You are on page 1of 15

Journal of Psychotherapy Integration © 2014 American Psychological Association

2014, Vol. 24, No. 3, 208 –222 1053-0479/14/$12.00 http://dx.doi.org/10.1037/a0037513

Unmet Needs and Maladaptive Modes:


A New Way to Approach Longer-Term Problems

Catherine M. Flanagan
New York, New York

Flanagan (2010) proposed an approach to longer-term problems that targets core


psychological needs. Unmet needs were causally linked to early maladaptive schemas
and faulty modes of coping. Here a novel approach to the treatment of maladaptive
This article is intended solely for the personal use of the individual user and is not to be disseminated broadly.

modes is described. It begins with a matrix of 8 modes, as they occur in healthy


This document is copyrighted by the American Psychological Association or one of its allied publishers.

individuals. These distinct patterns are claimed to represent a basic inventory of coping
strategies that equip individuals to adapt and satisfy ongoing needs. A matrix of the
same modes is then introduced as they occur maladaptively. This matrix specifies
components of the different modes, potentially facilitating interventions that address
both mode structure and content, and is illustrated in a case study. I also examine the
concept of mode as used in schema therapy, and acknowledge similar constructs in
other schools of psychotherapy.

Keywords: matrix, modes, needs, schemas, self

In Flanagan (2010) the potential of a needs- how they operate in everyday life, a primary
based approach to psychotherapy was discussed focus of the current article.1
with specific emphasis on applications in cog- Here, using the same model of needs as a
nitive and schema therapies. It was proposed point of departure, I begin by examining the
that humans are motivated to fulfill at least six short history of modes in cognitive psychother-
basic needs—for desirability, connection, au- apy (CBT) and schema therapy (ST), suggesting
tonomy, stability, change, and self-comprehen- improvements in certain theoretical and clinical
sion. Identification of these needs was based aspects of the mode concept as currently used in
on extended clinical observations, augmented ST. I then compare the mode concept to similar
by ethological research, and the model was constructs in research and clinical literatures
compared to other listings of needs (Baumeis- and identify recent findings in the cognitive
ter & Leary, 1995; Deci & Ryan, 1985; Ep- sciences that illustrate proposed mechanisms of
stein, 1991; Heine, Proulx, & Vohs, 2006; modes.
Young, Klosko, & Weishaar, 2003). None of In Flanagan (2010) a needs-based account
the proposed needs was claimed to be the that attempted to identify links between unmet
most basic or significant, nor were needs needs, early maladaptive schemas (EMSs), and
viewed as hierarchically organized. However, maladaptive modes was offered. The goal was
it was suggested that trade-offs and conflicts to develop a more streamlined approach to the
occur within three pairs of needs (connection-
autonomy, stability-change, and desirability-
self-comprehension). It was also proposed that 1
Before proceeding it may be helpful to say something
needs are expressed through a repertoire of cop- about needs as components of a broader system of human
ing strategies, or modes. Little was said, how- motivations. As a heavily social species, humans are
ever, about the properties of these modes or equipped with biological mechanisms that are specialized
for social operations, and are predisposed to use those
mechanisms strategically (Locke & Flanagan, 2013, in sub-
mission). Psychological needs are thus seen as providing the
incentive to activate coping modes that, if exercised com-
Catherine M. Flanagan, Private Practice in Psychother- petently, will indirectly help individuals to meet biological
apy, New York, New York. goals and solve a variety of other environmental problems.
Correspondence concerning this article should be ad- Flexibility in the implementation of these modes is essential
dressed to Catherine M. Flanagan, 331 E. 71st Street, Suite for healthy functioning (see Flanagan, 2010 for a listing of
1C, New York, NY 10021. E-mail: multiself@aol.com these proposed needs).

208
UNMET NEEDS AND MALADAPTIVE MODES 209

treatment of longer-term problems, formalizing gan, 2010; Young, Klosko, & Weishaar, 2003).
a long-held interest in the potential significance Later, Young also adopted the mode concept,
of modes (Flanagan, 1998). I expand on this first to explain borderline personality disorder
topic here, characterizing modes as strategies (BPD), then to account for narcissistic person-
intended to meet core needs and adapt to shift- ality disorder (NPD; Young & Flanagan, 1998).
ing environmental demands. Using a matrix as a He offered two definitions of modes: (a) “those
heuristic, adaptive and maladaptive versions of schemas or schema operations—adaptive or
eight modes are discussed. It is hoped that the maladaptive—that are currently active for an
matrix, as a new way of conceptualizing modes individual,” and (b) “a facet of the self involv-
and examining their internal constituents, will ing specific schemas or schema operations that
This article is intended solely for the personal use of the individual user and is not to be disseminated broadly.

help enhance features of treatment that address has not been fully integrated with other facets”
This document is copyrighted by the American Psychological Association or one of its allied publishers.

both mode structure and content. A case exam- (Young et al., 2003, pp. 37, 40).
ple illustrates how these ideas can be integrated The introduction of the mode construct was
in practice and how perceived challenges in the intended to produce a simplification of the ST
ST model might be resolved. model and an elaboration of its treatment op-
Many of the issues addressed here have been tions. The concept has been greatly expanded in
discussed by theorists from other orientations recent years with the labeling of Child Modes,
using the language associated with those per- Parent Modes, and Coping modes (the latter
spectives (e.g., Westen, Gabbard, & Ortigo, bearing some similarity to modes as discussed
2008). Thus, much of what I will propose is here). It has also proven to be extremely clini-
relevant to the wider goals of integration and cally effective (Giesen-Bloo et al., 2006). How-
unification in psychotherapy and clinical sci- ever, there are concerns.
ence (Magnavita, 2008; Mayer, 2005; Pincus, The first concern relates to a shift in focus
2010; Wolfe, 2008). Many other ideas are new from individual EMSs to schema modes and a
and, although the speculations are mostly con- greater emphasis on early attachments. With the
sistent with recent trends and findings in cogni- increasing incorporation of attachment and ob-
tive science and psychotherapy, each specula- ject relations theories (Bowlby, 1980; Sandler
tion ultimately must be empirically verified. & Rosenblatt, 1962) and the related endeavor to
identify Child and Parent modes, attention has
The Concept of Mode in Cognitive and been diverted from the broader agenda of unmet
Schema Therapies needs in general—the original goal of ST. Be-
cause schema modes, like EMSs, result from the
The first specific reference to modes in CBT frustration of basic needs, it is surprising that
came in the 1990s. In explaining the formation Young has not attempted to specify connections
of the personality disorders (PDs), Beck sug- between particular unmet needs and either
gested that each disorder is associated with cer- EMSs or modes. While acknowledging the piv-
tain core beliefs and strategies, giving them otal importance of early attachments, the model
distinctive profiles (Beck, Freeman, & Associ- proposed here emphasizes a range of needs.
ates, 1990; see also Beck, 2005). Later, recog- The clinical literature, moreover, is replete with
nizing the limitations of this model, he devel- evidence concerning the distinct roles of many
oped a theory of modes, defining them as an needs, including self-esteem and self-enhance-
“integrated network of cognitive, affective, mo- ment (Beck, 1983; Gilbert & Irons, 2005), a
tivational and behavioral components” or “sub- stable base and consistent sense of self (Epstein,
organizations of personality” (Beck, 1996, p. 2). 1991), and autonomy and competence (Blatt,
In parallel with Beck, Young (1990) devel- Shahar, & Zuroff, 2001; Deci & Ryan, 1985).
oped ST based on the assumption that chroni- A second concern relates to the ever-
cally unmet needs in childhood result in EMSs, expanding inventory of proposed modes. In the
hypersensitivities to certain classes of experi- first version of the schema mode model, Young
ence, for example, abandonment, deprivation, et al. (2003) defined 10 different schema modes.
or subjugation. EMSs are maintained through Recently others have proposed as many as 22
avoidance, overcompensation and maintenance, and “it is thought that clinicians and researchers
strategies that ultimately become self-defeating will continue to ‘invite’ more modes because
(see Bricker, Young, & Flanagan, 1993; Flana- they feel these modes are required to understand
210 FLANAGAN

specific types of personalities” (Lobbestael, van as suborganizations of personality, and as parts


