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Safe, comfort, compassion, and passion poured from his heart, body and mind like
electricity, made her feel loved. Blue eyes that danced and sparkled out of love and passion for
the things he held dear to him, made her feel like she was the only one; soft eyes that felt as if
she was peering through a looking glass that pierced her own soul, and yet hard eyes which
blocked the pathway to his own soul, made her feel both vulnerable and mysterious at the same
time. A smile that lit up the room wherever he was, made her feel important. His velvet, yet
strong touch, made her feel invincible. Those kisses that left her begging for more, made her feel
beautiful and whole. That contagious spirit, made her feel like she had everything she ever
wanted. All their talks. All their laughs. All their I love yous. One grand, magical memory.
Unfathomable ache, trembling spirit, sleepless nights, questions, guiltone big, heart-
wrenching memory. If only she had done things differently, maybe things would have turned out
the way she thought they wouldor wanted to. Maybe she would still be holding his hand.
Maybe she would be over-using I love you, and showing him how much she loved him. Maybe
Moving on seemed impossible. The idea of loving someone else did not interest her. Why
would she allow another person to hold the keys to her shattered heart? She did not feel as if she
had the capacity to love someone the way she did him.
Little did she know that her heart would surprise her with the best ride of her life. By the grace of
God, she found someone to love unconditionally, and who loved her so deeply that it took her
breath away.
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Part I
Chapter 1:
Summer Begins
Ring ding. Ring ding. The last cling, clang of the school bell rang through the halls and
into our ears that June day. Normally, we relate that piercing sound to mean shuffling from one
long-endured class to another one. However, this particular bell sound has a different appeal,
probably the best one ever. We all grab our book bags, say our good-byes, and swarm out the
Hi, my name is Reagan. I have brown hair with blonde highlights, and blue eyes. I just
finished my junior year in high school. Going to school is not something I mind doing, but
considering that I am an introvert, making friends at school isnt always icing-on-the-cake for
me. I love to be around people, but Im also someone who likes to have a few close friends,
verses a crowd of friends. Therefore, I always look forward to summer break because I dont
have to worry about fitting-in as much. Besides, summer also mean no homework, no testing
anxiety, no grade pressure, etc. Summer break also means sunshine, warm weather, shorts &
summer dresses, long nights, breathtaking sunsets, pools, beaches, and all the other awesomeness
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I am super excited to begin my summer plans! First on the list is Myrtle Beach with my
best friend, and we are staying for a whole week. I definitely see lots of sandy & pruney toes and
fingers, sun tans (or in my case, sun burn), bikinis, summer dresses, Ron Jon Surf shop, crab
legs, laughs, and much needed girl time in my future. Next on the list is Chincoteague. Family,
beachn, good cookn, card games, many ice cream stops, subs from the best, and pier watching
are things Im looking forward to on that beach visit. Coming home to a house without a greeting
dog is going to be very depressing! Cleaning my room from top-to-bottom will feel like the end
of the world, but really it wont be that bad. Visiting my great-great Aunt for the first time this
summer will be filled with hugs, pinches on my cheeks (and butt cheeks), hours of talking, and
waking up to the sweet smell of biscuits. Hanging out with friends and spending time with
family will be fun and time well-spent. The missions trip at Veronica Coast with my youth
group will probably entail hard work that will leave me feeling all warm inside for helping those
in-need. Im sure there will also be fun times, as wellit always is on a youth group trip.
Finally, buying brand new school supplies will equally be exciting and dreading at the same
time.
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Chapter 2:
Butterflies
Veronica Coast exceeded my every expectation, and more. Not only was it rewarding to
serve children and feed the homeless by being the body of Christ, but it was also rewarding when
I was blessed with something elsethe butterflies. These were the type of butterflies that impel
you to hold tight to your insides so that they dont come flying out of you.
