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And this is
her story…
Neil Jed Castro M a y b e Yo u ’ l l L o v e M e W h e n I ’ m G o n e
She is the girl whose She now questions her worth—no thanks to those
w o r t h l e s s p e o p l e . S h e f e e l s b a d a b o u t h e r s e l f. H e r
d r e a m s s e e m t o h a v e d i e d , a n d n o w, s h e f e e l s l i k e
world is starting to h e r v e r y e x i s t e n c e i s a d i s a s t e r. S h e f e e l s t h a t s h e ’ s
such a big failure. She has been losing interest in
all the things that she loved doing before. When
cave in. people ask her how she feels, she simply cannot
articulate her feelings. She cannot describe the
turbulence she feels inside. She is now a sad girl…
a very sad and insecure girl—someone who needs
validation from people. She badly needs to be
a c c e p t e d b y t h o s e a r o u n d h e r. W h a t ’ s m o r e , s h e
has learned how to fake her emotions.
S h e w i l l t e l l y o u t h a t s h e i s o k a y. S h e w i l l e v e n
She was once a happy girl— flash a smile, but deep inside, she is breaking into
carefree and free-spirited. She pieces. She wants to shout, but nothing comes out
used to flash an ever-ready sweet of her mouth other than sighs of desperation. She
smile. She had dreams—big wants to shout as loud as possible so people will
dreams—but she did not realize know that she is struggling, but her voice simply
that the world is bigger and refuses to cooperate. She feels that everything she
q u i t e s c a r y. does is pointless. She thinks that she is living a
purposeless life. Her mind is clouded with doubts
But everything changed when and what ifs.
she sensed rejections from
people… when they started to Pe o p l e would
j u d g e h e r. A f t e r a l l t h e t h i n g s t h e y
d i d t o h e r, s h e c o u l d n e v e r b e t h e
often tell her to
be happy and let She is the
same girl anymore… go of negative
thoughts.
would tell
They
her
girl who has
to move forward
and stop
dramatic.
being
But
been battling
depression.
what they fail to
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She wants to end her life, but she cries for help,
too, deep inside. (It must be the survival instinct
n a t u r a l a m o n g h u m a n s . ) A c t u a l l y, s h e w a n t s p e o p l e
to know that she is not just overacting. They should
u n d e r s t a n d t h a t i t i s n o t h e r c h o i c e t o b e t h i s w a y.
S h e i s f i g h t i n g h e r d e m o n s e v e r y s i n g l e d a y.
D o y o u k n o w h e r ? Re a l l y k n o w h e r ? A h ! B u t y o u
o n l y k n o w h e r s u p e r f i c i a l l y. Yo u d o n ’ t k n o w a t h i n g
about what she has been through and about what
h a s b e e n a i l i n g h e r e a c h d a y.
Fo r e v e r y j u d g m e n t y o u h u r l a t h e r, y o u c h o k e
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“A m I n o t g o o d e n o u g h ? ” S h e f e e l s s o r r y f o r b e i n g t o o k i n d . Pe o p l e t e n d
to abuse her kindness. They think that she’d always
“Why did you leave me?” s e t t l e f o r m e d i o c r i t y.
Her mind is clouded with questions She feels sorry for being too “low maintenance”.
that need answers. Pe o p l e t h i n k t h a t s h e w i l l j u s t s e t t l e f o r s e c o n d -
rate efforts. They think that she is okay with being
She has a lot of “what ifs” at this treated like garbage.
very moment.
She feels sorry for questioning her worth. She
h o p e s t o w a k e u p f r o m h e r a g o n i z e d s t a t e . N o w, i t
has crossed her mind that no one is actually worthy
o f h e r.
