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PERSONAL

EFFECTIVENESS:
SELF-MANAGEMENT
A SMALL
TRUTH TO
MAKE LIFE
100%
Hard work
H+A+R+D+W+O+R+K
8+1+18+4+23+15+18+11 = 98%

Knowledge
K+N+O+W+L+E+D+G+E
11+14+15+23+12+5+4+7+5 = 96%
Love
L+O+V+E
12+15+22+5 = 54%

Luck
L+U+C+K
12+21+3+11 = 47%
(don't most of us think this is the most important???)
Then what makes 100%?

Is it Money?
Money ... NO!!!!!
[M+O+N+E+Y =
13+15+14+5+25 = 72%]

Leadership?
Leadership ... NO!!!!
[L+E+A+D+E+R+S+H+I+P =
12+5+1+4+5+18+19+9+16 = 89%]
Every problem has a
solution, only if we perhaps
change our attitude.
To go to the top,
to that 100%,
what we really need to go
further...a bit more...
ATTITUDE
A+T+T+I+T+U+D+E
1+20+20+9+20+21+4+5 = 100%

It is OUR ATTITUDE towards


Life and Work that makes OUR
Life 100%
ABC of success
A Attitude
B Behavior
C Consequence
D Destiny

Attitude Behavior Consequence Destiny

Drive for Professional Career Happiness /


Excellence Behavior Fulfillment Success
Saying
• Sow a thought, reap an action
• Sow an action, reap a habit
• Sow a habit, reap a character
• Sow a character, reap a destiny
Sayings
There is little difference between people, but that
little difference makes the big difference. That
little difference is attitude. (Clement Stone).
Attitude, not aptitude, gives altitude (Zig Ziglar)
Attitudes are caught; may also be taught.
The road to development is by now much
traveled. We Filipinos have not lacked the
way but the will (Fidel Ramos).
Sayings
Find a job that you can love and you will never have to
work a day in your life. (Confucius)
Find someone who will pay you for doing something
you love to do.
SELF- MOTIVATION

“Inspiring people to achieve”


The Compass Model
“Before a man can assert the “I” in its full strength he must
obtain the complete mastery of the subordinate parts of the
self.
“All things are good when we learn to master them, but no
thing is good when it masters us. Just so long as we allow
the lower portions of the self to give us orders, we are
slaves.
“It is only when the “I” mounts his throne and lifts the
scepter, that order is established and things assume their
proper relation to each other.”
– William Walter Atkinson
“Every person is the creation of himself, the
image of his own THINKING and believing.
As individuals THINK and believe, so they
are.”
- Claude M. Bristol
“We are what we think. All that we are arises
with our thoughts. With our thoughts we
make the world. . . . What we are today
comes from our thoughts of yesterday, and
our present thoughts build our life of
tomorrow: Our life is the creation of our
mind.”
- Buddha
“As adults, we can operate our minds like
aircraft, either manually or on autopilot.
When we run our minds on autopilot, our
thoughts control us. But when we use our
minds manually, we control our thoughts.
And when we control our thoughts, we
control their outcomes.”
– Chuck Gallozzi
“Sow a thought and you reap an action; sow
an act and you reap a habit; sow a habit and
you reap a character; sow a character and
you reap a destiny.”
- Ralph Waldo Emerson
“Have you ever wondered why you exist?
You are here not because of what you are,
but because of what you can become.”
– Chuck Gallozzi
“He who would be useful, strong, and happy must
cease to be a passive receptacle for the negative,
beggarly, and impure streams of thought; and as a
wise householder commands his servants and
invites his guests, so must he learn to command
his desires and to say, with authority, what
thoughts he shall admit into the mansion of his
soul.”
- James Allen
“Before you march forth to empire, you
must establish the proper internal condition -
must show your ability to govern your own
kingdom. The first battle is the conquest of
the lesser self by the Real Self.”
– William Walter Atkinson
On Responsibility

