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rooted in your own power, neither giving it away nor exerting it over
someone else. This allows you to play in your own sandbox
Forms of Boundaries:
Feel safe
Show others how you want to be treated
Clearly communicate who you are
Be your authentic self
Model healthy interaction for others
Types of Boundaries:
Rigid- firm, closed off, not able to see the boundary differently
Fear, guilt and self-doubt are big potential pitfalls; you may fear the
other persons response to your boundaries. Boundaries are a sign of a
healthy relationship and a sign of self-respect. Be gentle with yourself
and at the same time set boundaries and work to preserve them.
Stumbling Blocks:
Fear
Thinking its selfish
Unclear about your values and beliefs
Always putting other people first
Low self esteem
Confusion
Cultural/Familial norms
You cant set good boundaries if youre unsure of where you stand.
Identify your physical, emotional/mental and spiritual limits. Consider
what you are willing to tolerate and accept and what makes you feel
uncomfortable or stressed.
Its good to keep in mind a boundary does not have to be set in stone;
they are fluids in that as you change so can they. Here are some
jumping off points to clarify your stand.
Make a request.
Give instructions.
Follow through
Integration: