was described as
a conscientious and reliable person. On this occasion it was
possible to analyse some aspects of her behaviour. Here, nat-
urally, I can report only the main tendencies brought to light.
First of all, in her opinion it is a bad thing to be a grown-up;
really everyone should be afraid of it. In fact, it means to
be sentenced to hard labour for the rest of your life, and more-
over to be fully responsible for everything that you do. On the
other hand, a child is permitted to do what he likes, he has no
responsibility if anything should happen the parents are the
react to the transferred feeling and (b) he too will try to transfer
his un-abreacted emotions on to the The only way to see
first.
* the Advancement
An address presented before the Association for of"
2
cure demands"; they seek instead, emotional discharge, regard-
lessof the reality of the situation.
Freud believed that these unconscious feelings which the
patient strives to hide are made up of that part of the libidinal
impulse which has turned away from consciousness and reality,
due the frustration of a desired gratification. Because the
to
attraction of reality has weakened, the libidinal energy is still
maintained in a state of regression attached to the original in-
fantile sexual objects, although the reasons for the recoil from
3
reality have disappeared.
Freud states that in the analytic treatment, the analyst pur-
sues this part of the libido to its hiding place, "aiming always at
unearthing it, making it accessible to consciousness and at last
serviceable to reality." 3 The patient tries to achieve an emo-
tional discharge of this libidinal energy under the pressure of
the compulsion to repeat experiences over and over again rather
than to become conscious of their origin. He uses the method
of transferring to the person of the physician past psychological
experiences and reacting to this, at times, with all the power of
hallucination. 2 The patient vehemently insists that his impression
of the analyst is true for the immediate present, in this way avoid-
ing the recognition of his own unconscious impulses.
Thus, Freud regarded the transference-manifestations as a
major problem of the resistance. However, Freud says, "It must
not be forgotten that they (the transference-manifestations) and
they only, render the invaluable service of making the patient's
buried and forgotten love-emotions actual and manifest." 4
Freud regards the transference-manifestations as having two
general aspects positive and negative. The negative, he at first
7
Horney, Karen, New Ways in Psychoanalysis; New York, Norton, 1959
(313 pp.).
488 Janet Mackenzie Rioch
and everyone will get excited, that he can smile and coo and
people will be enchanted, or just the opposite. The nature of
the emotional reference points that he determines depends upon
the environment. By that still unknown quality called "empathy,"
he discovers the reference points which help to determine his
emotional attitude toward himself. If his mother did not want
him, disgusted with him, treats him with utter disregard, he
is
the parents. Under these conditions, and these only, this child
can feel a sense of self-regard.
Other people are encountered with the original reference frame
in mind. The child tends to carry over into later situations the
patterns he first learned to know. The rigidity with which these
original patterns are retained depends upon the nature of the
child's experience. If this has been of a traumatic character so
that spontaneity has been blocked and further emotional de-
velopment has been inhibited, the original orientation will tend
to persist. Discrepancies may be rationalized or repressed. Thus,
the original impression of the hostile mother may be retained,
while the contact with the new person is rationalized to fit the
original reference frame. The new person encountered acts dif-
ferently, but probably that is just a pose. She is just being nice
because she does not know me. If she really knew me, she
would act differently. Or, the original impressions are so out
of line with the present actuality, that they remain unconscious,
but make themselves apparent in inappropriate behavior or at-
titudes, which remain outside the awareness of the person con-
cerned.
The incongruity of the behavior pattern, or of the attitude,
may be a source of astonishment to the other person involved,
490 Janet Mackenzie Rioch
that the real difficulty in treating such disorders is that the rela-
tionship is essentially nothing but transference illusions. Such
persons hallucinate the original frame of reference to the ex-
clusion of reality. Nowhere in the realm of psychoanalysis can
one find more complete proof of the effect of early experience
on the person than in attempting to treat these patients. Frieda
Fromm-Reichmann 11 has shown in her work with schizophrenics
the necessity to realize the intensity of the transference reactions,
which have become almost completely real to the patient. And
yet, ifone knows the correct interpretations, by actually feeling
the patient's needs, one can over years of time do the identical
thing which is accomplished more quickly and less dramatically
with patients suffering a less severe disturbance of their inter-
personal relationships.
Another point which I wish to discuss for a moment is the
following:
Freud takes the position that all subsequent experience in
II
Fromm-Reichmann, Frieda, Transference Problems in Schizophrenics,
Psychoanalytic Quart. (1939) 8:412-426.
496 Janet Mackenzie Rioch
one later whose capacity for response is deeper than his mother's.