Vreeswijk, & van Arntz, 2007, p. 82). As the of the self. As indicated, several theorists have
complexities of this endeavor have become also shifted their focus from coping strategies to
more apparent, however, questions are being what they view as the broader concept of
raised as to the ultimate goal of mode concep- modes.
tualization, that is, to continue with efforts to Here coping strategies and modes will be
describe the modes of all the PDs or to provide treated equivalently. Modes are defined as adap-
a limited set of basic modes to understand PDs tive strategies for satisfying needs, having be-
in more general terms (Lobbestael et al., 2007; havioral, cognitive, and affective components.
Van Genderen, Rijkeboer, & Arntz, 2012). The In optimal circumstances, they are likely to fa-
This article is intended solely for the personal use of the individual user and is not to be disseminated broadly.

latter objective seems more in keeping with the cilitate environmental adaptations and need sat-
This document is copyrighted by the American Psychological Association or one of its allied publishers.

original goal of simplification. The matrix is isfaction. I will propose that habitual modes can
expected to provide such a framework for both feel like parts of the self, especially where mal-
identifying, and differentiating between, Cop- adaptive forms of early survival strategies per-
ing modes. These modes could then be linked to sist into adulthood. The goal of a needs-based
specific unmet needs and EMSs, and to partic- therapy is to help clients meet their core needs
ular Child and Parent modes, ultimately en- by developing modes that are flexible and ef-
abling construction of needs-based profiles for fective. As dysfunctional modes become more
the different personality disorders and a more functional, clients can learn to draw on a larger
integrated model. menu of strategies and meet a wider range of
A third concern relates to the role of implicit needs.
processes in everyday life and in pathology (see
Proposed Mechanisms of Modes). If we are to
Modes Related Constructs and the
understand the microprocesses inherent in the
mode shifts we are endeavoring to address and Proposed Mechanisms of Modes
modify (Westen et al., 2008), schema therapists Below I explore constructs in the research
will need to keep abreast of advances in cogni- and clinical literatures that share features with
tive science. The matrix to be presented offers modes and I identify basic issues and recent
insights into the occurrence and function of findings in cognitive science that support the
rapid mode “flips.” In contrast with recent state- type of modes proposed here.
ments: “Normally, patients have only one cop-
ing style” (Van Genderen et al., 2012, p. 32), Research and Clinical Literatures
and cognitions, emotions, and behaviors “are so
consistent with each other that they change syn- 1. Research literature. There is an exten-
chronically” (Lobbestael et al., 2007, p. 82), sive literature on coping and coping styles but
these three components can and do change in- theorists differ in their use of these terms. Some
dependently of one another. Moreover, it is pre- refer to “coping strategies” as the ways people
cisely the flexible interplay of elements that deal with change under normal conditions (Laz-
explains the versatility and diversity of modes, arus & Folkman, 1984), others emphasize
and allows for the targeted interventions to be adaptability in conditions of pressure or change
described (also see Baumeister, Bratlavsky, (Latack & Havlovic, 1992). Some stress the role
Finkenauer, & Vohs, 2001; Liotti & Gilbert, of trait-like aspects of coping (Endler, Parker, &
2011). Butcher, 1993) whereas others focus on state or
Modes and mode-related constructs are also situational qualities (Ouimette, Finney, &
visible in the work of other CBT theoreticians, Moos, 1999). Modes are seen here as adaptive
including Wells’s metacognitive therapy strategies that operate as states when deployed
(Wells, 2000), Teasdale’s “mind in place” (Te- as momentary adaptations but if habitualized
asdale’s, 1997), and Gilbert’s “social mentali- can come to feel more like traits. They are not
ties” (Gilbert, 2005); also his compassionate simply recruited in stressful or novel situations
mind therapy where three distinct modes of but are an integral component of daily life and,
affect regulation are described (Gilbert, 2010). as such, must be flexible. Paradoxically, clients
In summary, modes have been defined in purely with longer-term problems tend to show more
cognitive terms, in relation to affect regulation, consistency in their mode profiles and usage
UNMET NEEDS AND MALADAPTIVE MODES 211

than healthier people whose responses are gies and distinct responses to treatment (Blatt et
adaptable and, therefore, diverse. al., 2001). The current model is germane to a
The interpersonal circumplex (IPC) model related endeavor that is, differentiating between
predicts that people will behave with relative clients for whom interventions that focus on
consistency, at least with regard to agency and mode content, or those that target mode struc-
communion (Locke, 2011). By contrast, in the ture, may be most effective. This point is illus-
model proposed here modes are dynamic action trated in the case study.
possibilities, defined by six competing needs Significant here also is recent work reflecting
that include both agency (autonomy) and com- an increased attention to microprocesses and a
munion (connection; Flanagan, 2010). More- need for greater precision in describing how
This article is intended solely for the personal use of the individual user and is not to be disseminated broadly.

over, although modes can become habitual, they psychological events transpire (see Westen et
This document is copyrighted by the American Psychological Association or one of its allied publishers.

are not viewed as global predispositions. The al., 2008). Examples include efforts to opera-
IPC has recently been incorporated into a dy- tionalize psychoanalytic and other concepts
namic control model that allows for nuanced about mental states and processes, and develop
analysis of real time interpersonal exchanges an empirically derived taxonomy for personal-
(Henriques, 2011). The motive to acquire social ity diagnoses (Westen, Shedler, Bradley, &
influence is seen as central, however, in contrast deFife, 2012; also Luyten & Blatt, 2011).
with the view espoused here that emphasizes the In other areas of contemporary psychother-
role of a range of needs (see Roche, Pincus, apy one also finds various approaches to the
Conroy, Hyde, & Ram, 2013, for discussion of description and modification of mode-like con-
the cognitive-affective processing system and structs such as selves, parts, facets, energy pat-
interpersonal theory). terns, subpersonalities, ego states, and modes
2. Clinical literature. A number of mode- (Kellogg, 2004; Schwartz, 1995; Stone &
related constructs also appear in the broader Stone, 1989; Watkins & Watkins, 1997). All of
clinical literatures. Jung postulated that humans these approaches embrace a multifaceted view
inherit specific predispositions for thoughts, of the self and personality, as does the model
feelings and actions, calling these innate coping proposed here.
systems archetypes (Jung, 1970). Moreover,
since Ainsworth (1969); Bowlby (1969), and Proposed Mechanisms of Modes
Sandler and Rosenblatt (1962), many have tried
to explain how early attachment experiences In recent years, awareness has increased in
can result in distinctive cognitive-affective rep- the role of implicit trade-offs in maintaining
resentations of the self and others, and in en- harmony between self and environment. Here I
during patterns of relating and coping (Del Giu- identify basic issues and recent findings in the
dice, 2009). cognitive sciences that illustrate the type of
Modern psychodynamic theory continues to modes proposed here.
emphasize the importance of competing moti- 1. Implicit processes and the everyday
vations and unconscious processes and, increas- unconscious. It is now recognized that a great
ingly also, core elements of attachment and deal of information processing occurs automat-
object relations theory (Westen et al., 2008). ically and unconsciously (Bargh & Chartrand,
For example, Blatt and colleagues have inves- 1999; Kahneman, 2012), limiting our ability to
tigated several dimensions of object relations exercise conscious control (Bongers, Dijkster-
and developed new procedures to assess aspects huis, & Spears, 2010). Two fundamental modes
of mental representations (Blatt, Auerbach, & of processing have been identified: the first is
Levy, 1997). Using constructs similar to Beck’s analytical and rational (or propositional), the
dimensions of sociotropy and autonomy (Beck, second intuitive and experiential (or implica-
1983), another study concluded that because we tional; Kihlstrom, 1999).
need to establish warm, stable interpersonal re- Traditional dual-process models of cognition
lations and also a positive, clearly defined sense characterize the unconscious as relatively crude
of self, an overemphasis on either one can lead and inaccessible. However, covert learning can
to an anaclitic-dependent or to an introjective- produce highly organized systems of tacit rules
self-critical personality organization, and pre- and assumptions. They are believed to hold
dispose individuals to specific psychopatholo- evolutionary primacy over explicit learning but
212 FLANAGAN

