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a Touch of Sex
taoist foreplay: shiatsu secrets for lovers
Mantak Chia & Kris Deva North
Photography - Michael Cullingworth, Ian Jackson, Red James, Kris Deva North, Sutharshini
Zen Art - Kris Deva North
Design of the original paper version - Liz Peart
Artwork - Ian Jackson, Jaclyn Snyders, Sutharshini
Research - Jaclyn Snyders
Sue Hix - use of Meridian diagrams
Students of the Zen School- point verification
First published 2005 as paperback by Universal Tao Publications Thailand
pdf edition reformatted and published 2006 by Univerrsal Healing Tao UK www.healing-tao.co.uk
ISBN 974-93533-4-X
Mantak Chia and Kris Deva North assert their rights as authors.
You will learn from this book
How you can become a far more effective Lover

however good you are already
How to lay, ignite and fan the fires of passion

and keep them going through all the seasons
Taoist Secrets of Touch

the turn-on power of points
Exercises for strength, length and juice

better grip, increased staying-power
What to look for in a Lover

and how to overcome unlucky stars
Signs of Arousal
know when the right moment comes
Secrets of Sex Magic

and keeping safe from sexual vampires and parasites
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CONTENTS
Acknowledgements
I LOVE SEX AND TOUCH

II LANDSCAPE FOR LOVE
Making Ready
Atmospherics
III WHOLE BODY LOVE-SHIATSU
Tap before you tup
Love-Shiatsu Numerology
Hands on: Getting Started
Going Down
Going Up
Up and Down
Other Side
Down to Heaven
IV RIVERS OF LOVE POOLS OF DESIRE
Windows on Mood
The Five Elements
Elements, Meridians, Yin and Yang
Fire
Earth
Metal
Water
Wood
Governing & Conception vessels
V SELF-SHIATSU: CARE & MAINTENANCE
Pleasure Points and Love Meridians
Girl Things: Exercises for Women
Boy Stuff: Exercises for Men
Play Time: Exercises for Both
VI COMPATIBILITY: MARRIAGES MADE IN HEAVEN
Astrological Compatibility: Partners or Rivals?
What’s the Score
Elemental Relationships
How Sexy is your Lover?
Signs of Arousal
VII SEX MAGIC AND ENERGY VAMPIRES
Sex Magic
Energy Vampires
BIBLIOGRAPHY
LINKS TO LEARN MORE
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
Special thanks to teachers and students of the Zen School of Shiatsu in London who conscientiously investigated modern appli-
cations of ancient secrets and donated their time and talents to the creation of the ideas and illustrations.
To Michael Cullingworth for his inspired photography, Ursula Gavin for her advice and support, Sue Hix for authorising the
use of illustrations from her excellent Classical Meridian Charts, Ian Jackson for his artwork, Red James for photography, Beata
Kociatyn for her hours of work on adapting drawings and sketches, Matt Lewis and anonymous others for donating their bodies
to photography, Liz Peart for her experience and advice, Sutharshini for her artwork and inspiration, and to Jaclyn Snyders for
impeccable research, artwork and tireless application. And to Cx, who taught more about loving touch in a few hours than learned
in a lifetime before. This is for her.
To Mantak Chia for his teaching and for use of illustrations from his great body of work on Taoist sex.
Love and gratitude to Lee Dubens, my co-founder of the Zen School, without whom none of this would have happened.
CHAPTER ONE
LOVE SEX
AND TOUCH
In this Chapter you will learn
* the difference between men and

women
* how harmonising the differences

makes for better loving
YES
you can become
a far more effective Lover!
Woman, Man, straight, gay and bi, please

your partner and please yourself.
The act itself is natural. You know what to

do. It is the moments leading up to the act
which make it more or less pleasurable for
your partner. Women fear insensitivity. Men
fear inability to perform. Both fear rejection.
Knowing the psycho-sensual secrets of certain

pressure points helps you become a better
lover, however good you are already.
Are you aroused more quickly, your partner

more slowly? Its quite usual for the man to
climax first.
Woman comes to the boil more slowly but

simmers longer.
He’s done in, she ready for more.
LOVE SEX AND TOUCH
You can both play

together to har-
monise the different
cycles of arousal.
Like cooking a
Chinese meal,
preparation is the
key.
Sexual practices
have been studied
for centuries in
both East and West.
Chinese and
Japanese traditions
combined the study
of sex with medi-
cine: certain pres-
sure-points and
meridians were
found to stimulate
and sustain sexual
desire.
You may have dis-

covered this for
yourself, quite by
chance.
Using the secrets of
these points and
channels makes for
longer and more
pleasurable sexual
encounters.
Peak moments can

be prolonged
beyond bliss, into
ecstasy.
CHAPTER TWO
LANDSCAPE
FOR LOVE
In this Chapter you will discover
* how to prepare your space
* how it all began
* what is a Honey Moon
Your body is a landscape

of hills and valleys,
woodland glades,
caves of delight
pastures of pleasure,
stirred by breezes of bliss,
fed by rivers of desire,
watered by clouds and rain of ecstasy.
Nature has gifted us
with eyes to see these
wonders,
ears to hear the sounds of love,
noses to scent the fragrance of passion,
tongues to taste the fruits of desire,
lips to kiss,
and hands to touch.
Running water does not stagnate
Shiatsu secrets help modern Lovers harmonise different cycles of

arousal:
for longer and more pleasurable sexual encounters,
to sustain the intensity of first-love though all the seasons of maturing

relationship,
to avoid energy-loss
and maintain good sexual health:
running water does not stagnate
It all begins with foreplay. Shiatsu is a Japanese word meaning finger-

push.
The pressure-points are the same as for acupuncture - but needling for
lovers could be a little too sharp even if they are only little pricks,
The Business of Life
Shiatsu comes from ancient healing

practices. Sex was considered
healthy, fun and serious business.
“If you want to understand the busi-

ness of Life, then you need to examine
the business of where Life starts and
where Life ends…the business of the
bedchamber.”
Taoist practice has always been sexy.
Four thousand years ago the top shelf

was peopled with stories of the Yellow
Emperor and the Queen Mother of the
West.
While the Nei Jing, the Classic of

Internal Medicine, became the source
for most Chinese medical literature,
the Art of the Bedchamber is still wide-
ly quoted in almost every orientalistic
sex publication in both East and West.
MAKING READY
foreplay first
Practise your Love-Shiatsu with a

friend.
Get feedback about what feels really
good, what maybe not, how much
pressure here and there.
Sensitivity comes easy: just notice
how someone responds to your touch.
Anticipate arousal: agree how far you
are both willing to go and a Stop sig-
nal if it gets too hot to handle.
Set things out to please all the senses
before starting your Love-Shiatsu.
Dress in loose light clothing, soft fab-
rics of red, pink and purple: sarongs
don’t get in the way, they let you
reach all the love-points, and come
off easily.
Candlelight and soft music yes, phones no: off or silent, rings on mute.
Fragrances of roses, musk and ylang ylang.
Aphrodisiac titbits to tantalise taste buds: Chocolate, Strawberries and Bananas or Cucumbers dipped in Clove Honey,
Mangos, Peaches, Plums and Cherries.
Try using each other as a plate.

If you like salads: celery, mushrooms, red peppers, spinach, tomatos and watercress.
And to drink?
Mead, a mildly alcoholic bevvy made from honey. In AngloSaxon England newly-weds retired for a moon-month to a
flowery bower to live on nothing but Love and Mead: thus the word “honeymoon” – honag monath.
ATMOSPHERICS FOR LOVE
Make your bower beautiful, enticing, a place for pleasure.

Feng shui your love-life:
Make space around your love-nest, the mat on which you will create your palms of pleasure
If using a bed, let it be firm:flaccididity is no help inside or out.
Have a picture of your beloved in the south-west corner and a green plant in the East
CHAPTER THREE
WHOLE BODY
LOVE-SHIATSU
In this Chapter you will learn to feel
* areas of arousal
* pathways for your hands
* secret connections
When Lovers first touched they invented what we call Love-Shiatsu.
Huang-Ti (2697-2598 BCE) the Yellow Emperor codified the theory behind the therapy. Treatment, he decreed,
should vary according to application, whether to stimulate desire, sexual or other healing.
In those days they searched for immortality as the logical extension of perfect health. The Yellow Emperor is
said to have attained it by having sex with 1200 wives and concubines. The Queen Mother of the West likewise
but with numbers unrecorded.
The Emperor and his female advisor Su Nu are credited with creating the 'Su Nu Ching', a dialogue of sexual prac-
tice with such exchanges as:
Huang Ti: 'And what is the method of nine shallow and one deep?'
Su Nu: 'That means to thrust nine times shallow and then one deep, in time with the breath. Too shallow may not
yield the greatest pleasure, too deep may be injurious.'
Later Taoist sex manuals continued the tradition of treating both genders as equal, but as Dynasties came and
went, mixed fortunes followed for the practices.
Nowadays we like one-to-one relationships and are perhaps sceptical of immortality. But that isn’t to say we can’t
enjoy the secrets that kept the Yellow Emperor going and the Queen Mother coming.
And Lovers have always touched.
It starts with a look, a gaze in each other’s eyes.
Then Mind follows Eye, and Hand follows Mind
Prepare your Lover

by first lightly tapping or patting up and down the body.
You don’t have to follow exactly the lines pictured - they are just there to give you an idea of the directions of flow in the merid-
ians.
Tapping wakes up the nerves. How do you like to be woken up?
Tap very gently on softer areas such as the belly and face, and not at all on breasts and genitals.
Get feedback from your Lover on how it feels: would they like a drum solo in some places - such as the sacrum and shoulder-
blades, or would they prefer tippy-toe tap?
From Tapping to Rubbing, not too hard, not too soft.
The nerves are awake, ready to be coaxed into action.
Follow the meridian routes more or less, just to let them

know you will be back. Still avoid the genitals, for now.
And when you have tapped and rubbed, its time to tease:
long languorous strokes along the channels. brushing
close by your lover’s sex, using your hands to hint at
what’s ahead.
IF YOU’VE MADE THE TIME - TAKE YOUR TIME
Secrets of Foreplay: Pat before petting, Tap before tupping, Start with clothes on: they’ll come off by themselves
Taoists see sex as the servant, not the master.