If he is capable of that greater depth, he experiences an ex-
also says that the patient is protected from the unwitting sug-
you get older, never forget what I told you. Always remember
what mother says, then you will never get into trouble." These
are like post-hypnotic suggestions. "You will never come to a
good end. You will always be in trouble." "If you are not good,
you will always be unhappy." "If you don't do what I say, you
will regret it." "If you do not live up to the right things again,
'right' as continuously defined by the mother you will be sorry."
It was called to my attention that the Papago Indians de-
1&
Underbill, Ruth, Social Organization of the Papago Indians [Columbia
University Contributions to Anthropology: Vol. 30]; New York, Columbia
University Press, 1939 (ix and 280 pp.).
500 Janet Mackenzie Rioch
position in the room whereby he does not see the analyst. Thus
the ordinary reference points of facial expression and gesture are
80
Hull, Clark L., Hypnosis and Suggestibility; New York, Appleton-Century,
1933 (xii and 416 pp.).
The Transference Phenomenon in Psychoanalytic Therapy 501
THOMAS M. FRENCH
The Transference Phenomenon*
adjusted behavior.
We have pointed out that all behavior is based upon past ex-
from the
perience. In normal development, however, patterns
past undergo progressive modification.
One learns from experi-
ence by correcting earlier patterns in the light of later events.
When a problem becomes too disturbing to face, however, this
learning process is interrupted and subsequent attempts
to solve
Reactions to therapy
seriously. She was able to agree with the therapist that she must
be in love with the minister because at the time she had no
sense of the intensity of her feeling for him nor of the conflict and
frustration in which these feelings involved her. Such an attach-
ment to a married man was quite incompatible with her con-
science, reinforced as it was by her religious training.
Her love
for the minister, therefore, faced her with frustration either of
her forbidden love or of her devotion to her religious standards
both of which were very strong. Anyone who attempts to inter-
vene in a quarrel between friends is likely to draw the anger of
both upon him. Similarly, a therapist who attempts to make a
patient aware of a conflict between
two strong but incompatible
wishes must inevitably stir up the resentment of both sides of
the patient's conflict against himself. It was inevitable that this
patient should react with anger to an interpretation that involved
so much frustration for her.
In our psychotherapeutic thinking we often do not distinguish
carefullyenough between neurotic transference reactions and
this kind of resistance to a disturbing interpretation. Frank oppo-
sition to an unwelcome interpretation may be a normal reaction
The Transference Phenomenon 509
In defense of the neurosis and irrational only in the sense that the
neurosis itself is irrational. The patient's reaction in the case just
from such a frank protest only in
cited differs that, instead of
being an open refusal of the proffered insight, it is
unconsciously
disguised as general ill-temper so that the patient is able to avoid
full awareness of the conflict exposed by the new insight. dis- A
turbing interpretation is a present reality, an attempt upon the
part of the therapist to interfere with defenses necessary to the
patient's peace of mind. When a patient reacts with anger to such
an interpretation, therefore, his anger is not based upon a mis-
understanding of the present situation as a repetition of a memory
from the past. His anger is rather a direct reaction to the therapist
as a real and present threat to the patient's peace of mind. Such
a reaction is obviously a manifestation of the patient's resistance
to treatment, but it cannot be looked upon as a manifestation of
a transference neurosis.
The importance of this distinction must become clear as soon
as we reflect upon the fact that, in insight therapy, the chief real
contact between patient and therapist arises directly from the
therapist's efforts to free the patient of his neurosis. Very often,
however, not only does the patient wish (consciously) to be free
of his neurosis, but he also clings (unconsciously) to his neuro-
sis as a defense against conflicts which he is unwilling to face. As
his fear; to this the patient reacted with a dream in which a small
patient toward the therapist fall into three categories: (1) a ra-
The Transference Phenomenon 511
interpret (and thus help the patient to gain insight into) the mo-
tives of guiltand pride that underlie his transference neurosis in
order that the patient may become capable of accepting further
help.
Aichhorn has shown, however, that this kind of transference
neurosis may be held back or very much diminished by decreas-
ing the patient's sense of dependence on and obligation toward
the therapist. Inducing such a patient to perform a service for
the therapist, for instance, tends to relieve the patient's excessive
512 Thomas M. French
end that the patient may gain insight into the motives for his
neurotic behavior, irrational impulses inside the therapeutic sit-
uation have certain advantages over their being carried out in
real life, as the patientmight otherwise be impelled to do. Not
only can the patient's behavior in the analytic situation be more
directly and more accurately observed but, what may seem even
more important to the patient, many of the practical conse-
quences of acting out disturbing impulses in real life may be
avoided by giving voice to them within the therapeutic situation
where the patient is expressly permitted to say anything and the
therapist is trained to react to every utterance of the patient's
ity testing is, in most cases, much more for the very
difficult. It is
patient. Ordinarily the patient expects the doctor to tell him what
to do and, in return for doing as he is told, he expects the doctor
to cure him. In psychotherapy the patient must be taught to play
a more responsible role. In most cases it should be explained to
the patient very early that he has two roles to play in the thera-
reality.