Responsibility in its widest sense is


extremely positive. It means that YOU, and
nobody else, has control of your life. If you
have control, then YOU can change things.
You have the power. It is not in somebody
else's hands - your spouse, the government,
your parents, your boss, your accountant,
the stars......
Above the Line
Responsibility Ladder Achieve Results
Solve It
Own It
Feel It

See It

Confusion
Tell Me What
To Do Cover My
Blaming
Tail

No Time Wait &


I’m Busy See
It’s Not Ignore/
Below the Line
My Job Deny
Victim Cycle
Total Responsibility
Achieve Results
Solve It
Own It
Feel It

See It

• An attitude of continually asking “what else can I do to


rise above the circumstances and achieve the results
I desire?”
• It requires a level of ownership that includes making,
keeping and proactively answering for personal
commitments.
"I have the power to affect my life - for good
or ill - and I choose to consciously exercise
that power and take responsibility for
whatever consequences I attract."

Once you take responsibility for everything


that happens, you build a firm foundation
upon which to build your long-term success.
The key to peak performance is
self-responsibility.
Self-Responsibility means that you decide
how good you want to be
how hard you want to work
how thoroughly you want to do something
how far you want to go
This is decided not by your boss,
not by your supervisor
nor by your colleagues
but by YOU!
Leave the excuses for someone
else. Set your face firmly in the
direction of excellence. Take
responsibility!
- Asoka Selvarajah
On Patience (by Chuck Gallozzi)

Patience is the ability to wait for the fruition


of our goals
Being patient doesn't mean sitting around
waiting for things to happen. Instead, it
means to work as hard and as long as
necessary, without giving up, until we reach
our destination.
Lessons from the ancient Egyptians

they didn't sit around waiting


made plans, preparations, and worked on their
project until the pyramids were completed
pyramids as monuments to patience
a reminder that if we persist in our personal
projects while enduring the necessary wait, we
will finally succeed
Lessons from silkworms
after getting their fill of mulberry leaves,
silkworms make silk cocoons, which the
Chinese and Japanese used to weave silk
gowns and kimonos
"With time and patience the mulberry leaf
becomes a silk gown." - Chinese Proverb
Clearly, patience is power!
On dreams (by Julie Jordan Scott)
Dreams draw us forward, towards an even
more fulfilling, joyful and abundant life. 
Dreams build bridges between where we are
now and where we can be in the future.
Fuelling our inner drive, dreams make our
feet light, our tasks exciting instead of
burdensome and our hopes infinitely
possible.
How to become aware of our thoughts and
be able to control them as suggested by
Chuck Gallozzi:
Whenever you find yourself harboring a
negative thought, imagine it is a weed; pluck
it out of your mind and immediately replace
it with a positive thought.
On Purpose

The purpose of life, is to lead a life of purpose and its


meaning is to give life meaning.
Our PURPOSE is the path we follow; it's a broad
paintbrush that colors all areas of our life. When all
personal goals (career, family, etc.) are aligned with our
PURPOSE, we will be authentic beings with integrity.
Our PURPOSE should be courageous and uplifting.
"Your work is to discover your work and then with all your
heart to give yourself to it." - Buddha
"Make sure the thing you're living for is worth dying for."
- Charles Mayes
"Don't become a wandering generality. Be a
meaningful specific."
- Zig Ziglar
Some suggestions on how to
attract the right things
(Malcolm Harvey, UK)

Control your yearning


be grateful for what you do have
Be grateful for the experience
learn to smile and say 'thank you' in
whatever situation you find yourself in, good
or bad.
Accept that you are as able as anyone else
the opportunity to succeed is open to
anyone if you learn to attract the right things
Some suggestions on how to
attract the right things
(Malcolm Harvey, UK)

Look forward with positive expectancy


expect the best at all times;
look to the light and you will succeed; look to
the darkness and you will fall.
Discipline is the key to success
make up a routine or ritual that you can do
regularly to make yourself focus on the
desired result
"It is only in the depths of
silence that the voice of God
can be heard."
- Sai Baba

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