If the products of our pleasure are not being
deployed to start new life, they say, we can inter-
nalise the intense energy, all the hormones and
nutrients, to improve our own lives.
From foreplay to climax a Taoist controls and har-
vests the abundance of reproductive power other-
wise wasted in unmindful intercourse: yang having
the power to repopulate a continent in a single
ejaculation, yin with eggs to generate hundreds of lives.
They taught the Emperors, their wives and concubines, to recycle this potent life force and harmonize their
cycles of pleasure through a process known as Inner Alchemy.
Here are some numbers to guide you around the Love-Shiatsu Numerology
erotic landscape. You will see from the following
pages where you can place your hands, fingers and thumbs to lay and light the fires.
The sequence and points of connection help you find your own way - no need to get too
technical about it! Be creative, enjoy your pleasures.
FIRST for a good start ease your way down

SECOND make your way up the side
THIRD wander up & downthe front
FOURTH after the front, turn your attention and

loving caresses to the other side
FIFTH then teasingly

down to heaven
You don’t even need to know the names and loca-

tions of the points. By following the simple hand-
by-hand routine illustrated in the next pages you
will connect all the arousal points and give your
partner a wonderful sensual experience.
Remember, if you are doing it with sensitivity, care

and love, you are doing it right. It is a really good
idea to ask your partner how it feels.
Hands on: Getting Started
1 1
FIRST
going
down
a good brisk hand-
rub before you
touch will energise
your hands.
GV 3, A powerful
arousal point for GV11, centre
both sexes, just of the Fire of
above the sacrum, Love, back of
at the back of the the Heart,
Sexual centre. between the
For women helps shoulder-
in regulating men- blades
struation and on
men to overcome
impotence.
Your hands alight blending the Heart

Love with Sexual Desire, harmonising
Fire and Water, Yin and Yang.
1
1
Shiatsu Secret : Let your hands be still, resting

on your Lover. Feel the warmth. Close your
eyes. Imagine both hands in a pool of warmth,
surrounding and connecting them.
GV14 sends a warm rush of spinal
2 fluid up to the brain, generating
excitement and warming the neck.
2
2 2
GV2 VALLEY OF
DELIGHT arousal
point
Leaning for Love: the pleasure of giving pleasure.

Tease and tantalise. Wandering hands, rippling through
meridians, spreading desire, releasing pheronomes and
hormones.
2
2
Shiatsu Secret: Imagine the pool of warmth spreading out

until it feels like you are touching your Lover in only one
place. When it feels like that to you, your Lover too will feel
as if you are touching in just one place however far apart
your hands.
GV17 JADE PILLOW, where the impulse of passion flows into
the brain, loving and rejuvenating and coursing through the
cranial ocean to open the mid-eye.
GV1 LASTING STRENGTH

waves of electric pleasure coursing through the
sacral bone, the sacred connection with the
nerves of love
3
Sliding along the river of love into realms above

and below, connecting the Gate of Heaven with
the Door to Earth
Shiatsu Secret: Move just one hand at a time as

3 you palm your Lover’s body
SI 11 ease the shoulders
with gentle palm or
focussed finger.
4.1
Listen carefully to the breath below and follow its

rhythm, hands and heart dance together courting
lust.
“Secret Instructions of the Jade

Chamber” is a Taoist text on harmo-
nizing male (yang) and female (yin)
energies for mutual nourishment, yin
drawing on yang and yang from yin.
Single, Dual and Multiple Cultivation

can be practised, for pleasure, health
and longevity, healing, self-realization
4.1 and, ultimately, experiencing a self
beyond the cycle of life and death.
4.1
Shiatsu Secret: Each time you move

one hand, again imagine the pool of
warmth connecting both your hands
and the places you are touching on
your Lover’s body
BL 23 KIDNEY connector point.
Sexual vitality for both sexes.
4.2 4.2 Enhances male stamina
4.2 CV 1 Gate of Life and Death, so named because the

retention of sexual energy is said to prolong life.
CV1 subtle use as arousal point for both sexes, especially
good for prolonging male orgasm.
Clinical use helps with prevention and relief of prostate
conditions.
Part Receiver’s legs with your knee, your

thumbs either side of spine. Arousal energy
starts to wake up and flow.
4.2 4.2
4.2
Shiatsu Secret: Hold the vision of the the pool of

wamth each time you move your hands. Your
Lover will feel as if their whole body is being
bathed in love and warmth. You are preparing for
Passion
5
GB30 JUMPING CIRCLE

starting point for a beautiful
5 spiral massage around the
buttocks
Kneel between legs, move

hands to buttocks, sending
flashes of desire along the
sides of the body. Rub
cheeks together to stimulate
arousal..
More Secrets await discovery

in the points of connection.
Tune in to your partner’s
response to your every touch.
Don’t be afraid to ask: ‘How
does this feel?’ ‘Do you like it?’
‘Would you like more?’
The Chou Dynasty (770

BCE to 222 BCE) had a
Taoist doctrine although 5
Taoism was not yet a formal
religion.
Women were thought to
have an unexhaustable sup-
ply of yin essence. A man 5
who ejaculated or used up
his yang essence without
absorbing enough yin could
experience health problems
and even death.
Starting the Tease: stay kneeling between the legs. Move
hands away from the erogeneous zone but still on the
Bladder meridian which carries arousal messages through
the whole energy-body, head to toe.
6 6
BL37 warms the whole

leg and sends the love-
signals both ways 6
The Ch'in Dynasty (221 BCE to 24 CE) changed from Taoism to the quite different Confucianism, which consid-
ered women inferior.
Sex was considered to be for procreation only, otherwise sinful.
However, religious and magical Taoism peacefully co-existed with behavourial Confucianism until a Taoist resur-
gence in the Later Han Dynasty (25 CE to 220 CE) saw the rehabilitation of sexual practices and the reappear-
ance of texts attributed to the Yellow Emperor.
8
KD3 GREAT
KD1 BUBBLING
STREAM can
SPRING
be used to
where you keep 7 either stimulate
your feet on the
or balance
ground
desire in both
sexes
BL60 KUNLUN MOUNTAIN CV2 the most potent femi-

pinching here gives a good idea of nine arousal point and also
the strength of your partners libido: quite effective for men
the stiffer the stronger! Also a useful
point to press during labour.
Reaching the feet a wealth of sexual connections await.

Support your Lover’s foot on your pubic bone, site of
Conception Vessel 2. Feeling the strength of your part-
ner’s achilles tendon can give an indication of sex drive.
In the confusion of Three Kingdoms & Six Dynasties (221 CE to 590 CE) conflicts arose between Taoist,
Confucian and the newly arriving Buddhist doctrines.
The rise of Buddhism under the Northern Wei (386-534 CE) led to persecution of practitioners of the Old Ways.
Healing and Sex became politicised.
SECOND
going up
LV9 a subtle
arousal point, sit-
uated on the
pleasure-muscles 9
of the inner thigh,
the approach to 8 9
the sexual
organs
SP 6 MEETING OF 3 YIN versatile point helpful for conditions of impo-

tence, frigidity and premature ejaculation. Other uses
include regulating menstruation, control of uterine bleed-
ing, relieving pain of
external genitals, treat-
ing sterility, seminal
emissions, lapse of the
uterus, difficult labour. 9
Cruising palms, aware of the slow soft bolts of desire.