At one time the real interest of psychoanalysts was concen-
The Transference Phenomenon 519
trated chiefly upon reconstructing the patient's past
history and,
in particular, his infantile neurosis. After Freud pointed out the
his resistance to the insight that the therapist has offered him; and
he then proceed, with the help of the therapist's emotional
will
pist.
In searching for a basis for such a rationalization, the patient
therapeutic interest not upon the past but upon the patient's pres-
ent problems, another very important principle becomes almost
self-evident. This is the principle that it is best to choose and
time interpretations in such a way as to focus the patient's atten-
tion upon only one problem at a time. Until a patient has utilized
the insight contained in one interpretation by finding a better
solution for the conflict that has been reopened by it, it is better
to keep focused upon analyzing the resistance to it
his attention
and not stir up quite new and unsolved problems. If this rule is
not followed, the patient's resistance tends to take on much more
complex forms, since the therapist becomes the representative
or advocate of not one but a number of conflicts that the patient
is unable to face and that may be very difficult to disentangle. On
the other hand, by concentrating the patient's attention and re-
sistance upon one problem at a time we tend to polarize his reac-
tions about a single conflict and thus make them much easier for
both therapist and patient to understand.
Ideally each therapeutic session should either help the patient
toward a solution of a problem that has been stirred up in a pre-
vious session, or else leave the patient with a clearly defined prob-
lem to work upon until the next session. In a well-conducted
therapy as much or more happens in the intervals between inter-
views as in the interviews themselves. The patient should feel that
every session brings him some gain, and each session should pro-
vide the patient with enough momentum to carry him to the next
step in the treatment. This next step is, so to speak, the next lesson
for which the patient does "homework" in the interval between.
Here, again, keen awareness of the trend of the patient's thoughts
and feelings is required so that, not only can one time interpreta-
tions and the frequency of interviews carefully, one can also
know on just what note to stop a particular interview. This is
tion in his daily life (and thus diminish the intensity of his de-
with guilt to his sexual impulses toward the young woman and
then points out to the patient that he feels guilty because he iden-
tifies the girl with the mother, the implication of this interpreta-
tion will tend to diminish the patient's guilt feelings because the
immediately evident that telling the patient that this girl repre-
sents his mother will tend to inhibit his impulse to accept the girl
as a substitute for the mother and will thus tend to keep the
patient fixated upon his mother. The therapeutic indication in
this case is just the opposite, to make the interpretation in such
a way as to call attention to the fact that the girl is not the pa-
tient's mother and thus to facilitate the patient's attempts to solve
his conflict by finding an innocent alternative to take the place of
the forbidden sexual impulses.
Conclusion
CLARA THOMPSON
Transference and Character Analysis*
527
528 Clara Thompson
were repeated automatically feelings and reactions of earlier pe-
riods even these experiences were unpleasant. Thus Freud
when
saw people tend to get into the same kind of difficulties over and
over again throughout life often in spite of strenuous efforts to
prevent this from happening. For example, a man who has made
a failure of one marriage makes every effort in the next marriage
to choose a different kind of woman. But in spite of all precau-
tions the same type of difficulty seems to appear again. As this
was first formulated, it looked as if this repetition compulsion was
some stupid trend in the organism to relive earlier states. In fact,
Freud saw it as derived from the death instinct. The driving force
of the death instinct was to return to an earlier state of being in
the last analysis organic matter seeks to return to the inorganic
state. This phantasy of its origin, however, was not particularly
its activities, the ego and its importance in the dynamics of per-
sonality were but shadowy concepts. But after Freud's formula-
tion of the pattern of the total personality with his description of
superego, ego and id, interest became focused for the first time
on the importance of the ego in the dynamics of living.
At about the same time as the development of this new inter-
est,another innovation was taking place, partly, no doubt, as a
result of thenew interest in the ego, but partly the new changes
were due to the dissatisfaction with the results of analysis as it
was practiced around 1920. At were faith-
that time, analysts
feelings about the analyst. Any statement made would elicit the
remark, "You must have felt this about your father," or some
other figure in childhood, thus, in fact, encouraging the patient to
turn away from his present feelings and recall more of the past.