That whole week my attention was torn between two things the missions work, and a
handsome, blonde hair, blue eyed boy. Not only was I attracted by his outward appearances, but
he also had a way with those in-need, which was just as attractive to me, if not more. He had an
energy about him that was captivating, which made me want to be no more than three feet from
himanything else was too far. Up until that week, I had never felt anything like that towards
anyone else. Sure, Ive had many crushes, but it never went any further than that. This felt
different. Every night before falling asleep, I found myself praying and seeking the Lord with
With the youth trip coming to an end, I was still unsure with how to handle my feelings
do I hold on to them or do I let them go; were they real or was it just a week-long fling that
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Chapter 3:
Guess what! Apparently, I wasnt the only one with fuzzy feelings because on the bus
ride home, that same handsome, young boy felt the same way. In fact, we werent even home yet
That night, while lying in my bed, thinking about the past week and what went down on
the bus ride home, a sudden rush of feelings ran through me. Shock, confusion, awe, and pure
excitement tangled me. I laid there thinking, What did I do? Ive never dated anyone before,
and I dont know the first thing about being a girlfriend. Guys dont actually like me enough to
Due to how insecure and scared I was about this new adventure, I actually started to re-
consider the whole thing. However, after a few days I finally calmed down and decided to give it
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Chapter 4:
Senior Year
Shortly after the Veronica Coast missions trip, school started up again. Senior year. A
year full of memories & reminiscing, endings that were just beginnings, changes, and good-byes.
Last prom, last walk through the halls, last dance recital, a last for everything high school related.
Senior year was my best year yet. It was a year of pure happiness, and feeling like I was
the luckiest girl in the world. I was living in a dream come trueand it was all because of that
blue-eyed boy who asked me out on the back of a bus, not quite a year ago. Senior year was the
My stomach still had butterflies flying around every time I was with him. His eyes, smile,
spirit, and passion all became passions of mine. I came to love him more than anything or
You see, God should be the one, and only one that you love the most. He should be your
true love. However, admitting-ly, I let that blue-eyed boy come between me and my first true
love. I became more effectuated with him than I did with Godor anything else in my life, for
that matter. The boundary between boyfriend and husband started to fade for me. Marriage was
on my mind.
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Chapter 5:
My whole world stopped the day that we broke up. The dream that I was living in
suddenly evaporated. A shattered heart was left behind. Cries. Sleepless nights. Haunted
memories both good and bad. Questions. Guilt. Months of misery. Cloudy vision. Endless
knee-gripping prayers.
The only thing that kept me sane was God. His presence never left me. He reminded me
that He is the Lord of my life, and that He is for me, and not against me. That song called, No
Matter What by Kerrie Roberts became my life song. No matter what, God will be there. No
matter what, God cares. As it says in Romans 8:28, [a]nd we know that for those who love God,
all things work together for good, no matter what, God will provide.
Scooping me up and dusting me off, He wrapped His loving arms around me. He poured
His unfailing love on me over and over again through the countless readings of Psalms and
It is funny how when life throws you a curve ball, your relationship with God deepens.
Honestly, if it had not been for Gods interventions, self-less love, and constant care &
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Part II
Chapter 6:
Trying to erase the past that left an impression on you is like trying to scrape off that
yucky, squished piece of gum out of your shoe while using a tooth pickit takes forever, and
seems impossible.
I have to get out of here, Mom! Senior year is over, and everything I see, smell, and
I know Sweetie, but I just dont want you to get lost or hurt, or
I know Mom, but I just feel like I need to do this. Its not just because I want to escape
the memories, but I feel it in my spirit that Im supposed to go. I dont know, maybe theres a
Hmm, well, I can see you have already made up your mind. I dont like too well, but I
will do my best to be okay with it. Just please promise me that you will be careful, and call me as
I will do my best.
Good! Well, alright-y then, off you go. Here is a GPS if your phone dies and you need
it. And here is a Bible and some cash, in case you ever find yourself in a rut, and need some
assistance.
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In a weary smile, I thank my mom for everything.
Hugs and kisses for your MommaJust know that I will be praying for you constantly.
Thanks, Mom! I love you, and Ill miss you too. Oh, and just so you know, once I find a
place of my own, you are more than welcome to come visit anytime. This will not be my forever
Thats really good to know, I will definitely hold you to that and keep that in mind.