Face hides the longing ache inside.
Then in the Sui

Dynasty (590 CE to
618 CE) Taoism again
became the official
religion and sexual lit-
erature again flour-
ished.
Secrets of the Jade
Chamber appeared.
9
8 9
10 11
10
11
Move in for more close-contact work

straddling your CV1 across your
Lover’s Liver meridian and your
Spleen meridian nestling their Bladder
meridian.
10
11
Under the Tang (618 CE to beginning of

Sung 960 CE) Taoism became "the
Establishment". From later Sung to the
present, forms of Taoism evolved integrat-
ing some Buddhist and Confucian doc-
trines.
CV 1 Gate of Life and Death, so named because the
retention of sexual energy is said to prolong life. CV1 sub-
tle use as arousal point for both sexes, especially good for
prolonging male orgasm. Clinical use helps with prevention
and relief of prostate conditions.
CV 8 SPIRIT’S
PALACE GATE
The front-back connection between In the centre
your hands reveals another secret:
the pool of warmth becomes an
electric charge
13
CV2 the most potent
12 feminine arousal point
and also quite effective
for men
14
14
12 13
12
12
GV 4 MING MEN -
DOOR OF LIFE the
point where Life
enters at the
moment of concep-
GV2 VALLEY tion. Powerful
OF DELIGHT arousal point, also
arousal point for male sexual
stamina. Usefuil
for relief of post-
coital lower back
pain.
Your leg presses against CV1 and GV2 while your Lover’s buttock touches your CV2. Stay in posi-
tion long enough to feel total connection before continuing your seductive upward journey.
Connecting these two points in the centre of the
chest and base of the skull sends waves of bliss
throughout the whole being, flooding both the
physical and the energy bodies.
GV15 Calms the mind,

sending waves of relax-
ation through the nerv-
CV17 CENTRAL ous sytem, making it
ALTAR Also known as receptive to arousal
the Sea of Tranquility
and the point for shar-
ing true love.
Connectionn here
calms the mind, bal-
ances emotions and
calms the spirit of the
Heart.
15
16 15
The search for eternal health and infinite pleasure continued. Chinese alchemists sought an Elixir to render their
Emperors immortal and perpetually potent.
This external alchemy lost its appeal when it despatched a few courtiers and kings as well as a number of
alchemists.
Physicians in the Tang Dynasty (618-906 CE) vivisecting condemned prisoners described flows of energy
through invisible channels which excited certain sensations in different parts of the body, ceasing at the moment
of death. If this flow could be sustained…
The shiatsu pressure-points for infinite pleasure indefinitely prolonged were passed down through the secret line-
ages of the Fang-Shi.
LV8 regular
massage
improves
17
sexual func-
tion
17
CV 1 Gate of Life and
Death, so named because the
retention of sexual energy is said to prolong life.
CV1 subtle use as arousal point for both sexes,
especially good for prolonging male orgasm.
Clinical use helps wioth prevention and relief of
17 prostate conditions.
Stretches tend to disperse Qi so not too many for Love-

17 Shiatsu. A stretch here, however, is well-timed to ease
the build-up of sexual tension likely to have arisen
from the previous close connections. Time for a
breather before heading on down. And even for this, a
nice straddle keeps up the interest: CV1 sitting on LV8.
THIRD UP & DOWN THE FRONT
Nowadays we are not Emperors and Empresses – are we?

We go to work, we play, we sleep. Our society has different turbu-
lences to cope with. Rather than having our heads cut off for speak-
ing out of turn we are more likely to experience stress in the work-
place leading to heart disease and suchlike, but still ingest toxic sub-
stances for moments of immortality.
And we still have sex. Our ideal is to have a nice meal, a bottle of
wine, frantic sex hoping we come together, then fall asleep or take a
shower.
KD1 BUBBLING SPRING
where you keep your feet on the
ground, mostly
CV14 GREAT PALACE

Access the Heart Fire of a
Lover. This is the Gateway to
the Heart itself, the Sovereign.
LV 3 GREAT RUSHING
particularly recommended
for female sexual energy
18 LV 4 MIDDLE BARRIER rec-

ommended for male sexual
energy
BL60 KUNLUN MOUNTAIN

pinching here gives a good idea
of the strength of your partners
libido: the stiffer the stronger!
Also a useful point to press dur-
ing labour.
KD3 GREAT STREAM can be

used to either stimulate or bal-
ance desire in both sexes
On reaching the feet, hold KD1 to your CV14 con-
necting your Lover’s Bubbling Spring to your
Heart Fire. With one hand you grasp LV3 (on a
woman) or LV4 (on a man). With the other fondle
BL60 and KD3. And the heel rests on CV2: can
this be the Way to heaven?...yes, but just one of CV2 the most potent femi-
nine arousal point and also
many. Hold for long enough to feel it, rhythmical- quite effective for men
ly rocking and rubbing.
ST21 On the route ST25
of the Nine Flowers HEAVENLY AXIS
loving down to awakens sensuali-
Heaven, very com- ty and opens the
forting: helps belly to pleasure
digest all the TLC
19
LV14 CYCLIC GATE

just below the under-
19 swell of the breast
just waiting to be
rubbed.
GB24 warms the
ribs and softens
feelings of anxiety
or indecision.
19
Of course your Lover thinks you are giving them the mas-
sage but check out all your own sexy points you are cover-
ing with their feet. Holding Bubbling Spring against your
belly, rock in a circular rhythm so that you feel it where it
matters and they feel it all over. This foot-belly massage
can be one of the most sensuous experiences you can share.
19
19
Meanwhile they feel the warmth of your belly, the move-
ment of your muscles under their feet while your slow
19 rocking rhythm vibrates up the legs to the hips, ready for
your next move.
SP12 Gently stroking or
simply holding this point
with a still palm spreads 20
warmth and pleasure across
the genital area
Hand-stepping up the body of your Beloved, a trio

of loving points lurk in both hips waiting for you
to find them and wake them.
LV 12 Increases
energy circulation and
genital sensitivity.
20
20
20
KD11 helps with male
arousal difficulties
20
CV17 CENTRAL ALTAR Also known as
the Sea of Tranquility
and the point for
21 sharing true love.
Connectionn here
calms the mind, bal-
ances emotions and calms
21 the spirit of the Heart.
CV6 SEA OF QI Male sexual energy-

centre and also to connect
with the essence of the
feminine, related to the
feminine reproductive
cycle. Clinical use of this
point helps with menstrual
difficulties.
As well as offering a loving touch and lovely points of connec-

tion, placing your hands in such a position lets you move easily
from one part of the body to another.
21 21
Think about where you want to go next, place your hands to

keep a connection, and move yourself smoothly to the new posi-
tion. But remember: hold still until you feel the pool of warmth.
22
22
YIN TANG
Very special point that
opens the Third Eye as
a portal to the world of
Spirit. When Lovers
gaze into each other’s
eyes, they can see into
each other’s soul
through this gateway.
GV17 JADE PILLOW,

where the impulse of
passion flows into the
brain, loving and reju-
venating and coursing
through the cranial
ocean to open the
mid-eye.
Connecting these two

points creates a vortex of
energy whirling through
the brain. This is a magi-
cal connection: the point
in the Giver’s palm, HP8,
22 is an extension of the
Heart chakra and can be
used to convey the wave
of love which then flows
through the energy chan-
nels and floods the whole
22 being.
From the comfort of this
position you can give the
spiralling massage of
Love-Shiatsu to many
easily reachable parts
23 23
STOMACH
Don’t be too surprised if by

now you find your Lover
GALLBLADDER wanting to respond BLADDER
23
23
23 23
Time spent on the Face is seldom wasted. Here bloom the flowers of the Elemental
organs:Heart in the tongue which you might leave for later, Spleen in the lips, Lung in the
nose, Kidney in the ears and Liver in the eyes. The Meridians of Stomach, Gallbladder
and Bladder begin on the face and Small Intestine, Large Intestine and Triple-Heater end
here. And don’t you just love your face being stroked?
TRIPLE HEATER SMALL INTESTINE LARGE INTESTINE
ST17 BREAST PALACE - strong feminine arousal
point, stimulating nipple/vulva connection while
nurturing, soothing and harmonising heart and
24 24 mind.
24
FOURTH
OTHER SIDE
24
You’ve done the Back, one Side and the Front of your Lover....just
go back and do the other Side, and make it a tease...
9
9
8
RETURNING, EVENTUALLY, TO ...
FIFTH
DOWN TO HEAVEN
NOW SLOW
DOWN
DOWN
DOWN
down
TOUCH DOWN the Nine Flowers from the front lying, or from behind, seated. Which does your
lover like best?
ST17 BREAST
PALACE - strong fem-
inine arousal point,
stimulating
nipple/vulva connec-
tion while nurturing,
soothing and harmon-
ising heart and mind.
LV14 CYCLIC GATE

just below the under-
swell of the breast
just waiting to be
rubbed
GB24 warms the ribs
and softens feelings of
anxiety or indecision.
ST21 wandering
down to Heaven,
digesting all the
love
ST25 HEAVENLY
AXIS awakening sen-
suality and opening
the belly to pleasure
CV6 SEA OF QI Male

sexual energy-centre.
The most potent male
arousal point also con-
nects with the essence
of the feminine
CV2 the most potent feminine
arousal point and also quite
effective for men
CV 1 Gate of Life and Death, so named

because the retention of sexual energy is said to
prolong life, and subtle use as arousal point for
both sexes, especially good for prolonging male
orgasm.
After exchanging Love-Shiatsu, open to your creativity. Try tongue instead of hand,
for instance...Let the power of points, meridians and elements inspire you!
CHAPTER FOUR
RIVERS OF
LOVE, POOLS
OF DESIRE
In this Chapter you will hear
* of points to
stimulate arousal
* how to exer-
cise meridians
* how to cope
with moods, emotions
and feelings
The sexual and healing practices developed

in the rural communities and imperial
courts of ancient China still work today
because they make sense.
Rivers flow through the countryside, irri-

gating fields. The meridians are the rivers,
the organs the fields, the watering-holes the
points.
In a modern city the meridians are the

streets, the points being the intersections
and junctions, the places of access, and the
location around them - the organs.
In the city there are peak times and slack