Rank was the first to point out that in doing this the patient was
led away from the living present, the area of real feeling. As he
Transference and Character Analysis 529
present. He and
Ferenczi stressed, for the first time, that not every
attitude towards the analyst is transferred from the past, that
there is some reaction to the analyst in his own right and it is
actually anxiety relieving and, therefore, stops the progress of
analysis to point out to the patient you do not really feel this way
about me but about your father, etc. Thus, if the patient finally
gets the courage to tell the analyst he looks like a pig the whole
issue may be conveniently buried by referring it to the past, say-
ing that must be what you thought of your father. Two things
may happen as a result the analyst does not have to face the fact
that he does look like a pig and the patient feels, "I got safely
out of that one," but he does not feel more secure thereby, be-
cause he knows he really meant the analyst and not his father.
From that day on, he is likely to assume that the analyst's feel-
ings have to be protected. Realizing this, Rank and Ferenczi dis-
covered the importance in the picture of the analyst in his own
right. So, transference became more precisely defined as only
the irrational attitudes felt and expressed towards the analyst.
At this point, Rank and Ferenczi as well as Sullivan, were begin-
ning to define the analytic situation as an interpersonal process
although this was not explicitly so stated.
All of these discoveries contributed significantly to the work-
ing out of a method of character analysis, and work around this
has come to be known as ego psychology. As I understand it, this
term is used to describe the largely unconscious defensive activi-
tiesof the ego in carrying out its function of making the indi-
vidual acceptable to his environment. Freud defined the function
of the ego as the task of reconciling the impulses of the id with
the harsh demands of the superego, and also making the whole
behavior acceptable to the outside world. The task of the ego,
therefore,was to sufficiently alter id impulses through reaction
formations against them or sublimations of them so that they
become acceptable ways of behavior. This process was recog-
nized as going on outside awareness and these reaction forma-
tions and sublimations were recognized as defenses against instinc-
tual drives. Thus, it was concluded, the character of a person is
simplified terms was first to point out to the patient that he de-
fends himself, secondly, the way in which he does it, and only
then is the patient ready to see what he defends himself against.
Among classical analysts, the analysis of character is even
considered today as something qualitatively quite different and
much more achieve than the analysis of transference.
difficult to
Thus, it is
recognized that there are two general patterns of irra-
tional feelings one, the old transferred attitudes from childhood
and, two, habitual attitudes developed in the course of a lifetime
as ways of coping with life. It was thought that entirely different
techniques must be used in coping with these. 1 wish to show
that this idea that one is dealing with two entirely different
only things the two have in common is that they both act as
resistances in analysis and at the same time offer a source of
to think the same and care for him. Thus the oral personality
to use a Freudian term but explain its origin differently de-
velops in an environment of overprotection. One is given things,
one can expect to receive, one need only be compliant and re-
is formed
ceptive and all things will come to you. This attitude
from actual early experience. Oral sadistic character, on the
other hand, comes from an ungiving home. One has to become
clever and the environment to get what one needs.
manipulate
The anal character as Fromm interprets it in interpersonal terms
comes from a home in which nothing is given nor can something
be obtained by manipulation. It is necessary to fend for oneself
and because this is precarious and difficult, it is better to hoard
whatever you do get because you may never get any more. Thus,
according to Sullivan and Fromm, an anal character may be
formed before the period of toilet training because it is not pro-
duced by a sublimation of anal impulses, but is a reaction pattern
long before this the parental attitudes have had their impact
on
the child. These are, of course, all extreme pictures and rarely
are seen in pure culture. The same statement, i.e. the fact that
they are never seen in pure culture, would hold true also of the
Freudian categories as defined in Freudian terms.
Now how does this cultural interpersonal orientation account
for transference? One can say the whole picture, both transfer-
ence and character structure, is that of transferring attitudes from
the past and applying them to present situations where they are
often inappropriate. The question is why do we do this? The
infant learns a way of reacting to the mother for example. The
child assumes because he has no other experience at the time that
she is the way people are. In other words, all life is like this.
faction in her secret love life. Somehow, she has created the situ-
ation she actually wants in her present life/For her the possibility
of successful marriage would produce panic. It would threaten
her character structure, in other words, her defense systems.
She has structured her life around being the helpful different one.
But in order to become this kind of person, she had to develop
a certain detachment. She had to be a kind of therapist to the
men she loved. This meant subordinating her own needs with
a compensatory development of neurotic independence. What do
I mean by neurotic independence? I mean close relatedness to
another person has become anxiety provoking. Thus, instead of
a simple transference of a situation from the past, we have a kind
of character development, which is not resolved by simply recall-
out all the subsequent de-
ing its origin. The patient has to work
fensive maneuvers she developed in the course of growing in
order to protect herself from being hurt. These are her character
structure, but they are developed on the basis of thinking all men
so, unwittingly, she forces them
and all to
are like her father,
act the same part, and assigns the same role to herself, not realiz-
ing her contribution.