are less manipulable (Kihlstrom, 2008). The volve the operations of conscious and uncon-
flexible nature of implicit processes also sug- scious processes, to be context sensitive, to
gests that many of the complex activities in- serve immediate focal goals and ongoing back-
volved in goal striving and decision-making are ground needs, and to span a continuum from
carried out unconsciously (Huang & Bargh, adaptive to maladaptive.
2014). In other words, people need not be aware
of their goals to engage in goal-oriented behav- The Matrix and the Eight Modes
ior. The same is true for the effects of people’s
attitudes about themselves and others and on- The matrix I will present begins with a basic
going social cognitions and behaviors (see assumption, shared by others, that behavior,
This article is intended solely for the personal use of the individual user and is not to be disseminated broadly.

Gawronski & Payne, 2010; Lieberman, 2000, cognition, and emotion are primary aspects of
This document is copyrighted by the American Psychological Association or one of its allied publishers.

and Strack & Deutsch, 2004). Thus, if healthy our functioning (e.g., Gilbert, 2005; Liotti &
individuals automatically switch back and forth Gilbert, 2011; Lobbestael et al., 2007) and, fur-
between modes then the unconscious mind must thermore, that the range of activation in each of
allow for such flexibility without signaling that these three areas can span a continuum from
such operations are underway. “high” to “low.” Combining these two sets of
2. The mind in context: Goals, triggers, variables creates a three-by-two matrix of eight
and trade-offs. Recent evidence indicates mutually exclusive and collectively exhaustive
that humans have several motivational systems permutations. In other words, the eight patterns
that can be situationally activated, and there is a (or profiles) to be offered here are derived from
continual interplay between these systems and combinations of behavior, cognition, and emo-
ongoing appraisals of environmental threats and tion at two levels of activation.
opportunities (Neuberg, Kenrick, Maner, & The idea of a matrix of modes came together
Schaller, 2004; Van Vugt & Spisak, 2008). for me while reviewing my clinical notes. I had
Along with feelings, motivational systems in- observed that, despite some variability, there
clude specific problem-solving tools designed were consistent patterns in my clients’ ways of
to manage the “trade-offs” involved in pursuing coping and managing their lives. Some seemed
one goal or agenda over another (Gangestad & to rely almost exclusively on their thinking
Simpson, 2000). According to Kenrick and his while others frequently “lost it” emotionally
colleagues, the degree to which needs set adap- and only afterward stopped to think about their
tive responses in motion “must be calibrated to actions or reactions. Still others spent a lot of
specific threats and opportunities in the imme- time worrying but were paralyzed when it came
diate ecological context” (Kenrick, Griskevi- to taking action. It was in contemplating these
cius, Neuberg, & Schaller, 2010, p. 302; also differences in style and content that I began to
see Bargh & Morsella, 2008; Mesquita, Feld- envision a matrix with as many as eight possible
man, & Smith, 2010). It is unlikely that this configurations.
would be adaptive if, in evolutionary history, I also anticipated implications of this per-
this calibration had to be done consciously. Fur- spective for my therapy practice. Even though
thermore, temporary activation of a single spe- certain ingredients seemed to dominate in dif-
cific motive may influence a range of thoughts ferent modes, the modes themselves operated as
and behaviors that appear to be functionally “composites.” Consequently, a change in any
linked. Life-history models assume that devel- one component would likely impact the mode
opment itself involves trade-offs in the alloca- as a whole. In other words, the effects of a
tion of resources (Bogin, 2001). It follows that behavioral, or cognitive, or emotion-focused in-
there are likely to be important individual dif- tervention would not take place in isolation and
ferences in motivational priorities, including this, I supposed, might be significant in address-
needs, and in the coping modes that have ing the problem of automaticity in how these
emerged from endogenous factors and forma- modes seemed to operate.
tive developmental experiences. Finally, because I was aware that clients with
In summary, distinctions have been made be- BPD or NPD display limited, yet characteristic,
tween the concept of mode as used in CBT and mode profiles (Young & Flanagan, 1998;
ST, and similar constructs in the research and Young et al., 2003) and the patterns displayed
clinical literatures. Modes are understood to in- by healthier clients also showed clear consisten-
UNMET NEEDS AND MALADAPTIVE MODES 213

cies, it seemed likely that similar patterns might 2. Caretaker (XXO): Caretakers are mentally
also be present in normally adjusted individuals. and physically “on,” and focused on meet-
On this reasoning, the configurations presenting ing the needs of others. Connection is
clinically could be construed as exaggerations prioritized and the person’s own needs
of a basic set, or repertoire, of coping strategies. and feelings come second to those of oth-
In the case of my clients, these modes backfired ers.
because they were too intense or extreme, and 3. Free Spirit (XOX): The Free Spirit ac-
thus interfered with their ability to meet their tively pursues goals, and reacts in the
needs. I came to suspect, however, that the same spirit of the moment. This is a “feel good,”
suite of modes might be utilized— but more autonomous mode. Thinking is ‘off’ to the
This article is intended solely for the personal use of the individual user and is not to be disseminated broadly.

effectively and therefore less obviously— by all extent that there is little forethought or
This document is copyrighted by the American Psychological Association or one of its allied publishers.

people. self-reflection.
4. Deliberator (OXX): Deliberators thought-
Matrix of Adaptive Modes fully weigh up the possible costs and ben-
efits of different courses of action until a
It is easier to appreciate the variety of modes
level of certainty is reached. Daydreams
and their permutations when displayed in the
and fantasies are entertained for possible
form of a grid or matrix, after Jung (1970) and
action at a later stage.
Kelly (1955). This format appears in Table 1,
5. Doer (XOO): This mode is defined by
the Matrix of Adaptive Modes.
action and a single-minded focus on get-
As can be seen in the Table, the Matrix of
ting a job done or project finished. Doers
Adaptive Modes consists of a series of columns
do not think beyond the task at hand. Little
and rows. The columns represent the “ingredi-
attention is paid to feelings or needs. This
ents” of modes— behaviors (Column 1),
mode is neither connection-oriented nor
thoughts (Column 2), and feelings (Column 3).
reflective.
The rows are the different possible combina-
6. Strategizer (OXO): Here the pros and cons
tions of these three ingredients in active (X),
of various strategies are carefully and dis-
and passive (O) form. As explained, each row
passionately considered. Unlike the Delib-
has been given a label, for example, Leader and
erator mode, there is little involvement of
Caretaker, to represent the primary flavor and
feelings. Action is suspended until it is
function of the mode in question. Examining
considered appropriate or timely.
each pattern:
7. Emoter (OOX): The Emoter openly ex-
1. Leader (XXX): Behavior, thinking and presses his or her feelings, either to get
feelings are all “active.” The Leader is in urgent needs met or because the context
control, thinking constructively, and elicits them. Problem-focused thinking
openly expressing feelings. Leaders are in and action are secondary to the immediacy
touch with both their own needs and the of affect.
needs of others. 8. Follower (OOO): This is a “low key”
mode, defined by passivity, and little emo-
tional or cognitive activation. The Fol-
Table 1 lower is the opposite of the Leader, con-
Matrix of Adaptive Modes tent to hand over control. This mode may
Behaviors Thoughts Feelings also represent a period of “down time” or
rest.
1. Leader X X X
2. Caretaker X X O Several points need to be made here. First it
3. Free Spirit X O X
4. Deliberator O X X
should be noted that labels such as Leader or
5. Doer X O O Caretaker are terms of convenience, meant only
6. Strategizer O X O to capture the primary flavor of the different
7. Emoter O O X modes, which could as easily been described in
8. Follower O O O terms of action verbs, for example, caretaking,
Note. Rows represent different combinations of behaviors, leading. Even though modes may come to feel
thoughts, and feelings in active (X), and passive (O) forms. like traits, as suggested earlier, they are seen
214 FLANAGAN