times, and sometimes things break down.
In the countryside the weather affects the
landscape.
Reach through the windows to
sense your Lover’s mood. Use
Oriental Love-medicine takes a holistic
your palm to scan the energy or
view: meridians, organs, senses, emotions,
touch the flesh. Sensations of heat
the physical, energetic and spiritual aspects
or cool tell the story of elemental
of humanity all interact.
imbalances. You can calm things
down or get things going.
The model of the Five Elements evolved to
study how mood affects loving and indeed
all aspects of relationship.
The Five Elements Fire Water Earth Metal Wood
Moods, health and wellbeing are ruled by the interplay between the Five Elements.
The Elements govern our senses of Sight, Taste, Touch, Hearing and Smell.
Emotions, such as Anger, Misery, Fear, Impatience and Worry arise from interaction
between Elements, and can be soothed or heightened.
Feelings of Desire, Passion, Calm, Boldness and Tenderness can nourish each other
and regulate the negative emotions.
Each Element is associated with Yin and Yang organ-meridian networks.
Yin and Yang are used to describe the relationships between things, for example men
are more yang and women more yin, but among both men and women are those more
yin or yang in comparison with others of
the same gender. Fire is more yang, water more yin: but a candle is more yin than the
sun and a wave more yang than a tear drop.
Yin meridians run more on inner aspects

of the body and are to do with the deep-
er organs: heart, lungs, liver, spleen and
kidney. The Yang channels flow down
the outer aspects and network the more
hollow organs: the intestines, bladder and gallbladder.
Think of the yin meridians as relating to the more inner, emotional and spiritual
aspects and the yang to the more physical and mundane.
Harmonising extremes of yin and yang can enhance relationships, whether with a
Lover or between aspects of your Self. Knowledge of Elements and meridians helps you choose appropriate responses to the
moods of your Lover, making for better loving, both outside and inside the bedroom.
Different Aspects of organ-

meridian networks exert influ-
ences on one another, some
nourishing, some regulating.
For example you can under-
stand how Seeing can lead to
Desire but if you don’t get what
you want you may become
Impatient. You may find you
can deal with your Impatience
with Boldness - but on the
other hand, Fear may control
your Impatience for you. Fear
of what? rejection, usually.
See if you can work out how
moods can affect each other.
This may lead you to an under-
standing of how you can affect
your moods: drawing on their
energy rather than being
drained by it.
FIRE
Fire dances, fire warms, fire burns,

fire creates and fire destroys.
The sun shines, Fire nourishing

Earth, nourished by Wood, control-
ling Metal, controlled by Water.
Passion is the virtue of Fire energy in its

positive aspect. while the negative emotion
is Impatience.
The Sense of the Fire Element is the sense of Taste,

and the feature is the Tongue. What is the taste of
your Lover?
The season of the Fire is Summer, the direction is

the South and the Guardian Beast is the Firebird.
Meridians of the Fire Element are four: Heart and

Small Intestine, Triple Heater and Guardian of the
Heart (Heart Protector)
Heart is Passion, Love and HEART - YIN MERIDIAN
Joy and this is the way to The channel of the Heart flows along
exercise the meridian. the edge of the inner arm, from armpit
to the tip of the little finger
Heart is the sovereign organ, a position of great

responsibility. Approach Heart with respect, using
the services of the other fire-channels to come close
to the monarch.
Entering the presence of Heart, or the Beloved who

rules your heart, sink to one knee in the traditional
posture of proposal.
Although the sensory organ of the Heart is the

tongue, the spirit of the heart shines in the eyes.
Can you read your Lover’s heart in your Lover’s
eyes?
Take Small Intestine dancing for a good

workout.
A little further from the centre of

the Imperial Court of the Heart,
Small Intestine is a more playful
prospect altogether.
Somewhat unruly and with a pas-

sion for life, the organ-meridian
network twists and turns and
dances.
SMALL INTESTINE YANG MERIDIAN
This meridian also indicates abili-
ty to choose, as in the process of continues with the fire energy from Heart, taking it up the outer edge
the organ itself, taking the nutri- of the arm, through shoulderblade and up to just in fron of the ear.
ents it needs from food in the
digestive process and letting the
waste pass through.
SI 11 ease the shoulders
with gentle palm or
focussed finger.
Exercising this meridian is very TRIPLE HEATER - YANG Triple Heater means “three cooking pots”, repre-
easy: whenever you give some- MERIDIAN runs from the senting the three levels of temperature in our being:
one a hug it gets a very nice hot around the head and heart where the fire energy
stretch.
tip of the fourth or ring fin-
flares, warm around the belly, the home of earth
ger to the outer end of the energy, and cool around the kidneys and bladder,
eyebrow. source of our water energy.
This prosaically mystical meridian has, like the

lotus, its head in fire or facing the sun, is rooted in
water and, unlike other meridians, has no particular

organ association although it could be connected
with the diaphragms which unite the upper and lower
sections of the torso.
Triple Heater distributes Love-Energy around the

meridian network, carrying the spark of life from its
partner, Heart Protector, and circulating it through
the source-points.
TH 1 Some might say the best use for
this point is for putting on a ring. By applying your Love-Energy to your Lover’s
Its also very good for soothing irritability: Triple Heater you affect all the dimensions of their
a gentle squeeze, perhaps, or a kiss? energy body.
The Guardian of GUARDIAN of Look out for opportunities to stretch

the Heart (Heart the HEART the finger as well as the meridian.
Protecto), also
(HEART
known as Master
PROTEC-
of the Heart and
Minister of Fun, TOR) - YIN
carries the mes- MERIDIAN
sages of the Heart. Starting
This meridian between the
comes to life at the ribs just two
time you are most finger’s width
likely to be settig outside of the
out in search of
nipple, flows
Fun...the cocktail
along the mid-
hour, the time of the Promenade.
The associated organ is the pericardium, a thick membrane dle of the
around the heart itself. In energy terms, Heart Protector inside of the
takes the first spark of life crackling between the two kid- arm to the tip
neys and passing it to its partner, Triple Heater, for circula- of the middle
tion around the organ-meridian networks. finger.
Heart protector guards the way to the Heart itself: spend
time on this meridian to touch your Lover’s heart.
And if you are wearing your heart on your sleeve its likely
to be on this meridian.
HP8 LABOUR ‘S LOVE - A true power-point for both sending and receiving Love-energy and probably the
point you will most use to connect with your Lover. Place this point on any other and feel things start to stir.
Leave it long enough in place and you will feel almost as if your energy-fields are blending together.
It can also be very calming, harmonising imbalances of the Spirit. Use it to soothe, to nurture, to arouse and
excite passion.
EARTH
Earth is still. Earth is our Mother and

provides all our needs. Everything
we use comes from the earth and
requires only work to transform it
into a space-ship or a thong.
Deep in Earth Metal is born. Earth

supports Water, is held in place by
Wood, and nourished by Fire as the sun
shines on the earth giving light and life.
Calmness is the virtue of Earth energy in its positive aspect. while the
negative emotion is Worry.
The Sense of the Earth Element is the sense of Touch, and the feature
is the Mouth. What more potent touch is there than a kiss? And all the
sensual pleasure that leads to and from a kiss, until the ultimate kiss.
And all the pleasures of touch, a stroke, a caress, an embrace.
The season of the Earth is Harvest-time

Earth Element Meridians when the fields are yellow and gold,
the direction is the Centre and the
Guardian Beast is the Golden Phoenix.
Meridians of the Earth Element are

Stomach and Spleen.
Stretch the whole length of the body from head to Stomach sees what it wants and goes for it. This is the meridian of
toe. It helps to have a friend support you from survival, taking you forward to feast your eyes and fill your belly.
below so you can just lean back and think of Survival is also to do with survival of the species: stimulation and
Stomach. gratification of other senses.
If the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach, the way to win a
woman is to spend time on Stomach meridian. Caress down the line
with all the tools of your body from tongue to toe and linger espe-
cially on ST17.
STOMACH YANG MERIDIAN Starting with the eyes Stomach flows down the length of the body, throughthe nip-
ples, belly and ovarian tubes, along the outside of the front of the leg to the second and third toes.
ST17 BREAST PALACE - strong ST21 On the route of the

feminine arousal point, stimulat- Nine Flowers marching down
ing nipple/vulva connection while to Heaven, very comforting:
nurturing, soothing and harmon- helps digest all the TLC
ising heart and mind.
Also the starting point for the ST25 HEAVENLY AXIS
beautiful and sensual meditation awakens sensuality and
of the Nine Flowers. opens the belly to pleasure
Spleen likes movement to con-

trast with its duties of stillness:
keeping things in place.
Sometimes people need keeping
Spleen meridian lends itself to more intimate and sensual shiatsu,

from sucking toes to stroking groin to caressing the outer edge of the
breast. This meridian is for the subtle delights of the tease
Spleen also has the energy of nurturing and caring, following the
nature of the Earth element.
Massage with love and care for spleen to bear fruit for your pleasure
SPLEEN YIN MERIDIAN from big toe to just beside the nipple this meridian
takes a journey of sensual delight.
SP 6 MEETING OF 3 YIN versatile point helpful for conditions of impotence, frigidity and prema-
ture ejaculation. Other uses include regulatingmenstruation, control of uterine bleeding, relieving
pain of external genitals, treating sterility, seminal emissions, lapse of the uterus, difficult labour.
SP12 Gently stroking or sim- SP9 A good point for men:

ply holding this point with a helps soothe pain inn the
still palm generates a feeling genitals and controls wet
of warmth and pleasure across dreams. Keep your Lover’s
the genital area
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METAL
Metal reflects and inspires, cuts and

contains, the Element of mystery, of
swords and shields, coins, boxes and
silver-backed mirrors. Ancient
Alchemists sought to transform base
metal into gold, a metaphor for transmuta-
tion of lust into Love
Born in the depths of Earth, Metal nourishes Water. Its sharp edge
controls Wood and is itself controlled by Fire as in the blacksmith’s
forge.
Metal Element Meridians
Metal’s virtue is Boldness and and its negative

emotion Misery with associations of loneliness,
isolation, sadness and depression: the sadnesses of
loss or unrequited love.
The Sense of the Metal Element is Smell thus the