The more actively destructive interpersonal patterns are
formed
in a similar way. A woman tells in tears of how her husband
abuses her. Almost anything she does is a pretext for a fight. He
calls her the vilest names and usually leaves threatening not to
return. In other words, it looks as if he were a villain. This pic-
ture can only be understood in terms of reciprocal reactions. As
a child, this type of behavior went on with the father. At the age
of seven, she recalls being forcibly separated from a psychotic
mother who was to be taken to a hospital. She blamed her father
for this separation (and we must assume that previous behavior
on his part made this seem a rational possibility or perhaps her
mother's interpretation of his behavior). Throughout her child-
hood she and her father fought on every conceivable occasion.
We can see that she was hating him, but she assumed the fights
were because she was a bad and worthless child. The same pat-
tern was repeated in her marriage. This only served to emphasize
to her that she really was worthless and that her husband despised
her. The whole thing suddenly became clear to her when the
Transference and Character Analysis 535
An operational definition
tortions."
In several important recent papers, Leo Herman, Paula
Heirnan, Annie Reich, Margaret Little, and Maxwell Gitelson
have made a beginning in the attempt to clarify the concept and
to formulate some dynamic principles regarding the phenomena
included in this category. Herman 9 is mainly concerned with
defining the optimal attitude of the analyst to the patient,
an
6
Franz Alexander, Fundamentals of Psychoanalysis; New York, Norton,
1948.
6
Sandor Ferenczi, Further Contributions to the Theory and Technique of
Psycho-analysis; London, Hogarth Press, 1950.
Baiint, "Changing Therapeutic Aims and Techniques in Psycho-
7 Michael
sponses.
Heiman 10 takes a step forward when she states that the
analyst's emotional responses to his patient within the analytic
situation represent one of the most important tools for his work,
and that the analyst's countertransference is an instrument of
research into the patient's unconscious. This important formu-
lation is, in my opinion, the basis upon which the study of the
tudes of the analyst. She separates them into two main types:
those where the analyst acts out some unconscious need with the
patient, and those where the analyst defends against some un-
conscious need. On the whole, countertransference responses are
reflections of permanent neurotic difficulties of the analyst, in
which the patient is often not a real object but rather is used
as a tool by means of which some need of the analyst is gratified.
In some instances, there may be sudden, acute countertransfer-
ence responses which do not necessarily arise from neurotic
character difficulties of the analyst. However, Reich points out
that the interest in becoming an analyst is itself partially de-
termined by unconscious motivation, such as curiosity about
other people's secrets, which is evidence that countertransference
10
Paula Heiman, "On Counter-transference," Inrernar. J. Psychoanal. (1950)
31:81-34.
11
Annie Reich, "On Counter-transference," Internat. J. Psychoanal. (1951)
32:25-31.
544 Mabel Blake Cohen
work with that patient, whereas the partial responses are more
amenable to working through via the processes of self-analysis.
I am extremely skeptical whether it is possible for one to avoid
"total" reactions to a patient that is, general feelings of liking
for, dislike of, and responsiveness toward the patient, and so
on, are present from the time of the first interview. These do
vary in intensity; when extreme, they may indicate that a non-
of consideration the fact that the patient's whole life pattern and
his relation to all of the important authority figures in it would
show a similar stereotyped defensive response. So that, certainly
in the early stages of treatment and to a lesser extent in later
stages, the anxiety responses of the patient are for the most
part generalized and stereotyped rather than particularized with
special reference to his relationship with the analyst.
This, however, is not true of the analyst. Having been analyzed
himself, most of such anxiety-laden responses as he has experi-
enced with others have entered awareness and many of them have
been worked through and abandoned in favor of more mature
and integrated responses. What remain, then, are not such stereo-
typed or universal responses. To illustrate, all patients do not
automatically represent sibling rivals, while it is possible that a
particular, unusually competitive patient may still represent a
younger sibling to an analyst who had some difficulties in his
attention of both the patient and the analyst are directed to the
and also, social factors such as need for success and recognition
as a competent therapist. (2) Unresolved neurotic problems of
the therapist. (3) Communication of the patient's anxiety to the
therapist.
This is far from saying, however, that his personality is the chief
instrument of the therapy which we call psycho-analysis. There
is a great difference between the selection and playing of a role
and the awareness of the fact that one has found one's self cast
for a part. It is of primary importance for the analyst to conduct
himself so that the analytic process proceeds on the basis of
what the patient brings to it." 14
It is not the selection and playing of a role which creates the
Apatient arrives for his hour five minutes late. He reacts with
feelings of guilt and the expectation of being criticized. On arrival,
he notices a certain stiffness in the facial expression of the physician,
which is a hangover from a telephone conversation the physician was
having just before the patient's arrival. The patient, instead of in-
quiring whether the doctor is offended by his tardiness, immediately
plunges into an explanation of why it happened. The physician (who
is certainly not very alert at the moment) wonders why the patient
10
Alexander Halperin, Edward M. Ohaneson, Otto A. Will, Mabel B.