After Dad checks the hood & slams the hood shut, I hug my family once more. Saying
good-bye once more, I walk over to the drivers seat, smile back before getting into my ole
hatchback, and started my journey for the adventure that lies ahead.
Im not going to lie, it was extremely hard to leave, more than I thought it would. Tears
stung my eyes, but I knew with the open road ahead of me and God by my side, I was going to
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Chapter 7:
Reaching My Destination
Three in a half hours later, around 5:00 in the evening, looking out the window while
crossing the Chesapeake Bay Bridge, my eyes witnessed the most magnificent sunset they had
ever seen. It was as if it was designed just for me. The pinks, oranges, reds, and yellows flashed
the evening sky like lava. It truly was a beautiful sight. Rolling down my window, I took in a
nice, long sniff of the salty air (because rolling down your window to take in that heavenly scent
is a must, even if it is October and its 50 some degrees outside). As each nostril breathed in that
ocean air, a spark of freedom birthed inside me and suddenly I felt alive againand that was a
wonderful feeling.
It was pushing 6:00 by the time I filled up my gas tank and went in search for something
to eat. Finding a local grocery store, I used some of the money my mom gave me to buy an end-
of-the-day deli sandwich, a banana (my mom would have been proud), a snack size bag of Lays
Salt and Vinegar chips, and a water. After paying for my dinner, I went back to my car to go and
search for a place to rest my head for the night. Considering I didnt have enough money for a
real bed, I found what seemed like a safe spot in a church parking lot to stay for the night (no bad
guys will get me here, right? God has to protect me if I stay here). Gobbling my dinner, I sat
there planning out my next day in my head. Before I knew it, it was bedtime. Sleeping in my car
wasnt the most ideal experience, but there could be worse options, besides, things were going to
be different tomorrow. Tomorrow was going to be important. Grabbing my pillow and blankets,
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AGHHHHH!!! Jolting up with wide eyes and sweat rolling down my face, I was
relieved to know that I was just dreaming. Ugh! What a nightmare! (I sure hope this isnt how
the day is going to go!). After swallowing my heart back into place, pulling my hair back, and
taking a swig of my water, I checked the clock on the dashboard. (Oh shoot!) I should have been
long gone by now. Tossing my pillow and blanket in the back, pulling my seat up, I revved up
Finding the nearest restroom, I quickly grabbed what I needed, changed into my bathing
suit, went to one of those public sand rinser-offer things to use as my shower, and went back to
the bathroom to put on something presentable. Wearing a splash of make-up, my wet hair in a
bun, my most decent pair of blue jeans, a black button-down shirt (tucked in), a black belt around
my waist, and black heels, I said a quick heart-to-heart prayer, and headed off in search of a job.
So many stops, so many jobs, so many triesso many nos. This was NOT how I
Grrgll grrgll, at nearly 1:30pm, my body started making hungry rumbling noises. My
mind was so focused on finding a job that I didnt realize how hungry I was. Counting what was
left of my money, I strolled the boardwalk in search of some lunch. I stopped at a beach bar that
overlooked the water, called Sunset Sails. (Surely I can find something here for $20??). Finding
an empty table by the water, I sat down and anxiously waited for a server to come.
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A rather plump lady with brown curly hair, soft eyes, warm smile, cheerful charm, who
Hello, my name is Karen and I will be your waitress today. May I start you off with something
to drink, my dear?
Im ready actually Ill take the chicken salad sandwich on white bread with chips, please.
Okie dokie, one chicken salad sandwich with chips and a water coming right up.
Thanks!
While waiting on my food, I thought it would be a good idea to call my Mom to let her that I was
doing okay.
I know, it has been pretty busy since I got here, but Im doing okay.
Waiting for my lunch to come. Actually, I could use your prayers right now. I have tried and
tried to find a job somewhere, but either no one is hiring or they just dont want me! I really want
to find a job today to get start getting established here as soon as I can.
Of course Honey, I will definitely be praying. I know its tough, but youll get there. Youre
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Thanks, I just hope someone else would see that, too.