Nose is the feature of Metal. aphrodisiacs of fra-
grance, the scent of sex, evocative and provocative.
The direction is West and the season is Autumn,

and the Guardian Beast the White Tiger
The Meridians of Metal are the Lung and the Large

Intestine
Inspired by Life! Thumbs up for exercise, breath
and vitality.
LUNG YIN MERIDIAN from the front of the shoul-

der along the edge of the inner armto the thumb
To breathe in is inspiration, to breathe out is to expire. The breath of life flows like a tide.
The size of your nostrils indicates your born ability to take in life. Which you can change.
Lung also governs the skin through which we also breathe, and the hair on the body.
Massage along the line of the Lung meridian to inspire the love of Life in your beloved.
LG1 CENTRAL PALACE” - what a beautiful place to rest your weight

on your palms, soothing your Lover’s chest and ready to just slide
down a little further.
Making or even stretching a point is a

great exercise for the Large Intestine
meridian. Or are they just getting rid?
The Great Eliminator, Large

Intestine is to do with taking a
dump: getting rid of the waste
from within. And why not from
without? The season is autumn
and sometimes love has had its
day, the season’s over and its time
to let go.
Its also a meridian of the Metal
element and so very much to do
with cutting: but also works for
containing.
LI 4 Great point for hang-
LARGE INTESTINE YANG MERIDIAN Runs from the tip of
the forefinger along the edge of the outer arm to the place
overs and visits to the 4
dentist. Good for elimina-
where the corner of your nostril meets your face tion too. Press here when
constipated, in pain, or
both
WATER
Crashing waves have been a sexual image

since the invention of cinema.
Did Life begin when lightning struck the

ocean? If Water holds the power of life, it can
also carry the power of destruction. It was a Flood
which ended Noah’s world
Water is nature’s shape-shifter, freezing solid as ice, boiling to steam, flowing as

teardrop or tidal wave. As plain water it adapts to any shape, fits in any container
and left to its own devices always flows down to find the low-
Water est level – a good thing to remember when “going with the
Element flow”.
Meridians
Rivers flow into the ocean which evaporates into clouds
which rain on the earth and refill rivers. Water nourishes plant
life, Wood, and is nourished by the rocks of its sources, Metal.
River banks and oceans are held in place by Earth. And Water
controls Fire as you know from the barbecue and the Fire
Brigade.
Water’s virtue is Gentleness and and its emotion Fear.
The Sense of the Water Element is the sense of Hearing: the

Ears are the features of Water. If music be the food of
Love.....and in relationship how important it is to be heard by
your Lover.
The direction is North and the season is Winter, the time of

Death and Conception. The Guardian Beast is Turtle.
Kidney and Bladder are the Water Meridians
Bladder runs behind us, the
length of the back, connect-
ing with the past.
It routes through the gan-
glia, bunches of nerves
along the spine related to the
autonomic nervous system
which looks after both
arousal and relaxation.
There is a strong energetic
connection between the eye
and arousal energy. From
ancient Chinese and
Japanese pillow-books to
the internet porn of our pres-
ent time, lovers have used
visual imagery for sexual
stimulation. The eye-mes-
sages buzz along the nerves
Stretch the meridian by
down to the sacrum, the triangular bone through which
leaning forward or have
runs Bladder meridian, and then shoot forwards into the
your partner lift you. Just
sexual area.
dangle, and feel the
By massaging the length of the Bladder meridian you are
channel open
sending the love-message through your partner’s whole
being.
BLADDER YANG MERIDIAN

starts at the inner corner of the eye, flowing back over the head and down either side of the
spine, the back of the legs and along the edge of the foot to the little toe.
BL 23 KIDNEY connec- BL32 connects with the

tor point. Sexual vitality sacral nerves which transmit
for both sexes. arousal and arousal signals
Enhances male stamina to the sexual area. Use the
palm to hold for a long time
36 SUPPORTING PALACE A
nice spiral massage here BL37 warms the whole
stimulates arousal in both leg and sends the love-
sexes. signals both ways
BL60 KUNLUN MOUNTAIN

pinching here gives a good
idea of the strength of your
partners libido: the stiffer the
stronger! Also a useful point
to press during labour.
Kidney, guardian of ancestral
Qi, storehouse of genetic
energy, holds the reproductive
essence. The spark that is
passed from generation to
generation is the moving qi
between the kidneys, captured
by the Heart Protector and
transmitted to the Triple
Heater for circulation, con-
stantly regenerating our life-
cycle in this life.
Kidney governs the bones, latticed crystalline structures sensitive

to the transmission of etheric waves: the first radio sets used crys-
tals. In shamanic traditions of many first-nations changing the
Running water does not stag- bones is a step for transformation.
nate. Exercise kidney meridian
with movement, stepping, Connecting with kidney is to connect with the essence of your
stretching and flowing Lover’s being. Touch this meridian and listen for the voices of the
ancestors, and the descendants.
KIDNEY YIN MERIDIAN

Starts in the sole of the foot, circles the ankle and runs up the back of the inside leg, through
the sex then up to the collar-bone.
KD11 Male Sexual Power
KD3 GREAT STREAM can

be used to either stimulate
or balance desire in both
sexes
KD1 BUBBLING SPRING

where you keep your feet
on the ground
WOOD
Spring is in the air! The Wood Element is the ener-

gy of birth, rebirth and renewal, the unstoppability of
Life, the bursting of bud through bough.
Wood energy is dynamic, competitive sometimes to the point of aggression, and

powerful. Little plants grow in the brick walls of buildings and trees uproot the
pavements of city streets.
Lust is in the air, in the springtime of life and in the springtime of a relationship.
Wood, tree, plant life, is the element of movement in all directions: roots pene-
trate down into the earth, the trunk rises erect towards heaven and branches
spread outwards.
Trees compete for the light above and shade the earth below. Alive, they are
nourished by Water and their roots hold Earth in place. They are cut by Metal
and provide
fuel for Fire.
Wood takes the conception energy of Water and transforms it into lust for life:
survival, sexual desire: continuation of the species, and the need to grow:
progress.
Desire is the virtue of Wood energy in its positive aspect. while the negative
emotion is Anger.
The Sense of the Wood Element is the sense of Sight, possibly our most power-
ful sense: ninety percent of our sensory input
Wood Element Meridians comes through our eyes. Think of the depth of
meaning in the words “We are seeing each
other”
The direction is the East where things begin and

the Guardian Beast is the Dragon.
Meridians of the Wood Element are Liver and

Gallbladder.
Liver is the Channel
of Lust, desire in its
most insistent and
focussed aspect. The
meridian almost begs
to be touched in all
its length, from suck-
ing the big toe to
caressing along the
inner thigh towards
the Yin Gate or Jade
Stalk, and on up to or
down from the under-
side of the breast.
Liver, the energy of the Element’s season, springtime, of rising
sap and urgent juices, the springtime of life itself which will not
Lift your knee in front then turn be denied. Liver is competitive, the channel of natural selection,
your leg out to the side for a of fighting to win the prize of love. Competitive Liver energy
good Liver meridian stretch. extends into sport with its movement, focus and desire to over-
A very good stretch lying down come.
is simply to open your legs. To harness your Lover’s Liver-power straddle the meridian, rub-
bing your CV1 along its length and squeeze it with your pc-mus-
cle along the way.
LIVER MERIDIAN: YIN MERIDIAN runs from the outer side of the big toe up the middle of the inside leg, through
the pleasure-zone of the inner thigh right through the sex and then up to just below the breast.
LV14 CYCLIC GATE just below the underswell of the breast just waiting to be
rubbed
LV 12 energy circulation and heightened sensitivity in genital area
LV9 is a subtle arousal point, situated on the pleasure-muscles of the inner

thigh approaching the sexual organs
LV8 regular massage improves sexual function
LV 4 MIDDLE BARRIER recommended for male sexual energy
LV 3 GREAT RUSHING particularly recommended for female sexual energy
Gallbladder looks after our lateral movement and is also known as
the Decision-Maker - how you look from side to side as your mind
goes “Will I - Won’t I - Will I Won’t I???
The sides are special erogeneous zones: when you feel the hands
slipping down the sides to your hips in an early embrace, its often a
sign that some kind of spring is in the air
Side stretch opens the meridi-

an. Having a friend help with a
pull makes for a stronger
stretch.
GALL BLADDER
YANG MERIDIAN
Running from the outer corner of the eyes all way down the sides of the body to the fourth toe.
GB21 SHOULDER WELL one of the most effective

points for relaxation and the beginnings of intimate con-
tact. Also loosens stiff neck and can help with difficult
labour. A powerful elimination point, it is unwise to use
GB21 in the early stages of pregnancy.
GB24 warms the ribs and softens feelings of anxi-

ety or indecision.
GB30 JUMPING CIRCLE

starting point for a beautiful spiral massage
around the buttocks
Connecting these meridians in the
act of love makes a channel of
Love-Energy coursing up the back
and down the front of the Lovers
in the flow of Infinity uniting their
chakra energy-centres.
8
The sacrum is the triangular sacred bone at the base of the
spine where the kundalini energy awaits arousal, to snake
up the spine and infuse the brain.
Governing Vessel connects the chakra energy-centres of
the back, from sacrum to the Door of Life, a point between
the second and third lumbar vertebrae where, at the
moment of conception, life from the universe enters our
energy-body. From there it travels up through the back of
the chakras, between the shoulder-blades and up the back
of the neck. There the spine, erect and hard, penetrates the
soft moist warmth of the brain.
This is the back channel of the Small Heavenly Cycle
which, in the act of love, flows through both beings, up the
back and down the front, fusing yin and yang.
GOVERNING VESSEL: YANG MERIDIAN