primarily as roles, or ways of operating, which back or to redouble their efforts? As mentioned
become habitual due, mainly, to the prioritiza- earlier, there is now compelling evidence for the
tion of certain needs. pervasive role of nonconscious processes in the
Second, there are undoubtedly both quan- expression of motivated behaviors. This sug-
titative and qualitative differences in the cog- gests that, generally speaking, the transition
nitions, emotions, and behaviors that are char- from one mode to another involves activity that
acteristic of the different modes. Regarding can and must occur outside of conscious aware-
the former, the bifurcation into “high” and ness.
“low” activation levels is an oversimplifica- Of course, not all behaviors are linked to goal
tion but was considered a parsimonious way pursuit or need satisfaction—there are nonmo-
This article is intended solely for the personal use of the individual user and is not to be disseminated broadly.

to present the matrix and synthesize the ideas tivated behaviors that are purely habitual. More-
This document is copyrighted by the American Psychological Association or one of its allied publishers.

behind it. There are probably many finer gra- over, even though mode “flipping” is largely
dations of these components and, therefore, of automatic, there are also occasions when people
the modes themselves. deliberately and consciously adopt a particular
As for qualitative distinctions, each of the strategy or way of operating. Generally speak-
three components could also be categorized into ing, however, much of daily life involves a level
more nuanced groupings. Because we reason of automaticity that enables the momentary
differently in different states of mind (Gilbert, cost-benefit analyses of everyday living to take
1998), thinking in Deliberator mode will tend to place effortlessly. Thus, when mode transitions
be more ruminative than in Caretaker mode, are adaptive they are also usually seamless.
which would be more reflective and other- Even though healthy individuals shift easily
oriented. The same differentiations would be from one mode to another, habitual or preferred
also expected of emotions and behaviors in ways of operating also inevitably develop as
other modes, like between a Leader and a Fol- certain needs are prioritized. Caretakers value
lower. In maladaptive modes, these differences connection whereas Free Spirits prioritize au-
are more pronounced. tonomy. These default modes become integral
By focusing on particular regions of the ma- to people’s lives and identities. A person whose
trix, say, the contrast between the Caretaker and primary mode is to care-take, for example, may
Leader modes, one can see how a single cell feel particularly comfortable in this mode—it
(Feelings) distinguishes these two modes. Thus, may be a good “fit” for his or her temperament,
one can more easily understand how a Caretaker as well as meeting needs for connection or
could switch to a Leader mode merely by pri- desirability. The same person may be required
oritizing needs and feelings. Likewise, the Free to operate more autonomously or strategically
Spirit and the Emoter are both emotionally ex- at the office, however, where there is often a
pressive and cognitively inactive but differ premium on clear thinking (OXO) or action
where it comes to taking action. In contrast with (XOO). Thus, healthy people draw on a number
Teasdale’s (1997) “mind in place,” here the idea of modes, as required, and this helps them to
is of a “mode-in-place” or, as one client calls it, adapt and also get a range of needs met.
her “online persona.” Shifting psychological needs motivate indi-
viduals to pursue particular goals, but do not
Balancing Stability and Change specify the modes required to attain them. Clin-
ical experience suggests that certain needs are
In some situations mental focus is critical frequently satisfied by specific modes, but also
whereas in others it is the appropriate action or that no one-to-one relationship exists between
emotional response that counts. Thus, in some needs and modes. Different modes may be en-
modes thinking is strongly activated (OXO), listed to satisfy a particular need, and a single
whereas in others behavior is the most obvious mode may facilitate the satisfaction of several
feature (XOO). In other words, depending on needs (see Kruglanski, Shah, Fishbach, Fried-
demands or opportunities, activation in these man, Young Chun, & Sleeth-Keppler, 2002 for
three areas will covary, essentially defining a discussion of goal systems). The identification
which mode is operating. However, how do of links between particular (unmet) needs and
people know when to switch from one mode to (specific) maladaptive modes requires further
another—to act or to problem-solve, to pull research (Flanagan, 2010).
UNMET NEEDS AND MALADAPTIVE MODES 215

Turning Up the Heat distorted perceptions of behaviors and motives


(Shah & Higgins, 2001), and to rigid overcom-
Relying on a relatively small range of modes pensations and avoidances. Second, maladaptive
means that the remaining modes in the reper- modes are particularly resistant to change because,
toire will be less frequently utilized. People will as early survival strategies, they are central to the
resort to lesser-used modes, however, in chal- person’s sense of self. As a result, flexibility and
lenging circumstances. In the current model openness to change— hallmarks of healthy adap-
there are two broad options when operating tation—are severely limited (Flanagan, 2010;
under pressure. In the first, people intensify Young et al., 2003). Furthermore, because inef-
their efforts and resort to a more exaggerated fective strategies co-opt resources, others modes
This article is intended solely for the personal use of the individual user and is not to be disseminated broadly.

version of their present mode. The second is to may be underutilized and lower priority needs also
This document is copyrighted by the American Psychological Association or one of its allied publishers.

resort to a very different mode. People are con- go unmet.


stantly switching into and out of familiar
modes, but when default modes do not work The Matrix of Maladaptive Modes
less familiar modes are enlisted. Caretakers
(XXO), in a moment of exhaustion, might in- Maladaptive modes are extreme forms of nor-
tensify their efforts and become martyrs. Alter- mal patterns of adaptation. As unsuccessful ef-
nately, they might switch their thinking “off” forts to cope with chronic thwarting of core
(from X to O in Column 2) and their emotions needs, they are both exaggerated and ineffec-
“on” (from O to X in Column 3) and are then in tive. They can provide a sense of identity but
Free Spirit mode (XOX) where, rather than ori- they also ensure that the person remains stuck.
enting to others, they are self-focused and au- Table 2 contains a Matrix of Maladaptive
tonomous. Behaving, feeling, or thinking in Modes. This matrix is set up like the one in
ways that are unfamiliar can provide new per- Table 1 except that the levels of activation (X!)
spectives on oneself and others, and allow needs and inhibition (O!), being more extreme, are
that are not usually prioritized to be met. Ex- represented in bold type with an asterisk. As
treme “flips” can also be disconcerting, how- with Table 1, each row has been given a label
ever, both to the individual and those who know for example, Bully or Martyr to represent the
him so, unless they are effective, people usually primary flavor and function of these self-
fall back on familiar modes. defeating modes. Looking at each pattern indi-
vidually:
Chronically Unmet Needs and 1. Leader (XXX) becomes Bully (XXX!).
Maladaptive Modes All systems are highly activated. The
Bully operates by demeaning and control-
Modes span a continuum from adaptive to ling. Bullies need validation and respect
maladaptive. Transient modes, when faulty, can but they elicit hostility and resentment,
be simple overreactions as when a person tem- maintaining a vicious cycle.
porarily defaults to an extreme way of respond-
ing. What separates normal from chronically
dysfunctional efforts to adapt is not only the Table 2
intensity of these faulty modes but also their Matrix of Maladaptive Modes
extreme rigidity and duration. Behaviors Thoughts Feelings
! !
Perpetuation of Maladaptive Modes 1. Bully X X X!
2. Martyr X! X! O!
The clinical extension of this model is the 3. Rebel X! O! X!
4. Worrywart O! X! X!
proposal that each of the eight adaptive modes 5. Controller X! O! O!
has a corresponding dysfunctional extreme 6. Schemer O! X! O!
where temporary aberrations become chroni- 7. Over-Reactor O! O! X!
cally dysfunctional ways of experiencing the 8. Victim O! O! O!
self and relating to others. Clients with longer- Note. Rows represent different combinations of behaviors,
term problems are doubly disadvantaged. First the thoughts, and feelings in overactivated (X!), and underac-
heightened valence of unmet needs may lead to tivated (O!) forms.
216 FLANAGAN