Okay Sweetie, let me know how things work out. I love you! Bye.
Bye.
As soon as the waitress sat my food down, I thanked her, and immediately picked up my
napkin, laid it on my lap and was about to indulge in my well-needed lunch when suddenly the
thought of saying a quick prayer came to mind. I thanked the Good Lord for my food, for all the
plans He has for me, for my Mom, and for His love. In closing I asked Him for guidance and
favor for someone to hire me, and preferably sooner rather than later.
Taking 20 minutes to finish my lunch, the waitress came over and asked if I needed
A job would be nicebut no thanks, Im good. Ill just take the check, please.
After a long pause, as if pondering about something, the waitress finally spoke up and said
In bewilderment, I sat there for half a second trying to process it all. I slightly laughed at
the idea to myself. Really? A beach bar? Who would have thought Id be working at a place like
this?? After doing a quick God check, to make sure that this is something that He would want,
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With a pleased look she said,
Splendid!
While pointing her finger to a table on the other side, she spoke up and said,
Nonsense! All you have to do is say, Hello, my name is so and so, and I will be your waitress,
Standing up, gulping down my nerves and praying my heart out as I walked over to their table, I
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Chapter 8
Established
No problamo!
It has been eight months already since my first day at Sunset Sail believe it or not. Things
have definitely fallen into place. Ocean Drive Beach will always have a special place in my
heart.
Now that May is ending and the dreadfully cold winter months are behind us, Ocean
Drive Beach is hopping with beach-goers. Beach towels, sand buckets, bathing suits, smell of
sunscreen, laughter, sound of kids crying because they got knocked down by the ocean all engulf
the Eastern shore. It is a happening place, for sure, and Sunset Sail is as busy as ever. It literally
feels like I am spinning in circles. Cocktails. Margaritas. Food orders. Clean tables. Sweep the
floor. Do this. Do that. However, busyness looks pretty good on that piece of paper that has
dollar signs on it. In fact, within a 10 minute bike ride from work I reside in a 1,000+ square
foot, open floor plan, duplex in a nice, quiet community due to the money I make at Sunset Sail,
I have learned so much since being here. Virginia Beach has definitely brought out a new
me. I mean, deep down, Im still me, but I have really stepped out of my comfort zone and tried
new things, things that I had never tried at home. Over the past eight months, I have learned how
to surf (this took a lot of practice, failing, and flailing, but now Im actually pretty good).
Singing karaoke in front of a crowd of people is now one of my favorite things to do (crazy,
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right? I still cant believe it. I remember the first time I sang on stage, I was shaking so bad
because of being sooo scared, now its a weekly thing at Sunset Sail). I have mastered the fixins
for any kind of drink offered on the menu (I could probably do it in my sleep). Thanks to the
chefs at Sunset Sail, I am now an expert in cooking anything that has to do with fish.
I also learned how to change a flat on my bike after not seeing that same pot hole that is
always there on my route to work and home due to being distracted by that flock of seagulls, and
making sure that they werent going to use my head as a facility. At work, I had an interesting
lesson in patience when an angry customer because wanted mayo on her burger and not on the
side (really?! All she had to do was take a knife and spread it on the burger, or ask for mayo to
Needless to say, with some bumps in the road along the way, I seem to be well
established now and that life is good here at Ocean Drive Beach.
Until..
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Part III
Chapter 9
June 9th changed my life forever. I remember that day all too well. I woke up refreshed
and well-rested. And, for some odd reason, I woke up feeling a little flirty that Wednesday.
Knowing that it was karaoke night, I zipped up my ocean-blue, tight at the top, flowy at the
bottom dress, put on my brand new golden sandals that matched the golden belt around my torso,
splashed my face with some make-up, and tied my hair into a flirtatious pony-tail.