Starting just above the anus the route runs up the back through the central nervous system,
connecting the base of the body with the brain
GV17 JADE PILLOW, where the impulse of passion

flows into the brain, loving and rejuvenating and
coursing through the cranial ocean to open the mid-
eye.
GV15 Calms the mind, sending waves of relaxation

through the nervous sytem, making it receptive to
arousal
GV14 sends a warm rush of spinal fluid up to the brain,

generating excitement and warming the neck.
GV11, centre of the Fire of Love, back of the Heart,

between the shoulder-blades
Stretching the meridian is the
same as stretching the spine.
Just bend forward as far as you GV 4 MING MEN - DOOR OF LIFE the point where
can and get a friend to help with Life enters at the moment of conception. Powerful
their weight arousal point, also for male sexual stamina. Useful for
relief of post-coital lower back pain.
GV 3, A powerful arousal point for both sexes, just above the

sacrum, at the back of the Sexual centre. For women helps in reg- GV2 VALLEY
ulating menstruation and on men to overcome impotence and con- OF DELIGHT
trol wet dreams. arousal point
GV1 LASTING STRENGTH

waves of electric pleasure coursing
through the sacral bone, the sacred
connection with the nerves of love
From the very base of the being, the point called the Gate of Life
and Death, from which energy pours in the moment of childbirth
and menstruation for women, ejaculation for men, this meridian
connects the organs of conception, the Jade Stalk in men and the
Yin Gate in women, the Ovarian Palace and Sperm Palace, the
navel centre, solar plexus, heart centre and throat. combining the
energies of love and sex, yang and yin, fire and water.
It is the front channel of the Small Heavenly Cycle, linkingof the
chakras or energy centres and the belt channels which spiral
around them.
Conception Vessel has two of the most pwerful arousal points.
These energy vortexes should be approached with love, care and
respect. Prepare your Lover with whole body Love-Shiatsu and then as you palm-step down the Nine
Flowers, linger on CV6 for a man and CV2 for a woman.
CONCEPTION VESSEL: YIN MERIDIAN

The route of this channel tells its story. From the Gate of Life and Death in the base chakra, up
through the sex, the belly and the heart to the root of the tongue.
CV17 CENTRAL ALTAR Also known as the Sea

of Tranquility and the point for sharing true love.
Connectionn here calms the mind, balances
emotions and calms the spirit of the Heart.
CV14 GREAT PALACE

Access the Heart Fire of a Lover. This is the
Gateway to the Heart itself, the Sovereign.
Bend over backwards to CV 8 SPIRIT’S PALACE GATE

stretch Conception Vessel In the centre
but mind not to strain your
back. Get help!
CV6 SEA OF QI Male sexual energy-centre. The most potent male arousal point also
connects with the essence of the feminine, related to the feminine reproductive cycle.
Clinical use of this point helps with menstrual difficulties.
CV2 the most

potent feminine
arousal point and CV 1 Gate of Life and Death, so named
also quite effective because the retention of sexual energy is
for men said to prolong life. CV1 subtle use as
arousal point for both sexes, especially good
for prolonging male orgasm. Clinical use
helps wioth prevention and relief of prostate
conditions.
Pleasure Points and Love Meridians
CHAPTER FIVE
SELF-SHIATSU:
CARE &
MAINTENANCE
In this Chapter you will learn to feel
* ways of keeping sexual energy

alive - even when not having sex
* what muscles to move and massage

for strength, length and juice
* the pleasure and power of the

famous Chinese Jade Egg
Breast massage
GIRL THINGS: EXERCISES FOR WOMEN
BENEFITS
Arousal and enjoyment
Keeps breasts healthy
Eases menstrual difficulties

(the same meridian runs
through nipples and ovarian
tubes)
Ovary and uterus massage
BENEFITS
More arousal and enjoyment
Keeps reproductive organs healthy and free of

stagnation
Eases menstrual difficulties (the same meridian

runs through nipples and ovarian tubes)
THE FAMOUS CHINESE DRILLED JADE EGG
As used in the Imperial Court of ancient China for pleasure and health.
Jade Eggs are drilled to accommodate a string for ease of removal and for applying internal pressure.
Prepare your egg and yourself
Before first use, boil your egg for

about 20 minutes to dissolve the wax
coating which protected the egg during
packing, on its way to you, and in case
of possible handling by others.
Wash your egg in warm water before

and after each practice. Soaking it in a
solution of tee tree or grapefruit seed
oil in water is also an option for after-
wards.
Insert the string into the hole at the

thicker end of the egg and pull it
through.
Knot at the thicker end to prevent

slipping.
Rub your hands vigorously – and

massage around your Breasts, Belly,
Mound of Venus, Groin, Inner Thighs,
Perineum and genitals.
Feel the warm loving energy open

and melt away any tension, pain, block-
ages and start internal lubrication.
If you like, use a non-toxic gel

before insertion.
Jade Egg
BENEFITS
Intensified Pleasure
Strengthened Grip
Internal Health: regular egg-work restores and revitalises the reproductive organs, harmonising menstruation and
relieving symptoms of imbalancess such as endymitriosis.
Gently place the egg, thicker end first,
inside the inner labia and move it in slow
circles until you feel it rest in a comfortable
‘angle’ Remember to take slow, deep
breaths.
Gently feel the inner labia sip or suck the

egg upon the inhale, and feel the vagina
‘yawn’ or open on the exhale. (This takes
time to feel, so simply smile and Imagine
this happening).
Sipping/Rocking: Continue the sipping

exercise and add a gently pelvic rock – tail-
bone rocks toward the ceiling on the inhale
and presses into the floor on the exhale.
Stronger Sips: Big squeeze on the inhale

and push down/out on the exhale. The egg
will move ‘in and out’.
Do with or without the pelvic rock
Apply gentle pressure on the egg with the

holding hand to encourage it to move into
the Genitals.
Value your own inner knowing and wis-

dom. If a practice doesn’t feel right experi-
ment to create a special version for you.
Using the egg: basic practice
As you become more familiar with inserting the egg, you can increase the suc-
tion used to get it in. Practice can be done lying down (no gravity), seated or
standing.
Imagine breathing in to the ovaries. Focus your mind on the bud and your
sexual energy. Visualise bringing it down through the uterus to the clitoris and
hold it there.
Gently and slowly pull on the string and contract your vaginal muscles to keep
the egg inside.
With practice you can apply stronger pulls. Vary the angle of pull and observe
the different sensations as the egg presses on different internal parts.
Isolate and slowly contract the muscle groups which close the vagina (as if
stopping urination). Squeeze and release several times and feel the build-up of
internal sensation.
Experiment now with squeezes and angles of pull until satisfied.
More advanced practice
Strengthening exercises: Inhale and squeeze

the genitals/egg and press your pelvis as high off
the floor as possible. Exhale and relax/melt ver-
tebrae back down to the floor.
Between each exercise: Rub your hands
warm, massage your belly/ovaries and bring
your hands up to your heart centre and massage
around the breasts in both directions.
Windshield Wiper: open the legs a little, flexing
both feet simultaneously and keep them flexed
the whole time. Rotate them away from each
other and squeeze the buttocks, then rotate
inwards – big toes touch. Feel the front and
back of the genitals work.
Important: Rest after each exercise and if
you feel any discomfort, massage the area with
loving hands.
Seated Practice: Grab the egg with the geni-
tals and relax. Inhale – Grab, Exhale – Relax.
Grip the egg with the genitals and move it up
and down. Keep breathing slowly and smiling.
Pull up and squeeze with the inhale, push
down with the exhale. Egg moves up and down,
do not let it completely go out, just down to the
opening. Lie down and relax for ten or fifteen minutes
Remove the egg by contracting the vaginal before gently withdrawing the egg
muscles to expel it. At first, a squatting position
may help or lift one leg on a short chair.
Smiling helps keep the sexual energy in the

body – allowing you to cultivate more and more
energy without losing it.
Keep Smiling! If you do not have a lot of time
to do the practice, just wear the egg around the
house, or out if you feel comfortable.
If you are not lubricated enough, massage the
nipples and/or use a lubricant of your choice with
the egg.
If you have difficulty at first holding the egg in,
try sleeping with it. The genitals will continue to
work with the egg as you sleep – many women
have reported vivid dreams and a firming of the
muscles.
If you feel emotional or any pain, stop and rest.
5 minutes/day of practice will create more positive results than 1 hour one/week.
Consistency is the key. Think of it as a wonderful, rejuvenating program.
It is recommended to rest from your practice while menstruating. Use your own discretion.
BOY STUFF: EXERCISES FOR MEN
Generally men tend to touch their genital area on two occasions: to urinate or
have sex either alone or with someone else.
Genital self-shiatsu can increase blood-flow to the penis, prevent stagnation in the
testes and seminal ducts, and prevent deposit of the calcified salts which can lead
to prostatic conditions in later life.
Playing with your bits is therefore healthy as well as fun.
Side-benefits can include strengthening and lengthening of ducts and organs.
Warming up the Jade Stalk
BENEFITS
Stimulates blood flow