2. Caretaker (XXO), in extremis, becomes tached, or depressed. Victims need con-


Martyr (XXO!). Martys do not express nection, stability, and validation but, by
their needs but expect that their obvious shutting down, the likelihood of getting
self-sacrifice will make others will re- these needs met is decreased even more.
spond in kind. The result is a build up of
resentment. Martyrs’ excessive need for As indicated earlier, one can expect quanti-
affirmation induces guilt with the self- tative and qualitative differences in the cogni-
defeating effect of making other people tive as well as well as the emotional and behav-
pull away. ioral components of modes. These will be even
3. Free Spirit (XOX) becomes Rebel more significant in the case of maladaptive
This article is intended solely for the personal use of the individual user and is not to be disseminated broadly.

(XOX!). Here a combination of strong modes, all of which are self-defeating. In the
This document is copyrighted by the American Psychological Association or one of its allied publishers.

behavioral and emotional activation, with short-term, the intense activation or inhibition
cognitive avoidance, translates into an im- of the different mode components can translate
pulsive, or oppositional style. Rebels’ ex- into self-defeating emotional overreactions,
aggerated needs for autonomy and change cognitive distortions and misinterpretations, and
ironically elicit a reaction of correction social disruptions or disconnections. Such oc-
and control, reinforcing the cycle of rebel- currences can be disturbing even if temporary.
lion. By contrast, people with chronically unmet
4. Deliberator (OXX) becomes Worrywart needs tend to repeat the same maladaptive cy-
(OXX!). An excessive need for certainty cles endlessly, with little or no core change.
and an intolerance of ambiguity lead to Interpersonal interactions lack a sense of trust,
cognitive and emotional overcompensa- reciprocity, or authenticity, and result in pat-
tion and behavioral avoidance. Worry- terns of failed relationships and careers, misun-
warts avoid acting or taking risks until derstandings and resentments, and lonely de-
they are sure of the outcome. Chronic tachments and withdrawals.
obsessing or indecision can result in pro-
crastination, reassurance-seeking, or re- Clinical Implications
sentful dependency.
5. Doer (XOO) becomes Controller (XOO!). Key issues in current efforts toward unifica-
Cognitive and emotional avoidance, com- tion and integration in psychotherapy, clinical
bined with behavioral overcompensation, science, and personality research include devel-
means that Controllers are closed to feed- opment of a unified conceptual framework that
back from others. When projects are com- allows for a synthesis of therapy techniques
plete they go straight to the next one, (Pincus, 2010; Wolfe, 2008), and provision of
reaching goals with little sense of satisfac- an integrated view of personality where change
tion or connection with other people. techniques are organized according to the spe-
6. Strategizer (OXO) becomes Schemer cific areas of personality they target (Greenberg,
(OXO!). For Schemers life is a battle of 2002; Mayer, 2005). It is hoped that the model
wits, a game of chess. This is an imper- presented here will facilitate these goals.
sonal, observing mode. Thinking predom- Earlier the concept of mode was examined as
inates and results in covert manipulations it is currently used in CBT and in ST. Similar
and passive-aggression. This mode pre- constructs such as selves, parts, personality
cludes authentic connections with others. styles and ego states were also acknowledged in
7. Emoter (OOX) becomes Over-Reactor other schools of psychotherapy. Recent devel-
(OOX!). Emotional outbursts, which are opments in ST have produced interventions that
intended to elicit validation or reassur- focus primarily on the content of Child and
ance, backfire and can produce rejection Parent Modes. The goal here is the additional
or ridicule. Frantic efforts to maintain sta- one of modifying the structure of maladaptive
bility and connection are self-defeating in modes, giving clinicians an opportunity to
the same way as a child’s temper tantrum. choose the most effective tools for different
8. Follower (OOO) becomes Victim clients, or at different stages of the therapy
(OOO!). This is a markedly passive, sub- process. The approach that emerges from this
jugated mode where affect is flat, de- model has two phases: assessment and change.
UNMET NEEDS AND MALADAPTIVE MODES 217

Assessment Phase When I showed Michael his matrix profile he


could clearly see that none of his major modes
Michael is a 23-year-old college student who involved action, that is, an X in the first posi-
grew up in an affluent home in New York City. tion. They were all O’s. He reported that he was
His parents are both successful professionals generally afraid to act in case he made a mistake
with demanding schedules. Michael was mate- that is, Worry Wart (OXX!), and when he did
rially indulged and given a lot of freedom but act it was always as part of a carefully orches-
there was extreme rigidity when it came to trated plan that is, Schemer (OXO!). Only when
academic success and church attendance. His he was absolutely sure would he go into action
father, an engineer, has a simple philosophy: that is, Doer mode (XOO). If his plan backfired
This article is intended solely for the personal use of the individual user and is not to be disseminated broadly.

“Life is linear: You do this to get that.” Michael he got extremely upset that is, Drama Queen
This document is copyrighted by the American Psychological Association or one of its allied publishers.

is temperamentally labile like his mother, whom (OOX!). When we studied the “needs circle”
he describes as a big worrier. By contrast with together it was obvious that, despite chronically
his gregarious sister, he remembers having al- unmet needs for Desirability, Change, and Au-
ways felt like an outsider, strategically using his tonomy, maintaining a sense of stability and
head to get what he wanted. When I first met connection with the few friends he had was
Michael he was worrying excessively about his winning out. His best friend was a “natural”
grades. His anxiety quickly reached panic pro- with girls and Michael believed that without
portions. He believed that if he failed his father him his own social life would be nonexistent.
would not support him financially and, without He resented this dependency and also the
the requisite social skills, he would not be able shoddy treatment, but he was afraid to assert
to survive. He was also having difficulties himself. He could also see that buying friend-
“scoring” with girls, even though, as he repeat- ship made him come across as a show-off but he
edly said, he had the resources to take them to considered that without his credit cards he was
expensive places. a complete loser. To avoid his feelings of iso-
As in the ST model, assessment here in- lation and failure, he detached by watching
volved multiple methods of data collection in- movies alone for hours on end. This took his
cluding cognitive, behavioral, and experiential mind off his unhappiness but reinforced his
measures (see Young et al., 2003). A number of underlying sense of futility and victimization
(OOO!).
instruments, both formal and informal, were
also utilized specifically to identify Michael’s
unmet needs and modes. The Young Schema Change Phase
Questionnaire identified the following EMSs: Two distinct methods of treatment stem from
Defectiveness, Failure, Vulnerability, Subjuga- this model. In the first, mode dialogues are
tion, Emotional Deprivation, and Social Isola- utilized to target the content or process of the
tion. In line with this schema profile, it was different modes. In the second, the focus is on
obvious from our talks that Michael had chron- modifying mode structure by targeting specific
ically unmet needs for Desirability and Change components of faulty modes using the matrix as
and also, for both Connection and Autonomy. a guiding visual. Even though the primary focus
In addition, I administered two questionnaires I of this article has been on Coping modes, the
have developed for the purpose of validating clinical example will also illustrate how Child
such clinical impressions. The results of these and Parent modes can be conceptualized in a
questionnaires reinforced my observations, and new way that coheres with the basic tenets of
clarified Michael’s major modes, which fell in this model.
the extreme range: Schemer (OXO!), Drama 1. Changing content: Mode dialogues. As
Queen (OOX!), Worrywart (OXX!), and Vic- noted, there are constructs in the broader field of
tim (OOO!). A “needs circle” (a circular ar- psychotherapy that resemble modes (e.g.,
rangement of the six needs proposed in Flana- “selves,” “parts”), and the use of dialoging is
gan, 2010) and the Matrix of Maladaptive common to all these therapy models. Here dia-
Modes were then used as visual heuristics to loging is also central. Because modes can easily
illustrate the areas in need of attention and be accessed in dialogues, conversations can be
change. initiated between the different need “voices” or
218 FLANAGAN