Riding my bike to work, the sky had never seemed so blue before. The warm sun shined
on everyones smiling face as I rode by them. The breeze was perfect and felt amazing on my
It was my turn at the bar again, and as I was handing two strawberry daiquiris to a young
couple, a firm, yet gentle spoken voice asked for a water. Wondering why someone would ask a
bartender for a glass of water when they could easily get one from a table, I looked to see who
said it. Meeting his gaze, made me get all queasy inside. Sitting in front of me was the most
handsome-est (if thats even a word) man I had ever laid eyes on. That dirty-blonde hair that was
short in the back and fluffed in the front, those captivating blue eyes that could share his whole
story, but wanted to know yours instead, the short stubble on his face, those perfectly, inviting
lips, that gorgeous, contagious smile, the muscles that filled his white t-shirt and khaki shorts
Shaking my head back to reality, I poured him a glass of water and handed it to him, and
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You know you can order this from a table, right?
I know, but that wouldnt give me an excuse to come over here and talk to a pretty woman like
yourself.
Blushing and embarrassed, I went about back to doing my job. When I gave him another glass of
Reagan
By 5:00pm, more people started piling in, karaoke was about to start. While setting up the
stage, mics, sound system, and lights, I noticed Braden and I were constantly aware of each
other. As karaoke night carried on, Braden never left. At one point, Chef Joe hollered out and
said,
Reagans turn!
Everyone cheers and urges me to go next. Usually I am very excited to sing my heart out,
but this night was different. Braden was there, and he was going to hear me sing for the first
time. The blood in my veins were pumping, and so was my heart, so much so that I thought
everyone was going to hear it through the mic. Swallowing my nerves, I sang, Brighter Than
the Sun by Colbie Cillat (I thought it would fit the corky beach spirit that was in the air). When
I was done, I reluctantly went back to the counter. Smiling that corky smile, in the same
sentence, Braden told me how I was a good singer, and then asked what time I got off. I told him,
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6 oclock, but I usually stay to watch the other performers.
6:00pm finally rolled around. Braden led me over to a table for two near the water, away
from the crowd, but also one that had a great view of the stage. We ordered drinks, and as if we
had known each other for a really long time, we started sharing conversation after conversation.
There was not a topic in the world that we didnt seem to cover. One of the conversations that
came up was where each other was from. When I told him I was from a one stoplight town,
called Merryville, VA, he just stared at me for what felt like the longest minute ever. Finally, out
Dead serious.
After that, we knew we were in for a long night of stories from our past, present, and
future. That June night easily became my absolute favorite day at Ocean Drive Beach since the
day I arrived.
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Chapter 10
Falling in LoveFast
From that moment on, every day was filled with endless talks & laughs, with passion &
compassion, and with love in our hearts. Every day was an adventure. Every day, we fell more
On Wednesday, August 25th, at 9:30pm, after singing, God Blessed the Broken Road
by Rascal Flats at karaoke night, Braden walked into the middle of the dance floor, with the mic
still in his hand. He started talking about how he met a girl almost 2 months ago, and how she
changed his life. He went on about how much she meant to him, and how much he loved her. At
the end of his speech, he called my name, and beckoned me out on the dance floor. Reluctantly, I
went to him. After a few moments of telling me how much he loved me, never losing eye
contact, he got down on one knee, pulled out a beautiful diamond ring with blue topaz gems on
YES!
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Chapter 11
Getting married meant that I had to pack up my things, say my good-byes, and move
back home with my fianc. Since coincidently we were from the same area, we wanted to get
Friday, March 11th, at 5:00pm, Braden and I exchanged our vows, the kiss, our families,
and became husband and wife. We danced the night away at our reception, and absorbed all of
the love being shared on that spectacular night. Our Honeymoon was well-spent in the Bahamas.
We came back sun-kissed, re-charged, and ready to start our life together as a married couple.
Its funny, deep down, somehow, I always had a feeling that something was going to
bring me back home before I brought myself back home, but who would have thought that it
Epilogue
God has truly blessed both of us with a strong, passionate, loving marriage. We may not
be perfect all the time, but the marriage that God ordained between us is perfect. As life goes on,
so does our love for each other. It grows more and more every day. Just when we thought we
couldnt possibly love each other morewe find a way to fall in-love all over again.
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