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knows that she deserves the best. She thinks she is not good enough. She had been
cheated on despite how she poured out everything
She feels sorry for wallowing in persistent that she could give. She feels so bad about these.
sadness. She tends to be emotional and she thinks She is afraid to open up and care for someone again
and worries too much. because what happened in the past is holding her
back. She does not want to feel the horrible feeling
She feels sorry for allowing herself to be hurt she felt before.
and be broken by people who do not deserve her
love. She is afraid to be attached easily because
p e o p l e ’ s f e e l i n g s n o w a d a y s a r e t e m p o r a r y. T h e y
will tell you they
love you, but the
next thing you know
is they are already
She is the gone. She does not
want to be a victim
S h e f e a r s t h a t o n e d a y, y o u w i l l t u r n o u t t o b e
just like them. She has heard all kinds of lies and
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She is an
emotional girl. She pretends to be tough, but deep inside, she
is way too fragile. She would say that she does not
expect too much from someone, but deep inside, she
w a n t s t o b e c a r e d f o r s o b a d l y. S h e w a n t s p e o p l e t o
m a k e e f f o r t s f o r h e r, t o o . S h e w a n t s p e o p l e t o t a k e
c a r e o f h e r, t o o . B u t s h e c o n s t a n t l y f e e l s h e r h e a r t
breaking… again and again and again. She is not
t h e s a m e g i r l a n y m o r e , a n d t h i s s a d d e n s h e r.
She is often called overly sensitive because
s h e g e t s e m o t i o n a l s o e a s i l y. Pe o p l e h a v e n o i d e a She hopes her ordeal will be over soon. She
about the things she had been through which made hopes that she can experience peace of mind
h e r w h o s h e i s t o d a y. S h e h o l d s b a c k h e r t e a r s , again… just like before… too long ago. She hopes
but when no one is watching, she becomes too that she can finally move on.
vulnerable. She hides under a mask, trying to fake
her real feelings.
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She is the girl who She does not deserve all the pains and sufferings
because all that she has done was to be faithful
and to love really hard. She does not keep records
has trust issues. of wrongs. She does not bring up issues anymore
because she wants peace.
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She is really having a hard time in keeping up She is the girl who feels
with her life. She finds it difficult to comprehend
with her constant struggles over these thoughts:
love’s pressure.
Other girls her age already have a very stable
high-paying job.
Pe o p l e a l w a y s a s k w h y a t h e r a g e , s h e h a s n o t
Others already have successful businesses. yet settled down for good. Every time she attends
a family gathering, relatives would ask why she
O t h e r s a l r e a d y o w n a c a r. has not married. Their line of questioning pushes
h e r i n o n e c o r n e r, a n d m a k e s h e r f e e l l i k e t h e r e i s
Others h a v e a s t a b l e f a m i l y. something wrong with her since nobody seems to
l i k e h e r e n o u g h t o w a n t t o m a r r y h e r.
… while she is still trying to figure out what she
really wants in life.
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She is a work in
progress.
She tries to save everyone from sadness, but no
one cheers her up when she is down. She does her
best to be there for other people, but no one lends
a hand when she is in need. She is willing to listen
t o e v e r y o n e w h o n e e d s h e r, b u t s a d l y, n o o n e s e e m s
to lend an ear when she needs one.
And she knows that what her heart’s She is the girl
desires shall soon be granted.
who tries to
save everyone.
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Pe o p l e c a l l h e r a “ w a s t e d b i t c h ” . Pe o p l e h a v e b e e n j u d g i n g h e r a l l h e r l i f e b e c a u s e
she got pregnant at a young age. They think that
Pe o p l e t a g h e r a s a f a i l u r e . she had ruined her future. They think that she will
never be a good mom.
What they do not know is that she only wants
t o f o r g e t a b o u t t h e p a i n t e m p o r a r i l y. S h e w a n t s She took in all the judgments and strived to be
to find escape from all the things going on in her a b e t t e r v e r s i o n o f h e r s e l f. S h e r e g r e t t e d s o m e o f
l i f e . S h e w a n t s t o b e h a p p y e v e n j u s t t e m p o r a r i l y. the decisions she made in the past, but she never
She does not want to hear judgments even just for regretted having a child.
a short while. If only she can vomit all the things
t h a t h a v e b e e n b o t h e r i n g h e r, t h e n s h e w i l l s u r e l y H e r c h i l d m a d e h e r a s t r o n g e r v e r s i o n o f h e r s e l f.
d o i t . U n f o r t u n a t e l y, s h e c a n n o t . T h e m o m e n t s h e She became more responsible and mature in life.
wakes up, she is back to her old self again. She became more driven to live. She found her
reason to do well in life. She will never trade her
kid for anything.
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