Cohen, and Robert A. Cohen, "A Personality Study of Successful Naval
Officers," unpublished report to the Office o Naval Research.
Countertransference and Anxiety 557
analyst until the analyst noticed his apprehension and insecurity with
the patient. Following this, the defensive withdrawal proved to be
analyzable.
(2) The analyst cannot identify with the patient, who seems un-
real or mechanical. When the patient reports that he is upset, the
patient in the next hour is noted by the analyst, he then has the
means of expediting and bringing into full awareness the self*
scrutiny which can lead to resolution.
It will be noted that the focus of attention of these remarks
Conclusions
choanalysis.
33
A. H.MASLOW AND
BELA MITTELMANN
Psychoanalytic Therapy*
Method of Procedure
The most common practice is that the patient comes five times a
week on consecutive days, that he lies on the couch, and that the
analyst sits at the head of the couch outside the patient's range
of vision. However, the procedure has become more elastic in
the last fifteen years, and the patient may come three or four
times a week and may have the choice of sitting across the desk
from the analyst or lying down. Some investigators maintain that
with some patients equally significant material and equal thera-
peutic results can be obtained by spacing the interviews once
a week or even less frequently (Alexander, Hahn-Kende).
The patient is instructed to tell the analyst everything that
enters mind, regardless of whether it is embarrassing or
his
The fact that the analyst is out of sight enables the patient to talk
more easily about embarrassing and humiliating thoughts and
feelings.
The frequency of interpretation varies considerably in practice.
Some analysts prefer not to make any comment for weeks or even
months; if the patient is silent, the analyst waits until the
patient
takes the initiative of talking, even if this means silence
during
most of the hour. Other analysts make interpretative comments
during most, even the first few, hours as soon assomething is
clear to the analyst and, in his judgment, can be gotten across to
the patient; in case of prolonged silences, they ask the patient
questions to enable him to go on with the work. For many pa-
tients,these differences in the relative activity of the analysts do
not matter greatly. Other patients apparently can hardly progress
with their problems without active stimulus, of the type men-
tioned, on the part of the analyst.
Role of dreams
discharge him and this in spite of the fact that he knew very well
that in analysis one talks about everything that comes to mind.
took the whip out of his hand and said, "I want you to feel what
you are doing to the horse." With this, she whipped him. The patient
was deeply disturbed, and the analyst remarked that he must have
been angry at his mother. Only after considerable work was the
analyst able to make him realize that he had ever had any feelings of
resentment toward her. The patient had not "forgotten" the incident
of the whipping. If he thought of that period of his childhood, he
could always recall it; but he wanted to isolate it and not connect
it with the picture he had of his relationship with his mother. He
had a need to keep this relationship free from any flaw on the part of
his mother, and free from any anger on his part
Psychoanalytic Therapy 575
the analysis that he was undisturbed, that his calmness showed genu-
ine strength, and that it was the right way of living, he often had
Working Concepts
The Patient's Need for Help. The need for help is the patient's
strongest reason for beginning and continuing analytic treatment.
This need, the hope of fulfilling it, and the actual experience of
relief make himwilling to persist even when some of the analyst's
comments are distressing. The patient tells the analyst particularly
about his weaknesses and disabilities, and he usually expects the
analyst to concentrate on them and not on his achievements.
However, it does not follow that he is happy to find out the rea-
sons for his difficulties and eager to correct them as quickly as
possible.On the contrary, he has his own emotional needs and
ideas of the kind of help he should be given, and he clings to
them persistently. If the help offered differs from what he wants,
he reacts strongly; resentment, disappointment, fear, humiliation,
and self-condemnation follow. He again requests the type of help
which he felt was refused him before. All these reactions are the
ultimate results of his feeling of helplessness.
The analyst is constantly aware of the patient's suffering and
of his need for help. In some very precarious situations, as when
there is danger of suicide or of incapacity, his most immediate
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however, the concept of the patient's need for help has a long-
range significance for the analyst. It is on the basis of this assump-
tion that he denies many of the patient's requests, such as a set
of rules for his conduct, and that he points out reaction patterns
to the patient e.g., hostility, or the need for exclusive affection
and care although he knows that the immediate effect will be
disturbing. It is obvious from this that the working assumption of
the patient's need for help is quite different for the analyst than
for the patient. The aims of analytic therapy and the factors oper-
ating in achieving these aims will be discussed in the section on
practical application. Here we wish to show that the working con-
cept of the patient's need for help influences every activity which
occurs in the analysis.
ings.