Roll stalk between palms, gently
at first then faster and more vigor-
ously as if rubbing wood to make
fire
Massage the Dragon Pearls
BENEFITS
Stretches the seminal ducts

Prevents stagnation
Grip the Dragon Pearls, manipulate
between palms and fingers, pull outwards
and stretch
Stretching the Stalk

Tapping the Pearls
BENEFITS
Charging the sex organs with Qi for

increased strength and length
Stimulating meridians to prevent energy
stagnation
Detoxification
PLAY TIME:
EXERCISES FOR BOTH SOLO EXERCISES
Bum squeezing:
Tones muscles
Increases thrust
Focussed breathing
Air=Energy: the more you
can take in with least effort,
the more you can put out
MUTUAL EXERCISES
For men, massaging the the
perineum, particularly after
ejaculation, keeps the prostate
flexible and toned by prevent-
ing the deposit of calcified
salts which can lead to prosta-
tic conditions in later life.
Its good to do it yourself and
even more fun to have it done.
For women, massaging

ovaries, uterus and perineum
keeps strong healthy energy
flowing through the organs and
meridians.
Both DIY and sharing are
effective and enjoyable.
Breast massage from a

friend gets right to the point.
Its very important to give
guidance and encourage sen-
sitivity.
CHAPTER SIX
COMPATIBILITY:
MARRIAGES
MADE IN HEAVEN
In this Chapter you will see
* how your birth-time can affect your

relationships
* how to overcome astrological

incompatibility
* how to recognise a sexy face
* when a partner or playmate is

ready for loving
How do you suit each other? Do you get on? are you stormy or affectionate? fuck-buddies or committed partners?
Here’s the scoop: your compatibility is influenced by birth: by your place in the Taoist Zodiac; by your nature which is affect-
ed by how you live your life; and by your sexual interaction.
You each were born as one of the Twelve Animals in the Taoist Zodiac. Some of these are Friends, others Rivals, and some just
get along without being especially friendly or competitive.
Which Animals play in your garden? how do they interact? and how you can harmonise astrological imbalances?
You are composed of all Five Elements but in the course of your life one will have become more predominant, determining how
you respond to situations in the moment. Some Elements support each other, others control or regulate. We will see how under-
standing the relationships among the Elements within can help you harmonise imbalances in your relationship with another human
being.
One of you might have a stronger sexual appetite. It is likely that one of you gets aroused more quickly. You may even prefer
different times of the day or night to play. You will see how you can smooth out the differences to make your loving more pleas-
urable and intense.
BIRTH YEARS
In the Chinese Calendar the year
RAT 1936 1948 1960 1972 1984 1996 2008 starts in February so if you are a
January child put yourself in the previ-
ous year. (Chinese New Year is
based on the Lunar Calendar so does
vary from year to year, but 4th
OX 1937 1949 1961 1973 1985 1997 2009 February is a good median guide.)
Years are colour-coded in

TIGER 1938 1950 1962 1974 1986 1998 2010
twos according to their
Element. Red:Fire,
Yellow:Earth, Black (for grey
or white):Metal, Blue:Water,
RABBIT 1939 1951 1963 1975 1987 1999 2011 Green:Wood.
Yang and Yin exist within

each Element: the first of the
DRAGON1940 1952 1964 1976 1988 2000 2012
two is the Yang year, the sec-
ond the Yin year.
SNAKE 1941 1953 1965 1977 1989 2001 2013
HORSE 1942 1954 1966 1978 1990 2002 2014
SHEEP 1943 1955 1967 1979 1991 2003 2015
MONKEY1944 1956 1968 1980 1992 2004 2016
ROOSTER1945 1957 1969 1981 1993 2005 2017
DOG 1946 1958 1970 1982 1994 2006 2018
PIG 1947 1959 1971 1983 1995 2007 2019
The Birth Year tells us our ani-
mal in the Taoist Medicine Wheel.
Some animals get on with each
other, others compete.The
Triangle of Friends shows who
your two best friends are, the
Circle of Rivals identifies your
opponent.
TRIANGLES
of The time of your birth also mat-
FRIENDS ters. For example, if you were
born in the Year of the Tiger, your
rival would be the Monkey. But if
either of you were born in the
other’s month or hour, this would
soften the rivalry.
RIVALS
oppose
BIRTH MONTHS and Elements WHAT ARE YOUR CHANCES?
Rat mid November to mid December Is your marriage, partnership, connection, friend-
ship “Made In Heaven? or almost as good as gets?
Ox mid December to mid January or with just a few minor imbalances? perhaps you
have an even chance of making it together, or maybe
you both need to put in a lot of work. Do you need
Tiger mid January to mid February help? If you are always at each other’s throats, its
really not working, you want out, then just remem-
Rabbit mid February to mid March ber this:
Love can overcome anything!
Dragon mid March to mid April
Even if the stars you were born under don’t reck-
Snake mid April to mid May on your chances, all is not lost. Although you can-
not change the stars you have changed yourself. You
have grown and developed since birth, lived your
Horse mid May to mid June life in this world and adapted to circumstances.
Sheep mid June to mid July Later you will see how utilising the secrets of the
Five Elements can help you smooth out the differ-
Monkey mid July to mid August ences and give you the choice you didn’t have about
your birth (although some do say....no, another time.)
Rooster mid August to mid September
Let’s look at a little Quiz to see how you and your
Dog mid September to mid October Lover match up under the stars. Then we’ll see what
you can do about it.
Pig mid October to mid November BIRTH HOURS and Elements
Rat 11 pm to 1 am
Ox 1 am to 3 am
Tiger 3 am to 5 am
Rabbit 5 am to 7 am
Dragon 7 am to 9 am
Snake 9 am to 11 am
Horse 11 am to 1 pm
What’s the Score?
Sheep 1 pm to 3 pm
Monkey 3 pm to 5 pm
Rooster 5 pm to 7 pm
Dog 7 pm to 9 pm
Pig 9 pm to 11 pm
Fill in the blanks, checking back with previous pages
YOUR ANIMALS
Birth Year __________________
Month __________________
Hour __________________
YOUR PARTNER’S ANIMALS
Birth Year __________________
Month __________________
Hour __________________
Work out your score

How do you score? Born in the Triangle of Friends Score 5
YEAR SCORE ___ Neither Friends, Rivals nor Neighbours Score 4
MONTH SCORE ___ Neighbours Score 3
HOUR SCORE ___ Share the same animal Score 2
TOTAL ___ Born Rivals Score 1
This is what your star-score means
15 marriage made in heaven
13-14 almost as good as it gets
11-12 minor imbalances
9-10 even chances Now let’s see what you

can do about it
7-8 needs work
5-6 get help
3 Love can overcome anything
ELEMENTAL RELATIONSHIPS
CYCLE OF SUPPORT
The Sun, Fire, nourishes and brings life to
the Earth
Deep within Earth, Metal is born
From the rock of Metal springs Water
Water feeds plant life, Wood
And Wood is the fuel for Fire
How do you know your lover’s element?

How well do you know your lover?
Think of the Element, think of the per- CYCLE OF
son. Although we are each of us born
under an element, what happens in our SUPPORT
lives can affect it. So rather than relying on
the birth-element, think of how your lover
is now to see where they fit in the elemen-
tal pattern.
What is Fire like? what does it do: warms
and comforts, burns and destroys, dances like
flame, cannot be grasped.
Earth? still, serene, balanced - earthy! living
with it, we don’t notice it hurtling round the sun at
thousands of miles an hour.
Metal is bright, hard and sharp, can cut and contain,
reflect and inspire. And can be melted and shaped.
Water, still, stormy, destructive, compliant: fits in to anything,
can turn to ice or steam, tears or tidal waves.
Wood has focus and direction,
competes for light, and grows in all directions.Balance your relationship by
understanding the interplay of your two natures.
The Elements of your Natures interact with each other. The mystery is
solved of why one partner always seems to give - or take - more than the
other. It might just be the way Nature intended. But this doen’t sentence you
to permanent imbalance.
LINES OF
Your year, month and time of birth are in the past, fixed in the stars, but life is
CONTROL lived in the present.
Use your Element to guide your response to sit-
uations, to smooth out the imbalances and har-
monise your relationship.
Play with the Lines of Control to soften your
differences.
What is your lover’s element?
Are you supporting them, or they you?
Play with the cycles and lines to restore
harmony.
LINES OF CONTROL
Fire melts Metal
Metal cuts Wood
Wood grips Earth
Earth directs Water
Water regulates Fire
HOW ARE YOU WITH EACH OTHER?
Is your relationship in the Cycle of Nourishment or the Line of Control?

