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minology. For many older adults the term homosexual still carries the con-
notation of a mental disorder and has a negative stigma. Similarly, younger
people have reclaimed the word queer as a positive identity, but many
older adults still consider that to be a very offensive term. If the person
conducting an intake interview casually uses the word queer, even as an
ally or to describe their own identity, the trauma associated with that term
may create an unsafe interaction and cause the older adult to withdraw.
Care providers should be familiar with the various terms LGBT people use
to describe themselves and their culture, and not visibly react when they
hear these terms being used. Respectfully using whatever terms the person
prefers is a strong way to affirm their identity and to indicate acceptance
of and comfort with that identity.
Intake forms and questions can be changed to reflect multiple gender
identities and sexual orientations (interviewees must know that answering
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these questions is optional), and staff may use open-ended questions when
doing intake interviews or interacting with older adults.3 Seeing these
questions on an intake form sends the message that your organization
understands that there are gender identities that are not captured by the
options of male and female, and that sexual orientation is a relevant part
of everyone’s experience. Similarly, intake questions should be framed as
open-ended questions. For many people the question “Are you married?”
implies heterosexuality. Rephrasing the question as “Tell me about the
important people in your life,” requests the same information without
making assumptions about sexual orientation, and gives the interviewee
the power to decide how much to reveal about their relationships. It also
provides an opportunity for the interviewee to describe alternative family
structures or support networks that might otherwise be missed by the
interviewer. By giving the interviewee the ability to describe their network
of support and relationships, you are allowing them to trace for you the
different affirmative feedback loops and affirming relationships that hold
them in their identity. Asking, “Are you married?” will likely end in the
single word “No,” whereas asking open-ended questions allows for the
interviewee to provide much richer information.
Legal protections and nondiscrimination policies are another important
tool for protecting LGBT older adults. It is not enough to simply include
sexual orientation and gender identity in these policies; they need to be
transformed into messages by making them clear, visible, and understand-
able. For example, providers should describe their nondiscrimination pol-
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icy before beginning intake questions. Likewise, putting this policy into a
patient bill of rights, publishing it in advertisements and literature, posting
it visibly in waiting areas, and putting it on the top of intake forms sends a
clear and inclusive message and affirms the worth of diverse sexual orienta-
tions and gender identities.
When someone is moving into a new environment it is important that
they can import affirming feedback loops into that new environment. One
way to do this is to bring decorations, pictures, and whatever else will
help them feel at home. This psychological and physical feeling of being
at home is rooted in these affirmative feedback loops. LGBT older adults
often do not feel free to bring objects from home because they fear that
these objects will reveal their sexual orientation. Transgender or gender-
nonconforming people may fear dressing in the clothing that reflects their
identity, and may go back into the closet because they fear being abused.
Care providers can make it clear that any and all objects, reflecting any and
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92 T.R. JOHNSTON
all relationships, are welcome, and that everyone can dress in whatever
clothing they prefer. In chapter 3 I described the importance of inani-
mate objects and physical environments in creating affirming spaces that
enable fluid mobility. Older adults’ physical movement will be very dif-
ferent from when they were younger, but the goal is still to create spaces
where they can feel as comfortable, fluid, and as much at home as pos-
sible, unrestricted by fear or self-conscious hypervigilance. Giving LGBT
older adults the freedom to express themselves through their gendered
self-presentation, as well as their decorations, is not just a matter of fashion
or interior design; it is a crucial way to ensure that their environments are
affirming and enabling.
Biological, legal, and also nontraditional families must feel welcome
in aging network services. Everyone has the right to determine who
can visit and who can participate in making medical decisions. Granting
someone’s close friends, relatives, and loved ones constant and easy
access allows those relationships to continue in this new setting,
importing existing affirmative feedback loops and holding the older
adult in their identity as other circumstances in their life continue to
change. It is important that service providers do whatever they can to
maintain the older adults’ existing affirmative feedback loops, including
making their visitors feel welcome and accepted as a part of the shared
environment.
Transgender people are often asked inappropriate questions about
their bodies and experiences. Many times these questions are asked to
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My children took it well, albeit my daughter less well than my sons, one of
whom occasionally refers sympathetically to my “coming out” as if I had
always been a closet lesbian and was at last showing my true colors. Not
true. I was as heterosexual as a woman could be. I just happened to fall in
love with another woman at a crucial time in my life. (Seeger 2009, 116)
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