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Joseph Bunny
English 115
6 October 2017
The internet is like alcohol in a way. If you want to be a loner, you can be more alone. If
you want to connect, it makes it easier to connect. The vast internet has been a tool and a weapon
throughout the years it has been around. It could make day to day living much easier, like when
your phone reminds you you have a doctors appointment at three the next day. On the other hand
technology can totally ruin your day, like when your car refuses to start and you need to drive to
school to take your final. Technology is a good servant but a bad master says American writer
Gretchen Rubin. Technology has consequences that can be positive or negative depending on
how we use it. Due to the choices people have already made, we have changes in the way we act
with other people. Technology has affected our identity negatively by changing the way we
interact face to face, commit crimes and even date because it removes the much of the emotional
The internet has impacted the way we do things in real life. It has lead to weaker social
interactions because the internet has reduced the need to leave the home. Due to the internet,
people have been encouraged to stay at home because everything that needed to be done outside
the home are now accessible in the home. Things such as work, friendships, romantic relations,
and even banking. This is stopping us from having social interactions and weakening our real life
interactions.
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smartphones on his classroom. After coming to a conclusion he stated, the freedom of choice
and control that students associate with their use of smartphonesshapes the way in which they
experience and respond to live theatre (Richardson, 2014). He also later states that the
smartphones even affect the way we watch theatre due to the temptation to check our phones
during a performance. He believes that smartphones have affected the way the students acted in
plays. I believe this is due to a separation from reality. It is easy to make some believe something
in an edited video with special effects and music production but that same impact from a video
must be done through a play. The play must encompass the emotion that you can't get from
looking at a TV screen. Another studied backed up Richardson's study when it was found that
Facebook users reported to have lower mean GPA averages and reported spending fewer hours
per week studying on average than Facebook nonusers. The internet is affecting even things like
school work. The internet is a huge distractor that sucks our time away from us. If we are
continuously distracted by something it will stop us from taking in reality. Our responsibilities
seem to just fade away, like they just don't exist. This affects our identity negatively because
when our minds detach from reality, we begin to act and think differently than we would if we
Another impact that has changed the way we live is the increase of cyber crimes.
According to the Bureau of Justice, In 2005, among 7,818 businesses: 67% detected at least one
cybercrime, nearly 60% detected one or more types of cyber attack, 11% detected cyber theft,
24% detected other computer security incidents, most businesses did not report cyber attacks to
law enforcement authorities. The amount of businesses that have experienced cyber crimes is
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overwhelming. The internet has created new ways to steal and I am only lead to believe that that
has gone up since 2005 due to the increasing skill that hackers have. People you talk to willingly
share that they download music illegally and they download movies in the same manner. This
not only harms the industry they are stealing from but also removes the trust that the government
has with consumers. People's information have been leaked leading to identity theft. The internet
makes it easier to access thing like social security information and addresses which thus lowers
the security and privacy for the user. People have hacked into other countries data bases, stealing
information, making the internet a possible spark to a cyber war. For example, if the United
States hack Russia, instead of Russia fighting back with weapons, all they need to do is hack us
back. It will become a continues cycle of hacking each other till one surrenders. Now going back
to the statistics, it also shows that businesses arent reporting these crimes. Because cyber attacks
are not face to face, it removes the urgency that is caused by stealing in real life. During a cyber
attack, there isn't someone putting a gun to your head saying, put the money in the bag. It
happens very suddenly and may not even become apparent till inventory is done or someone
finds out the money is missing. Because of this lack of urgency, people don't report them to law
enforcement. We need to feel urgency to ensure our safety and our businesses safety. This affects
our identity negatively because it changes the way we feel attacks in real life. It lowers our
confidence online and lowers our trust with people. Meeting people online is scary for some
because who know who is going to take your money or your information.
Another thing that has been affected by the internet is romantic relationships and dating.
This is something that has been greatly changed because of the internet. Some statistics show
that, one-third of people who have used online dating have never actually gone on a date with
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someone they met on these sites. The use of dating sites have increased the amount of dates we
go on but have lowered the amount of successful dates that occur. Now that it is so easy to meet
people, we have lost the value of meeting someone new. Cheating also has gone up because it is
so easy to meet different people and fall in love. I am not against meeting new people but
when it affects the the value of meeting someone new, it takes away the trust we have with
others. We have to go into situations and act or present ourselves differently because we never
know when someone may come into your partner's life and remove the love between the two.
Another reason why online dating affects our identities is that people who use dating sites
only bring up the good things about them. For example, let's say a 24 year old girl can play the
piano really well, she will tend to put that on her page but she wont write that she didn't
graduate college. This could also bring out lying about yourself. I could go on a dating website
and say all the right things to get a date with someone else but lying about myself in the process.
This is why dates are so unsuccessful. People change who they really are for what they want to
be. Wanting to be a better person is great but when you lie to others and lie to yourself, thats
when it is harmful and should not be tolerated. Now going to the video that is under this
document. He talks about how apps like Tinder effect the self-esteem of men. When you know
some people are judging you quickly by appearance it's hard not to think that maybe you don't
look good enough and studies show that men experience this more than women. When someone
isn't getting a lot of matches it's obvious that people don't really like you so this does hurt.
Especially with men having a much higher suicide rate than women this is somewhat correlates
to their self esteem. Now that online dating is so prominent with people in this generation, it may
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be affecting the men in our generation and the more that men do online dating the suicide rate
Now that we see how people change because of the internet we can see how it affect the
way they have to handle themselves. Since we are encouraged in today age to stay home we are
more independent to people but also more dependant to technology. Now that crimes are easier
to do because of detachment from reality it changes the way people have to trust each other or
maybe even how they see themselves. People have to also worry about the way they look when
meeting other people on dating website, hiding parts of their life they dont like and lowering
their self esteem. All in all, the internet is a wonderful tool until we use it against each other and
that is change who we are. Its negatively changing who we are as friends, spouses, parents and
most of all it is changing who we are to ourselves. Until we use technology to change ourselves
to be better people, we will continuously fall on our swords and use it for harm.
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Works Cited
2017, www.bjs.gov/index.cfm?ty=tp&tid=41.
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Richardson, J. (2014). Powerful devices: How teens smartphones disrupt power in the theatre,
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Smith, Aaron, and Monica Anderson. 5 Facts about Online Dating. Pew Research Center, 29