Child modes, between Coping modes, and also goal is to weaken the mode by decreasing the
between the different Child, Parent, and Coping intensity of all three components thereby allow-
modes. ing adaptive features of the mode to emerge, for
Initially it was very difficult for Michael to do example, transforming a Bully into a strong
imagery work, so dialoging was helpful in Leader, or a Martyr into an effective Caretaker.
working through areas of conflict. The “voice” Thus, using tools specifically geared toward
of his unrelenting standards, or Schemer mode cognitive, emotional, or behavioral change,
(OXO!), reminded him of his father pressuring modes can be “dismantled” and reconfigured, or
him to study and get ahead; whereas the voices recalibrated as adaptive strategies of less inten-
of his unmet needs for autonomy and change sity.
This article is intended solely for the personal use of the individual user and is not to be disseminated broadly.

pleaded for opportunities to socialize and con- Behavior. Michael could see how his ten-
This document is copyrighted by the American Psychological Association or one of its allied publishers.

nect. The voice of his need for autonomy also dency to overcompensate with his wallet
dialogued with the anxious part, or Worrywart (XXX!) or to surrender control by being sub-
mode (OXX!), who feared total social isolation missive (OOO!) were maintaining his sense of
if he did not put up with his friend’s demeaning social isolation and helplessness. Because he
behavior. Finally, when he role-played the spent a great deal of time scheming (OXO!) and
boorish mode he adopted with girls (XXX!), he worrying (OXX!), focus was placed on building
could see how self-defeating it was in meeting active coping skills. Michael needed help with
his needs for Desirability and Connection. assertion and conversational tools so that he
The goal of these content-focused interven- could talk more comfortably and confidently,
tions is not to eliminate maladaptive modes as especially with girls. Additionally, he needed to
prescribed in some other approaches. Mode di- learn how to take calculated risks and to always
alogues serve to both externalize and explore have a backup plan. By keeping in mind that
the content of unmet needs and modes. Clients there was something he could “do,” he felt less
can gain an awareness of their emotional invest- stuck and dependent.
ment in certain modes, the voices of their unmet Cognitions. Standard CBT techniques
needs, and the pain that surrounds parts of them were effective in helping Michael to manage his
that are asking to be loved, protected, or nur- paralyzing level of anxiety (OXX!). Daily
tured. By understanding the intensity of what Thought Records helped him see how “all or
lies behind their extreme coping efforts, unex- nothing” his thinking was. By tuning in when he
pected levels of empathy, and self-acceptance was alone in his apartment he also became
can often emerge. Identifying the origins of aware of an underlying depressive “tape” that
maladaptive modes and linking them with un- was making him feel even more hopeless. Mon-
met needs and EMSs, allows faulty modes to be itoring his self-talk in the presence of his father
recast as coping efforts that became dysfunc- and his best friend also helped him realize how
tional but can be made more effective in meet- angry he was for the ways he felt compromised.
ing the needs that drive them (see Flanagan, Likewise, he learned that, in general, he was
2010). extremely self-focused and concerned with how
2. Changing structure: Reconfiguring and he was coming across and, consequently, was
recalibrating. Whereas dialoging explores not attending to social cues from others. This
mode content, the second avenue to treatment— discovery provided him with a direction, that is,
one unique to this model—focuses on mode to focus out, and interact by asking questions of
structure. Modes are long-standing “compos- other people. The Vertical Arrow Technique
ites,” or gestalts, of behaviors, thought patterns, revealed the degree to which his beliefs and
and emotional reactions that function in an in- expectations were extreme, leading to the amus-
tegrated way. Consequently, change in any one ing observation that he and his father were more
component will affect the mode as a whole. alike than he had realized. Finally, Michael
Because their operations are largely automatic, learned that by toning down his highly devel-
one goal of this second approach is to alter the oped strategic ability he could use it to his
strength of individual mode components and, in advantage.
doing so, to alter the mode itself—much as Emotions. Self-change was daunting for
changing the proportions of certain ingredients Michael because it brought him face to face
in a recipe will change the entire dish. Another with his sense of defectiveness and self-
UNMET NEEDS AND MALADAPTIVE MODES 219

loathing, and the childlike voice of his unmet tent and the structure of maladaptive modes
need for Desirability. Training in emotional reg- have also been offered, providing opportunities
ulation helped him to moderate his extreme for clinicians to consider which tools might be
reactions (OOX!), his “meltdowns,” by inter- used most effectively with different clients, or
nally calming himself to a point where he could at different stages of the therapy process. All of
reflect on a constructive course of action. Rec- these topics are consistent with current concerns
ognizing schema triggers and the unmet under- in the field of psychotherapy and with the goals
lying needs also equipped him to mitigate the of unification and integration.
intensity of his affect and switch to a more Years ago, Wendell Garner pointed out that
appropriate mode. Finally, Michael became practical applications can lead to new theories,
This article is intended solely for the personal use of the individual user and is not to be disseminated broadly.

aware of emotional buildups before they just as new theories can suggest novel solutions
This document is copyrighted by the American Psychological Association or one of its allied publishers.

reached a point of panic, impulsivity, or with- to actual problems (Garner, 1972). Here I have
drawal. presented a new theory of maladaptive modes
In summary, Michael had always relied on and a novel approach to their treatment, both of
his thinking to control his environment, rather which grew out of repeated clinical observa-
than learning to take calculated risks, assert tions. It is hoped that this theory, as illustrated
himself, and manage his feelings of anxiety and in a clinical case, will have demonstrated the
helplessness. As described, cognitive reframing, viability of developing a streamlined approach
emotional regulation, and behavioral skills to the treatment of longer-term problems
training were strategically utilized to modify his (Flanagan, 2010).
maladaptive modes. Other tools, such as guided
imagery, mindfulness meditation, or EMDR References
could equally have been enlisted. The point is
not so much to specify the exact choice of Ainsworth, M. D. S. (1969). Object relations, depen-
technique but to target specific mode compo- dency, and attachment: A theoretical review of the
nents with whichever tools are likely to be most infant mother relationship. Child Development, 40,
effective in the individual case. Michael gradu- 969 –1025. doi:10.2307/1127008
Bargh, J. A., & Chartrand, T. L. (1999). The unbear-
ally learned to recognize his faulty modes (and able automaticity of being. American Psychologist,
their “problem” constituents) and to con- 54, 462– 479. doi:10.1037/0003-066X.54.7.462
sciously decrease the intensity of these mal- Bargh, J. A., & Morsella, E. (2008). The unconscious
adaptive components or switch to another, more mind. Perspectives on Psychological Science, 3,
effective, mode. 73–79. doi:10.1111/j.1745-6916.2008.00064.x
Baumeister, R. F., Bratlavsky, E., Finkenauer, C., &
Summary and Concluding Remarks Vohs, K. D. (2001). Bad is stronger than good.
Review of General Psychology, 5, 323–370. doi:
The aims of this article have been to integrate 10.1037/1089-2680.5.4.323
recent findings in the cognitive sciences and Baumeister, R. F., & Leary, M. R. (1995). The need
to belong: Desire for interpersonal attachments as
contemporary clinical research into an adaptive a fundamental human motivation. Psychological
model of modes, and to offer a clinical approach Bulletin, 117, 497–529.
that links unmet needs with EMSs and faulty Beck, A. T. (1983). Cognitive therapy of depression:
coping modes and that, ultimately, could gen- New perspectives. In P. J. Clayton & J. E. Barrett
erate comprehensive needs-based profiles for (Eds.) Treatment of depression: Old controversies
the different personality disorders. I have also and new approaches (pp. 265–290). New York,
attempted to address areas of perceived concern NY: Raven.
in the direction ST, and to offer suggestions that Beck, A. T. (1996). Beyond belief: A theory of
would potentially augment STs treatment op- modes, personality, and psychopathology. In P. M.
tions and expand its theoretical base. These Salkovskis (Ed.), Frontiers of cognitive therapy
(pp. 1–25). New York, NY: Guilford Press.
include maintaining the original focus on a Beck, A. T., Freeman, A., & Associates. (1990).
range of core needs, developing a basic frame- Cognitive therapy of personality disorders. New
work for defining and differentiating between York, NY: Guilford Press.
modes, and understanding the microprocesses Beck, J. (2005). Cognitive therapy for challenging
clinicians are trying to impact when doing mode problems: What to do when the basics don’t work.
work. Tactical methods for addressing the con- New York, NY: Guilford Press.
220 FLANAGAN