3. Greater accent on the unconscious intricacies of current
reactions.
In the following an approach will be presented which inte-
grates, with some additions, the concepts that seem most signifi-
cant and effective in the treatment of a patient.
present over the original striving may then add the coloring of
altruistic self-sacrifice to the relationship.
tempt to dominate the world. This violent hostility then again leads
to fear of retribution. With the renewal of anxiety, he looks for
further past proofs and protective and coping measures. This
sequence of events then contributes to preserving the past orienta-
tion and striving intact.
The question of the relationship between current and past
dynamics may be rounded out further. Events in the past narrow
down and determine in part the individual's future development.
Further, the memory of past events constantly influences the
individual's reaction to new ones. There is, however, an equally
important process in the opposite direction. When the individual
meets with new reversals, the evaluation of past events also alters.
His current helplessness results in reinforcing his feeling of help-
lessness in the past. The evaluation of past events constantly alters
and gets more complex in connection with later experiences. In
fact, the same past event may be used for contradictory proof
under the pressure of contradictory strivings in current situations,
this being one of the reasons for the difficulties in reconstructing
past events. Thus, to prove the need for extreme caution, the pa-
tient may accent in a past conflict with his father his feeling of
finally his behavior rises above its previous level even in situations
in which he excelled. Completely satisfactory analyses may vary
in length from about two to five years.
Not all patients are equally benefited by psychoanalytic treat-
ment. There are four prerequisites for a patient to be analyzable:
(1) He must desire to be treated. Often the explanatory
statement
that he needs treatment suffices to create a willingness to under-
take analysis. Some patients at first are averse to analysis either
because they are afraid of becoming completely dependent or
because their need for self-esteem is so intense that they want
to handle all their difficulties, no matter how great, themselves.
Such patients may eventually change their outlook, however; and
their treatment is often very successful. (2) The patient must
have enough intelligence to realize that his suffering may have
emotional causes, and to understand the analyst's explanations.
Feeble-minded people, for example, are not analyzable. (3) The
procedure should be adapted to the patient's illness and individu-
ality. Border-line psychotic patients may
come for treatment by
their own decision; frank psychotics do not, yet many of them
can be analyzed with a modified technique. One might say in gen-
eral that any technical modification or measure that takes care of
issues that are beyond the individual patient's coping capacity at
the time not only does not interfere with the analysis but helps
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The reason for this is that no one is free from fears and difficul-
cation that the patient should change his method of dealing with
problems. Therefore the "fate" of the impulse and its effect on the
patient's whole personality are different from what they would
be under other circumstances.
The most important irrational attitudes that the patient has
toward the analyst are: the expectation that the analyst will cure
him by a sort of magic act, and that the analyst is all-powerful,,
omniscient, and perfect; an attitude of and a desire for complete
submission in order to obtain the needed help; the assumption
that the analyst looks down on him, especially because of the above
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in Psychoanalytic
Therapy
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Reprinted by permission from Psychiatric Treatment Proceedings of the
Association for Research in Nervous and Mental Disease, Dec. 14 and 15,
1951, New York, N. Y. Published by The Williams & Wilkins Company,
Baltimore, 1953. Copyright, 1953, Association for Research in Nervous and
Mental Disease,
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co-operation
Aspiring Level:
Available only in the adult who "I am delighted to co-operate with the
is capable and desirous of self- doctor. This is my opportunity to learn
Self-Reliant Level:
Available in the average adult "I am ready to co-operate with the doc-
who is capable of learning the tor. I must leam how to help myself and
CHILD-LIKE
Parentifying Level:
When the adult feels like a help- "I don't know what the doctor expects of
less child,he seeks parental help me. I couldn't do it anyway, He should
and therefore parentifies the ther- cure me by his exfoit,"
apist.
Magic-Craving Level:
The completely discouraged adult "The doctor must not only cure me, he
retreats to the hope that the must do everything for me by magic."
parentified therapist will do mir-
acles for him. ^ = ADVANCE. |,
= REGRESSION.
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Hypnotherapy
Priming
the ironclad rule is still in force. Hence, by the action of his own
desire the patient lapses into a hypnotic state, a state of almost
automatic obedience to the parentified physician. Far from resent-
ing this necessity, the patient feels hopeful, even triumphant: his
dream of magical help is coming true. Therefore he will act upon
the physician's orders as if acting upon his own intentions.
