COM 115.8 (Asian Cinema) Fr. Nicasio Cruz, SJ Reflection #3 After watching all movies from Japan, China, Taiwan, and South Korea, I realized that there are very similar aspects in all of their cultures. An example would be how respect and honor is very important for an individual living in each of the countries. These cultures put respect and their dignity with utmost importance hence, they seem to all work towards their respective goals, whether it would be playing the violin, learning how to cook, or finding their one true love. Also, embedded in their norms are certain societal roles in which individuals are expected of certain actions stemming from their behavior and life decisions. One example would be of Chinese/Taiwanese children wherein they are expected to be gifted in the musical arts or academics. Another would be for Korean men who are expected to join the military at a certain age as it is mandated by Korean law. Same goes for the Japanese where certain jobs and endavours such as being a nokan and dancing with other women would be looked down upon. With regards to parent-children and husband-wife relationships, there is a similarity in which as said above, there are certain roles that are need to be met as the norms suggest. In which, a child usually follows the steps of the parent in terms of their aspirations. In the same manner, in the traditional sense, the wife usually is submissive to the husband implying gender inequality. In the movie The Classic, it can be implied that there was no gender equality nor democratic reforms in the past generations but as the movie jumps to the present, it can be seen that all of these have been acquired, having a more liberal world. Similarly in the other movies featuring traditional practices, genders have specific roles to fulfill given that these were set in a time where everything is made conventional. This can be applied to parent-child relationships in most of the movies where the parent is actively participating in their children's lives. Given this, I am glad to say that I am a Filipino because it is not imbibed in Philippine culture certain expectations and roles to be fulfilled. For example, in South Korea, men are required to join the military whereas in the Philippines, it is not. In Japan and many other Asian countries, failure seems to not be an option in whatever aspect you look at. This can cause stress and mental health problems which is the reason why the suicide rate is high for these countries due to immense pressure and stress. Meanwhile in the Philippines, it is very laid-back where you can still succeed without the unnecessary pressure of society. Even until now, some of these Asian countries still have certain norms which impose different roles and expectations which I believe is not needed to live a happy and successful life which is why being in the Philippines as a Filipino is very rewarding and I'm grateful for it. If I were to choose, I would want to be a Korean but a Korean in modern times. The reason for this is I really like their culture and I am a fan of their pop culture. Also, I know basic Korean grammar and vocabulary since I studied it for my foreign language class in Ateneo. Aside from this, Koreans tend to be loving of one another and that they are very caring with their relationships, whether with their families, friends, or romantic relationships. Putting aside the Korean military service, it could be seen as a patriotic way for supporting the country which is not bad at all.