Blatt, S. J., Auerbach, J. S., & Levy, K. N. (1997). Garner, W. R. (1972). The acquisition and applica-
Mental representations in personality develop- tion of knowledge: A symbiotic relation. American
ment, psychpathology, and the therapeutic process. Psychologist, 27, 941–946. doi:10.1037/h0033452
Review of General Psychology, 1, 351–374. doi: Gawronski, B., & Payne, B. K. (Eds.). (2010). Hand-
10.1037/1089-2680.1.4.351 book of implicit social cognition: Measurement,
Blatt, S. J., Shahar, G., & Zuroff, D. C. (2001). theory, and applications. New York, NY: Guilford
Anaclitic (sociotropic) and introjective (autono- Press.
mous) dimensions. Psychotherapy: Theory, Re- Giesen-Bloo, J., van Dyck, R., Spinhoven, P., van
search, Practice, Training, 38, 4, 449 – 454. doi: Tilbureg, W., Dirksen, C., van Asselt, T., . . .
10.1037/0033-3204.38.4.449 Arntz, A. (2006). Outpatient psychotherapy for
Bogin, B. (2001). The growth of humanity. New borderline personality disorder. Randomized trial
This article is intended solely for the personal use of the individual user and is not to be disseminated broadly.

York, NY: Wiley-Liss. of schema-focused therapy versus transference-


This document is copyrighted by the American Psychological Association or one of its allied publishers.

Bongers, K. C. A., Dijksterhuis, A. J., & Spears, R. focused psychotherapy. Archives of General Psy-
(2010). On the role of consciousness in goal pur- chiatry, 63, 649 – 658. doi:10.1001/archpsyc.63.6
suit. Social Cognition, 28, 262–272. doi:10.1521/ .649
soco.2010.28.2.262 Gilbert, P. (1998). The evolved basis and adaptive
Bowlby, J. (1969). Attachment and loss Vol. 1. At- functions of cognitive distortions. British Journal
tachment. New York, NY: Basic Books. of Medical Psychology, 71, 447– 463. doi:10.1111/
Bowlby, J. (1980). Attachment and loss, Vol. 3: Loss, j.2044-8341.1998.tb01002.x
sadness and depression. New York: Basic Books. Gilbert, P. (2005). Social mentalities: A biosocial and
Bricker, D., Young, J., & Flanagan, C. (1993). Sche- evolutionary reflection on social relationships. In
ma-focused cognitive therapy: A comprehensive M. W. Baldwin (Ed.), Interpersonal cognition (pp.
framework for characterological problems. In T. 299 –335). New York, NY: Guilford Press.
Kuehlwein & H. Rosen (Eds.), Cognitive therapies Gilbert, P. (2010). Compassion focused therapy. New
in action (pp. 88 –125). San Francisco, CA: York, NY: Routledge.
Gilbert, P., & Irons, C. (2005). Focused therapies and
Jossey-Bass.
compassionate mind training for shame and self-
Deci, E. L., & Ryan, R. M. (1985). Intrinsic motiva-
attacking. In P. Gilbert (Ed.), Compassion: Con-
tion and self-determination in human behavior.
ceptualizations, research and use in psychother-
New York, NY: Plenum Press. doi:10.1007/978-
apy (pp. 263–325). London: Routhledge.
1-4899-2271-7
Greenberg, L. S. (2002). Integrating an emotion-
Del Giudice, M. (2009). Sex, attachment, and the
focused approach to treatment into psychotherapy
development of reproductive strategies. Behav- integration. Journal of Psychotherapy Integration,
ioral and Brain Sciences, 32, 1–21. doi:10.1017/ 12, 154 –189. doi:10.1037/1053-0479.12.2.154
S0140525X09000016 Heine, S. J., Proulx, T., & Vohs, K. D. (2006). The
Endler, N. S., Parker, J. D. A., & Butcher, J. M. meaning maintenance model: On the coherence of
(1993). A factor analytic study of coping styles and social motivations. Personality and Social Psy-
the MMPI-2 Content Scales. Journal of Clinical chology Review, 10, 88 –110. doi:10.1207/s153
Psychology, 49, 523–527. doi:10.1002/1097- 27957pspr1002_1
4679(199307)49:4!523::AID-JCLP2270490409" Henriques, G. (2011). A new unified theory of psy-
3.0.CO;2-M chology. New York, NY: Springer. doi:10.1007/
Epstein, S. (1991). Cognitive-experiential self the- 978-1-4614-0058-5
ory: An integrative theory of personality. In R. C. Huang, J. Y., & Bargh, J. A. (2014). The selfish goal:
Curtis (Ed.), The relational self: Theoretical con- Autonomously operating motivational structures
vergences in psychoanalysis and social psycholog- as the proximate cause of human judgment and
ical psychology (pp. 111–137). New York, NY: behavior. Behavioral and Brain Sciences, 37, 121–
Guilford Press. 135. doi:10.1017/S0140525X13000290
Flanagan, C. M. (1998). Schemas, modes and the self. Jung, C. G. (1970). The collected works. London:
Paper presented at 1998 meeting of the European Routledge and Kegan Paul.
Association of Behavioral and Cognitive Therapy, Kahneman, D. (2012). Thinking, fast and slow. New
Cork, Ireland. York, NY: Farrar, Strauss and Giroux.
Flanagan, C. M. (2010). The case for needs in psy- Kellogg, S. H. (2004). Dialogical encounters:
chotherapy. Journal of Psychotherapy Integration, Contemporary perspectives on “chairwork” in psy-
20, 1–36. doi:10.1037/a0018815 chotherapy. Psychotherapy: Theory, Research,
Gangestad, S. W., & Simpson, J. A. (2000). The Practice, Training, 41, 310 –320. doi:10.1037/
evolution of human mating: Trade-offs and strate- 0033-3204.41.3.310
gic pluralism. Behavioral and Brain Sciences, 23, Kelly, G. A. (1955). The psychology of personal
573–587. doi:10.1017/S0140525X0000337X constructs. New York, NY: Norton.
UNMET NEEDS AND MALADAPTIVE MODES 221

Kenrick, D. T., Griskevicius, V., Neuberg, S. L., & Magnavita, J. J. (2008). Toward unification of clini-
Schaller, M. (2010). Renovating the pyramid of cal science: The next wave in the evolution of
needs: Contemporary extensions built upon an- psychotherapy? Journal of Psychotherapy Integra-
cient foundations. Perspectives on Psychological tion, 18, 264 –291. doi:10.1037/a0013490
Science, 5, 292–314. doi:10.1177/174569161 Mayer, J. D. (2005). A tale of two visions: Can a new
0369469 view of personality help integrate psychology. The
Kihlstrom, J. F. (1999). The psychological uncon- American Psychologist, 60, 294 –307.
scious. In L. R. Pervin & O. John (Eds.), Hand- Mesquita, B., Feldman, B. L., & Smith, E. R. (2010).
book of personality (2nd ed., pp. 424 – 442). New The mind in context. New York, NY: Guilford
York, NY: Guilford Press. Press.
Kihlstrom, J. F. (2008). The psychological uncon- Neuberg, S. L., Kenrick, D. T., Maner, J., & Schaller,
This article is intended solely for the personal use of the individual user and is not to be disseminated broadly.

scious. In O. P. Johns, R. W. Robins, & L. A. M. (2004). From evolved motives to everyday


This document is copyrighted by the American Psychological Association or one of its allied publishers.