Magic-craving of the distressed is craving for security through
obedience. Hypnotherapy works at the magic-craving level of
treatment behavior.
Pre-scientific Psychotherapy
T
Psychoanalytic Therapy: 1. The Classical Technique
You are not ill! You feel fine!" The proper designation of this
procedure is the prohibitive technique of hypnotherapy.
This technique tries to cure the patient with parental discipline.
Therapeutic results are obtained at the cost of increased inner ten-
sion; their collapse is only a question of time. Nonetheless, this
technique may still be used to tide the patient over an emergency.
After she gave energetic expression to her anger, she asked for a
drink,and without any inhibition drank a great deal of water, awaken-
ing from the hypnosis with the glass at her lips [1, p. 23].
feared that Breuer might criticize her, she would have remained
silentor vented her anger on Breuer; in either case she would
have retained her symptom.
Today we may formulate the modifying measure discovered by
Breuer as follows:
The release of repressed rage is a decompressive procedure
comparable to the opening of a blind abscess. To release the
repressed rage, one must first locate and revive it in the memory
context of the life experience that provoked it. Furthermore, to
De successful, the release must retrieve the patient's lost pride;
this effectcan be obtained only if the patient feels that the phy-
sician approves of his released rage.
Hypnoid Therapy
these changes relax his inhibitions, allay his fears and facilitate
his life performance. Owing to the patient's own desire, the
MEANING
TERMS Patient behaves the wa
Forms of transference: he did when he was:
Priming
In Freud's view, positive transference is the force the only
force that enables the patient to absorb and act upon the inter-
pretations proposed to him by the physician:
This passage is the basis of Freud's three rules for the handling
of transference: 1) Positive transference must be preserved in-
tact throughout the treatment. 2) Resistant transference must be
dissolved and the patient restored to positive transference. This
can be done, he said, by showing the patient that it is a now
senseless repetition of his infantile behavior towards his parents.
3) At the conclusion of the tieatment positive transference "must
be dissolved"; Freud did not say how this could be done.
Freud's rules, translated into the language of our conceptual
scheme, might read as follows: Only in a state of child-like de-
pendence upon the physician, a state of uncritical obedience, can
the patient absorb and act upon the interpretations proposed to
him by the physician. Therefore his child-like dependence, his
uncritical obedience, must be preserved intact throughout the
treatment. His disobedience defiance must be broken: he must
be shown that it is a repetition of his infantile behavior, now
disturbingly injected into his relationship to the physician. At the
conclusion of the treatment he must be induced to terminate his
uncritical obedience.
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To sum up: the classical technique primes the patient for un-
co-operation with the physician. The classical technique is
critical
a technique of child-like emotional dependence; it works at the
parentifying level of treatment behavior.
Modifying
An adequate plan for modifying the patient's life performance
must first consider the relation of available means to desired ends.
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repair [8, 13-16]. They are brought into play in early life by the
child's faulty emergency responses, his over-reaction to danger,
The early phase
particularly to the parental threat of punishment.
of behavior disorder, emergency dyscontrol, appears in the child's
dependency relationship to his parents; its products are carried
over into adult life. The ensemble of the patient's faulty emer-
gency responses includes excessive or inappropriate fears, rages,
guilty fears and guilty rages; most damaging are the undue in-
hibitions which have arrested function, growth and development
in the affected areas, pre-eminently in group membership and
sexual behavior. In the treatment of behavior disorders, the criti-
cal task is to bring the patient's emergency emotions under
control; to remove his damaging inhibitions; to generate in him
an emotional matrix dominated by welfare emotions (pleasurable
desire, joy, love and pride) and controlled by adaptive insight,
608 Sandor Rado
a matrix conducive to a healthy life performance. In the adapta-
tional technique the plans for priming and modifying seek to
fulfill this task.
Priming
The adaptation al plan for priming is to hold the patient as
much as possible at the adult levels of co-operation with the
physician. When his treatment behavior turns or threatens to
turn child-like, we seek to bring him back to the adult level
without delay.
Child-like co-operation, that is, parentifying treatment be-
havior, must be understood in the context of the here and now.
Modifying
The adaptational technique's plan for modifying is too elabo-
rate to be presented here in detail. I shall touch only upon a few
major points.
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ceeds and his fears and rages subside that he becomes capable
of clear thought and realistic judgment. This procedure, the
emotional redefinition of memories, is a powerful aid in the
task of transforming the patient's emotional outlook or, as we
may put it, his field of emotional expectation, and restoring his
lost self-confidence. These changes are a prerequisite of all fur-
ther emotional learning.
One need not fear that treatment at the adult level of co-
operation deprives the patient of the requisite emotional incen-
tive. At first the child learns only if he loves those who teach him.
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