If in the Cycle, then one of you is more Giver and the other more Receiver.
If in the Line, then one controls and the other is controlled.
These are natural ways of interaction and seeing the nature of your relation-
ship helps you understand one another.
Problems come up when
the Receiver wants more than the Giver can give, becoming:
a Greedy Child
When the Giver gives less than the Receiver needs:
Needy Child
When the Controller overcontrols
When the controlled one rebels
HELPING EACH OTHER TO MAKE IT WORK
Relate the imbalances to your Star-Score and you will get an idea of what
to do for each other to harmonise your partnership
If you cannot agree on each other’s predominant Element, as you are now
rather than the Elements of your Birth, just think about how you, or your
partner, respond to stress:
If with
Impatience, vindictiveness, hysteria
then the likely Element would be FIRE
If Cold detachment, weeping, silence METAL
Anger, roughness, shouting WOOD
Worry, complaining, whining EARTH
Fear, avoidance, sighing WATER
Of course nobody is just one element.
We are each made of all five but in different proportions.
By identifying the predominant one you might better understand your part-
ners moods.
How sexy is your Lover?
What do you find sexy in your lover’s face? or in any face, for that matter?
What attracts you about a face? what turns you on? and what puts you off?
Which features do you find attractive?
Do the ones you like have anything in common?
Can you identify your likes and dislikes?
Do you see any resemblance between any features opposite and any other parts of the body?
FACE IT!
Your features are the “Flowers of the Organs” and so make another con-
nection with the Elements and their associated Senses.
Your features reveal the strength and weaknesses of the Elements of your
Birth.
With this knowledge you gain power: power to understand your lover
and, perhaps even, to understand yourself and adapt your life-style to
your nature.
Face-reading is used in all branches of Chinese medicine to diagnose a

client’s constitutional element.
You can use face-reading to diagnose your lover - or even to screen

potential partners!
Combined with the Taoist Star-Chart you would be giving yourself the
best possible chance of making the right choice.
Strong
Prominent Nose
philtrum
Broad
Forehead
Thick Eyebrows Generous Lips Distinct Earlobes

Sparkly Eyes
Strong Achilles Tendon
Signs of Arousal
HIS Jade Stalk grows HERS THEIRS

Heavy Face flushed Holding breath,
Large Nipples hard Nostrils flare,
Hard Husky voice Mouth opens,
When Hot the Jade Stalk is When the Yin Gate is wet Body trembles,
ready to enter the Yin Gate within it is ready to receive the Sweating,
Jade Stalk
Eyes close.
They beginHugging,
Easy to see the Signs, yes?
Stretching, Grasping,
Moaning, Opening, Sucking,
But what might put you off? The Rubbing, Smiling, Clutching
tight
senses work both ways: for exam-
ple, you might be excited by the
smell of sex but put off by other
body odours. PASSION
TASTE
Senses and emotions pull you
together or push you apart: you are
overwhelmed with Desire which
leads you to Passion but Passion is
destroyed if your lover says (that is,
you hear) the wrong thing at the
wrong time, such as the name of an
ex-lover at the moment of climax...
.
Opposite you can see how the
senses and organs (represented in
the face) can affect each other in the
Cycles of Support and Lines of con-
trol.
DESIRE CALM
This is valuable knowledge. Now SIGHT TOUCH
you will understand how what your
partner sees, hears, tastes smells and
touches can influence how he or she
feels. Now you can read the signs.
Now you have the knowledge to

become a far more effective
Lover!
GENTLENESS BOLDNESS
HEARING SMELL
CHAPTER SEVEN
SEX MAGIC
AND ENERGY
VAMPIRES
In this Chapter you will learn
* Magical ties that bind in the Act of PSYCHIC HEALTH WARNING

Love WHAT SPIRIT JOINS TOGETHER
STAYS JOINED TOGETHER
* Psychic Health Warning
* How to recognise and cope with

sexual energy vampires
SEX MAGIC
Sex Magic has many powerful ways to enhance a relationship but be careful not to do anything with or to another person with-
out their consent. If its done without their knowledge its unlikely to work anyway, so worry not if you know nothing for here igno-
rance is bliss.
But if you wish to eat of the fruit of the Tree of Knowledge, read on so that you may know if another is trying to sex-magic you.
Images, locks of hair and clippings of nails are just as effective in potions and spells for Love as they are for doing Harm. Their
power lies in the belief of the object.
Magical Ties that bind in the Act of Love
In the Arousal phase

Clasping each other’s energy centres
Connecting your tongues
Breathing each other’s breath
At the moment of Climax,

gazing into each other’s left eye
coming together
speaking your love
focus on merging your spirits
The classical Taoist Tantric (Yab-Yum or Maithuna) position facilitates this practice.
ENERGY VAMPIRES
Vampires are people/beings who feed off your energy. This is everyone to a greater or lesser degree because the business of life
is itself a sharing. Vampires make a habit of it – they try to make all the streets one-way: towards them.
Sexual Vampirism enjoyed a period of fashion in the Imperial Court of ancient China. One test of a Taoist Master seeking
appointment to the Court was his ability to draw in the contents of a wine-glass up through his penis
This demonstrated his ability to leech the Life-force from a partner during sexual intercourse. He thus showed he mastered the
technique so could teach it to the Emperor who had at his disposal the Life-force of hundreds of wives and concubines.
By accumulating the Qi of so many, the Emperor sought to enhance his own Qi and thereby attain immortality. The Queen
Mother of the West with the same objective enjoyed hundreds of young men.
Both the Yellow Emperor and the Queen Mother of the West died at a ripe old age. Yes, they both died.
Sexual vampires of our times may have their own, different agenda.
What are the signs?
There are few conscious vampires and its not hard to recognise the needy, clinging, dominant or submissive symptoms.
These you can cope with in whatever way your instinct or experience tells you.
Beware, then, of the conscious vampire, he or she who seeks to draw your sexual essence, your Life-force, within themselves
and give nothing back.
They prefer to make love in the sitting position from which it is easier to practise their techniques.
He or She, approaching climax, seems to emotionally withdraw into their own world. Their hearts will not beat faster. They will
connect the energy-centres and seek to hold your gaze. Looking into their eyes you will see, not the surrender of a lover, but the
avarice of a feeding soul.
He will not ejaculate but, as his moment comes, straightens his back. His whole body stiffens. You may feel a sense of suction
below as he holds his breath and sucks in your Life-force.
Her head will not go back in ecstasy. She will draw in her chin and contain her orgasm within herself. You may feel intense
suction below as she squeezes your Life-force out of you and into her.
Neither He nor She will appear tired, weak or drained after climax. They make take your juices and anoint their own chakra
energy-centres.
These are the extremes. There are many loving ways of doing these practices.
How do you protect yourself? Two things you must do and both are necessary: close your eyes and give, surrender into love,
your own love for yourself, your lover and all beings. Their spirit will understand, as will you, that Love is All and their tech-
niques and energy-games are as nothing in the world of Love.
YES
you have become
a far more effective Lover!
and not just in the Bedchamber.
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You will learn from this book

How you can become a far more effective Lover

How to lay, ignite and fan the fires of passion

Taoist Secrets of Touch

Exercises for strength, length and juice

What to look for in a Lover

Secrets of Sex Magic

I LOVE SEX AND TOUCH

LINKS TO LEARN MORE

* the difference between men and

* how harmonising the differences

Woman, Man, straight, gay and bi, please

The act itself is natural. You know what to

Knowing the psycho-sensual secrets of certain

Are you aroused more quickly, your partner

Woman comes to the boil more slowly but

He’s done in, she ready for more.

You can both play

You may have dis-

Peak moments can

* how to prepare your space

* how it all began

* what is a Honey Moon

Your body is a landscape

Shiatsu secrets help modern Lovers harmonise different cycles of

for longer and more pleasurable sexual encounters,

to sustain the intensity of first-love though all the seasons of maturing

It all begins with foreplay. Shiatsu is a Japanese word meaning finger-

The Business of Life

Shiatsu comes from ancient healing

“If you want to understand the busi-

Taoist practice has always been sexy.

Four thousand years ago the top shelf

While the Nei Jing, the Classic of

Practise your Love-Shiatsu with a

Fragrances of roses, musk and ylang ylang.

Try using each other as a plate.

ATMOSPHERICS FOR LOVE

Make your bower beautiful, enticing, a place for pleasure.

If using a bed, let it be firm:flaccididity is no help inside or out.

* pathways for your hands

When Lovers first touched they invented what we call Love-Shiatsu.

And Lovers have always touched.

Prepare your Lover

From Tapping to Rubbing, not too hard, not too soft.

The nerves are awake, ready to be coaxed into action.

Follow the meridian routes more or less, just to let them

IF YOU’VE MADE THE TIME - TAKE YOUR TIME

Taoists see sex as the servant, not the master.

FIRST for a good start ease your way down

THIRD wander up & downthe front

FOURTH after the front, turn your attention and

FIFTH then teasingly

You don’t even need to know the names and loca-

Remember, if you are doing it with sensitivity, care

Your hands alight blending the Heart

Shiatsu Secret : Let your hands be still, resting

Leaning for Love: the pleasure of giving pleasure.

Shiatsu Secret: Imagine the pool of warmth spreading out

GV1 LASTING STRENGTH

Sliding along the river of love into realms above

Shiatsu Secret: Move just one hand at a time as