Pervin (Eds.), Handbook of personality (3rd ed., mentation: Evolution, goals, and cognition. In J.
pp. 583– 602). New York, NY: Guilford Press Forgas & K. Williams (Eds.), Social motivation:
Kruglanski, A. W., Shah, J. Y., Fishbach, A., Fried- Conscious and unconscious processes (pp. 133–
man, R., Young Chun, W., & Sleeth-Keppler, D. 152). Cambridge: Cambridge University Press.
(2002). A theory of goal systems. In M. P. Zanna doi:10.1017/CBO9780511735066.010
(Ed.), Advances in experimental social psychology Ouimette, P. C., Finney, J. W., & Moos, R. H.
(Vol. 34, pp. 331–378). San Diego, CA: Academic (1999). Two-year post-treatment functioning and
Press. coping of substance abuse patients with posttrau-
Latack, J. C., & Havlovic, S. J. (1992). Coping with matic stress disorder. Psychology of Addictive Be-
job stress: A conceptual evaluation framework for haviors, 13, 105–114. doi:10.1037/0893-164X.13
coping measures. Journal of Organizational Be- .2.105
havior, 13, 479 –508. doi:10.1002/job.4030130505 Pincus, A. L. (2010). Introduction to the special
Lazarus, R. S., & Folkman, S. (1984). Stress, ap- series on integrating personality, psychopathology,
and psychotherapy using interpersonal assessment.
praisal, and coping. New York, NY: Springer
Journal of Personality Assessment, 92, 467– 470.
Publishing.
doi:10.1080/00223891.2010.513706
Lieberman, M. D. (2000). Intuition: A social cogni-
Roche, M. J., Pincus, A. L., Conroy, D. E., Hyde,
tive neuroscience approach. Psychological Bulle-
A. L., & Ram, N. (2013). Pathological narcissism
tin, 126, 109 –137. doi:10.1037/0033-2909.126.1
and interpersonal behavior in daily life. Personal-
.109
ity Disorders: Theory, Research, and Treatment, 4,
Liotti, G., & Gilbert, P. (2011). Mentalizing, moti-
315–323. doi:10.1037/a0030798
vation, and social mentalities: Theoretical consid- Sandler, J., & Rosenblatt, B. (1962). The concept of
erations and implications for psychotherapy. Psy- the representational world. The Psychoanalytic
chology and Psychotherapy: Theory, Research Study of the Child, 17, 128 –145.
and Practice, 84, 9 –25. Schwartz, R. (1995). Internal family systems therapy.
Lobbestael, J., Vreeswijk, M. F., & van Arntz, A. New York, NY: Guilford Press.
(2007). Shedding light on schema modes: A clar- Shah, J., & Higgins, E. T. (2001). Regulatory con-
ification of the mode concept and its current re- cerns and appraisal efficiency: The general impact
search status. Netherlands Journal of Psychology, of promotion and prevention. Journal of Person-
63, 76 – 85. ality and Social Psychology, 80, 693–705. doi:
Locke, J. L., & Flanagan, C. M. (2013). The need for 10.1037/0022-3514.80.5.693
needs: A role for social capital. Behavioral and Stone, A., & Stone, S. (1989). Embracing ourselves:
Brain Sciences, 36, 495– 496. doi:10.1017/ The voice dialogue manual. Novato, CA: Bataraj
S0140525X13000174 Publishing.
Locke, J. L., & Flanagan, C. M. (in submission). Strack, F., & Deutsch, R. (2004). Reflective and
Social mediation of biological goals: An evolu- impulsive determinants of social behavior. Person-
tionary theory of psychological needs. ality and Social Psychology Review, 8, 220 –247.
Locke, K. D. (2011). Circumplex measures of inter- doi:10.1207/s15327957pspr0803_1
personal constructs. In L. M. Horowitz & S. Strack Teasdale, J. D. (1997). The relationship between cog-
(Eds.), Handbook of interpersonal psychology (pp. nition and emotion: The mind-in-place in mood
313–324). Hoboken, NJ: Wiley. disorders. In D. M. Clark & C. G. Fairburn (Eds.),
Luyten, P., & Blatt, S. J. (2011). Integrating theory- Science and the practice of cognitive behavior
driven and empirically derived models of person- therapy (pp. 67–93). New York, NY: Oxford Uni-
ality development and psychopathlogy. A proposal versity Press.
for DSM V. Clinical Psychology Review, 31, 52– Van Genderen, H., Rijkeboer, M., & Arntz, A.
68. doi:10.1016/j.cpr.2010.09.003 (2012). Theoretical model: Schemas, coping styles
222 FLANAGAN

and modes. In M. Van Vreeswijk, J. Broersen, & in conceptualizing personality. The American
M. Nadort (Eds.), Schema therapy: Theory, re- Journal of Psychiatry, 169, 273–284. doi:10.1176/
search and practice (pp. 27– 41). Chichester: Wi- appi.ajp.2011.11020274
ley-Blackwell. Wolfe, B. E. (2008). Toward a unified conceptual
Van Vugt, M., & Spisak, B. R. (2008). Sex differ- framework of psychotherapy. Journal of Psycho-
ences in the emergence of leadership during therapy Integration, 18, 292–300. doi:10.1037/
competitions within and between groups. Psycho- 1053-0479.18.3.292
logical Science, 19, 854 – 858. doi:10.1111/j.1467- Young, J. (1990). Cognitive therapy for personality
9280.2008.02168.x disorders: A schema-focused approach. Sarasota,
Watkins, J., & Watkins, H. (1997). Ego states: The- FL: Professional Resource Exchange.
ory and therapy. New York, NY: Norton. Young, J., & Flanagan, C. (1998). Schema-focused
This article is intended solely for the personal use of the individual user and is not to be disseminated broadly.

Wells, A. (2000). Emotional disorders and metacog- therapy for narcissistic patients. In E. Ronningstam
This document is copyrighted by the American Psychological Association or one of its allied publishers.

nition: Innovative cognitive therapy. Chichester: (Ed.), Disorders of narcissism: Diagnostic, clini-
Wiley. cal, and empirical implications (pp. 239 –268).
Westen, D., Gabbard, G. O., & Ortigo, K. M. (2008). Washington, DC: American Psychiatric Press.
Psychoanalytic approaches to personality. In O. P. Young, J., Klosko, J., & Weishaar, M. (2003).
Oliver, R. W. Robins, & L. A. Pervin. (Eds.), Schema therapy: A practitioner’s guide. New
Handbook of personality: Theory and research York, NY: Guilford Press.
(pp. 61–113). New York, NY: Guilford Press.
Westen, D., Shedler, J., Bradley, B., & DeFife, J. A. Received July 1, 2013
(2012). An empirically derived taxonomy for per- Revision received May 27, 2014
sonality diagnosis: Bridging science and practice Accepted May 28, 2014 !

You might also like